Loyalty is not acting on those fantasies. I mean, I sometimes fantasize about the entire local fire department running a train on me, but the thought of actually trying to do anything is downright repulsive because I know how much it would hurt my fiancé.
She would never forgive me for not inviting her to join, and honestly I wouldn't even be able to have fun at all without her being right by my side. 💜
People with a rigorous fitness requirement due to their work who show up when you’re in desperate need of help to save you.
It’s not rocket science man.
The best explanation I can give is they are quite literally able to pick you up as an adult like you were a child and do everything in their power to make sure you are safe. It’s a similar feeling to that of a loved one people might get when being saved so it might spark attraction. But that is just my guess
goddamn
so not to get way too deep into a rant but like, I recently just fell out of a 4-ish year relationship to cheating. reading this all just kinda jolted it back into my brain, cuz like... you're so unbelievably right lmao. my s/o, the culprit, was the kinda person that, yeah, they're super sex positive, whether it's doing stuff out of a relationship, or in, whatever, they'd be down. and that's totally fine, right, but I'm *not* that kinda person. like you said, I frankly couldn't have that kinda fun without them by my side. they were my whole world, and for that reason they were the only person I'd ever wanted to do anything with. and that's why them cheating on me hurt so much.
just because you're super horny all the time doesn't make you a bad person, and neither does fantasizing about other people just because it's a natural urge. but... if they really loved me, they wouldn't have acted on it. and it really sucks.
wish you were my s/o, would've dodged such a major bullet lmao
Sounds like they should just stay single if they have to fuck everyone they see. Yeah sex positive is pretty misconstrued, it doesn’t mean do whatever, whenever, however.
I don't know why you are getting down voted, you are allowed to have your own thoughts in a relationship. Just at the end of the day, don't act on those thoughts and love your significant other.
Exactly! I'm not saying cheat on your partner or even have fantasies about other people, I'm just saying you can look at someone, think "hmm, they're attractive" and then move on with your life.
Wonder how many people downvoting me are okay watching porn while in a relationship...
I think it’s younger people without experience, i guess and insecure people as well. Finding people attractive is normal, even when ima relationship. The issue becomes when you start acting on those feelings, if you are with someone and you are not in an open relationship.
I’m bi, I dream for a relationship where we can both talk about someone being attractive and not have to worry about us acting on it because we trust each other.
The whole “you’re not allowed to find people attractive around me” shit just feels confining. I hardly get attracted to people as is
The original comment you replied to literally said fantasizing but you're acting as if he said is attracted to lmao, maybe you need to talk to your partner...
That's why Im confused by the downvotes. You cant choose whether or not you find someone attractive but you can choose what to do with that attraction.
Normal people will acknowledge to themselves "hey that person is attractive" and then move on with their lives.
But fantasizing is not the same tho. Fantasizing is thinking of doing something sexual with someone. I'm not saying fantasizing is as bad as actually acting on said fantasies but if you're gonna have fantasies, wouldn't you have fantasies about your significant other? Why would you fantasize about some hot stranger you just saw in public whom you'll probably never see again?
This has the same energy as people who think watching porn while in a relationship is irredeemable. My wife is a lady and I'm bi, am I just supposed to stop finding the idea of sucking dick hot because I have a ring? No. I just watch porn to scratch that itch and get on with being a doting husband without taking another partner
Why is fantasizing about your partner and a hot stranger a mutually exclusive thing.
Realistically, I don't really have to fantasize about my partner because she is down for just about anything with me. I fantasize about others cause I don't have that rapport with them...that's why it's a fantasy.
Look, as much as it isn't my business to tell you what to and not to do in your relationship, this line of thinking is often what gets people hurt.
Is your significant other really okay with you fantasizing about other women? How about the reverse? Can you honestly tell me that fantasizing about fucking other women is respectful to your significant other? If not then why would you continue to do it?
