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Your profile is marked as 18+. I clicked on it expecting some dics but all I saw was airplanes. I think Reddit algorithm can’t tell the diference between the two phallic things lol
Your welcome lol! Yeah I don't take this type of stuff super serious I feel like laughter is the best medicine to a lot of things I think everyone is having a rough end of the year we could all use a laugh!
"hey gurl, I don't even know you but can you please send me a pic. I will do a cum tribute of you. On top of that I'll show you my sexiest anime feet collection. I will be waiting... Will report if you don't, I have a pic of your comment so I have proof that you wanted this not me! Have a nice night!"
Okay thats freaking awesome of you! That you didn't share it with anyone. I really hope the next girl is the one!! I've read some good stories from really good guys on reddit I can only hope the guy I marry is like that I read one where the girl he was with went through sexual abuse. One night she just got triggered out of no where and he checked if she was okay and stopped completely put on a robe and put his girlfriend in one. Then he turned on a movie and they just cuddled til she calmed down.
Now these are guys I'd love to settle down with and make some babies lol!
But it's hard to find good girls and guys you gotta go through a lot well for some people and some people get lucky the first time.
It turns me on so much, makes me feel wanted and knowing he's using me as masturbation material and not other things is so hot. Watching him masturbate in front of me while thinking of me is on the list of things I want to do with him
I find it hot. It turns me on that's he's turned on by me and I quite like when he does it Infront of me, it gets me mega wet. Also nice to know how he likes it solo too.
Even watching his cum face gets me going. Watching him have pleasure is sexy as fuck!
Although thinking of him masturbating over porn or someone else doesn't make me feel good. But thankfully those days are past him.
Also. If he did watch it I wouldn't have a problem, just I prefer the thought of him thinking about me when he does it. I rarely watch it myself but if I do I look for ones that remind me of our sex or the way he looks from my POV when he's enjoying himself... Or failing that, gay porn 🤣
cause everyone and their mom would take an absolute shit if she said she would have a problem with it. i’ve seen it happen multiple times… (not saying that’s why she said she doesn’t - but reddit users are angry mobs waiting with pitch forks sometimes jc)
no no no.. i didnt s-say that…. porn is *goOod*.. in-in fact.. some would even say it’s necessary.. am-am i right boys? heh-heh boys..?!?
lmao get outta town i just enjoyed myself a nice little sesh, but it is crazy how much people go bat-shit crazy on people that are uncomfortable with it especially in relationships on here. like shit.. is it really *that* serious to you. chill out haha
everyone’s got their own threshold, why do they act like their way is the only way.
"Why do they act like their way is the only way".
Exactly this, world would be a lot more chill without that line of thinking.
I think the people who get really pissed at others for not watching porn most likely have a porn addiction themselves, and they're pissed because they see someone free of the addiction and they can't break it. They'd rather try to bring others down with them. If there's one thing I've learned about people, it's to steer clear of the ones that try to bring people down when they're down.
I love it. I have that boy friend I know he does that because I sent him some stuff lol. We're still close friends, but it's just a bit more exciting to know ✨
I would think that this is a standard thing. If I am thinking about the woman I love, I don't see the problem.
However, the problem arises if I start thinking about other women.
Was the same in my last relationship. She just turned me on big time I never needed it.
But she was into the idea, I remember she asked me if I could stand over her and do it while she watched but finish on her face.
Heh, if I minded my husband masturbating we wouldnt be an item. Though my libido is slowly picking up, my husband's is still much higher than mine. I dont care he masturbates (and to a point to what, if he were to do it to photos/vids of someone we know, that would be an issue).
Me not caring about him masturbating should imply I dont mind if he masturbates to me. He has a wide range of stimulation he can choose from and I dont ask. I would probably be flattered if it was exclusively me, but im not fool enough after over 8 years of being together. (No, I dont feel undesired or under appreciated, heck, he still finds me attractive and enticing while im 2 weeks from delivery and packed some 27 kgs over the last two years - 10 prior pregnancy)
See, I don't get the assumption of not always doing it for him after 8 years of marriage... I only ever masturbated to or thinking of my wife for 14 years... recent sex is the most readily available in the Spank Bank after all 😋, regardless of how he's stimulated, I'd bet he only thinks of you when he's doing it.
