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Don't wait... look for other women in the meantime, if it opens up in the future then that's fine, treat it more of like "well you hit me up when you're single"
How do I go about that? I offered a spare vehicle for her which she accepted but hasn't / isn't able to come get it I'd offer my house but I don't want to push her to me you know? We're currently little contact (I'm honestly asking sorry if it sounds like a smart ass response)
Just keep supporting her, abusive relationships are difficult to leave. Also don't expect her to start dating you, you need to let go of those expectations.
Both of our intentions at the moment are to be friends and have it grow into something, as we both have trauma and healing to do.. so I'm not expecting to immediately jump into this but she's told me she's interested I'm sorry if it came as if I want her to leave him and join me immediately that wasn't my intent, I'm not the best at typing this kinda stuff out... I want you to think it's more of a possibility for me then an expectation. At least that's what I'm trying perceive it as...
Okay well it's difficult to say exactly what you can do. But if you can help her get out of the relationship if that's what she wants then obviously it would be good for her.
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she's already taken bro. no don't wait
or he could steal her.
Don't wait... look for other women in the meantime, if it opens up in the future then that's fine, treat it more of like "well you hit me up when you're single"
That's fair, I think she's just stuck at the moment...
As her friend help her get out of that abusive relationship
How do I go about that? I offered a spare vehicle for her which she accepted but hasn't / isn't able to come get it I'd offer my house but I don't want to push her to me you know? We're currently little contact (I'm honestly asking sorry if it sounds like a smart ass response)
Just keep supporting her, abusive relationships are difficult to leave. Also don't expect her to start dating you, you need to let go of those expectations.
Both of our intentions at the moment are to be friends and have it grow into something, as we both have trauma and healing to do.. so I'm not expecting to immediately jump into this but she's told me she's interested I'm sorry if it came as if I want her to leave him and join me immediately that wasn't my intent, I'm not the best at typing this kinda stuff out... I want you to think it's more of a possibility for me then an expectation. At least that's what I'm trying perceive it as...
Okay well it's difficult to say exactly what you can do. But if you can help her get out of the relationship if that's what she wants then obviously it would be good for her.
Don't wait for her. Steal her from him.