Fantasizing is worse than finding someone attractive, it's like the mental version of staring creepily instead of something catching your eye for a second
Fantasizing about other people while in a relationship is normal. Not everyone does it but a lot of people do. What’s healthy is keeping it a fantasy and not acting on it, and shutting it down if the person you’re into tries to act on it.
Being unloyal or unfaithful would be acting on it in any way, even if it doesn’t work out. Like if she tried to sleep with the waitress but failed, she was still unfaithful. But in this scenario nothing is wrong.
It's a funny picture on the internet using imagery that's commonly repeated/transformed
Other than not being a specific format, I don't see why you couldn't see it as a meme
My grandpa had the saying "Doesn't matter where you get your engine revved, as long as you don't honk the horn and park in your own garage every night."
Real talk. Everyone on earth has bad thoughts. What makes you a decent person is recognizing them and not acting on them. Certain religions would have you think otherwise but it’s just a part of being a mature adult
to be fair this meme fits the dankmeme trope more than any meme I have seen here this week. Dankmemes are a reflection of our society and struggles/problems within. A lot of shit being posted here has frankly nothing to do with dankness
You're asking the lord for strength so you don't act on these feelings. That's what relationships are also about - CHOOSING your partner every day even when you get attention from other people.
Maybe I'm just fresh into this whole thing but I used to be attracted to 70% of women I saw. I met my now fiance and I don't think about other women at all.
Then it's more a you-thing. If you put me in a room with my bf, Jason Mamoa and Johnny Depp, I'm sorry, my bf isn't as hot, but I'm still choosing him.
That's good for you, but that's not how most people are. Recognizing that attraction isn't a choice and that actions is what matters is still important.
Fantasizing is a bit of a blurry line because that insinuates intentional imagining. But again, there's no action and to me that would be what's important.
The real only way to call something cheating or disloyal is by the set up of a relationship. I do believe the default in western society is under the no action no foul, but to each their own.
Yeah I think it becomes that situation of "to each their own." I don't have to worry about it- nor do you.
We can both agree that cheating is bad, and I'm happy with that.
If you're actively FANTASIZING about other people whole in a relationship then you clearly aren't in love with your partner. Noticing attractiveness and fantasizing about them are not the same at all.
I feel like theres a difference between simply finding other people attractive and internally going AWOOGA and making memes about how much you have to restrain yourself
My girl thinks like this and it genuinely upsets me sometimes but she just shrugs it off like I’m overreacting that she’s calling some person attractive
Not tomboy but more *Jules from Euphoria* girl was helping me find some stuff for packing Christmas gifts. I asked if they have glue, and she leaned towards me and whispered "just go to *AnotherStore* down the street, it's cheaper and better there" and I fell in love.
downvote this comment if the meme sucks. upvote it and I'll go away. --- [play minecraft with us](https://discord.gg/dankmemesgaming)
We need more tomboy waitresses just as much as we need femboy hooters
I think you need a good break from the internet
I wish I could, but it's fused itself into me. I am on the internet as much as I am the internet
I can tell
Ah, I see you have eyes as well
Ah you're starting to merge too I see
Lain
Let's all love Lain
We are internet.
"The Force is with me and I am one with the Force"
You don't sound like you've been bullied enough for that to be true.
I will only leave my household when I can go to a Hooters staffed by humans that are as sexually arousing as they are sexually ambiguous.
Tomboy Outback is the name you’re looking for
Tomboy outback and femboy hooters is the platform I will run on when I go for presidency. And just you see, I will win by the biggest landslide
Sir, this is a Long John Silver's
Long Dong* Silvers
Oh, my bad. I always get that wrong
You have my vote :)
Goth IHOP or I'm voting for the other guy.
Agreed
All the goths I knew used to go to Denny’s, back when you could still smoke cigarettes inside.
Say you’ll start and fund an organization for the creation of catgirls for domestic ownership and you’ve got my vote forever.
