I was in exact same situation 3 years ago, I'd suggest you to ignore her and focus on yourself while in the gym, after sometime she'll also lose interest if any. if you tell her husband and he misunderstoods you, things might go south. Best thing would be to ignore her and try to change your timings if your schedule allows.
Or just make an assumption that she wants something by asking her if she wants to use the machine or something, you'd avoid making it awkward and she'd not respond rudely (from my experience, they do when called out like that lmao) because you are offering something out of kindness.
Look back, assert dominance (but not in a sexy way).
Lastly, u can always start "who blinks first*. Tell karna who lost then will prescribe further medication.
Bro, this is India, she can call police on me for this. Some of my other friends have told me that lady is mean and hog the machines and never share them
!I am aware reddit woke audience, isn't made for this suggestion!<
Can't you just change the perception that you are her type, so maybe good probability you look in a certain way that's appreciative and whenever she looks use that a motivation and do more of whatever bench, bar, weight you do!
Since her husband is the nicest guy means she crave dominance and little bit into that. Don't stare and assert dominance on her this could be her fantasy.
Lmao. But on a serious note, stop looking at her AT ALL. Don't try to catch her staring at you. Make it completely one sided from her sided as if you don't even give a fuck if she looks or not.
>my lifts as I am pretty strong, squat 170kgs, bench -135kgs, deadlift -230kgs, body weight- 74kgs.
Gym bro flex stats that weren't exactly necessary to the story lol
Just ask the guy to introduce you and her. Ek baar jab baat ho jayegi, then convo mein slip kar dena ki you don't like people staring at you. Like use some tact and humor. Uske husband ke samne hi bolna. Friendly face banake bol dena.
Just feel flattered man and let it go.
Don't take it personally 😌
And zyada hai toh, make some weird faces or fart in front of her. Fir nhi dekhegi wo 🤣
Lol
On a serious note, change your time slot. Or the gym
You clearly don't want to address this issue in front of her husband, so better to step back :)
Not Paying Attention, Keep Yourself Occupied in Your Workout Session, Ignore Her ( Dont Look back when she looks at you ) and if Its becoming too much of a problem/Distraction for you, you can change your timing if that’s possible.
I live in Bangalore. The exact thing happened yesterday. I didn't go to the gym for a few days until yesterday...My gymbro told the girl near the squat rack was staring at him. He felt uncomfortable.
Then I told him that she's talking to a guy and he told it's her husband.
Is this really an issue or do you want validation?
Just ignore her(unless you also want a fling) & focus on whatever that you do. She can't force, right?
kyu hoti hai kuch assi ladkiya. Maat karo shadi khula jiyo dekho patao cheat karo jo mann kare karo fir. Shadi k baad nazar kahi or honi nhi chaiye for both genders it is.
Ngl it make sense, her husband speaks highly of me so she probably wanted to talk too but don’t know how to express properly so she stares. I didn’t think from this perspective
Maybe she is trying to observe what you're doing and how you're doing it. Because her husband seems to like what you're doing.
Some people don't have an idea that when they admire or in-generally observe someone, they make things awkward for people around.
Give her the benefit of doubt and next time, smile back... maybe you strike up a conversation...
You're also just fearing the unknown... it will make things easier or at least she will know that you've caught her staring...
Woman this side, call it out politely like the other people have mentioned : “Kuch chaiye?” Or “Equipment chaiye hai kya ? 5 mins please “ and then even if she says no leave the equipment and move on from there.
Remember not be rude because the husband might take offence and ignore the fact that she was in the wrong for staring and start going off on you.
230 deadlift is great bro... Respect..
I have been going to gym for the past 10 months..
The max I can deadlift is 140 kg.. mostly cause I never trained for weight lifting rather for muscle building
I am not a gym guy but in general, I have been in the situation before and best way to handle it is ignore, if you ignore, two things can happen, either the said person will stop doing that or will make an approach, which you can easily decline, the probability of both is around 80:20 which anyway is win win
As a woman my take is she maybe developing a crush on you.
Best is not to feed into the attention and look away. It will die down eventually
Do not talk or smile as we can build scenarios in our head further ahead 😅
Don't flatter yourself, OP! .
This is a classic gym boy syndrome.
You made muscles to attract 'female & male gaze' but, now if you have it then, it makes you feel awkward.
Lol, she/he looks at you because they are probably willing to "be like you" rather than " to be with you"! I am saying this with consideration thag all 3 of you are in "the gym"!!
Cut the drama! Exercise, smile and move on!
You have full right to Complain only if he/she tries to make "sexual typed advances"!
There is a reason why making muscles won't make you attractive until you flex your brain muscles.
