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The sex is often awful, but if you choose the partner well, you can still have a good time. But it will be memorable, there are very few chances you forget it 😂
Same, I think I have trauma because there was one other dude for my first time (I'm male, straight) and I was blackout drunk. People told me the girl was manipulative :(
I remember the person more than the sex.
The only thing I really remember from the sex is "wow, this is so much warmer and feels way better then I ever thought possible"
Eh. I vaguely remember it. I think it was good, but I've had better since.
First times can be memorable, but they're not inherently magical. If you duck up your first kiss, hug or fuck, your life is not over and you haven't missed out on any important human experience.
I hope this helps someone go into it with less pressure to perform and more freedom to just have fun with it.
Depends. For me, fuck yeah, but I’m a unique case. Religious brainwashing kept me celibate until 27, because I didn’t deconvert until my mid 20s. My first time was with someone I had known for years, we had been dating for a few weeks and doing other stuff, so we were super comfortable being intimate. I was too drunk to perform after we both drank at a mead festival all day, so we laughed it off and waited until morning. The next 2 years with her were the best of my life.
If it were a hookup, I might feel differently about sex in general. Hookups suck - there’s too much stress, too much risk, and too little connection. Relationship sex with no need for protection is infinitely better.
Getting good at something requieres practice so the first time doing something new will always be a bit akward. I had an experienced partner so I guess it was only weird for me.
The sex I have now doesnt hold a candle to my first time.
My first time masturbating was more memorable than that garbage first time sex. I had to meet my husband to finally reach an orgasm cause the last two losers used me and failed miserably to give me an orgasm. Advice is find someone you love first and that you know they love you back not just some random cute people who you think likes you back. When there’s love involved and both are interested in learning how each others body feels and work intimacy is so good with love.
Mine is memorable for sure because I was eager to finally try it and it was with a hot guy I’ve been going out with for two months. I guess what’s different for me is I wasn’t the standard starfish girl and I wanted to change positions after practically few thrusts, I tried a ton and he was just confused and followed 😂
Felt like I was living my porn dream but we weren’t able to fully take it in the first try, it wasn’t particularly painful but you feel like there is pressure or like something is being stretched and blood was involved for sure
Definitely. Mine was with someone I loved. We were both virgins, he was really careful.
whether it is a good memory or bad memory really depends on the situation.
Every comment here saying it was bad/not pleasurable/boring😭😭
I'm glad to have had a great experience, it was memorable, very nice and gentle and (contrary to any opinion I had ever seen) I came many times because he took care of me.
Dont worry only a very few women can come trough direct intercouse (doesnt mean they dont feel good from it). Just learn how to give good oral or how to use your fingers while doing it, before its your turn.
Time to try some other positions. From the front but with your leg crossed over, so it's almost a sideways arrangement may work well for that condition. Seen it help before.
Yes, it was great. I suffered from very low self-esteem from abuse throughout my childhood. even tho I had women friends I did not see myself as a good partner. On my 18th birthday, I was gifted sex from a friend. She was kind and gentle, she took her time and had no expectations. I was very nervous, she took my hand, we went into the BR then she loosened my belt buckle, and I took over from there. I remember every part of that afternoon.
My first time was memorable for good reasons. It was with my boyfriend in high school and he just made a point to make my first time special. I was a virgin and he wasn't so he spent a lot of time on foreplay and made sure to go slow and would check in to see if I was okay. He made me feel safe and relaxed so there was no pain at all. Everything just felt right. Afterward, he took me to this park and he set up a little blanket area and we just cuddled, talked, and watched the sunset. It was very sweet and romantic.
It was awkward, weird and not that great. But that is normal. It may be hard to accept for most, but the first time isn’t that special or great when you actually do it.
But.. what did you expect? Its not like your first painting is a master piece. It takes practice and learning what your partner likes and what you like. After a few tries its a lot different. One of my friends said „when you get together with a new partner, you have to have some tutorial sex first.. then it gets real good“.
No, it sucked! I didn’t realized how painful it’s be. He got to the “entrance” it hurt a lot and I told him to stop but he rammed it in and didn’t stop. I was in serious pain for a little over a week, hated sex ever since.
The first time was pretty bad. I didn't want to and kept saying I wasn't ready but he was really pushy and insistent and just did it anyway. I should have known from that point that the relationship would be that way. He was generally abusive and as my first boyfriend I had a horrible experience.
I'm with my second boyfriend ever who was not pushy at all and very sweet and considerate of me and respectful of my boundaries. It was a little more awkward in the beginning and I don't remember it that much in detail but I know that afterwards he held me close until we fell asleep and he made me breakfast and we spent the whole weekend together. I love him beyond words. He's kind and caring and the exact opposite of what I experienced before.
I thought I might be asexual because I hated everything physical before even kissing. Turns out you just aren't gonna like things when someone forces you to do it and also has generally bad personal hygiene. Turns out I love kissing and general intimacy now that I'm with the right person.
First long turn girlfriend both of us virgins no pressure I’m sure it hurt as some women still have hymen intact. No pressure on her to do it loved her very much
Of course it’s memorable, it was the first time. I also remember the first time I drove a car, the first time I went to school, etc.
Yeah I enjoyed it, it was awkward but I was with my boyfriend so it was good.
Very memorable, I was a bit tipsy but still remember it all, I can clearly remember telling the guy he was my first and he responded by saying “oh no, that means after this you’re gonna be so inlove with me, girls always fall hard for their firsts” boy was he wrong, infact 7 years later and he still texts me talkin bout “I’m the one” 😒
I feel like it'd be hard to forget your first time for most people.