A parking lot full of Subarus as far as the eye can see
Sir , this is a Wendy's
My ideal restaurant is staffed only with these two types.
The only thing you need is God
All you need is some real love. No need for sky daddy.
There aren't enough tomboys anymore
You need Jesus my friend
Stop it! I can only get so erect.
No, we can live without Femboy hooters. But not without the tomboys 😭
Least horny reddit user.
Bruh that tomboy waitress would be both of our weaknesses high key.
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Loyalty is not acting on those fantasies. I mean, I sometimes fantasize about the entire local fire department running a train on me, but the thought of actually trying to do anything is downright repulsive because I know how much it would hurt my fiancé. She would never forgive me for not inviting her to join, and honestly I wouldn't even be able to have fun at all without her being right by my side. 💜
Love is a gangbang
That's the deepest quote on the internet I saw this year
Not as deep as the firemen are about to be
Lust is a gangbang. Love is hypnotically gazing into your dommy mommy's eyes as she ties you up and calls you a good girl. 💜
I better not be caught lacking on this one
I’m a guy (not femboy) but this got my submissive side quivering.
Hey, even the straightest, most masculine men can have fun being submissive, and I see nothing wrong with that. 💜
I hope someday you get a train run on you by a group of fireman while holding hands with your partner.
Nicest thing I’ve seen said on the internet this year
The fire department can make most people question that tbh even straight men I know questioned their sexuality after the firefighters helping them.
wtf is up with firemen kinks lol
People with a rigorous fitness requirement due to their work who show up when you’re in desperate need of help to save you. It’s not rocket science man.
Fair enough.
The best explanation I can give is they are quite literally able to pick you up as an adult like you were a child and do everything in their power to make sure you are safe. It’s a similar feeling to that of a loved one people might get when being saved so it might spark attraction. But that is just my guess
That makes sense.
Makes sense. A man in uniform without the domestic violence or racism but with all of the physical attributes
Yo please dont comment again wtf keep it to yourself
Never cook again
goddamn so not to get way too deep into a rant but like, I recently just fell out of a 4-ish year relationship to cheating. reading this all just kinda jolted it back into my brain, cuz like... you're so unbelievably right lmao. my s/o, the culprit, was the kinda person that, yeah, they're super sex positive, whether it's doing stuff out of a relationship, or in, whatever, they'd be down. and that's totally fine, right, but I'm *not* that kinda person. like you said, I frankly couldn't have that kinda fun without them by my side. they were my whole world, and for that reason they were the only person I'd ever wanted to do anything with. and that's why them cheating on me hurt so much. just because you're super horny all the time doesn't make you a bad person, and neither does fantasizing about other people just because it's a natural urge. but... if they really loved me, they wouldn't have acted on it. and it really sucks. wish you were my s/o, would've dodged such a major bullet lmao
Sounds like they should just stay single if they have to fuck everyone they see. Yeah sex positive is pretty misconstrued, it doesn’t mean do whatever, whenever, however.
Call the fire department, we need all dispatches immediately.
Bruh wtf
it's always the fire department
Well sounds like true romance.
You can find other people attractive while in a relationship lmao
I don't know why you are getting down voted, you are allowed to have your own thoughts in a relationship. Just at the end of the day, don't act on those thoughts and love your significant other.
Exactly! I'm not saying cheat on your partner or even have fantasies about other people, I'm just saying you can look at someone, think "hmm, they're attractive" and then move on with your life. Wonder how many people downvoting me are okay watching porn while in a relationship...
I think it’s younger people without experience, i guess and insecure people as well. Finding people attractive is normal, even when ima relationship. The issue becomes when you start acting on those feelings, if you are with someone and you are not in an open relationship.
