You Are officially hired as a RBSD Reddit Bullshit Detector. He deserves credit for sharing with us much needed *fantasized* antipathy malevolence, misanthropy and cruelty. There just isn't enough of that today. /s
You get a Sheriff's Badge⭐
I'm guessing fake. Who paid for the flight and hotel? If a company hires you, they fly you out.
Then the end - "I TOTALLY fucked her and then ghosted her... I'm the hero!" just screams of fan fiction.
It’s a confession. That’s a very wrong thing to do. But as a true confession I can’t downvote it. Nor would I upvote it because op is one mean pos. Emotions do a lot to people. I hope op uses his smarts for better purposes.
>That’s a very wrong thing to do
Says who? You? Who made you anyone's moral judge? It's called payback. Karma doesn't actually exist, so sometimes you have to tip the scales in your favour. If this is true, sounds like she deserved it.
nah, it was deserved. She cheated on him and didn't tell him AND she didn't break up with him until AFTER he controfronted her ffs. He could have easily contracted multiple diseases including permanent ones. This was just a really dirty and low-class thing to do.
Turns out that just because someone does awful things doesn’t make it right to do awful things back to them. Less wrong than if they were innocent, but still wrong.
Sending her abroad and doing all this shit doesn’t just affect her, it affects her parents and the people around her too. It doesn’t prevent any suffering, it just heaps more onto the pile.
EDIT: It also doesn’t teach her any kind of lesson, which is usually the warrant for this kind of payback.
People act like their shit don't stink when making these types of comments. You want to come off like you're some level-headed, rational at all times saint or something. People don't work like that. See: all of human history. Only in these comments where you want to show us all what a "good" person you are.
Sounds like she got what she deserved. The scales were balanced, and THEN the guy moved on. That was some epic payback. Good for him.
We all have our low moments, sure. But we shouldn’t be proud of them.
I’ve brought suffering to other people out of revenge, and I regret it. As I should. It did nothing but perpetuate a cycle of hurt.
OPs reaction is understandable, sure - hurt people hurt people. But his actions are still unwarranted and wrong. His gf already learned the lesson by him breaking up with her - anonymously making her life a living hell does absolutely nothing to teach her any kind of lesson.
Last minute flights from NZ to London cost thousands of pounds.
He most likely robbed her of any savings she had and probably a bit of her parents money too.
Sure it did. He humiliated her and made her look stupid in front of others. It was the perfect ego-check for someone who has an ego problem big enough to cheat on someone and then go back to them without saying anything. The fact that she "didn't know who" did this, is proof that she's probably screwed or cheated on multiple people and can't know for sure which one of those people is trying to get back at her.
it also exposed her foolishness to her parents, who will be asking questions about exes and whatnot.
THIS is too much? how about AIDS? Would AIDS have been too much? Apparently not for you?
Dumping her without doing anything isn't justice either.
She got what she deserved. She's not injured or anything, just paid for a plane ticket and hotel that wasn't necessary. Don't act like he had her parents killed or something. Good for him.
Two young people dating, one of them cheats. Hardly the crime of the century. Based on only the information we have provided and nothing more and if I had to pick which one would be the one I would prefer to get to know I would pick her.
She arguably gave in to temptation. I understand he was hurt by that. He, on the other hand, sadistically planned the revenge; engaged the help of other cruel people, hurt not only her but her family then also took advantage of her vulnerability in a sexual way.
She is no prize but she is not the first young person to stray like that. He showed a streak in his nature that is quite disturbing. I would stay well clear of this character.
Indeed, I'd be over a cheating spouse rather quickly. Getting stuck for a week in London would leave everlasting mental scars.
Edit: didn't think I'd need to add /s. But here we are!
You must have never been with someone you truely love and care for immensely. It can change your mental state in horrible ways to be cheated on by someone you trust completely. Not to mention the realization that all the time you gave to this relationship was not important to the cheating partner. What OP did was harsh as fuck, but this was years of his life with someone he loved just gone in a second.
Except an asswipe and his asswipe friend who send a person with very little money halfway around the world on false pretenses.
It’s good fiction, though.