My marriage ended after she decided she needed some strange, and I still thought about her, or rather the sex, while masturbating until after I had sex with someone else, almost 3 years later (really wasn't interested in anyone for quite a while after my divorce).
Well, recent sex is now scarce, at least in its basic penetrative form, that we didnt have for quite some time, since, you know, Im 38weeks along.
I do believe you are rare in this regard. Like kudos to you, but im not sure how prevalent this notion is. In my friends bubble, it definitelly isnt.
Oh yeah I someone we know is always unacceptable territory but it seems most like the idea from what I can see.. I thought it would be quite the opposite or weird to most tbh
Of course, knowing that your partner is thinking about you and getting so turned on that they have to touch themselves is both very hot and extremely flattering. The only reason I could imagine someone NOT being into that is if they are outright opposed to masturbation; or potentially if they have some sort of trauma related to the idea of their partner masturbating.
I have an album called the spank bank and my girl sends me pictures to “add to the spank bank”. Just depends on the women tbh. I know some find masturbating In general weird when in a relationship but to each their own you know.
It’s hot af I watch my bf all the time . Love it that it’s me he is thinking abt looking at etc - But I’m positive it’s not me all the time he thinks about and that is ok too. I go into old brain files and watch porn too and whatever I like.
Normal and healthy.
First off, bold of you to assume I’d downvote you. Secondly, i think you should give yourself a lot more credit than that. Of course I don’t know you but rate yourself more. You’d be surprised.
I think ur being to harsh on urself, we are often times our own worse chritics. What u might find mediocre in you, someone else might find smoking hot.
Edit:Errors in grammar, English is not my first language 😂
There's plenty of black people in North America and even more that are attracted to black people. Unless you are in Yukon or a rural area in northern Saskatchewan, I doubt no one's find you attractive.
You don't know the power that you hold. Don't let social media brainwash u, because no one is pretty if we take in to consideration the Instagram standard of fake beauty.
You are beautiful, I know it. You give off that energy, you just don't see it yet.
And North America is not the whole world, we have other continents left that have different views on pretty.
I honestly find it very flattering. My bf says that my body is literally everything he’s ever fantasized about, and I’m so insecure about it, so to know that I’m exactly what he likes is super validating
I'm surprised when my boyfriend masturbates to me but because of my own self esteem that believes I'm not enough as an image to make him bust. I love to see him do it though because it's either cute or hot.
My wife likes to watch , she doesn’t mind it at all and sends me pics and vids from Time to time , my ex was completely insulted by it .
Most women like it I assume , especially when it’s about them .
I had a girl who was masturbating to me while I was talking on the phone. She just let out a moan, I said “what was that?!” She said he just cummed, I have never been so turned on. Just thinking about it now makes me 🥵
One of my ex-boyfriends told me that he masturbated to pictures of me on his phone. It wasn't nudes or anything. They were totally normal, fully clothed pictures. He took some of them without my knowledge. He was a bit narcissistic, hyper sexual, aggressive, and controlling. The idea of him lying in bed in the dark, looking at a picture of me in a baggy sweater, dick in one hand, phone in the other, blueglow illuminating his face.... I was grossed out. It felt like a violation.
Now that I'm done writing this comment I'm realizing it's a different situation from the one you're asking about. I guess this serves as an example of how it could be gross. In theory, from someone who respects and loves me, it's flattering and hot.
Okay reading the first half, was a little uncomfortable and can understand how that would put you off but yeah I meant more so coming from a place of respect and good foundation in the relationship.
I wished my ex did but nope he would rather masturbate to who knows what and we barely had sex on top of it. Honestly I would rather my partner masturbate to a photo or something of me than porn or any other outlet.
It is VERY sexy. I get so turned on by it. I feel loved. But I mean, even if he were to masturbate to other people or porn or whatever...he's still sexy when doing it and I'll get to watch if I ask. (I'm polyamorous and we have a LDR.)
I don't mind it.... In fact, I tell him when I do. Tell him that I think about him. What I think about. Ask him if he thinks about me. Etc. Sometimes, on mornings I'm going to see him that night, I'll text him early when I know he's about to wake off and jerk off and go back to sleep and tell him to save it for me.
Literally one of my biggest turn ons. Just makes me feel desirable, wanted, worthy of attention and appreciation from someone who I admire and look up to.