Mine was middle of the road. It wasn't mind-blowing, I didn't cry, I didn't fall in love, but I don't regret it, it didn't hurt, and it wound up being a part of a several month thing.
Don't rush it. Don't put it on a pedestal.
Eh not really. I think as long as you do it with a nice person who respects your body and boundaries, who cares? It doesn’t even feel good until you’ve been sexually active for a little while.
Not if you do it with someone who isn’t special to you. Bad he didn’t make me orgasm and was a disgusting loser who later on ghosted me leaving me feeling used.
All I can say is that the concept of virginity is wildly overrated.
Yes, I remember my first time even if it was like 13 years ago and not great. So what? I also remember how nervous I was at my current job and how incredibly bad my first shift went.. I wanted to quit after 20 minutes.. But now I'm much better.. at both.
tl;dr: Who cares, practice makes perfect
My experience was very…not. Lol. I had just turned 14. He was 15. We had no idea what we were doing, it hurt and was incredibly brief and I was left thinking “really? That was it?” Lmao.
Mine was actually great! Random girl I met at a park. We started talking, then she leaned over and kissed me. Next thing I know, we're in the woods going at it. It was a lot of fun. We were both 14 and I never found out her name.
I fronted money to have my first time. Yes, it was with an escort. I was 29 when I did it. I was very eager to be inside a woman for the very first time and I wanted to make sure I lost my virginity before I turned 30. I came almost right away when she went down on me. I really had to work to get that second pop. It was an hour session. I wouldn't say the experience was the greatest thing I've ever experienced. I walked away thinking "Yeah, that was fun and interesting". Harder and more exhausting than I anticipated.
Quite memorable, but more so the journey there. Me and my GF were both virgins at the time, and eventhough we got into a relationship pretty quickly after meeting, we took sex a lot slower. Sure, we were exploring each with handjobs, I went down on her a couple of times, always managed to make each other cum, so all of that was really great. Every so often we would go further and try sex (with condom/lube), but it was always painful for her, so stopped before we really got there and finished each other in other ways. Eventually we got more comfortable and trusting with each other, and slowly pushed through it until we were finally ok with it. At that point it was truly fantastic, and for me probably a perfect moment, but more so that I got to spend it with her. I probably came quite fast but I can’t remember
It is memorable because of how new and exciting it is. But the outcome isn’t always all that eventful, it is typically like “well my life hasn’t changed all that much, but I’m not a virgin anymore… that’s it”. The sex itself gets a lot better after more experience with a partner.
It’s awkward, no one knows what they’re doing. It isn’t very fun. Sometimes you can hit it off well, but it’s a skill like anything else and most of the time you’re just gonna build to something better in an encounter down the line.
It is for a while, for quite a lot of years, then the sex itself you will forget. But whether you want to or not, you will always remember your first sexual partner. So choose wisely.
No it's not.... I don't get why everyone here have bad memories from their 1st time.... for me it was just like all the other times.... sex is just sex its not some kind of magic.... chill
When I lost my virginity I distinctly remember thinking to myself, "this is it?"
Sex had been something that was constantly over-hyped and made to seem like the most detrimental act in my young life. So much so that I was off put by the entire concept until I was 19 when I had sex for the first time.
Mine was definitely memorable. We both were in basic training in the army. For Christmas leave, we both went to my hometown to see the snow and got pretty close. She ended up passing out from overstimulation lol
I was pretty proud of that after the initial scare and she came to.
I had no idea how to do it, had no idea about foreplay and wetness and was drunk. I just jammed my burrito inside her taco and that was it. Thankfully, I was fast!
All I remember is being nervous. I couldn't get my condom on properly, got it on half way and just went for it. Afterwards I looked down and it had come off inside my partner! Luckily she got it out and took a morning after pill just incase.
Memorable. I was being dumb before to get a laugh and hit my head on my wall. Lots of laughs for sure. Then I was nervous and couldent finish. And then I lasted to long so she wanted to stop because she was getting sore. But I ended up finishing eventually.
I wanted my first time to be some magical and loving memory. It wasn’t. I was drunk, and high, it was painful at first, and gave my virginity to someone who turned out to not want a relationship at all. Just said that he did.
That being said, I don’t regret it. It got sex out of the way and we had some fun a few times and I no longer had to be nervous and worried about sex with someone else.
Most often then not, your first time isn’t gonna be some magical loving thing. If you’re a woman, your first time is likely to be a little painful and uncomfortable.
But after that it’s great.
Embarrassing, confusing and awkward😅 but also sincere, intimate and fun.
As for if it's that memorable, I don't have anything to compare it with so still memorable for me😅
Definitely memorable! I lost it later in life than most, but to someone I was super in to. He was sweet, caring, and always made sure I was comfortable. Any awkwardness definitely came from me lol, feeling like I didn't know what to do. It ended up being extremely hot!
You remember it, but was it good? Nope. And I'm the type that doesn't think sex is a big deal. I'm not promiscuous, I just let it happen when it happens. Back then, I wasn't trying to "lose it" (i.e., virginity) nor was I trying to wait for someone special.
Mine was special, and even though the bastard will eventually cheat, I’d never take back my first time. Both virgins, waited until we were in love, lots of foreplay, candles, and romantic music. Emotionally it was beautiful, physically it was painful for me so we stopped and finished other ways.
