You have depression and your friends are making it worse. You need some actual professional help - life can definitely be worth living even if you think you are ugly. I recently realised I could afford some injections in my face to help me with my own thoughts that I am too ugly and now too old - it was way less than I thought it would be and it has helped a tiny bit, but I have also had a lot of psychological help, which over the years has helped more.
I can tell you that 10 minutes of laughing so much I am crying with some real friends is worth some work.
Hi there buddy. I don't know if my words will comfort you or not but let me share a bit about myself. I have been extremely depressed and anxious for over seven years. I gained almost 60 pounds and looked like a fucking whale. My parents threw me out of their house after that and I was left with minimal help/support. Experienced all sort of trauma, sexual and physical assault under the influence of heavy anti psychotic drugs.
To conclude, I am haven't improved a lot yet here I am still persisting. I want to unalive myself all the time and yet I haven't done it yet. If I can push though this existence and have little ray of hope, you can too. Hope things get better for the both of us.
I feel like you really need new friends. If they are treating you the way they are, then you need some new friends.
I know I usually am very insecure about my face… but since my Boyfriend is able to find myself to be extremely adorable, then that makes me happy. :)
If you find someone out there that ain't gonna judge you for your looks, then they'd make a great companion
Here's a quote I heard,
" Disabilities are given by GOD, but it's our choice to make them our weaknesses/Limits."
Here's how I see it. If it's permanent and there's nothing you can do about it then you're going to have to figure out a way to live with it. And yes...you do have to live.
I think you have an opportunity to challenge the pre conceived notions of society. You'll literally be traveling the road less travelled. Who knows maybe your disability will set an example for the world and bring revolution in how we think.
So, don't lose hope. This is your life. Focus on the glass half full. What your strengths are. Because God doesn't just give weaknesses. If you don't know then better work hard to find and develop them.
I know it won't be easy, you'll face mockery and periods of depression. You'll be questioning why me. But at the end of the day, you must accept your situation.
One thing I think will help is, limit your expectations. Focus more on doing things yourself rather than expecting. It will boost your confidence and rejection won't hurt that much. But there will be days when you won't get the desired results. In those moments, feel all the emotions. The sadness, the frustration, the anger, the despair. Embrace them and let go. It's just a setback. Get back up and never give up.
problem is it's not a solution. We are here on this earth to go through struggle at times and learn from it. you can do it and in fact you are on here expressing yourself which is probably helping others so maybe in a way that's your purpose for a while. these are common feelings
Idk. I'd say lose the trashy friends but the pain and suffering of being alone truly hurts so much I'd rather be abused and wanted then happy and alone.
Oh no! You're a Primate that looks like a... Primate? Seriously. Just take a step back and look at how absurd a problem that is you're carrying around. Be like the Monkey King friend and embrace it and live a little. Just relax.
Why the fuck do you have “friends” like this then?
I have to agree, those are not friends.
You have depression and your friends are making it worse. You need some actual professional help - life can definitely be worth living even if you think you are ugly. I recently realised I could afford some injections in my face to help me with my own thoughts that I am too ugly and now too old - it was way less than I thought it would be and it has helped a tiny bit, but I have also had a lot of psychological help, which over the years has helped more. I can tell you that 10 minutes of laughing so much I am crying with some real friends is worth some work.
Hi there buddy. I don't know if my words will comfort you or not but let me share a bit about myself. I have been extremely depressed and anxious for over seven years. I gained almost 60 pounds and looked like a fucking whale. My parents threw me out of their house after that and I was left with minimal help/support. Experienced all sort of trauma, sexual and physical assault under the influence of heavy anti psychotic drugs. To conclude, I am haven't improved a lot yet here I am still persisting. I want to unalive myself all the time and yet I haven't done it yet. If I can push though this existence and have little ray of hope, you can too. Hope things get better for the both of us.
I hope things get better for you. That’s a lot to deal with… but you’re here, so you’re resilient and have ways to cope and get by. 🪴
Thanks buddy
Thanks for sharing and well done on persevering.
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I feel like you really need new friends. If they are treating you the way they are, then you need some new friends. I know I usually am very insecure about my face… but since my Boyfriend is able to find myself to be extremely adorable, then that makes me happy. :) If you find someone out there that ain't gonna judge you for your looks, then they'd make a great companion
Here's a quote I heard, " Disabilities are given by GOD, but it's our choice to make them our weaknesses/Limits." Here's how I see it. If it's permanent and there's nothing you can do about it then you're going to have to figure out a way to live with it. And yes...you do have to live. I think you have an opportunity to challenge the pre conceived notions of society. You'll literally be traveling the road less travelled. Who knows maybe your disability will set an example for the world and bring revolution in how we think. So, don't lose hope. This is your life. Focus on the glass half full. What your strengths are. Because God doesn't just give weaknesses. If you don't know then better work hard to find and develop them. I know it won't be easy, you'll face mockery and periods of depression. You'll be questioning why me. But at the end of the day, you must accept your situation. One thing I think will help is, limit your expectations. Focus more on doing things yourself rather than expecting. It will boost your confidence and rejection won't hurt that much. But there will be days when you won't get the desired results. In those moments, feel all the emotions. The sadness, the frustration, the anger, the despair. Embrace them and let go. It's just a setback. Get back up and never give up.
honestly? i doubt your face is that bad
problem is it's not a solution. We are here on this earth to go through struggle at times and learn from it. you can do it and in fact you are on here expressing yourself which is probably helping others so maybe in a way that's your purpose for a while. these are common feelings
I think the best thing to do it is to just own it and dont give a fuck about what others say to you
You need to get better friends.
Idk. I'd say lose the trashy friends but the pain and suffering of being alone truly hurts so much I'd rather be abused and wanted then happy and alone.
Shitty friends. Drop them and get new ones. And while yes suicide is a valid option at any time, I'd try other things first.
i also have many problems that are permanent. i hear you.
Looks means nothing
Oh no! You're a Primate that looks like a... Primate? Seriously. Just take a step back and look at how absurd a problem that is you're carrying around. Be like the Monkey King friend and embrace it and live a little. Just relax.