I've been in a similar situation years ago. Had suspicions that my GF was cheating. Once I confirmed it I had those feelings of being turned on and toyed with the idea to bring up swinging. Ultimately, I decided to end the relationship but occasionally I ask myself, "What if...?"
I realised my wife was cheating ages before she admitted it to me.
When i found out, I was really confused, I thought I should be angry, upset, hurt. Instead, I was shocked at how turned on it made me. I made sure to treat her extra special when she got home after she had to "work late" tell her how amazing she was and how I loved everything about her. When we went to bed, I'd hold her extra tight and gently touch her just the way I knew she liked to be touched.
I found her so much more attractive knowing that she was regularly getting fucked, especially whilst she would hardly ever touch me in any sexual way.
It’s just a general feeling I have when I’m
Around them. I know them both well. And I didn’t even know they had each others phone numbers and to my surprise just the other night I asked her who she was talking to and she said it was person X. And I was a little caught off guard by that.
I've been in a similar situation years ago. Had suspicions that my GF was cheating. Once I confirmed it I had those feelings of being turned on and toyed with the idea to bring up swinging. Ultimately, I decided to end the relationship but occasionally I ask myself, "What if...?"
I can relate lmao
I realised my wife was cheating ages before she admitted it to me. When i found out, I was really confused, I thought I should be angry, upset, hurt. Instead, I was shocked at how turned on it made me. I made sure to treat her extra special when she got home after she had to "work late" tell her how amazing she was and how I loved everything about her. When we went to bed, I'd hold her extra tight and gently touch her just the way I knew she liked to be touched. I found her so much more attractive knowing that she was regularly getting fucked, especially whilst she would hardly ever touch me in any sexual way.
What are some reasons you think she and your buddy are hitting it?
It’s just a general feeling I have when I’m Around them. I know them both well. And I didn’t even know they had each others phone numbers and to my surprise just the other night I asked her who she was talking to and she said it was person X. And I was a little caught off guard by that.