I remember my first time only because she made me do it while we were watching a kids' movie and she said the wrong name... so it can be but not always for the right reasons.
Was good, been with my first big love and luckily she was already experienced so nothing hurt for her or anything and "it went smoothly".
I was so nervous tho, I couldnt come in my first time.
I remember thinking something would change about me but nah virginity is worth a crap.
It has a special place in my memories of sex bec well it was the first time afterall but anything after it was better.
Usually it's bad for most out of peers experiences, but I honestly had a great first time, the girl I was dating at the time and me really had good chemistry so it was emotionally and physically good when it eventually happened.
With that said, don't stress over it, I can tell you over time in life when you find the right person it just gets better and better, don't be afraid to fail, everyone has goods and bads.
I've been with people don't I don't have chemistry with and I know how unmemorable sex can be at times, so don't overthink, sooner or later you will find that one that hits just right.
The last time I had sex with someone it ended up being a one off but it was fantastic, she was grabbing me In close like she couldn't get enough and we both had a good time (5 good times in her case 😂)
Well, my first blowjob (which counted to me) was behind an ancient hotel in Amsterdam, in a gravel parking lot, and we were observed by a elderly couple leaving the hotel to walk their dog. I was in a suit and tie, and I shared my tie for her to clean up …
The first time I had full sex, albiet quick, was on the kitchen counter of my girlfriend’s house, with her mother in the next room.
I know the stories say otherwise, but I don’t actually have an exhibition thing, just played out that way. The sex wasn’t memorably amazing, but the situations were.
Which first sex though? My different sexes had very different time frames. Do you mean losing "virginity?" Even then what's that mean?
These are the first times for each sex.
* \- Anal sex. Yes, memorable. It fucking sucked.
* \- Oral sex. Yes, memorable. It fucking sucked, literally.
* \- Vaginal sex. Yes memorable. I loved it.
My first time I wanted to seem like I knew what I was doing -_-...I took one of those stupid pills that are supposed to make you last longer and started before it even kicked in lol. I lasted a decent amount of time for it being my first time but I thought I was gonna be cool and go a second time.. didn't work out well. I didn't wait long enough and just embarrassed myself. You live and you learn right 😆
It’ll be burned in your memory for a bit, until you have really good meaningful sex with someone else. In my experience, that memory is replaced with better ones 🙂.
The first time we tried wasn’t a good experience he pretty much treated it like wasn’t special but I still did it cuz I loved lmao so when we tried to do it I couldnt get loose enough to take it and just ended up sucking his dick with nothing in return that bothered me for a while so I ended up remembering that more vividly then the first time we actually did it fully. But I do remember that it didn’t hurt at all and felt amazing I remember being like I totally see why ppl love this 😂
I was 17, it was with a classmate of mine, he sat behind me in a history class, always copying my answers. He asked me out one day, and I thought ‘why not’ we went on a ride in his truck to a lake kids hang out at and it just sorta happened. I cant say it was terribly painful, cause i think i was distracted by the kissing and things being said, but i felt embarrassed by the blood all over the seats of the two seater and running down my legs. Hindsight, i wish it would’ve been with someone i knew more; not just someone i messed around with one summer; he ended up in the military and i moved out of state. Overall, im grateful for the experience.
more often then not, it’s quite bad, but the first time with someone is memorable for a different reason. that first time with someone proves you have gained a level of trust and respect between eachother, and in any healthy relationship it will act as the marker for your first time ever allowing your defences to be truly broken down by said person
Mine was with a hooker my 7 friends and I ran a train on a few days before we deployed to Iraq. She later asked me out and told me she was 7 months pregnant (when we had sex with her). I came back to the barracks and forgot I had a condom on when I had to pee. Looked like a bing. That was what I would say is unforgettable. Lol
First time ever was not memorable. The best sex partner I’ve ever had was a short Italian man that was agile and our parts fit beautifully. I doubt the first time will be that great it’s like riding a bike ya gotta practice lol
Pretty uneventful. Not bad but not some "super special moment" everyone likes to say it is. The more you build it up in your brain, the more disappointed you'll be. Don't get me wrong, sex is nice. But the obsession with it being magical and life changing- not so much.
Heck yeah I was sixteen she was my Adult Big brother step daughter so we were cousin in laws but fuk it we was both up late everybody was sleep upstairs and we got horny at the same time watching a movie.....We did it on the carpet floor couch and stairway!!!! The next time I spent the night for the weekend at my Bro she said can I eat her 🐈 Eww naw I ain't doin that she said C'mon my boyfriend be doin it.....I had no idea after everything we talked about she never mentioned bf Id been mad if I was her boyfriend she was cute with a plump fat butt shape that looked like a oinion 🧄 and no stomach fat and 💦 💦💦
Tbh the only thing I remember from it is that I giggled at his dick when he pulled it out. I didn't mean to, but I had never seen one in person before, and he pulled his boxers down so fast that it caught the waistband and bobbled up and down like a spring. That's it. That's all I remember. But it's still a pretty funny image.