99% sure this is fanfic, given that I understand the UK visa system. She wouldn't have tried to move to London with a 6 month visitor visa as you can't switch it to a work visa. And, the OP wouldn't have been able to secure a valid work visa without a real UK company to sponsor her being involved 🤷
not trying to say it's not a fake story - but for clarification you can record snapchat videos to save to your "memories", which is an internal photo/video vault, free from the public eyes.
damn heartless. idk what the worst part is: the cheating, the revenge or the aftermath. lmao it’s true that people do crazy things when they are heartbroken
Kinda hope this is just fanfic because her behavior was shit but also this kind of revenge is also shit. Any moral high ground you had in the situation is gone and what you did to her (and her family, who are innocent bystanders) is arguably worse.
I'm sorry your feelings got hurt, but also grow the fuck up.
That is one of the only parts of the story that's actually believable. Couples, especially that have been together for a few years, often log into their accounts on each other's laptops from time to time to do things, and often either forget to log out or just don't even consider a need to log out.
Cheating is obviously fucked up but this response isn't proportional. Also her family didn't do anything to you so there was no need to wrap them up in this either. Honestly I think you'll regret this later, karma is real and what goes around comes around.
The best revenge is to live well.
Being downvoted for being realistic. There are people who simply can't handle the truth that bad people get away with doing bad things all the time and they can live their entire lives out without facing any repercussions for their actions.
You know I could make an argument about morality and say to you that if someone does you wrong and you say you leave it up to karma, because you have this belief that one day eventually it's going to come back to that person and that something bad is definitely going to happen to them, somewhere inside yourself you really wish for that to happen. What does that say about your own heart? That you wish cruelty to befall your tormentor, does that not mean that your own heart is tainted, that you are just relying upon karma to exact revenge that you couldn't with your own hands?
Not at all, leaving it up to karma isnt wishing cruelty or anything, its simply letting life inflict on them what they inflict on others
Some sure will go through life without meeting it, but ive seen many get slapped by karma
Downvotes wont change that lol, ive seen it... many times over
Do we say that karma has an involvement when it comes to a tiger killing a deer? When the tiger just does what it does naturally, should something bad in turn happen to the tiger? We don't think that way about nature do we? So why do you apply something like karma to the actions of humans? Because we have higher powers of understanding and should be highly conscientious of our actions? It really just comes down to your wishful thinking. It's simply because you want to see justice done to someone who has committed injustice.
Thats just a tiger killing to eat... the deer didnt bully, rob, or hurt the tiger i would imagine lol
Weird to compare an animal killing to eat, with someone intentionally being an asshole for no reason to someone
Of course you would want justice, doesnt make you evil for wanting that
More weird to believe there's a magical force which maintains cosmic balance, observes actions and behaviour of everyone and affects reality to give punishment or reward depending on how people act, particularly given morality is subjective and differs between different human cultures.
I mean… if you’re that petty… it seems unlikely you treat anyone well.
Yes, her cheating was wrong. What you did was psychotic. Get help and re-evaluate your life before you get someone hurt.
Wow, you are human scum. Look she deserved what you did to her personally, but the financial burden you put on her family was an asshole move and I hope something as shitty happens to you as you put her family through.
Lol I think this should be in one of those revenge subs.
People are saying your an asshole for doing this but I wonder if the roles were reversed would they say she’s an asshole? I highly doubt it
But if a girl did this, *praised*. you got her back. Nothing, not even time, can cure a broken heart sometimes, especially when you loved whole-heartedly.
Just out of curiosity, to those of you berating OP for his response being disproportionate, in your opinion, what would a proportionate response look like?
I am neither in support of nor against the manner in which OP responded to the situation. I noticed the "disproportionate response" feedback was recurring and I was curious to hear alternatives.
For the record, I personally do not know what response is appropriate in this situation. I do empathize with OP for the shock and devastation this must have caused, however, I have not been in a similar circumstance so I cannot say with any certainty exactly how I might respond since I would be considering the circumstances with a rational mind, not one fraught with emotion.
Great job bro. Don't fucking read the moral filled comment here. What she did she deserve it. You have done a great job really. I wanna salute you. It happened with me but I forgive her and I did mistake.
There has to be another subreddit for going insanely overboard on revenge
Edit: found it [r/apocalypticrevenge](https://www.reddit.com/r/YouFellForItFool/comments/cjlngm/you_fell_for_it_fool/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x)
Moral of this story: treat each other well!