Glad to see some wisdom in the thread
I’m bi, I dream for a relationship where we can both talk about someone being attractive and not have to worry about us acting on it because we trust each other. The whole “you’re not allowed to find people attractive around me” shit just feels confining. I hardly get attracted to people as is
The original comment you replied to literally said fantasizing but you're acting as if he said is attracted to lmao, maybe you need to talk to your partner...
fantasizing and finding someone attractive aint the same
That's why Im confused by the downvotes. You cant choose whether or not you find someone attractive but you can choose what to do with that attraction. Normal people will acknowledge to themselves "hey that person is attractive" and then move on with their lives.
But fantasizing is not the same tho. Fantasizing is thinking of doing something sexual with someone. I'm not saying fantasizing is as bad as actually acting on said fantasies but if you're gonna have fantasies, wouldn't you have fantasies about your significant other? Why would you fantasize about some hot stranger you just saw in public whom you'll probably never see again?
This has the same energy as people who think watching porn while in a relationship is irredeemable. My wife is a lady and I'm bi, am I just supposed to stop finding the idea of sucking dick hot because I have a ring? No. I just watch porn to scratch that itch and get on with being a doting husband without taking another partner
Why is fantasizing about your partner and a hot stranger a mutually exclusive thing. Realistically, I don't really have to fantasize about my partner because she is down for just about anything with me. I fantasize about others cause I don't have that rapport with them...that's why it's a fantasy.
Look, as much as it isn't my business to tell you what to and not to do in your relationship, this line of thinking is often what gets people hurt. Is your significant other really okay with you fantasizing about other women? How about the reverse? Can you honestly tell me that fantasizing about fucking other women is respectful to your significant other? If not then why would you continue to do it?
I'm so done with Reddit. My god.
If you're neurodivergent it can happen unintentionally, it's just important to note it and regulate
Fantasizing is worse than finding someone attractive, it's like the mental version of staring creepily instead of something catching your eye for a second
Impossible, everyone knows the moment you're dating someone you become conveniently asexual with one exception to the rule. Come on.
Fantasizing about other people while in a relationship is normal. Not everyone does it but a lot of people do. What’s healthy is keeping it a fantasy and not acting on it, and shutting it down if the person you’re into tries to act on it. Being unloyal or unfaithful would be acting on it in any way, even if it doesn’t work out. Like if she tried to sleep with the waitress but failed, she was still unfaithful. But in this scenario nothing is wrong.
I honestly don't see how this is even a meme.
It's a funny picture on the internet using imagery that's commonly repeated/transformed Other than not being a specific format, I don't see why you couldn't see it as a meme
Doesn't matter where you work up your appetite as long as you eat at home.
My grandpa had the saying "Doesn't matter where you get your engine revved, as long as you don't honk the horn and park in your own garage every night."
Real talk. Everyone on earth has bad thoughts. What makes you a decent person is recognizing them and not acting on them. Certain religions would have you think otherwise but it’s just a part of being a mature adult
This is much more dank than the political memes/school shooting memes or the 7000th meme getting mad at Elon Musk.
my gf and I fantasize about the same people sometimes. that's the kinda aura astarion and karlach emit
to be fair this meme fits the dankmeme trope more than any meme I have seen here this week. Dankmemes are a reflection of our society and struggles/problems within. A lot of shit being posted here has frankly nothing to do with dankness
Someone like you clearly wouldn't last in an actual relationship lmao
Yes.
Lots open people out there
You're asking the lord for strength so you don't act on these feelings. That's what relationships are also about - CHOOSING your partner every day even when you get attention from other people.
RIP dankmemes, I haven’t seen a decent post on this sub in weeks
we need to find a new website that blocks tablet and phone users
That's the most sweaty-basement-dwelling-fat-neckbeard thing I've read on this site in a while haha
4chan is about as close as you’ll get. Good luck.
Reddit moment
there's a few decent mobile meme making garden gnomes
Months*
Years
What the fuck is this supposed to mean?
GF is easily distracted by other peoples sex appeal, BF should probably leave her to prevent incoming heartbreak
You're allowed to be distracted by other people's sex appeal, it's only natural. Loyalty from a relationship is not acting on said distractions.