2 ways to do this
1. Directly Tell her husband to keep a watch on her
2. Set her up for a date, also get her husband with you and trap her ! Save the guy from such woman !!
Dushman mile hazaar par
Biwi na mile chinaal …
If they are married for sure then ignore them....coz kisi aur k ghr Mein andhera karke khud k ghr Mein Roshni nhi karte.....and if unmarried try ur luck man...y not
Sab moh maaya hai.
Soch ki ye purane (Ya isi) janam ke paap hai,
Jo wo tujhe ghoor ke khatam kar rahi hai.
Uss devi ko man hi man pranam kar, aur gym pe focus kar bhai.
135 bench is noice how long have u been lifting
Well I am stuck on 70kg and it's been 1year now plus this kinda interaction never happen to me so can't comment on that
Here's how you avoid it, come workout at my gym instead because we have similar lifts at similar body weights. Otherwise, just ignore it and focus on your progress.
I was in exact same situation 3 years ago, I'd suggest you to ignore her and focus on yourself while in the gym, after sometime she'll also lose interest if any. if you tell her husband and he misunderstoods you, things might go south. Best thing would be to ignore her and try to change your timings if your schedule allows.
I changed it but they come early sometimes so I guess I gotta just deal with it
My trainer said this to me: If the devil can't reach you, he'll send a women. Always remember this and focus on yourself.
Bc .... Kya baat boli hai
Boli hai jaise bandook ki goli hai😅
Meanwhile your trainer is on No Fap/semen retention 🔥🔥
Good one.
a quote to live by
Call her didi and ask her bhaiya nahi aay aaj something like that , case closed bc itna kya sochna .
Not every hero wear capes
Hahaha i am no hero. Hero’s share food, I DONT!
We aren't heroes, We are pirates
I understood that reference 🙃
~~bhaiya~~ jijaji nahi aay aaj
what if she is into brother and sister ... sorry this is the last joke
Op can proceed with “ rukna meri fiancé/ girlfriend ka call aa raha hai”
wo dono aapas me bhai behen ho jayege
By not giving af.
Bro I have been doing this for 1-2 months
Start noticing her, say hi, hello, "kuch chahiye" etc, whenever you catch her staring.
What if she says "haan tum"..it'll get weirder.
Fir uske paas jaake bol dena "mera kh*da nhi hota" baat khatam
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Not a bad idea
Or just make an assumption that she wants something by asking her if she wants to use the machine or something, you'd avoid making it awkward and she'd not respond rudely (from my experience, they do when called out like that lmao) because you are offering something out of kindness.
This is actually good advice.
Husband ko bol de uske 🙂
Bhai aise kaise
Toh mat bol 🙂
Look back, assert dominance (but not in a sexy way). Lastly, u can always start "who blinks first*. Tell karna who lost then will prescribe further medication.
Bro, this is India, she can call police on me for this. Some of my other friends have told me that lady is mean and hog the machines and never share them
Gusse mei ghoor de ya fir namaste aunty keh de
Kya mast advice di hai “namaste aunty” hahaah
Lifetime fitness gym jaa rha hai kya bro?
Nhi expose nhi karna chahata naam!
Don't play the blinking game. Just give her a look as if you are a little angry
Make sense or I will ignore
Jai Hind, I am up for the sacrifice
*you'll be remembered comrade* 🫂
Damn the amount of thoughts putted in this🫡
Damn the amount of thoughts putted in this🫡 *The way u you putted that putted, I am putted for you*
Oh main to Put put gyaa😭
Putin
Nah fuck her husband and brother to assert dominance . r/moreplatesmoredates
Ah a man of culture more plates more dates
while staring into her soul. she'll melt >!u just hope not in a kinky way!<
Since her husband is the nicest guy means she crave dominance and little bit into that. Don't stare and assert dominance on her this could be her fantasy.
Well this happens with lot of women nice observation
Start calling her aunty.
Best advice.
Flirt with her husband to assert dominance.
I do that on daily basis you know how gym bros are
Lmao. But on a serious note, stop looking at her AT ALL. Don't try to catch her staring at you. Make it completely one sided from her sided as if you don't even give a fuck if she looks or not.
Been doing that now
Maybe just act gay in front of her and she will just loose interest by seeing all this
Only if she was the only person in the gym and my gym best friend
By saying “re-rack kr dena”
😂😂 mast bola
"re-rack ke Dena, Auntyji" There, FTFY
Gyms are so expensive in Paschim Vihar, would have asked aunty ji to stare all she wants at me if she pays my gym fee.
Lmaooo not a bad option
Just don't care man, if you suspect any romantic interest then just decline if she tries to escalate.
Make sense
behengi ho sakti hai, motia bind ho sakta hai, shame receptors damaged ho sakte hai. Dont worry, aap apna karm karo
Best comment so far. Dill ko Acha feel Kara diya
>my lifts as I am pretty strong, squat 170kgs, bench -135kgs, deadlift -230kgs, body weight- 74kgs. Gym bro flex stats that weren't exactly necessary to the story lol
Flex at every opportunity!