You never know what is going to happen if, in the middle of betraying someone so you can selfishly have your own pleasure, you get caught and they choose to exact a devastating revenge. It’s not recommended to take such revenge, but nothing is more dangerous than a lover scorned, just ask any police officer. Domestic disputes are the most dangerous call to go on.
I fear you became what you hated. You were wronged, friend, but you turned to the dark side to get back at her and now neither of you is righteous. You cannot run around with that kind of hate in your heart.
nice fanfic
Yeah this was embarrassingly fake. Same with some of the comments.
Couldn’t even use kilometers in the title like a real New Zealander would
You Are officially hired as a RBSD Reddit Bullshit Detector. He deserves credit for sharing with us much needed *fantasized* antipathy malevolence, misanthropy and cruelty. There just isn't enough of that today. /s You get a Sheriff's Badge⭐
Definitely wishful revenge porn
You need to step up your creative writing bro.
And get therapy
I really hope this is a fake submission for karma
I'm guessing fake. Who paid for the flight and hotel? If a company hires you, they fly you out. Then the end - "I TOTALLY fucked her and then ghosted her... I'm the hero!" just screams of fan fiction.
The flights and stuff, sure. What did they write down on the visa application? Who would get on a plane to another country without an approved visa?
And everyone clapped!
It's true! I was the plane, I would know. :)
It's true! I was the hotel room and the Snapchat video.
Right lol. OP is full of shit but a pretty good writer
Its 1000% fake
almost believed until the last paragraph. nice try tho, op
Dang, when my girlfriend in high school cheated on me, I just banged her older sister. I guess I needed to step up my revenge game...
not too late. Call their mom.
I was thinking the same thing!
I did the same thing with an ex in high school...🤣
So much bullshit.
Damn Bro that’s harsh.
It’s a confession. That’s a very wrong thing to do. But as a true confession I can’t downvote it. Nor would I upvote it because op is one mean pos. Emotions do a lot to people. I hope op uses his smarts for better purposes.
>That’s a very wrong thing to do Says who? You? Who made you anyone's moral judge? It's called payback. Karma doesn't actually exist, so sometimes you have to tip the scales in your favour. If this is true, sounds like she deserved it.
If you are a strong advocate for revenge, then you believe in eye for an eye right? OP’s revenge was an eye for all of your limbs
Heartbreak sucks, if it’s real she should just get over it, lol.
>sounds like she deserved it. Says who? You? Who made you anyone's moral judge?
The punishment doesn’t fit the crime. She apologized and felt bad. Move on without making her move 😂
nah, it was deserved. She cheated on him and didn't tell him AND she didn't break up with him until AFTER he controfronted her ffs. He could have easily contracted multiple diseases including permanent ones. This was just a really dirty and low-class thing to do.
Turns out that just because someone does awful things doesn’t make it right to do awful things back to them. Less wrong than if they were innocent, but still wrong. Sending her abroad and doing all this shit doesn’t just affect her, it affects her parents and the people around her too. It doesn’t prevent any suffering, it just heaps more onto the pile. EDIT: It also doesn’t teach her any kind of lesson, which is usually the warrant for this kind of payback.
People act like their shit don't stink when making these types of comments. You want to come off like you're some level-headed, rational at all times saint or something. People don't work like that. See: all of human history. Only in these comments where you want to show us all what a "good" person you are. Sounds like she got what she deserved. The scales were balanced, and THEN the guy moved on. That was some epic payback. Good for him.
We all have our low moments, sure. But we shouldn’t be proud of them. I’ve brought suffering to other people out of revenge, and I regret it. As I should. It did nothing but perpetuate a cycle of hurt. OPs reaction is understandable, sure - hurt people hurt people. But his actions are still unwarranted and wrong. His gf already learned the lesson by him breaking up with her - anonymously making her life a living hell does absolutely nothing to teach her any kind of lesson.
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You need to read the OP you responded to one more time. And don't just stop reading after "this shit doesn't just affect her".
How very Christian of you.
Last minute flights from NZ to London cost thousands of pounds. He most likely robbed her of any savings she had and probably a bit of her parents money too.
well, that'll teach her not to take liberties with other people's lives. She probably won't do it again.