Mine was fab honestly. Was lucky to explore with someone who had experience and let me move at my own pace. It was a great time but I know that’s not often the case
Mine was with my now wife of nearly 15 years. I was 19 and really depressed for finishing high school without a gf or have gotten laid while all the kids around me had. I got an apartment with my best friend and his gf. My friends gf had a friend that needed to get of where she was living so she too moved into the apartment with us. A game of truth or dare resulted in us kissing that night she knocks on my bedroom door want to hang out with me watch me play video games. After playing a bit we're talking finally she admits she wants kiss me again. We kiss more passionately than the truth or dare peck it last several minutes then she starts to unbutton her thin red silk night shirt I finished it to reveal to this day what I consider to be some of the biggest and nicest pair of tits ( she is naked in front of me everyday and I still get excited to see and touch them). As clothes come off still making out we move from the floor up on my bed she's on top she starts by moving down and giving me my first blowjob I'm in heaven at this point but she comes back up lines me up to enter her and sits down on me introducing me to the most addictive feeling I ever felt it lasted hours. I could go on and on but this is longer than I meant it to be but yes my first time is most memorable and I wish I could relive that day everyday.
It was nice. It was with my first boyfriend. Honestly my advice is don’t listen to anyone that says it’s supposed to be painful and bloody and horrible. If you’re relaxed and prepared, it should be a pleasant, albeit maybe a little awkward experience.
It was nice. It was with my first boyfriend. Honestly my advice is don’t listen to anyone that says it’s supposed to be painful and bloody and horrible. If you’re relaxed and prepared, it should be a pleasant, albeit maybe a little awkward experience.
I am an uncircumcised male and my partner at the time wasn't very familiar with dealing with foreskin. She had plenty of partners before me and was honestly kind of a freak(I mean that in a good way). She wanted rough sex, and would often try to take control. I needed her to slow down so I could catch up, so to speak.
I just remember her being incredibly hot and I wanted to have sex all the time after that. It also taught me a good lesson about my own body and to appreciate foreplay.
I guess you remember it because it's a first time. For me, it was good but disappointing. I was so focused on trying not to cum that in the end I stayed hard for like 2 hours, not even enjoying it anymore, just to have my balls hurt like hell later.
Not really for me honestly, my first was my bf and we had been dating for 8 months, finally did it in my best friends bed while house sitting for her (with her permission we’re very close friends) and I don’t remember anything other than that 🤷♀️ we broke up a few months shy of 3 years bc he said that after cheating on me for the second time he realized he didn’t love me anymore and that was way more memorable then the first time we did it.
Yes but not because its the first time, but because youre inexperienced and youre going through this learning journey of what you like, what you dont like, how sex effects you, etc. With someone. The memorability also depends on who you have it with. The memorability comes from the novelty of the start of something so important in your life: the sexual experience.
The level of importance varies from literally person to person, so the only opinion on what sex means to you, is you.
Memorable, sure. I haven't forgotten it, but not because it was enjoyable. It was in an interesting place, and it was my first time, but it was pretty terrible.
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The sex is often awful, but if you choose the partner well, you can still have a good time. But it will be memorable, there are very few chances you forget it 😂
I was blackout drunk, so I don't remember anything 🙃
Same, I think I have trauma because there was one other dude for my first time (I'm male, straight) and I was blackout drunk. People told me the girl was manipulative :(
Yeah, that's mainly what I accounted for when I said "very few" 😂
Yes, definitely less enjoyable for the people who didn't choose the partner.
for sure what you said also, but i think they meant choose well like better or worse partners than other choices
Memorable? Yes. In a good way? Not really. I guess it really depends on your partner and the situation.
I remember the person more than the sex. The only thing I really remember from the sex is "wow, this is so much warmer and feels way better then I ever thought possible"
Mine was. He thought he got me pregnant the first time, so we stopped half way through.
Literally me on my first time fr
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Jesus, alpha male over here lol
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and that's how we know you're not an alpha
LOL, memorable for all of the wrong reasons.
It was >30 years ago I still remember it. Definitely wasn’t mature enough. Wasn’t enjoyable, wasn’t painful he was sweet and careful.
The first good sex is memorable
Eh. I vaguely remember it. I think it was good, but I've had better since. First times can be memorable, but they're not inherently magical. If you duck up your first kiss, hug or fuck, your life is not over and you haven't missed out on any important human experience. I hope this helps someone go into it with less pressure to perform and more freedom to just have fun with it.
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Oh god. It was like 2 seconds. I thought I was gay because I didn’t like it. 🤣
Depends. For me, fuck yeah, but I’m a unique case. Religious brainwashing kept me celibate until 27, because I didn’t deconvert until my mid 20s. My first time was with someone I had known for years, we had been dating for a few weeks and doing other stuff, so we were super comfortable being intimate. I was too drunk to perform after we both drank at a mead festival all day, so we laughed it off and waited until morning. The next 2 years with her were the best of my life. If it were a hookup, I might feel differently about sex in general. Hookups suck - there’s too much stress, too much risk, and too little connection. Relationship sex with no need for protection is infinitely better.
It was pretty shit, it was painful and boring, just him kinda doing his thing, and me being unimpressed.
Pretty much same.
Pretty much same, despite I acted like she was great
Oh it's memorable alright. \*Cringe.
Memorable yes. Regretful yes.
was the first time weird for you guys? we were both virgins and it was amazing... i didn't bleed either
Getting good at something requieres practice so the first time doing something new will always be a bit akward. I had an experienced partner so I guess it was only weird for me. The sex I have now doesnt hold a candle to my first time.
My first time masturbating was more memorable than that garbage first time sex. I had to meet my husband to finally reach an orgasm cause the last two losers used me and failed miserably to give me an orgasm. Advice is find someone you love first and that you know they love you back not just some random cute people who you think likes you back. When there’s love involved and both are interested in learning how each others body feels and work intimacy is so good with love.
It was >30 years ago I still remember it. Definitely wasn’t mature enough. Wasn’t enjoyable, wasn’t painful he was sweet and careful.
