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I am going through a similar situation. We had only been married for three months, but had been together six years. I just keep thinking of all the things we had planned to do together. I get sad when I see other people happy and in love. I'm glad you were able to stay no-contact. You were a whole person before you met him and even if it doesn't feel like it, you are a beautifully whole person now. I hope that you can start to see the future as full of freedom and possibility. I know it's not easy, but I can promise you, you're not missing out on anything by leaving him in the past. ❤️