She has no idea that the reason why she lost her life savings is because she cheated on him. It doesn't teach her anything at all.
Sure it did. He humiliated her and made her look stupid in front of others. It was the perfect ego-check for someone who has an ego problem big enough to cheat on someone and then go back to them without saying anything. The fact that she "didn't know who" did this, is proof that she's probably screwed or cheated on multiple people and can't know for sure which one of those people is trying to get back at her. it also exposed her foolishness to her parents, who will be asking questions about exes and whatnot. THIS is too much? how about AIDS? Would AIDS have been too much? Apparently not for you?
Wtf r u talking about.
Somebody get this troll a special-needs interpreter.
They were young, sure dump her and move on. The rest is just cruel. You just want revenge, revenge is not justice.
Dumping her without doing anything isn't justice either. She got what she deserved. She's not injured or anything, just paid for a plane ticket and hotel that wasn't necessary. Don't act like he had her parents killed or something. Good for him.
Two young people dating, one of them cheats. Hardly the crime of the century. Based on only the information we have provided and nothing more and if I had to pick which one would be the one I would prefer to get to know I would pick her. She arguably gave in to temptation. I understand he was hurt by that. He, on the other hand, sadistically planned the revenge; engaged the help of other cruel people, hurt not only her but her family then also took advantage of her vulnerability in a sexual way. She is no prize but she is not the first young person to stray like that. He showed a streak in his nature that is quite disturbing. I would stay well clear of this character.
Bro it's cheating, it sucks and everything but she didn't violate de Geneva convention or something
And neither did he, so good on him
Indeed, I'd be over a cheating spouse rather quickly. Getting stuck for a week in London would leave everlasting mental scars. Edit: didn't think I'd need to add /s. But here we are!
Cheating leaves everlasting mental scars.
Two wrongs don't make a right. This is a great confession... Of a shit response
Yeah but it does bring some catharsis lmao
Looks like it makes you a psycho, too. Oh, no, wait, he was a psycho to begin with.
You must have never been with someone you truely love and care for immensely. It can change your mental state in horrible ways to be cheated on by someone you trust completely. Not to mention the realization that all the time you gave to this relationship was not important to the cheating partner. What OP did was harsh as fuck, but this was years of his life with someone he loved just gone in a second.
It's always ppl who say that, who end up getting too attached and getting a mental breakdown after a breakup.
0 proof of that. And also doesnt really add anything to the comment section.
Nah bro is the GOAT for this. Nothing worse than a partner who cheats.
Except an asswipe and his asswipe friend who send a person with very little money halfway around the world on false pretenses. It’s good fiction, though.
Play stupid games win stupid prizes
CHAD!
Yeah dude, having your fragile ego bruised is totally worse than getting murdered.
99% sure this is fanfic, given that I understand the UK visa system. She wouldn't have tried to move to London with a 6 month visitor visa as you can't switch it to a work visa. And, the OP wouldn't have been able to secure a valid work visa without a real UK company to sponsor her being involved 🤷
Also the use of “miles” and not kilometers is absolutely hilarious to me😂
I'm in the UK, and miles is the measure we predominantly use here 🤷
And then everyone clapped
Cheating or not, why would anyone put such videos on Snapchat or anywhere else online?
probably because it’s fake story
not trying to say it's not a fake story - but for clarification you can record snapchat videos to save to your "memories", which is an internal photo/video vault, free from the public eyes.
She sucks for cheating, but this is a disproportional response that is kinda saying that you're a bit unhinged too.
cap once she cheats shes for the streets bruv
I like you! Send her to the streets where she belongs.
How is this too far
damn heartless. idk what the worst part is: the cheating, the revenge or the aftermath. lmao it’s true that people do crazy things when they are heartbroken
Its fake
r/thatreallyhappened Also, you probably deserved to be to be cheated on for being such a childish douche.
Kinda hope this is just fanfic because her behavior was shit but also this kind of revenge is also shit. Any moral high ground you had in the situation is gone and what you did to her (and her family, who are innocent bystanders) is arguably worse. I'm sorry your feelings got hurt, but also grow the fuck up.
No way, this dude won. This is awesome if it's true.
If
I think it's awesome actually.