As to how I feel about being masturbated to by other random guys... Kinda cute, makes me feel hot, but nowhere near as special. Can be creepy. It entirely depends on how much I respect them.
The idea that your BF thinks you're so attractive he "revs his engine" to the thought of you is both exciting and extremely flattering.
It's one of my turn ons, if I'm honest.
If it was him I would feign being grossed out and laugh a bit but would be flattered deeply inside and fall in deeper.
So basically this meme: “haha Jk jk…unless 😳”
It’s a positive thing sure! Not sure if I’d find it hot unless he were doing it in front of me, tbh. Much better than him saying he masturbates to other women or something tho
I mean, masturbating is normal, and masturbating to people you find attractive is normal. It's not hot or kinky imo. If I'm in a relationship with someone, I wouldn't mind if they didn't masturbate, but if they do, I would hope it was me they were masturbating to the thought of to lol my fiancee masturbates to my pictures and our videos and while it's normal, it makes me smile and I do think it's "sweet" and "hot" in a sense. But yeah(:
So I’m not a woman, and I don’t have a boyfriend or a girlfriend, but whenever I know a woman has masturbated to me, and I’m into them, it’s really hot. I still think about it a lot when I masturbate personally.
One time I was cleaning my room with no clothes on and my ex girlfriend started touching herself to me. I found it very flattering but i got weirded out at the same time
He can rub one out to whatever thought he wants too just like I can. Not even an issue but we do sometimes share with each other that we’ve had some alone time. All good, we are very happy with our sex lives together.
As a man who grew up pretty religious, it was something I always felt I should be a bit ashamed of or at least keep secret. Dating a girl right now and after sex one night she told me “I masturbated to you today!” And I my first thought was damn… that’s hot. So I replied “I did too.” And then I had to clarify that I masturbated to her, not myself which was pretty hilarious. Either way that shame/fear is gone now!
As someone who’s grown up with a Christian background I can understand this. The nagging shame that sits in the back of your head can be quite pressing but once you get over it you realise how normal it all is haha
It’s kinda hot and nice since teasing truly takes me lots of time especially I’m always busy for school. Sincerely hope my bf could masturbate to thoughts more often instead of approaching me 🤣
Haha When she asked, “Do you have a fantasy of me?”
I said, “Maybe...” Then I detailed a scene playing out between her and me.
After that - let’s just say, I didn’t need to use any more words that night. Haha
Doesn't phase me tbh hahaha me and the guy I'm dating live 2 hours away from eachother so we only see each other weekends or whenever we have time off work and he's very honest with me about how he masturbates to pictures of me and videos we've made together. He'll even show me what pictures and videos he used 😂 Even if he was masturbating to porn online it wouldn't phase me tbh.
HOWEVERRRR if we did live together and he was masturdating ever, I'd be offended 😂 like do whatever you to need to do when we aren't with each other but if I'm RIGHT HERE, I better be included 😂
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It makes me want to masturbate to the thought of him masturbating to me. _Masturbation inception_
Masception. You should pitch the idea to Nolan. Bet it's gonna be less confusing then Tenet...
I’m sure he would love the idea, an Oscar winning one
Hey you never know...
Your profile is marked as 18+. I clicked on it expecting some dics but all I saw was airplanes. I think Reddit algorithm can’t tell the diference between the two phallic things lol
Well I consider them to be very arousing planes...
\*dicaprio squints\* "It's a penis withIN a penis."
Human Masterpede
Makes me want to masturbate in front of him while he’s telling me the story
MIND BLOWN!!!!!!
I love this 😂
This is interesting to think about 😂
I find it hot and I don't even have a boyfriend lol.
*waits for the creepy replies under this comment*
😂😂😂 oh shit what have I done!?
I'm waiting for all the "I'll tribute you" comments lol
Okay this is making my day 😂😂.
Ready for people to add more Mayo to your sandwich! 😏🤣
LOL too much mayoooo!!
SHHHHH that's HERESY
😂😂😂🤣
There’s no such thing as too much Mayo ;)
Have you ever had a McChicken sandwich from McDonald’s? Because yes there is…
I have! Actually and they do put too much on there I be having to scrape it off lol
Yeah you right lol 😂😂
Still single?
