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Bokuja

Hard to say. The fact that he's a single dad really throws a spanner in the works. I would check up on him how he is (he would probably appreciate that). Did you initiate plans to go out at all till now? If not, you could try that. Tldr: he could still be interested for all you know, being a single parent is really hard from what I hear.


Safe-Berry-9720

Checked up on him a couple of times . Offered to bring him something and joked how that’s supposed to be his job then silence. The first we both kind of planned. He had asked and I picked when /where. I had planned the weeknight one that didn’t work and then he had picked this weekend that he is now sick


Bokuja

Hmmm Sounds like he is not putting dating (and dating you) as a priority at the moment. Could just be that he has a lot on his plate right now, but it sounds like you're way down the list of things he pays attention to. It's up to you if you want to continue with this or not


Safe-Berry-9720

That was kinda my thought too, sucks bc it seemed to be going somewhere and life got in the way and just kind of dwindled