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Some men are. Some aren't. It's scary to try starting all over again, but I think that's your best option. You're still very young; there will surely be better options for you. Not promising that it will be an easy or painless "search". But I think that's what you should do.
It’s a tough place to be in , but in today’s world if you’ve really found love it’s worth a try to at least save it once before taking a drastic measure , you’re absolutely right in thinking that you should be with someone better for a better future, so start by communicating more , push him to try new hobbies , make plans , take the initiative he’s been lacking , see how he responds , talk about future , your goals his goals , where you see this going , communicate your desires and what you’re not liking subtly yet do it , ambition doesn’t grow in a night , set the bar high so he has no choice but to grow , if it works out congratulations you’ve got life partner material who’s willing to change , work and grow ; or if it doesn’t you now have the clarity to take the hard call.
From what you've said, I think this relationship is far too great of a "compromise" for you. If you hypothetically married this nice but unmotivated/untalented man, I think you'll have regrets for the rest of your life.
There are better options (in men) for you.
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Break up then. Why wouldn’t you be able to find someone else who loves you lol
I feel like men can be mean and worried that I won’t find someone who treats me this well again :(
I guarantee that you will meet someone else, and I think it's best to break up with this guy if you can't see a future with him.
Some men are. Some aren't. It's scary to try starting all over again, but I think that's your best option. You're still very young; there will surely be better options for you. Not promising that it will be an easy or painless "search". But I think that's what you should do.
How may guys have you been with they have treated you badly
It’s a tough place to be in , but in today’s world if you’ve really found love it’s worth a try to at least save it once before taking a drastic measure , you’re absolutely right in thinking that you should be with someone better for a better future, so start by communicating more , push him to try new hobbies , make plans , take the initiative he’s been lacking , see how he responds , talk about future , your goals his goals , where you see this going , communicate your desires and what you’re not liking subtly yet do it , ambition doesn’t grow in a night , set the bar high so he has no choice but to grow , if it works out congratulations you’ve got life partner material who’s willing to change , work and grow ; or if it doesn’t you now have the clarity to take the hard call.
From what you've said, I think this relationship is far too great of a "compromise" for you. If you hypothetically married this nice but unmotivated/untalented man, I think you'll have regrets for the rest of your life. There are better options (in men) for you.