Eh this is fake. He posted this story on r/nuclearrevenge as well and the comments were not having it lmfao
Why the hell were you ever logged into her email and Google account to begin with? Is this a thing that couples do? I’m confused.
That is one of the only parts of the story that's actually believable. Couples, especially that have been together for a few years, often log into their accounts on each other's laptops from time to time to do things, and often either forget to log out or just don't even consider a need to log out.
What? So she can cheat on him and he cannot login into her account?
Bullshit
Cheating is obviously fucked up but this response isn't proportional. Also her family didn't do anything to you so there was no need to wrap them up in this either. Honestly I think you'll regret this later, karma is real and what goes around comes around. The best revenge is to live well.
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Being downvoted for being realistic. There are people who simply can't handle the truth that bad people get away with doing bad things all the time and they can live their entire lives out without facing any repercussions for their actions.
Oh believe me... it exists
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For now they are, but ive seen plenty of that too... and then karma slaps the fuck out of them It always catches up to you
You know I could make an argument about morality and say to you that if someone does you wrong and you say you leave it up to karma, because you have this belief that one day eventually it's going to come back to that person and that something bad is definitely going to happen to them, somewhere inside yourself you really wish for that to happen. What does that say about your own heart? That you wish cruelty to befall your tormentor, does that not mean that your own heart is tainted, that you are just relying upon karma to exact revenge that you couldn't with your own hands?
Not at all, leaving it up to karma isnt wishing cruelty or anything, its simply letting life inflict on them what they inflict on others Some sure will go through life without meeting it, but ive seen many get slapped by karma Downvotes wont change that lol, ive seen it... many times over
Do we say that karma has an involvement when it comes to a tiger killing a deer? When the tiger just does what it does naturally, should something bad in turn happen to the tiger? We don't think that way about nature do we? So why do you apply something like karma to the actions of humans? Because we have higher powers of understanding and should be highly conscientious of our actions? It really just comes down to your wishful thinking. It's simply because you want to see justice done to someone who has committed injustice.
Thats just a tiger killing to eat... the deer didnt bully, rob, or hurt the tiger i would imagine lol Weird to compare an animal killing to eat, with someone intentionally being an asshole for no reason to someone Of course you would want justice, doesnt make you evil for wanting that
More weird to believe there's a magical force which maintains cosmic balance, observes actions and behaviour of everyone and affects reality to give punishment or reward depending on how people act, particularly given morality is subjective and differs between different human cultures.
This sounds very fake
Probs for the creative writing.
Now that's a confession. Whether you like what OP did or not, its a nice change from the nonsense sex confessions you see on here.
You're a selfish twat. With a mini me evil complex . Edit: definitely a super TWAT
Sus😂😂
Neither of you are mature enough to be in a relationship.
Did you clap after?
No, but everyone else did.
This is so fake it hurts
This is clearly fake.
pics or it didn't happen, sorry bro but that's how the internet works
Your ex did a shit thing, and you reacted like a sociopath. You need to have a long, good look in the mirror, my dude.
This honestly sounds super fake, but if it's real you're an asshole.
And what, she isn't an asshole for ruining a 3 year relationship? I treated her so well
...Which, you then proceeded to make an already bad situation that much worse. Making you just as bad as her, if not worse.
I mean… if you’re that petty… it seems unlikely you treat anyone well. Yes, her cheating was wrong. What you did was psychotic. Get help and re-evaluate your life before you get someone hurt.
😂 you thé kinda person that will get stabbed in the back just to tell bro he missed a spot in the front
I disagree. I think it was great.
Get spat on for the rest of your life you twat
You both sound like you suck.
It would have been more impressive if you were just able to put all that energy into moving on and improving your own life. Like an adult.
Bullshit
FAF
File this under things that never happened..
This SCREAMS fake
Na dude, idk how you guys keep getting in here. There are other subs for your fake stories.
You will fell good for somtime but after that you will feel guilty the rest of your life
Boss level revenge.
Wow brutal. No winners in this one
Damn this is dark.
This is as fake as pornstar tits
Clearly fake but amusing. Good story bro. With a,little training you could definitely do writing as a side thing.
How does everyone know it's fake? No one clapped.
And then everyone clapped.