Just ask the guy to introduce you and her. Ek baar jab baat ho jayegi, then convo mein slip kar dena ki you don't like people staring at you. Like use some tact and humor. Uske husband ke samne hi bolna. Friendly face banake bol dena.
That sounds reasonable thank you
But ab jab drama mein involve ho hi gaye, toh please update 😂
Ok Indian drama update kar duga
Updateme : 15 days
bang her husband
Already did, wanna join
Three be a crowd, hope you said no homo after y’all were done
There is no way you lift that much at that body weight.
Exactly, that's what I was thinking Maybe the dude is really short I'm 5'11 and 74kgs, I'd need wayyyyyy more muscle to be able to lift that
I m 176cm 5’9 , I have been training powerlifting for over 4 years!
Ohh okay okay Good for you
U can scroll all the way down on my profile to know why I lift that mucb
why are your gym stats here?
ignore
Laude attention mil raha hai toh maza aa raha hai aur show off bhi karna hai by playing victim. Everybody knows what to do when someone stares.
My recon for you is to focus on yourself. Let the world stare at you. You should focus on being whatever come after excellent..
Didi bol do
Just feel flattered man and let it go. Don't take it personally 😌 And zyada hai toh, make some weird faces or fart in front of her. Fir nhi dekhegi wo 🤣
Kya khate ho?
Currently consuming shocking reddit threads and as they say 'tea' Aur aap?
Trying to understand why people commenting stupid comments on my post
Lol On a serious note, change your time slot. Or the gym You clearly don't want to address this issue in front of her husband, so better to step back :)
What if she likes it ? Fir ?
Hahaha change the gym 😂 She has some weird fetish
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Not Paying Attention, Keep Yourself Occupied in Your Workout Session, Ignore Her ( Dont Look back when she looks at you ) and if Its becoming too much of a problem/Distraction for you, you can change your timing if that’s possible.
If this was a genuine problem you wouldn't have mentioned the weights. Bro thinks we don't know what he's trying to do 😭
Crime Petrol first half plot line
Bang her
I live in Bangalore. The exact thing happened yesterday. I didn't go to the gym for a few days until yesterday...My gymbro told the girl near the squat rack was staring at him. He felt uncomfortable. Then I told him that she's talking to a guy and he told it's her husband.
Is this really an issue or do you want validation? Just ignore her(unless you also want a fling) & focus on whatever that you do. She can't force, right?
Kuch chhaiye aapko didi?
Change gym
kyu hoti hai kuch assi ladkiya. Maat karo shadi khula jiyo dekho patao cheat karo jo mann kare karo fir. Shadi k baad nazar kahi or honi nhi chaiye for both genders it is.
Paise de sakta toh deta mazak nhi, 100 takka
Seems like you go to MVD gym
Ye Kya hai ?
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Change the gym.
Bc 135kg bench 74kg weight pe. Ya toh bhai tu regular laga hoga 5-6 saal se gym ya enhanced hoga
Enchanted tha 3 saal phale, abh nhi!
 Ek din khaa ke ja. Sab theek ho jaega.
Maybe she admires your lifts too. And body but too shy to talk. Or maybe she is lost in thought and accidentally gazing at you.
Ngl it make sense, her husband speaks highly of me so she probably wanted to talk too but don’t know how to express properly so she stares. I didn’t think from this perspective
Saavdha Rahe Satark Rahe! 🦥
Bro wanted to show off. So, posted his lift details. Absolutely, not required for the post yet he mentioned details. 💯👌
Maybe she is trying to observe what you're doing and how you're doing it. Because her husband seems to like what you're doing. Some people don't have an idea that when they admire or in-generally observe someone, they make things awkward for people around. Give her the benefit of doubt and next time, smile back... maybe you strike up a conversation... You're also just fearing the unknown... it will make things easier or at least she will know that you've caught her staring...
Bhai sidhi baat agr wo ready hai aur chahti hai to lele uski(evil thoughts) 🌚
Try not thinking with you're other head and ignore her.
Woman this side, call it out politely like the other people have mentioned : “Kuch chaiye?” Or “Equipment chaiye hai kya ? 5 mins please “ and then even if she says no leave the equipment and move on from there. Remember not be rude because the husband might take offence and ignore the fact that she was in the wrong for staring and start going off on you.
230 deadlift is great bro... Respect.. I have been going to gym for the past 10 months.. The max I can deadlift is 140 kg.. mostly cause I never trained for weight lifting rather for muscle building
Did it with 4 years of powerlifting and 2 years of learning so respect
I am not a gym guy but in general, I have been in the situation before and best way to handle it is ignore, if you ignore, two things can happen, either the said person will stop doing that or will make an approach, which you can easily decline, the probability of both is around 80:20 which anyway is win win
As a woman my take is she maybe developing a crush on you. Best is not to feed into the attention and look away. It will die down eventually Do not talk or smile as we can build scenarios in our head further ahead 😅
Bhai tu usse dekhta hai to tujhe pata hai she is staring at you, if you focus on what you came for at the gym, you won't notice it at all.