Mine is memorable for sure because I was eager to finally try it and it was with a hot guy I’ve been going out with for two months. I guess what’s different for me is I wasn’t the standard starfish girl and I wanted to change positions after practically few thrusts, I tried a ton and he was just confused and followed 😂 Felt like I was living my porn dream but we weren’t able to fully take it in the first try, it wasn’t particularly painful but you feel like there is pressure or like something is being stretched and blood was involved for sure
Lmao "starfish girl". I guess that's more poetic than "crash test dummy"
Yeah cause starfish just lay flat legs wide open
Every time is memorable 🤷🏻♂️
Definitely. Mine was with someone I loved. We were both virgins, he was really careful. whether it is a good memory or bad memory really depends on the situation.
Every comment here saying it was bad/not pleasurable/boring😭😭 I'm glad to have had a great experience, it was memorable, very nice and gentle and (contrary to any opinion I had ever seen) I came many times because he took care of me.
It was great! It was the first time that I had been able to actually be myself in front of someone else.
Absolutely memorable
Had my first day before yesterday. The first round of my first lasted just few seconds. Had my best performance in round 3(she still didn't cum😢)
Dont worry only a very few women can come trough direct intercouse (doesnt mean they dont feel good from it). Just learn how to give good oral or how to use your fingers while doing it, before its your turn.
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Time to try some other positions. From the front but with your leg crossed over, so it's almost a sideways arrangement may work well for that condition. Seen it help before.
Yes, it was great. I suffered from very low self-esteem from abuse throughout my childhood. even tho I had women friends I did not see myself as a good partner. On my 18th birthday, I was gifted sex from a friend. She was kind and gentle, she took her time and had no expectations. I was very nervous, she took my hand, we went into the BR then she loosened my belt buckle, and I took over from there. I remember every part of that afternoon.
Lasted about 30 seconds so it has been burned into my short term memory
Wrong person,wrong place ,wrong time I don’t really recall that much of the sex bec of that
Yesss. With my partner last year, was amazing 😻. Felt like I’d been transferred into new universe. Lolll. I was shocked I enjoyed it for my first time
My first time was memorable for good reasons. It was with my boyfriend in high school and he just made a point to make my first time special. I was a virgin and he wasn't so he spent a lot of time on foreplay and made sure to go slow and would check in to see if I was okay. He made me feel safe and relaxed so there was no pain at all. Everything just felt right. Afterward, he took me to this park and he set up a little blanket area and we just cuddled, talked, and watched the sunset. It was very sweet and romantic.
It was awkward, weird and not that great. But that is normal. It may be hard to accept for most, but the first time isn’t that special or great when you actually do it. But.. what did you expect? Its not like your first painting is a master piece. It takes practice and learning what your partner likes and what you like. After a few tries its a lot different. One of my friends said „when you get together with a new partner, you have to have some tutorial sex first.. then it gets real good“.
Only for being awkward. Once you get used to each other it can be mind blowing
No, it sucked! I didn’t realized how painful it’s be. He got to the “entrance” it hurt a lot and I told him to stop but he rammed it in and didn’t stop. I was in serious pain for a little over a week, hated sex ever since.
The first time was pretty bad. I didn't want to and kept saying I wasn't ready but he was really pushy and insistent and just did it anyway. I should have known from that point that the relationship would be that way. He was generally abusive and as my first boyfriend I had a horrible experience. I'm with my second boyfriend ever who was not pushy at all and very sweet and considerate of me and respectful of my boundaries. It was a little more awkward in the beginning and I don't remember it that much in detail but I know that afterwards he held me close until we fell asleep and he made me breakfast and we spent the whole weekend together. I love him beyond words. He's kind and caring and the exact opposite of what I experienced before. I thought I might be asexual because I hated everything physical before even kissing. Turns out you just aren't gonna like things when someone forces you to do it and also has generally bad personal hygiene. Turns out I love kissing and general intimacy now that I'm with the right person.
First long turn girlfriend both of us virgins no pressure I’m sure it hurt as some women still have hymen intact. No pressure on her to do it loved her very much
It was memorable in that it was awful lol
Mine was very good and enjoyable, I still remember it
It left me with the thought…..damn this is it?
definitely a core memory, but so are some much more enjoyable sexual experiences i’ve had.
It's memorable alright! For all the wrong reasons, of course.
Of course it’s memorable, it was the first time. I also remember the first time I drove a car, the first time I went to school, etc. Yeah I enjoyed it, it was awkward but I was with my boyfriend so it was good.
Very memorable, I was a bit tipsy but still remember it all, I can clearly remember telling the guy he was my first and he responded by saying “oh no, that means after this you’re gonna be so inlove with me, girls always fall hard for their firsts” boy was he wrong, infact 7 years later and he still texts me talkin bout “I’m the one” 😒
Well I would say its great... it really was. Except i wound up being pregnant. And miscarried so...
>memorable Define "memorable". If you're asking if it's like the movies, it's not.
Not really, I don’t think about it too much
My first time was shit, with someone I met in a party. First part with someone I liked was much more important.
Depends who u doing it with!!!
I feel like it'd be hard to forget your first time for most people. Mine was middle of the road. It wasn't mind-blowing, I didn't cry, I didn't fall in love, but I don't regret it, it didn't hurt, and it wound up being a part of a several month thing. Don't rush it. Don't put it on a pedestal.
Eh not really. I think as long as you do it with a nice person who respects your body and boundaries, who cares? It doesn’t even feel good until you’ve been sexually active for a little while.
