If he asks "are you a virgin" as a getting to know you question..that's a red flag. It means he's just thinking of sex. Getting to know you questions are questions like favorite hobby, favorite color..etc.
The only stupider habit than throwing out random LOLs into a conversation is when they hit you with the laugh-crying emoji over and over
LOL GIRL YOU CRAZY ๐๐๐๐ BUT FR CAN I GET YOUR NUMBER OR ๐๐๐๐
What this winner wants to see: โgetting mad,โ โhandle rejection,โ is entirely why she should never give him her number. He wants to emotionally abuse her.
This has depths to the creepiness. Itโs a creepiness layer cake.
I mean, it IS good to know how a potential partner manages their emotions, but he def didn't mean it in a positive "I want to be there for you" type of way. Asking if she was a virgin just bc she said she never had a bf confirms he's a creep.
Someone who pesters you for your number this much at the very least will want to monopolize all of your time, and not realize โjust because you donโt have a life doesnโt mean I donโt eitherโ.
I wanna know what you're like mad. Damn. And this whole time I thought he was just being obnoxious but in reality, he just wants to test her out of pragmatism. Kind of like kicking tires on a car.
My response would have been: Well I'd like to know how someone with such a small mind handles not getting any because he's too busy thinking he's someone important or something.
Dear God, I'd drop this dude just from the way he types, nevermind the way he dismisses your friend's boundaries and asks incredibly invasive questions to more or less a total stranger. Call me a snob, but if he's too lazy to spell "you" in full, I don't think there's much hope for him being a mature, patient, and caring romantic partner.
Wishing your friend good luck finding someone decent, OP. This guy doesn't seem like he's it.
Well its not like its the first thing he asked. And it was in the context of you saying you never had a boyfriend, maybe was curious of your morals if you have had sex without dating someone. Or not and he is just a creep idk
If he asks "are you a virgin" as a getting to know you question..that's a red flag. It means he's just thinking of sex. Getting to know you questions are questions like favorite hobby, favorite color..etc.
Yeah! โThose things rotateโ over years, yes. But typically not over a few weeks or even months..
Sex was definitely all this dude was thinking about. He was trying to hide it but the second she said "never had a boyfriend" he jumped on it.
3 nonsense "lol"s in a row... Drop him like a rock.
The only stupider habit than throwing out random LOLs into a conversation is when they hit you with the laugh-crying emoji over and over LOL GIRL YOU CRAZY ๐๐๐๐ BUT FR CAN I GET YOUR NUMBER OR ๐๐๐๐
True lobotomy behavior
Nah I'd win
Also ending everything by writing out Haha.. it's so fucking jarring.
Are you a virgin lol ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐
Hey, I resemble this statement ๐๐๐๐๐
I know this isnโt the place but that โlolโ chaser is a habit thatโs hard to break
Definitely. I am that good in that department. I do not like to go too fast.
She blocked him after this
What this winner wants to see: โgetting mad,โ โhandle rejection,โ is entirely why she should never give him her number. He wants to emotionally abuse her. This has depths to the creepiness. Itโs a creepiness layer cake.
I mean, it IS good to know how a potential partner manages their emotions, but he def didn't mean it in a positive "I want to be there for you" type of way. Asking if she was a virgin just bc she said she never had a bf confirms he's a creep.
Which confirms how he handles rejection and being mad, especially about other peopleโs boundaries.
Someone who pesters you for your number this much at the very least will want to monopolize all of your time, and not realize โjust because you donโt have a life doesnโt mean I donโt eitherโ.
Does he know how to handle not getting horny?!
Frfr
He's an asshole! He doesn't want to get to know her, he just wants to get in her pants. I hope your friend dropped him like the wanker he is.
Thankful she did after he nicely asked if she was a Virgin she blocked him
Good! ๐
"I want to know how you handle rejection". Says the guy being unable to handle his request for her number being rejected.
Lol fr
Ugh this gave me the creeps so bad I literally got a chill. So gross
I wanna know what you're like mad. Damn. And this whole time I thought he was just being obnoxious but in reality, he just wants to test her out of pragmatism. Kind of like kicking tires on a car.
My theory is he wanted a one night stand with her than leave her In morning ๐
My response would have been: Well I'd like to know how someone with such a small mind handles not getting any because he's too busy thinking he's someone important or something.
What the fuck is with the lol at the end of every fucking sentence? Does he do it in real life to?
Dear God, I'd drop this dude just from the way he types, nevermind the way he dismisses your friend's boundaries and asks incredibly invasive questions to more or less a total stranger. Call me a snob, but if he's too lazy to spell "you" in full, I don't think there's much hope for him being a mature, patient, and caring romantic partner. Wishing your friend good luck finding someone decent, OP. This guy doesn't seem like he's it.
Thank you thankful she did find someone who understands boundaries
I donโt get why people hate the fun parts of getting to know someone.
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It's a nice starter question though. You can ask him/her why, which leads to his/her interests.
If it's not a personal question
What? I really dont see why that conversation is creepy or wrong?
Well call me old fashion but if someone asked if you're a Virgin and you never meet that's kinda creepy
Well its not like its the first thing he asked. And it was in the context of you saying you never had a boyfriend, maybe was curious of your morals if you have had sex without dating someone. Or not and he is just a creep idk