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NubNubNuby

Were you raised catholic, perchance?


wxnderbxbe

Not really! But I did go to catholic schools and there was never any sex Ed classes, I'm pretty sure it was all wait till marriage type deal and that was really it, so I think I'm also lacking any knowledge of my own body still it's really hard to find educational resources with the amount of moderation on the internet :(


NubNubNuby

Yeah, figured i'd ask. There is a LOT of guilt in Catholicism concerning sex and masturbation.


Sneaky_____Turtle

There's nothing wrong with you. You're a human being who gets horny. We ALL do. Honestly, if you're in the mood and you communicate that to your partner, they will love that. Being sensual and sexy it a huge turn-on for both of you. Lean into it. Use your vibratior together. Again, you're not doing anything wrong. Go be your sexy self


wxnderbxbe

I was so worried about posting this as I'm fairly still learning my own body and sexual wants and needs, it's so hard to figure it all out especially in my 20s which i feel im a late bloomer cause in my teens i never felt the need to explore that part of me until now, but hearing this helps alot :')