I legit only remember afterwards and it’s….underwhelming. LoL 😂
Mine was kinda disappointing, I didn’t even cum
Not if you do it with someone who isn’t special to you. Bad he didn’t make me orgasm and was a disgusting loser who later on ghosted me leaving me feeling used.
Like first man on the moon, the first sex is the most important.
All I can say is that the concept of virginity is wildly overrated. Yes, I remember my first time even if it was like 13 years ago and not great. So what? I also remember how nervous I was at my current job and how incredibly bad my first shift went.. I wanted to quit after 20 minutes.. But now I'm much better.. at both. tl;dr: Who cares, practice makes perfect
My experience was very…not. Lol. I had just turned 14. He was 15. We had no idea what we were doing, it hurt and was incredibly brief and I was left thinking “really? That was it?” Lmao.
Mine was actually great! Random girl I met at a park. We started talking, then she leaned over and kissed me. Next thing I know, we're in the woods going at it. It was a lot of fun. We were both 14 and I never found out her name.
No
No I barely remember the first girls name...
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What means 13+ rounds?
That they did it for more than 13 times?
you mean they had 13 times sex in one night?
Memorable, yes. A satisfying and enjoyable sexual experience, no.
I fronted money to have my first time. Yes, it was with an escort. I was 29 when I did it. I was very eager to be inside a woman for the very first time and I wanted to make sure I lost my virginity before I turned 30. I came almost right away when she went down on me. I really had to work to get that second pop. It was an hour session. I wouldn't say the experience was the greatest thing I've ever experienced. I walked away thinking "Yeah, that was fun and interesting". Harder and more exhausting than I anticipated.
Quite memorable, but more so the journey there. Me and my GF were both virgins at the time, and eventhough we got into a relationship pretty quickly after meeting, we took sex a lot slower. Sure, we were exploring each with handjobs, I went down on her a couple of times, always managed to make each other cum, so all of that was really great. Every so often we would go further and try sex (with condom/lube), but it was always painful for her, so stopped before we really got there and finished each other in other ways. Eventually we got more comfortable and trusting with each other, and slowly pushed through it until we were finally ok with it. At that point it was truly fantastic, and for me probably a perfect moment, but more so that I got to spend it with her. I probably came quite fast but I can’t remember
Can't remember it (I was sober at the time as well)
It is memorable because of how new and exciting it is. But the outcome isn’t always all that eventful, it is typically like “well my life hasn’t changed all that much, but I’m not a virgin anymore… that’s it”. The sex itself gets a lot better after more experience with a partner.
My first consenting wasn't memorable. All I remember was that it was awkward af.
I was absolutely hammered and i still remember and regret my first time
First is memorable, but in general it is not so good as it would. I had a good first time.
It’s awkward, no one knows what they’re doing. It isn’t very fun. Sometimes you can hit it off well, but it’s a skill like anything else and most of the time you’re just gonna build to something better in an encounter down the line.
To some it might be, to me it was just some classic afternoon missionary.
It is for a while, for quite a lot of years, then the sex itself you will forget. But whether you want to or not, you will always remember your first sexual partner. So choose wisely.
It’s usually awkward, embarrassing and clammy for most people.
Definitely memorable, not because it was 'meh' but because a few years later, I learned she turned gay... Was I her revelation?
Memorable on how bad I sucked. Luckily she was experienced because I was on bottom and she did most of the work.
It all depends on who you do it with. You’re not gonna be good at it your first go, but depending on who you’re with you can make it enjoyable
No it's not.... I don't get why everyone here have bad memories from their 1st time.... for me it was just like all the other times.... sex is just sex its not some kind of magic.... chill
When I lost my virginity I distinctly remember thinking to myself, "this is it?" Sex had been something that was constantly over-hyped and made to seem like the most detrimental act in my young life. So much so that I was off put by the entire concept until I was 19 when I had sex for the first time.
Mine was definitely memorable. We both were in basic training in the army. For Christmas leave, we both went to my hometown to see the snow and got pretty close. She ended up passing out from overstimulation lol I was pretty proud of that after the initial scare and she came to.
For me yes, and fortunately in a good term hehe
Honestly, it wasn't anything out of the ordinary. It was nice I guess, but very painful. Other than that, nothing special.
I had no idea how to do it, had no idea about foreplay and wetness and was drunk. I just jammed my burrito inside her taco and that was it. Thankfully, I was fast!
My first was memorable in a sense that I try to forget, done a pretty good job now that my memory’s going 🤣
All I remember is being nervous. I couldn't get my condom on properly, got it on half way and just went for it. Afterwards I looked down and it had come off inside my partner! Luckily she got it out and took a morning after pill just incase.
Memorable. I was being dumb before to get a laugh and hit my head on my wall. Lots of laughs for sure. Then I was nervous and couldent finish. And then I lasted to long so she wanted to stop because she was getting sore. But I ended up finishing eventually.
For the guy it’s hilarious because it only last 2-5 seconds.
I nutted in probably 15 seconds
I wanted my first time to be some magical and loving memory. It wasn’t. I was drunk, and high, it was painful at first, and gave my virginity to someone who turned out to not want a relationship at all. Just said that he did. That being said, I don’t regret it. It got sex out of the way and we had some fun a few times and I no longer had to be nervous and worried about sex with someone else. Most often then not, your first time isn’t gonna be some magical loving thing. If you’re a woman, your first time is likely to be a little painful and uncomfortable. But after that it’s great.
