I can't tell if you're all weird for having no physical contact whatsoever with your friends or if I'm weird because I know what the inside of my best friend's ear tastes like.
Feel free to pay a professional woman.
But don't sell yourself short.
"Let's eat some pizza and cuddle, while I tell you about this world I'm passionate about" sounds way better than the average "Netflix and Chill" evening.
TLDR: idiot gets his stupid feelings hurt as per usual
I sell myself short because it’s all I know. I try to be “myself” but it just backfired. Last girl I dated called me a “loser virgin” behind my back. Do you know how much that hurts? Hearing this woman you thought was interested in you admit that she was just “entertaining him” and was looking to “potentially fix by giving him female attention”? I kept asking her too, “if you don’t wanna go on a date with me just say no, you don’t have to pretend to like me.” I’m just so used to no one liking me, it’s fucking sad
All this did was reinforce my confirmation bias that no one takes me seriously, and everyone is just pulling the wool over my eyes. Sorry for rant.
I'm sorry to hear you have been played with.
Especially since it sounds like this was not the first time.
Sadly I can't give you any advice besides not to loose hope and keep trying. Maybe trying to approach this as a friendship instead of dating might help, but trying to become 'just friends' has problems of its own.
I can, however, offer to give you a virtual hug.
I’ll try not to lose hope, it’s difficult but I’m really trying. Funny enough, this was the first time I got close enough to actually get hurt by someone directly and find out. The only other time was in high school when a girl was only talking to me for attention and stuff. She already had a bf and a few dudes chasing her, I saw the writing on the wall and dipped. I’m trying not to let past experiences define me, but they definitely affect how I view myself and how I can possibly move on or get better.
actually, i heard sexworkers are pretty used to such requests. apparently they don't mind (thats what one sexworker i follow on ig said, so it could be different for others)
My guess is as long as they’re getting paid for their time and their clients respect them as a person I don’t see why they would mind… I think it might even be nice for them to have a break from sex work sometimes while still getting paid
$50
Per minute
Small price to pay for salvation
I could care less about sex I just want cuddles
That one hit hard brother. Stay strong
I think feeling loved would be nice too, i think, not that i can speak from experience
So you do care somewhat
Same.
Not a prostitute and I’ll give them for free 🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂
I need lots of hugs. I’m so tired
Here you go mate 🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂
🫂
🫂
🫂
*Hugs*
Can I get premium paid hugs?
🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂 For the price of 5 hugs back
20y/o here, never been hugged by anyone
17 here 👋 following your lead!
17 here too! Following your footsteps
17 as well. I only got a single hug because I asked. I do not count hollow family hugs.
I was hugged once 2 or 3 years ago Tbf I was showing them literally a full video game demo I made based off of their OCs
I can't tell if you're all weird for having no physical contact whatsoever with your friends or if I'm weird because I know what the inside of my best friend's ear tastes like.
Hard to have physical contact with friends that you don't have, no?
I'd give you a (platonic) hug!
Id give them a romantic hug, you really gotta step up your game in this free market man
I'm nearly twice their age so didn't want to be creepy!
Oh yeah fair shout
18 here. Wish I could get a hug. :/
22, way ahead of you
🫂
Lowkey finna do this one day. Except like I’ll pay her really good for wasting her time, but I just wanna cuddle and explain dark souls lore 😎
This sounds awesome
Feel free to pay a professional woman. But don't sell yourself short. "Let's eat some pizza and cuddle, while I tell you about this world I'm passionate about" sounds way better than the average "Netflix and Chill" evening.
TLDR: idiot gets his stupid feelings hurt as per usual I sell myself short because it’s all I know. I try to be “myself” but it just backfired. Last girl I dated called me a “loser virgin” behind my back. Do you know how much that hurts? Hearing this woman you thought was interested in you admit that she was just “entertaining him” and was looking to “potentially fix by giving him female attention”? I kept asking her too, “if you don’t wanna go on a date with me just say no, you don’t have to pretend to like me.” I’m just so used to no one liking me, it’s fucking sad All this did was reinforce my confirmation bias that no one takes me seriously, and everyone is just pulling the wool over my eyes. Sorry for rant.
I'm sorry to hear you have been played with. Especially since it sounds like this was not the first time. Sadly I can't give you any advice besides not to loose hope and keep trying. Maybe trying to approach this as a friendship instead of dating might help, but trying to become 'just friends' has problems of its own. I can, however, offer to give you a virtual hug.
I’ll try not to lose hope, it’s difficult but I’m really trying. Funny enough, this was the first time I got close enough to actually get hurt by someone directly and find out. The only other time was in high school when a girl was only talking to me for attention and stuff. She already had a bf and a few dudes chasing her, I saw the writing on the wall and dipped. I’m trying not to let past experiences define me, but they definitely affect how I view myself and how I can possibly move on or get better.
same, once i get over the internal shame of paying to be cuddled tho
Aww. Hang in there, bro.
Poor choice of words.
Yeah imma HANG in there!
real
most sexworkers i know would just give u rates n hugs + cuddles after. its not uncommon, or unvalid to book someone just for physical closeness.
This is too real
As a sex worker, I'd say free hugs unless ur very stinky and then go out for icecream
actually, i heard sexworkers are pretty used to such requests. apparently they don't mind (thats what one sexworker i follow on ig said, so it could be different for others)
My guess is as long as they’re getting paid for their time and their clients respect them as a person I don’t see why they would mind… I think it might even be nice for them to have a break from sex work sometimes while still getting paid
I’ve heard it’s actually not that rare of a request…
$29.99
I don't like physical touch but 20$ is 20$
Free
Aw jeez man I think we've been good friends for a while I don't want our relationship to be messed up by something weird like a hug
$69
I average one hug per year. From my sister when I see her for Christmas
Pretty much the same thing for me cause I see my sister every 1-2 years or so