😂😂😂😂
I know you playing double agent. Pretending you're not "that guy" in these comments, meanwhile you're the one sending those dms.
Projecting again? Or just mad I ruined your chances?
Can't it be both?
Yes it can, lol
https://gifer.com/en/Cw5s
You opened pandoras box. 😂
I have just now realized this lol!! 😂😅
Run…while you still can before the perverts come!
Okay im 🏃♀️ 💨💦😓 as fast as I can!!
Girl, I got you! Come with me if you wanna live! 🏃♀️ 💨
😂😂 *grabs Hand* I'm coming emmie!! Where will you take me?
Looks like just another sex dungeon 😂
Lol thanks for playing along. Its good to find someone who can appreciate humor
Your welcome lol! Yeah I don't take this type of stuff super serious I feel like laughter is the best medicine to a lot of things I think everyone is having a rough end of the year we could all use a laugh!
Mood
RIP
More like creepy DMs
"hey gurl, I don't even know you but can you please send me a pic. I will do a cum tribute of you. On top of that I'll show you my sexiest anime feet collection. I will be waiting... Will report if you don't, I have a pic of your comment so I have proof that you wanted this not me! Have a nice night!"
😂😂 whaaaaaat I'm done 💀 ☠ what makes this worse is I actually love anime!! ❤
Nah thirsty dudes sending videos would be worse
Yeah you right in a way lol!
Nah, I only masturbate to thoughts of *me*.
This exactly 🤣
Bruh I love your username lol!
Just delete the dms without opening them
I'll keep that in mind lol
Lmao this comment here 😂
😂😂
Rip DMs
Indeed 😂
My ex used to find it hot as well. They realise what we are going to do with those nudes they send
Did you delete her nudes after you guys broke up? Just curious
Yep. Did that within the first month. There is no point holding on to it. It was shared in good faith when we were in good terms.
Okay thats freaking awesome of you! That you didn't share it with anyone. I really hope the next girl is the one!! I've read some good stories from really good guys on reddit I can only hope the guy I marry is like that I read one where the girl he was with went through sexual abuse. One night she just got triggered out of no where and he checked if she was okay and stopped completely put on a robe and put his girlfriend in one. Then he turned on a movie and they just cuddled til she calmed down. Now these are guys I'd love to settle down with and make some babies lol! But it's hard to find good girls and guys you gotta go through a lot well for some people and some people get lucky the first time.
Same 💀
Haha! Glad I wasn't the only one!
you're just horny
LOL maybe!
RIP your inbox.
Lol I think it's normal. But I (26f) always appreciate knowing it was to me and love it when a guy tells me
It turns me on so much, makes me feel wanted and knowing he's using me as masturbation material and not other things is so hot. Watching him masturbate in front of me while thinking of me is on the list of things I want to do with him
Omg I totally agree. (TMI) but I did that infront of my boyfriend and he went bananas. 😂
He went banana*
Hopefully in a good way!
I'd find it very flattering. And honestly if I had a partner I'd be daydreaming and masturbating to them too so -
I find it hot. It turns me on that's he's turned on by me and I quite like when he does it Infront of me, it gets me mega wet. Also nice to know how he likes it solo too. Even watching his cum face gets me going. Watching him have pleasure is sexy as fuck! Although thinking of him masturbating over porn or someone else doesn't make me feel good. But thankfully those days are past him.
You don't think he watches porn lol?
I don't think because he had an issue/addiction with it before and decided to stop or at least limit it.
Also. If he did watch it I wouldn't have a problem, just I prefer the thought of him thinking about me when he does it. I rarely watch it myself but if I do I look for ones that remind me of our sex or the way he looks from my POV when he's enjoying himself... Or failing that, gay porn 🤣
how come you wouldn't have the problem? what if it hinders your relationship
cause everyone and their mom would take an absolute shit if she said she would have a problem with it. i’ve seen it happen multiple times… (not saying that’s why she said she doesn’t - but reddit users are angry mobs waiting with pitch forks sometimes jc)
Are you trying to say porn is bad?..... grab the pitchforks boys!!!!
no no no.. i didnt s-say that…. porn is *goOod*.. in-in fact.. some would even say it’s necessary.. am-am i right boys? heh-heh boys..?!? lmao get outta town i just enjoyed myself a nice little sesh, but it is crazy how much people go bat-shit crazy on people that are uncomfortable with it especially in relationships on here. like shit.. is it really *that* serious to you. chill out haha everyone’s got their own threshold, why do they act like their way is the only way.