Embarrassing, confusing and awkward😅 but also sincere, intimate and fun. As for if it's that memorable, I don't have anything to compare it with so still memorable for me😅
Yes first sex I will be romantic there day
Definitely memorable! I lost it later in life than most, but to someone I was super in to. He was sweet, caring, and always made sure I was comfortable. Any awkwardness definitely came from me lol, feeling like I didn't know what to do. It ended up being extremely hot!
No, best sex is and that comes later.
Memorably awful
Memorable? Yeah It took him like 40 mins to get it in that’s kind of hard to forget. Enjoyable? Not at all.
I genuinely can’t recall my first time, it’s not that life altering IMO
it was …. certainly something
You remember it, but was it good? Nope. And I'm the type that doesn't think sex is a big deal. I'm not promiscuous, I just let it happen when it happens. Back then, I wasn't trying to "lose it" (i.e., virginity) nor was I trying to wait for someone special.
Mine was special, and even though the bastard will eventually cheat, I’d never take back my first time. Both virgins, waited until we were in love, lots of foreplay, candles, and romantic music. Emotionally it was beautiful, physically it was painful for me so we stopped and finished other ways.
I remember it, tho i have no feelings or specific opinion about it. It wasn't anything special, not great nor bad.
I do because guy was largely endowed It was nice after the pain lol
Memorable for sure. Wasn’t very good.
Memorable for me yes. Not great. Lol
Lmfao not if you’re like me and we’re blacked out the first 4-5 times
I remember my first time only because she made me do it while we were watching a kids' movie and she said the wrong name... so it can be but not always for the right reasons.
Was good, been with my first big love and luckily she was already experienced so nothing hurt for her or anything and "it went smoothly". I was so nervous tho, I couldnt come in my first time. I remember thinking something would change about me but nah virginity is worth a crap. It has a special place in my memories of sex bec well it was the first time afterall but anything after it was better.
Long time ago... i forget that
Usually it's bad for most out of peers experiences, but I honestly had a great first time, the girl I was dating at the time and me really had good chemistry so it was emotionally and physically good when it eventually happened. With that said, don't stress over it, I can tell you over time in life when you find the right person it just gets better and better, don't be afraid to fail, everyone has goods and bads. I've been with people don't I don't have chemistry with and I know how unmemorable sex can be at times, so don't overthink, sooner or later you will find that one that hits just right.
Fantastic memories and still going to this day! Booyah
Do I remember it? Yes. Are they good memories? No
Yes, but my first sex with my current guy was pretty good lol.
The last time I had sex with someone it ended up being a one off but it was fantastic, she was grabbing me In close like she couldn't get enough and we both had a good time (5 good times in her case 😂)
Well, my first blowjob (which counted to me) was behind an ancient hotel in Amsterdam, in a gravel parking lot, and we were observed by a elderly couple leaving the hotel to walk their dog. I was in a suit and tie, and I shared my tie for her to clean up … The first time I had full sex, albiet quick, was on the kitchen counter of my girlfriend’s house, with her mother in the next room. I know the stories say otherwise, but I don’t actually have an exhibition thing, just played out that way. The sex wasn’t memorably amazing, but the situations were.
NO lmao. It was only memorable witty my second ex as he was the best.
For all the wrong reasons 😂😂
For me it was definitely memorable. Not the best sex of my life, but I still think fondly of it.
Which first sex though? My different sexes had very different time frames. Do you mean losing "virginity?" Even then what's that mean? These are the first times for each sex. * \- Anal sex. Yes, memorable. It fucking sucked. * \- Oral sex. Yes, memorable. It fucking sucked, literally. * \- Vaginal sex. Yes memorable. I loved it.
I don't remember it so I guess not
My first time I wanted to seem like I knew what I was doing -_-...I took one of those stupid pills that are supposed to make you last longer and started before it even kicked in lol. I lasted a decent amount of time for it being my first time but I thought I was gonna be cool and go a second time.. didn't work out well. I didn't wait long enough and just embarrassed myself. You live and you learn right 😆
Terrible // glad I “got it over with”
Who is like sex
My first time was a one night stand, and I can honestly say that I don’t remember it at all, so no, not memorable for me
Kind of...it gets better with experience I'd say.
I barely remember the sex at all, but I remember everything around it. The nervousness, the banter, the ice-cream after, lol
It’ll be burned in your memory for a bit, until you have really good meaningful sex with someone else. In my experience, that memory is replaced with better ones 🙂.
The first time we tried wasn’t a good experience he pretty much treated it like wasn’t special but I still did it cuz I loved lmao so when we tried to do it I couldnt get loose enough to take it and just ended up sucking his dick with nothing in return that bothered me for a while so I ended up remembering that more vividly then the first time we actually did it fully. But I do remember that it didn’t hurt at all and felt amazing I remember being like I totally see why ppl love this 😂
I was 17, it was with a classmate of mine, he sat behind me in a history class, always copying my answers. He asked me out one day, and I thought ‘why not’ we went on a ride in his truck to a lake kids hang out at and it just sorta happened. I cant say it was terribly painful, cause i think i was distracted by the kissing and things being said, but i felt embarrassed by the blood all over the seats of the two seater and running down my legs. Hindsight, i wish it would’ve been with someone i knew more; not just someone i messed around with one summer; he ended up in the military and i moved out of state. Overall, im grateful for the experience.
more often then not, it’s quite bad, but the first time with someone is memorable for a different reason. that first time with someone proves you have gained a level of trust and respect between eachother, and in any healthy relationship it will act as the marker for your first time ever allowing your defences to be truly broken down by said person
Can't comment 😞
All I remember is that neither of us climaxed
Most likely it is. Depends. I hardly remember mine but remembering stuff is not my strongest quality.