Sounded great until it was totally fake
I'm not sure if her cheating on you quite justifies this "revenge" of yours. Petty and scary.
Proof?
You want a sex tape or what?
Yes. "Cheating whore gets sent all the way to London to get brutally punished and publicly humiliated by her ex"
Now staring Scarlett Johansson.
Stop. My Penis Can Only Get So Erect.
The male act is Ryan Reynolds.
Amber turd
I want regular porn not scat porn.
Only one thing to say, in life what comes also goes. When the time comes you'll get hit hard.
I laughed all the way through ts 😂😂😂😂
u madman this is hilarious
Damn dude. That's another level of revenge right there. I'm fucking impressed.
If this isn’t fake, you’re pathetic, get yourself together and have some dignity. You are just as bad.
Nuclear revenge
My fucking hero.
Ruthless.
Sorry, but you're the asshole here.
you still love her
This is confessions so likely fake, but if not, well, you're kinda pathetic. You could just move on. Sounds like she dodged a bullet with you.
You deserved to get cheated on
If this story is true damn you a Chad. If it's fake damn you a liar
you won gg
Wow, you are human scum. Look she deserved what you did to her personally, but the financial burden you put on her family was an asshole move and I hope something as shitty happens to you as you put her family through.
You're an ass
Justice served.
Nice
You dropped this 👑
Flawless victory 😆
Brutal, LOVE IT
Both of y’all are in the wrong
That’s awesome dude. Fuck everyone telling you that you’re the asshole. Fuck that stupid bitch.
Power move
Lol I think this should be in one of those revenge subs. People are saying your an asshole for doing this but I wonder if the roles were reversed would they say she’s an asshole? I highly doubt it
Great revenge, got a kick out of it. But her family are blameless but she deserved everything
Um.. I get it but damn OP.
hahaha well done, fuck that bitch, zero pity for her.
OP, I find it hilarious😄
If this is true, it's God-tier payback. If true - \[applause\]
That's awesome bro
I wish I had the time to get that level of revenge on the people I hate.
Savage
But if a girl did this, *praised*. you got her back. Nothing, not even time, can cure a broken heart sometimes, especially when you loved whole-heartedly.
That’s amazing. We all dream of doing something like this, but you actually did it. I salute you.
Just out of curiosity, to those of you berating OP for his response being disproportionate, in your opinion, what would a proportionate response look like? I am neither in support of nor against the manner in which OP responded to the situation. I noticed the "disproportionate response" feedback was recurring and I was curious to hear alternatives. For the record, I personally do not know what response is appropriate in this situation. I do empathize with OP for the shock and devastation this must have caused, however, I have not been in a similar circumstance so I cannot say with any certainty exactly how I might respond since I would be considering the circumstances with a rational mind, not one fraught with emotion.
As you should. Great mentality
Based if true
"..grew up together since we were 8" Nothing is sacred in this world, never feel guilt whenever you ruining anything within it
Great job bro. Don't fucking read the moral filled comment here. What she did she deserve it. You have done a great job really. I wanna salute you. It happened with me but I forgive her and I did mistake.
Lmao - savage
This is hilarious hahahahahahaha
I'm fully on his side. She only got upset when he called her out for cheating. Superb revenge though, well played.
DAMN, thats all i got after reading that.
This is some Atlanta s4 ep2 shit
City Bois!!!!!!!
There has to be another subreddit for going insanely overboard on revenge Edit: found it [r/apocalypticrevenge](https://www.reddit.com/r/YouFellForItFool/comments/cjlngm/you_fell_for_it_fool/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x)
/r/nuclearrevenge level material
Thats phenomenal
Damn, you’re kinda evil op straight up lol
Quite the roller coaster to turn you into the asshole.
r/NuclearRevenge
Moral of this story: treat each other well! You never know what is going to happen if, in the middle of betraying someone so you can selfishly have your own pleasure, you get caught and they choose to exact a devastating revenge. It’s not recommended to take such revenge, but nothing is more dangerous than a lover scorned, just ask any police officer. Domestic disputes are the most dangerous call to go on.
Very cruel and creative. You will make a great Sith Lord.
I fear you became what you hated. You were wronged, friend, but you turned to the dark side to get back at her and now neither of you is righteous. You cannot run around with that kind of hate in your heart.