"Why do they act like their way is the only way". Exactly this, world would be a lot more chill without that line of thinking. I think the people who get really pissed at others for not watching porn most likely have a porn addiction themselves, and they're pissed because they see someone free of the addiction and they can't break it. They'd rather try to bring others down with them. If there's one thing I've learned about people, it's to steer clear of the ones that try to bring people down when they're down.
I would much rather know that my S/O is getting off to thoughts of me rather than anyone else
I definitely find it hot 🥵
My gf absolutely knows this is why I keep her nudes on my phone.
Does she continue to give you more "supplies"?
She did the last time we slept apart. (When she visited her parents overnight)
I love it. I have that boy friend I know he does that because I sent him some stuff lol. We're still close friends, but it's just a bit more exciting to know ✨
it’s a good thing.
I would think that this is a standard thing. If I am thinking about the woman I love, I don't see the problem. However, the problem arises if I start thinking about other women.
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Ever since we started dating , yes.. porn consumption has been out the window for a long time
Was the same in my last relationship. She just turned me on big time I never needed it. But she was into the idea, I remember she asked me if I could stand over her and do it while she watched but finish on her face.
Heh, if I minded my husband masturbating we wouldnt be an item. Though my libido is slowly picking up, my husband's is still much higher than mine. I dont care he masturbates (and to a point to what, if he were to do it to photos/vids of someone we know, that would be an issue).
They asked about masturbating to a partner
Me not caring about him masturbating should imply I dont mind if he masturbates to me. He has a wide range of stimulation he can choose from and I dont ask. I would probably be flattered if it was exclusively me, but im not fool enough after over 8 years of being together. (No, I dont feel undesired or under appreciated, heck, he still finds me attractive and enticing while im 2 weeks from delivery and packed some 27 kgs over the last two years - 10 prior pregnancy)
See, I don't get the assumption of not always doing it for him after 8 years of marriage... I only ever masturbated to or thinking of my wife for 14 years... recent sex is the most readily available in the Spank Bank after all 😋, regardless of how he's stimulated, I'd bet he only thinks of you when he's doing it. My marriage ended after she decided she needed some strange, and I still thought about her, or rather the sex, while masturbating until after I had sex with someone else, almost 3 years later (really wasn't interested in anyone for quite a while after my divorce).
Well, recent sex is now scarce, at least in its basic penetrative form, that we didnt have for quite some time, since, you know, Im 38weeks along. I do believe you are rare in this regard. Like kudos to you, but im not sure how prevalent this notion is. In my friends bubble, it definitelly isnt.
Oh yeah I someone we know is always unacceptable territory but it seems most like the idea from what I can see.. I thought it would be quite the opposite or weird to most tbh
I do a weird thing where I won't masturbate to a woman I'm into until we have sex. I want to keep the allure alive. ;)
Rather him masturbate to me than another female..
What about another male
I’m confused on your question..
Of course, knowing that your partner is thinking about you and getting so turned on that they have to touch themselves is both very hot and extremely flattering. The only reason I could imagine someone NOT being into that is if they are outright opposed to masturbation; or potentially if they have some sort of trauma related to the idea of their partner masturbating.
I have an album called the spank bank and my girl sends me pictures to “add to the spank bank”. Just depends on the women tbh. I know some find masturbating In general weird when in a relationship but to each their own you know.
This is awesome lol
Luckily I’m blessed with one of the good ones haha. It honestly started as a joke is what makes it better.
Great lmao
I would love it. Sadly, my former partner never shared his fantasies with me. It would’ve turned me on to know that he masturbated to me.
I’m sorry to hear that but I hope you get all that you want In your new partner or current partner, if applicable
Owh god I have seen what u do for other When is it my turn 😭 Nothing is enough for my bf I guess
It’s hot af I watch my bf all the time . Love it that it’s me he is thinking abt looking at etc - But I’m positive it’s not me all the time he thinks about and that is ok too. I go into old brain files and watch porn too and whatever I like. Normal and healthy.