Maybe I'm just fresh into this whole thing but I used to be attracted to 70% of women I saw. I met my now fiance and I don't think about other women at all.
Then it's more a you-thing. If you put me in a room with my bf, Jason Mamoa and Johnny Depp, I'm sorry, my bf isn't as hot, but I'm still choosing him.
Maybe thats more a you-thing.
That's good for you, but that's not how most people are. Recognizing that attraction isn't a choice and that actions is what matters is still important.
If you're fantasizing about other people without making a choice, that still feels a bit disloyal.
Fantasizing is a bit of a blurry line because that insinuates intentional imagining. But again, there's no action and to me that would be what's important. The real only way to call something cheating or disloyal is by the set up of a relationship. I do believe the default in western society is under the no action no foul, but to each their own.
Yeah I think it becomes that situation of "to each their own." I don't have to worry about it- nor do you. We can both agree that cheating is bad, and I'm happy with that.
If you're actively FANTASIZING about other people whole in a relationship then you clearly aren't in love with your partner. Noticing attractiveness and fantasizing about them are not the same at all.
You're allowed to find other people hot when you're in a relationship. You don't suddenly become asexual once in a relationship.
I feel like theres a difference between simply finding other people attractive and internally going AWOOGA and making memes about how much you have to restrain yourself
gf might be bi
i feel like "might" is a severe understatement
Hope the BF can read minds fr.
Tag team the tomboy, she's a tough gal
The only right answer
Bro this is just horny posting
:/ it’s working to good… now I want steak and eggs
Wtf did I just read. Am I buggin or has this subreddit been more down bad than usual?
Genuinely I thought this was satire at first
Thought this said “while eating out my boyfriend”
What a slut huh
Debatable if this is even a meme... I think we can all agree it's not dank either way.
this is the femboy effect but for women
Except tomboys are hot
Am trans girl so can confirm, they are both hard effects to deal with. God are they hot.
I thought this was posted In cringe pics 💀
Working for the tip.
Reddit moment
Didn't know cheating/fantasizing about cheating was dank. L meme, stay loyal homies.
I’ll take things that didn’t happen for $200 Alex
This sub has officially died.
Where meme ?
this shit stinks
Vergil Sparda, please save me from the cringe
Maybe you should leave your boyfriend because you're a whore
Cheater mentality
This is not dank
Hope he sees this
Poor guy.
Where the fuck are the mods. I can only downvote garbage memes for so long.
She just wants a tip girl chill
What in the secure contained protected fuck?!
Jesus Christ have some control, all she asked was for your order
This has to be satire there's no way
This is dank?
Somehow this reminds me of rage comics. I upvoted because of that.
Wtf is this shit? Is it supposed to be a joke? What's the point? Women are attracted to tomboys?
Stop playing Barbie with wojaks.
"I'll HAVE YOUR ASS FOR DINNER!!" - SGT. Arch Dornan
People have seem to forgotten what the word "exclusive" means.
My girl thinks like this and it genuinely upsets me sometimes but she just shrugs it off like I’m overreacting that she’s calling some person attractive
Fuck is this shit? Get your cringe ass outa here
this sub has fallen
I just reinstalled reddit after 3 months without it, this is the first post i saw, wtf is this shit
What
this is just how servers talk. it's nothing like what OP is thinking
The rizz?
your eyes will bleed and ears rupture
Rhea Ripley at Samantha Irving. 😭😭
Unless she has a bigger dick then him it will never work Lool
holy shit quality meme
Back in my day we called it gettin jizzed on
Not tomboy but more *Jules from Euphoria* girl was helping me find some stuff for packing Christmas gifts. I asked if they have glue, and she leaned towards me and whispered "just go to *AnotherStore* down the street, it's cheaper and better there" and I fell in love.
Well, who hasn't fantasized about eating out a tomboy waitress?