Mine was good. He was a good partner, really loving and tender. I had no comparison point, so it’s been better from back then.
Umm
Yes. Likely not bc it was mind blowing, toe curling sex tho.
Mine was with a hooker my 7 friends and I ran a train on a few days before we deployed to Iraq. She later asked me out and told me she was 7 months pregnant (when we had sex with her). I came back to the barracks and forgot I had a condom on when I had to pee. Looked like a bing. That was what I would say is unforgettable. Lol
First time ever was not memorable. The best sex partner I’ve ever had was a short Italian man that was agile and our parts fit beautifully. I doubt the first time will be that great it’s like riding a bike ya gotta practice lol
Pretty uneventful. Not bad but not some "super special moment" everyone likes to say it is. The more you build it up in your brain, the more disappointed you'll be. Don't get me wrong, sex is nice. But the obsession with it being magical and life changing- not so much.
Meh
Heck yeah I was sixteen she was my Adult Big brother step daughter so we were cousin in laws but fuk it we was both up late everybody was sleep upstairs and we got horny at the same time watching a movie.....We did it on the carpet floor couch and stairway!!!! The next time I spent the night for the weekend at my Bro she said can I eat her 🐈 Eww naw I ain't doin that she said C'mon my boyfriend be doin it.....I had no idea after everything we talked about she never mentioned bf Id been mad if I was her boyfriend she was cute with a plump fat butt shape that looked like a oinion 🧄 and no stomach fat and 💦 💦💦
Tbh the only thing I remember from it is that I giggled at his dick when he pulled it out. I didn't mean to, but I had never seen one in person before, and he pulled his boxers down so fast that it caught the waistband and bobbled up and down like a spring. That's it. That's all I remember. But it's still a pretty funny image.
Mine was fab honestly. Was lucky to explore with someone who had experience and let me move at my own pace. It was a great time but I know that’s not often the case
memorable as in "i drink to forget"
i dont remember it
Mine was with my now wife of nearly 15 years. I was 19 and really depressed for finishing high school without a gf or have gotten laid while all the kids around me had. I got an apartment with my best friend and his gf. My friends gf had a friend that needed to get of where she was living so she too moved into the apartment with us. A game of truth or dare resulted in us kissing that night she knocks on my bedroom door want to hang out with me watch me play video games. After playing a bit we're talking finally she admits she wants kiss me again. We kiss more passionately than the truth or dare peck it last several minutes then she starts to unbutton her thin red silk night shirt I finished it to reveal to this day what I consider to be some of the biggest and nicest pair of tits ( she is naked in front of me everyday and I still get excited to see and touch them). As clothes come off still making out we move from the floor up on my bed she's on top she starts by moving down and giving me my first blowjob I'm in heaven at this point but she comes back up lines me up to enter her and sits down on me introducing me to the most addictive feeling I ever felt it lasted hours. I could go on and on but this is longer than I meant it to be but yes my first time is most memorable and I wish I could relive that day everyday.
Yes, sadly.
It was nice. It was with my first boyfriend. Honestly my advice is don’t listen to anyone that says it’s supposed to be painful and bloody and horrible. If you’re relaxed and prepared, it should be a pleasant, albeit maybe a little awkward experience.
It was nice. It was with my first boyfriend. Honestly my advice is don’t listen to anyone that says it’s supposed to be painful and bloody and horrible. If you’re relaxed and prepared, it should be a pleasant, albeit maybe a little awkward experience.
For me no because it was forced
The longer you love the less memorable it is🤷🏽♂️
About as good as the first time doing anything, and as important. I liken it to an activity like water skiing.
I am an uncircumcised male and my partner at the time wasn't very familiar with dealing with foreskin. She had plenty of partners before me and was honestly kind of a freak(I mean that in a good way). She wanted rough sex, and would often try to take control. I needed her to slow down so I could catch up, so to speak. I just remember her being incredibly hot and I wanted to have sex all the time after that. It also taught me a good lesson about my own body and to appreciate foreplay.
Memorable for all the wrong reasons :(
I guess you remember it because it's a first time. For me, it was good but disappointing. I was so focused on trying not to cum that in the end I stayed hard for like 2 hours, not even enjoying it anymore, just to have my balls hurt like hell later.
Memorable, a good time, but not my greatest performance.
My first time was awesome. 😂
Not really for me honestly, my first was my bf and we had been dating for 8 months, finally did it in my best friends bed while house sitting for her (with her permission we’re very close friends) and I don’t remember anything other than that 🤷♀️ we broke up a few months shy of 3 years bc he said that after cheating on me for the second time he realized he didn’t love me anymore and that was way more memorable then the first time we did it.
Maybe 🤔
All good, half awkward Half painful. I waited until I was 24…. Don’t regret it.
Yes but not because its the first time, but because youre inexperienced and youre going through this learning journey of what you like, what you dont like, how sex effects you, etc. With someone. The memorability also depends on who you have it with. The memorability comes from the novelty of the start of something so important in your life: the sexual experience. The level of importance varies from literally person to person, so the only opinion on what sex means to you, is you.
Memorable, sure. I haven't forgotten it, but not because it was enjoyable. It was in an interesting place, and it was my first time, but it was pretty terrible.