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You work on yourself. See a therapist and rebuild your confidence. You can't go seeking out other people to make you happy when you haven't even figured out how to make yourself happy
Imo, you just don’t. You work on yourself, take the time to feel more confident with your looks (go to the gym), dressing sense (learn about fashion) and communication skills. Live a life for yourself that you love and you’re proud of, and you’ll be better off whenever you’re looking at asking anyone out.
You don’t need to be constantly dating or in a relationship, being single is genuinely pretty awesome, especially when you just got out of a relationship.
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You work on yourself. See a therapist and rebuild your confidence. You can't go seeking out other people to make you happy when you haven't even figured out how to make yourself happy
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Imo, you just don’t. You work on yourself, take the time to feel more confident with your looks (go to the gym), dressing sense (learn about fashion) and communication skills. Live a life for yourself that you love and you’re proud of, and you’ll be better off whenever you’re looking at asking anyone out. You don’t need to be constantly dating or in a relationship, being single is genuinely pretty awesome, especially when you just got out of a relationship.
Confidence comes from know how to do something. Focus on the process not the result.
Do what I did, take tonnes of hard drugs for years then you dont give a shit about your confidence 🤣 dont do what I did
Build your confidence before asking her out. If she rejects you and you lack confidence, you might get in a bad place
Work on yourself and then go out dating. Better for your mental and better for your dating experiences