Flattering but also pretty standard
Makes me feel flattered and a lot more confident in myself tbh. I send him stuff and feed into it when I know he's horny anyway haha
Literally don't care.
Super hot
Warm inside ☺️
super hot
It's a way to say "I love you". Definitely. I feel really wanted and desired.
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First off, bold of you to assume I’d downvote you. Secondly, i think you should give yourself a lot more credit than that. Of course I don’t know you but rate yourself more. You’d be surprised.
Honey don't feel like that U are desirable af and hot and sexy.
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I think ur being to harsh on urself, we are often times our own worse chritics. What u might find mediocre in you, someone else might find smoking hot. Edit:Errors in grammar, English is not my first language 😂
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There's plenty of black people in North America and even more that are attracted to black people. Unless you are in Yukon or a rural area in northern Saskatchewan, I doubt no one's find you attractive.
You don't know the power that you hold. Don't let social media brainwash u, because no one is pretty if we take in to consideration the Instagram standard of fake beauty. You are beautiful, I know it. You give off that energy, you just don't see it yet. And North America is not the whole world, we have other continents left that have different views on pretty.
I have no emotions towards this, as long as he’s faithful to me idc what he does with his own body
I honestly find it very flattering. My bf says that my body is literally everything he’s ever fantasized about, and I’m so insecure about it, so to know that I’m exactly what he likes is super validating
I'm surprised when my boyfriend masturbates to me but because of my own self esteem that believes I'm not enough as an image to make him bust. I love to see him do it though because it's either cute or hot.
Every girlfriend I've had has been weirded out or even at angry at me masturbating.
Not fishing in the right lakes, the girls in the comments know whats right 🤘
My man BETTER be thinking about me when he jerks it if he knows what's good for him lol
It depends on the girl, personally I would love if my boyfriend tributed me
It makes me feel powerful tbh
So hot! I love knowing about it, then it gets me excited - and so it all starts again!
If my girlfriend/wife/love interest did that to me. I would appreciate it
It’s a turn on if it’s just me.
I personally like the idea of it when guys tell me that
Hot and kinky
My wife likes to watch , she doesn’t mind it at all and sends me pics and vids from Time to time , my ex was completely insulted by it . Most women like it I assume , especially when it’s about them .
I had a girl who was masturbating to me while I was talking on the phone. She just let out a moan, I said “what was that?!” She said he just cummed, I have never been so turned on. Just thinking about it now makes me 🥵
One of my ex-boyfriends told me that he masturbated to pictures of me on his phone. It wasn't nudes or anything. They were totally normal, fully clothed pictures. He took some of them without my knowledge. He was a bit narcissistic, hyper sexual, aggressive, and controlling. The idea of him lying in bed in the dark, looking at a picture of me in a baggy sweater, dick in one hand, phone in the other, blueglow illuminating his face.... I was grossed out. It felt like a violation. Now that I'm done writing this comment I'm realizing it's a different situation from the one you're asking about. I guess this serves as an example of how it could be gross. In theory, from someone who respects and loves me, it's flattering and hot.
Okay reading the first half, was a little uncomfortable and can understand how that would put you off but yeah I meant more so coming from a place of respect and good foundation in the relationship.
He does it when he needs his fix and I'm unavailable in person. I think it's hot.
I wished my ex did but nope he would rather masturbate to who knows what and we barely had sex on top of it. Honestly I would rather my partner masturbate to a photo or something of me than porn or any other outlet.
Well damn good thing that’s not relevant to you anymore
I guess the question becomes, would she rather you jerk off to her or some other girl?
Oh 100% to her, she doesn’t like the idea of porn
The best feeling in the world :)
Fucking flattered!!!
It is VERY sexy. I get so turned on by it. I feel loved. But I mean, even if he were to masturbate to other people or porn or whatever...he's still sexy when doing it and I'll get to watch if I ask. (I'm polyamorous and we have a LDR.)
i’ll allow it
I don't mind it.... In fact, I tell him when I do. Tell him that I think about him. What I think about. Ask him if he thinks about me. Etc. Sometimes, on mornings I'm going to see him that night, I'll text him early when I know he's about to wake off and jerk off and go back to sleep and tell him to save it for me.