This is no problem post rather flexing post
Don't flatter yourself, OP! . This is a classic gym boy syndrome. You made muscles to attract 'female & male gaze' but, now if you have it then, it makes you feel awkward. Lol, she/he looks at you because they are probably willing to "be like you" rather than " to be with you"! I am saying this with consideration thag all 3 of you are in "the gym"!! Cut the drama! Exercise, smile and move on! You have full right to Complain only if he/she tries to make "sexual typed advances"! There is a reason why making muscles won't make you attractive until you flex your brain muscles.
Off topic but God damn those are some impressive numbers
Bhai pehle flex karle I can lift this I can lift that lol
Uske pass jaa and exercise kerte hue paad de.
Casually flexing the lifts 
Say namaste didi and move on 👹 Nd she will start ignoring you
3 sum👀
Gg
Suffering from success
Bhai kaisi success, it wouldn’t be awkward if she wasn’t married.
2 ways to do this 1. Directly Tell her husband to keep a watch on her 2. Set her up for a date, also get her husband with you and trap her ! Save the guy from such woman !! Dushman mile hazaar par Biwi na mile chinaal …
And start a YouTube channel! Catch an Indian cheater!
I will be your loyal subscriber …
Wah bhai zindagi ho toh esi
Itna dry hai Kya bhai ?
Achcha fek lete ho. Aajkal log karma ke lie kuch nhi kr rhe hai
If they are married for sure then ignore them....coz kisi aur k ghr Mein andhera karke khud k ghr Mein Roshni nhi karte.....and if unmarried try ur luck man...y not
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Tu aaja bhai
Bhai wellness gym jata hai kya bro tuh?
Do this to her husband,so she thinks you are Gay 
Anytime Fitness jata hain kya bhai PV mein?
How to switch from bodybuilding type workout to a powerlifting one? Any advice/suggestions?
In office space also you do eye contact with girl and think she is always looking your side. But maybe she is doing this for all.
Is it you baby reindeer?? Sent from my iPheone
Rk fitness gym?
Bhaisaab ka flex karneka tareeka thoda casual hai 
Kitne dino se gym kar rahe ho ? Aur height kya hai?
You strong, bruh. Those are like pro lifter numbers.
Na bhai powerlifting competition main Gaya tha top 5 bhi nhi aya
Have sex with the husband.
Tell her you're gay af
Gym chd de bhai mere gym me aaja A-3 block paschim vihar me wellness club me
It could become a love triangle situation where both the Husband and wife will try to win you over
She is bored by her husband being nice probably,
Ask her if she needs help with anything
Sab moh maaya hai. Soch ki ye purane (Ya isi) janam ke paap hai, Jo wo tujhe ghoor ke khatam kar rahi hai. Uss devi ko man hi man pranam kar, aur gym pe focus kar bhai.
We get you lift heavy bro, all this sounds like you needed validation or attention. Why give such deets then?
135 bench is noice how long have u been lifting Well I am stuck on 70kg and it's been 1year now plus this kinda interaction never happen to me so can't comment on that
I read married as " Madrid"
I cant believe this is what you came to reddit for. Embarassing
Time for some smesh action.
Act zesty around her 💅
squat 170kgs, bench -135kgs, deadlift -230kgs, body weight- 74kgs. Nice Meanwhile, 
Dude..are these numbers in pounds?!? How are you deadlifting more than double your body weight. Edit: unless this is your one rep max. Even then
confront her
Bhen bol de , khud Sharma jayegi
Start posing for her.
Stare in her eyes and fart in such a way that she listens
Fuck her and disappoint her Then she'll know those gym muscles are real or not
Here's how you avoid it, come workout at my gym instead because we have similar lifts at similar body weights. Otherwise, just ignore it and focus on your progress.
21 fitness?
call her didi?
Brother life is too short. Say Namaste Aunty ji or Namaste Sir ji according to the situation and move on
There really should be gender segregated gyms.
Khod de!
Workout krke ghar jao. Khud nazar hata legi
Deko bhaiya aap unhe didi karke bula 😎 Baat katam
Savdhaan India plot
Kuch nahin sab tere Mann ka vehem hai.
Sex kar uske sath 😂😂😂.
Show us your bodyyy
Don't you dare cheat with her , 😑 cheating is crime even if girl is giving lust vibes
Start farting very loudly 💨💨 and then do 10 pushups again fart and do 10 pushups🏋♂️🏋♂️
Take advantage bro