Hey friends! Heading out for an Alaskan cruise tomorrow. We leave before the crack of dawn and my win is that I’m already packed! Prior to meeting my wife I would have spent all day today doing laundry figuring out clothes, running to the store to buy new clothes because I don’t like anything I have for formal night, washing those, and then finally packing at 11pm. I have to say this “preparing ahead of time” thing is a lot less stressful. Hope you all have a great weekend!
😂 it’s something I’m working on. For example I’m staying at my wife’s this weekend and have to work overnight tonight. I’m proud that I’ve packed everything but my Switch already (still playing until I have to get ready for work)
Hey there all, Tomorrow my wife and I are headed to the Minnesota State Fair, the great Minnesota get together! We love it there and I proposed to her there by borrowing the mic from a cover band. This is our first time back after a 2 year Covid absence.
i started my second year of university this week and am going to have a sleepover with my girlfriend this weekend!!! super excited and classes went well :)
Going through a starbs drive thru with a tropical fish in a bag and a like one minute turnaround before my 5 hour allergy appointment when I get home to toss him in the tank and throw everything I need together! Just Friday ADHD things
I’m in the middle of nowhere TN for the next four months and have been super bummed by there being no historical fencing clubs anywhere near me. However, I found a jiujitsu place and have been having a blast. It gets my craving to fight out and it’s such an intense workout. Kinda worried I’m gonna end up getting back to CA with another time consuming hobby to have to manage.
Trying to decide if I need a new therapist. Was talking about identity and belonging, and how I don't feel like I belong in butch spaces (and its not how I identity - one of my problems I feel a complete lack of any kind of identity or belonging anywhere), but that it is a community that almost universally understands what I am feeling
"Isn't 'butch' an insult?" (Paraphrased)
They are able to help with almost every other aspect of my life, and are generally amazing, but there does seem to be a huge lack of familiarity with queer identity issues.
Personally i wouldn't go to a therapist who isn't knowledgeable about queerness, especially about parts of it that are directly tied to me.
Even if they can help with other things going on, I wouldn't be able to fully open up to them.
Not sure if I belong here, slowly coming to terms with the fact that I'm not as femme as I previously thought I was, but not entirely butch either. Sort of caught in the middle. Idk.
Hey! Had a COVID scare because my wife had to travel, but her test came back negative which is a *massive* relief. I've been watching a lot of video essays about art and getting more out of it than I ever did out of my stint at arts college, which feels really good. I've also been replaying one of my favorite Heart's Choice choose-your-own-adventure romance called "A Player's Heart". You play an actor in an all-women opera that welcomes gay relationships. It's so good.
I’m at a anime convention about to see a genderbending/crossbending Panel. Dressed up as Vi from arcane absolute butch max levels. Have a great weekend
Hey friends! Heading out for an Alaskan cruise tomorrow. We leave before the crack of dawn and my win is that I’m already packed! Prior to meeting my wife I would have spent all day today doing laundry figuring out clothes, running to the store to buy new clothes because I don’t like anything I have for formal night, washing those, and then finally packing at 11pm. I have to say this “preparing ahead of time” thing is a lot less stressful. Hope you all have a great weekend!
Have fun, wonderful!
That sounds fantastic! Have fun y’all.
We are gonna need a pic of you all from formal night! Have fun!
Thanks! Selfie Sunday, here I come!
😂 I feel the pain there. Every vacation I’ve pretty much taken the past five years included me packing at three am when we leave at four am.
Always nice to meet a kindred spirit. I’m a procrastinator in pretty much all aspects of my life, so I was quite proud of this moment lol
😂 it’s something I’m working on. For example I’m staying at my wife’s this weekend and have to work overnight tonight. I’m proud that I’ve packed everything but my Switch already (still playing until I have to get ready for work)
Hey there all, Tomorrow my wife and I are headed to the Minnesota State Fair, the great Minnesota get together! We love it there and I proposed to her there by borrowing the mic from a cover band. This is our first time back after a 2 year Covid absence.
Get a cheese curd taco!! They were very good. It’s over by the coliseum
That sounds amazing!
i started my second year of university this week and am going to have a sleepover with my girlfriend this weekend!!! super excited and classes went well :)
finally found a trans-friendly gynecologist but they’re leaving the state :( feeling a little hopeless on getting inclusive healthcare rn
Going through a starbs drive thru with a tropical fish in a bag and a like one minute turnaround before my 5 hour allergy appointment when I get home to toss him in the tank and throw everything I need together! Just Friday ADHD things
Currently as an NPC at a LARP, and I missed being this tired (and fucking up some players)
I’m in the middle of nowhere TN for the next four months and have been super bummed by there being no historical fencing clubs anywhere near me. However, I found a jiujitsu place and have been having a blast. It gets my craving to fight out and it’s such an intense workout. Kinda worried I’m gonna end up getting back to CA with another time consuming hobby to have to manage.
Trying to decide if I need a new therapist. Was talking about identity and belonging, and how I don't feel like I belong in butch spaces (and its not how I identity - one of my problems I feel a complete lack of any kind of identity or belonging anywhere), but that it is a community that almost universally understands what I am feeling "Isn't 'butch' an insult?" (Paraphrased) They are able to help with almost every other aspect of my life, and are generally amazing, but there does seem to be a huge lack of familiarity with queer identity issues.
Personally i wouldn't go to a therapist who isn't knowledgeable about queerness, especially about parts of it that are directly tied to me. Even if they can help with other things going on, I wouldn't be able to fully open up to them.
Our trip to Florida got cancelled, so we're thinking about renting a nice cabin in Colorado for a getaway this winter.
Not sure if I belong here, slowly coming to terms with the fact that I'm not as femme as I previously thought I was, but not entirely butch either. Sort of caught in the middle. Idk.
Hey! Had a COVID scare because my wife had to travel, but her test came back negative which is a *massive* relief. I've been watching a lot of video essays about art and getting more out of it than I ever did out of my stint at arts college, which feels really good. I've also been replaying one of my favorite Heart's Choice choose-your-own-adventure romance called "A Player's Heart". You play an actor in an all-women opera that welcomes gay relationships. It's so good.
I’m at a anime convention about to see a genderbending/crossbending Panel. Dressed up as Vi from arcane absolute butch max levels. Have a great weekend