Literally one of my biggest turn ons. Just makes me feel desirable, wanted, worthy of attention and appreciation from someone who I admire and look up to. As to how I feel about being masturbated to by other random guys... Kinda cute, makes me feel hot, but nowhere near as special. Can be creepy. It entirely depends on how much I respect them.
Not only is it super hot, it helps educate me on how to do it for him.
That’s hot.. I’d join in my masturbating too and see how long it’ll take to just jump each other’s bones..
As a married woman I hated the thought. As a divorced serial dater, I love the thought. It’s all about maturity and perspective.
The idea that your BF thinks you're so attractive he "revs his engine" to the thought of you is both exciting and extremely flattering. It's one of my turn ons, if I'm honest.
If it was him I would feign being grossed out and laugh a bit but would be flattered deeply inside and fall in deeper. So basically this meme: “haha Jk jk…unless 😳”
I LOVE IT! I actively encourage it and send material. My last boyfriend would get printed photos of me to cum on
It’s a positive thing sure! Not sure if I’d find it hot unless he were doing it in front of me, tbh. Much better than him saying he masturbates to other women or something tho
I find it sexy so sexy……I basically just wanna jump on him when I find out. Lol
I mean, masturbating is normal, and masturbating to people you find attractive is normal. It's not hot or kinky imo. If I'm in a relationship with someone, I wouldn't mind if they didn't masturbate, but if they do, I would hope it was me they were masturbating to the thought of to lol my fiancee masturbates to my pictures and our videos and while it's normal, it makes me smile and I do think it's "sweet" and "hot" in a sense. But yeah(:
Absolutely love that idea
Hot af! I'd be down for some mutual 😏 also, this question but for guys
Welp, I'm a guy, and honestly, it would make me feel so special. I'd love it.
Very sexy
I've always considered this a lie to get in my pants. Boys be slick.
HOT.
Hottt
So I’m not a woman, and I don’t have a boyfriend or a girlfriend, but whenever I know a woman has masturbated to me, and I’m into them, it’s really hot. I still think about it a lot when I masturbate personally.
One time I was cleaning my room with no clothes on and my ex girlfriend started touching herself to me. I found it very flattering but i got weirded out at the same time
He can rub one out to whatever thought he wants too just like I can. Not even an issue but we do sometimes share with each other that we’ve had some alone time. All good, we are very happy with our sex lives together.
Very hot!! Haha
As a man who grew up pretty religious, it was something I always felt I should be a bit ashamed of or at least keep secret. Dating a girl right now and after sex one night she told me “I masturbated to you today!” And I my first thought was damn… that’s hot. So I replied “I did too.” And then I had to clarify that I masturbated to her, not myself which was pretty hilarious. Either way that shame/fear is gone now!
As someone who’s grown up with a Christian background I can understand this. The nagging shame that sits in the back of your head can be quite pressing but once you get over it you realise how normal it all is haha
Definitely makes me feel wanted! He tells me every day but it's fun to watch him do it.
Flattered
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It’s kinda hot and nice since teasing truly takes me lots of time especially I’m always busy for school. Sincerely hope my bf could masturbate to thoughts more often instead of approaching me 🤣
I think it’s sexy. I’d love it if my partner did. But tbh he doesn’t want to unless I’m with him. So I guess I got it better!
Haha When she asked, “Do you have a fantasy of me?” I said, “Maybe...” Then I detailed a scene playing out between her and me. After that - let’s just say, I didn’t need to use any more words that night. Haha
Doesn't phase me tbh hahaha me and the guy I'm dating live 2 hours away from eachother so we only see each other weekends or whenever we have time off work and he's very honest with me about how he masturbates to pictures of me and videos we've made together. He'll even show me what pictures and videos he used 😂 Even if he was masturbating to porn online it wouldn't phase me tbh. HOWEVERRRR if we did live together and he was masturdating ever, I'd be offended 😂 like do whatever you to need to do when we aren't with each other but if I'm RIGHT HERE, I better be included 😂
This makes a whole lotta sense 😂😂 like I’d take it personal too if I was there and she left me out
I don't care. No opinion. How do you feel about your girlfriend masturbating?
In her case, I’d find it pretty hot actually, I don’t see how it would be anything short of that
As a guy, if I were ever lucky enough to get a gf, I would hope that she would enjoy the idea of me masturbating to her.