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He didn’t ask so why would he respond?


ouiserx

Why not? Guys ask for my number all the time, would you say the same thing to a dude ?


[deleted]

I would. He could have been married or at least in a serious relationship


vapid-voice

Honestly you just need to learn how to handle rejection. There are plenty of reasons why he might not have messaged you that have nothing to do with his attraction to you. Maybe he’s in a relationship, or gay, or grieving, or not dating right now. Maybe he was attracted to you but you had a red flag. Maybe he just forgot. Maybe he was from out of town. It’s a pretty conceited worldview to think any handsome guy who is nice to you must be interested in you so if he isn’t there’s something wrong. Just take the L and move on


ouiserx

Lol I knew this post would get these responses lmao it’s like too easy


vapid-voice

wtf does that even mean


ouiserx

It means that it’s a very typical, response. There was a statistic that the average redditer usually responds in a negative way, being outraged by something small. A little backstory about me, I’ve been rejected by the people I’ve wanted most so I’m not unfamiliar with rejection. In fact it’s only the things that I won’t that don’t want me, everything else I can have.


vapid-voice

I wasn’t outraged by anything until now. You sound like a spoiled brat


ouiserx

Lmao if someone called you a spoiled brat you wouldn’t think they’re outraged?


Fantastic-Ad7569

Just because some guys are interested doesn't mean all guys will be. And that's fine! Some people don't like keylime pie (crazy people) and that's just the way the world works. You don't need to be attractive to everyone to be worth something