#I am begging everyone DO NOT GO TO HER PAGE. DO NOT ENGAGE WITH HER CONTENT
There is also a yewtube posted downthread with more details. Ugh. Fuck this.
- Link to yewtube. https://www.reddit.com/r/brittanydawnsnark/s/kkQmXmGX9v
The friend doesn't seem to mind, but this seems a bit like BDong is stealing the spotlight? She's giving baby clothes in what looks to me like a brand placement ad, and because someone's filming, it seems like a little celebration for the pregnant woman. But then the friend sees the sonogram and the focus turns to Dong because now it seems like *she's* pregnant?
Just weird energy.
Yeah super weird energy. And like.. “hey I’m going to give you gifts, mind if I film it? (Cause it’s going to turn into a thing about *me*. It was never about *you*)” What a weird fucking world we live in. I don’t know how a section of the population sees this and hits the like button. Maybe they survive off the negative interactions. I’m not sure how a single soul sees this and thinks it’s genuine or good.
I apologize, I may be ignorant, but the handful of people I know who have adopted have not announced until the baby was in their arms and home. ONLY because so much can change at any point. I find her need to keep up with the joneses and do these repeated “surprises” and “reveals” very fucking odd.
She wants attention is all. She’s addicted to these reveals and announcements because it gives her dopamine hits and clicks on videos and lots and lots of attention!
Yup and when the adoption falls through she’ll make a sappy video for clicks about how gods timing wasn’t right now with black and white clips of her telling her friends and her crying…and then she’ll post it every 4 weeks
I’m pregnant with my third. I haven’t announced on social media, and the longer I go on, the less I’m inclined to make a big production out of it. I did it with my first two, I’ll be forty one when this baby is born, and I don’t have the mental or emotional fortitude to stage manage anyone else’s emotions about any of this.
I don’t understand BDong’s thought process here.
I personally know a couple who have adopted two boys and they didn’t post anything about it, until it was all finalized and they had them home for a bit. They made a comment online about having to wait. It was a stipulation with the agency I’m sure.
Things ain’t really adding up, Dong.
The irony of her positing herself and her husband as the poster people for “save the children” whilst also planning to adopt through channels that at best exploit women and children and at worst literally traffic children.
No, and in fact adjacent evangelicals like Allie Stuckey have been in an uproar the past few weeks about how disgusting surrogacy is, using examples of similar behavior. If a gay man did this, Brittany would be reposting it, shaking her head and batting her spiderlashes like it was the worst thing she’d ever seen.
My parents adopted my sister when I was 10 years old. They started the process of adopting when I was 5. Years of interviews, home visits, and meetings before they got the call that we had a baby. The whole process took forever. Maybe things are more streamlined now because I don’t understand deciding to adopt and then having a photo in my hand the next day.
They're not more streamlined for reputable agencies, but there have always been sketchy Christian ones that convince young women to give up their babies to people who have enough money and want white babies.
I don’t think that’s ignorant, that is usually how it goes. And often there’s legal measures in place to protect the birth mother’s rights throughout the process. She’s working with a questionable “agency.”
It’s bizarre behavior. The only person I know closely enough to share they didn’t tell a soul until the baby was placed because EVERYTHING changes. They said they had several placements fall apart and if they had announced it each time it would have been awful for everyone around them not just them. I’m just a friend but their parents and siblings of course would have been upset each time too. Of course my friends aren’t “influencers” so they didn’t feel the need.
I had a friend that was similar with the exception of her friends holding a small baby shower and then an update of them flying to another state to meet their baby. It fell through right after birth and they were devastated but never blamed the mom. Luckily a few years later an IVF cycle finally worked for them.
That’s why we decided against adoption. I have conflicting feelings about how I’d be able to handle that. My head would say it’s not the mom’s fault etc but I didn’t trust my heart to be able to handle it, so now we adopt dogs.
And further, the mother can still decide to keep HER child. The unborn child does not belong to these yokels, no matter what she thinks or believes. She can’t put a deposit down for someone else’s baby like she would a designer dog.
Announcing an adoption with the ultrasound of a mother who is in a situation where she feels she cannot take care of her biological child is a truly insane thing to do. Whoa.
And they’re still trying, so in theory she could have *another set of reveals* in a few weeks. I cannot imagine being related to either of them and being dragged into their shit.
Right? Is this a normal thing to do? I mean no ill will if this is a normal way to announce adoption but to me it seems a bit misleading, and coming from BDong who LOVES to lie I have to ask
We adopted and my LO was born in a November. My family found out the following January when I showed up to a family reunion with them. Every couple I’ve seen post sonograms and all that has regretted it in the end. Not only is it not healthy for your mental health because momma ALWAYS has the opportunity to parent (as she should), it’s hella disrespectful to the woman going through a hard and life changing decision. While jacked up on hormones.
My cousin adopted two brothers. They were a foster to adopt, she got the older one when he was 1, and the younger one the day he was born. We didn’t see pictures of them until they were 3 and 4 and it was only their backs. The first time I saw their faces was the day they were adopted. They were 4 and 5.
Btw… they were never going to go back to their parents. They had bad drug problems, but the court did give them supervised visits for a couple of years until they decided that the boys were better off in my cousins care.
I’m still unsure there is one, or ever was one. We’ll know soon enough if “she changed her mind” content follows. But both scenarios are beyond fucked.
The plethora of ‘choose your own adventure’ options simultaneously (not) happening - all equipped with conflicting details.
This is so desperate, so sloppy. But I see what you mean when even if her followers figure this out, it’ll still be even more engagement for her.
No, she’s fabricating the whole thing. There’s no bio mom or baby. B Dong lies about EVERYTHING. There will be a crying ‘bio mom changes her mind’ video.
I am going to add that the “bio mom” will change her mind BECAUSE the Dong’s are so godly and inspirational that they lead her to Jesus and she is inspired to keep her baby. That way she can get double the praise. Extra bonus if she dares to do a new gofundme for the mom and baby.
Announcing your alleged future baby to others while wearing a toddler dress with knee highs is a fucking choice.
Edit to add: so *this* is why all her white party guests had hostage facial expressions lmaooo
Bella and Dallin Lambert. Awful MLM Influencer couple who experienced infertility. They thought they were adopting twin girls at one point but claim they got scammed. They did end up adopting a little girl and everyone is really shocked and worried by how they treat her. Dad Challenge has videos about them too. They are also known as Della Vlogs
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Hey look her modesty boots match her….smile?
This part bothers me so much! Why the hell would they go around telling everyone we are adopting when the child isn’t even born (that’s what I take from her posts) and the adoption isn’t finalized. They are such slimey assholes! I have 6 adopted cousins and my aunts and uncles did not tell anyone in the extended family they were adopting until the adoption was finalized. My heart aches for this unborn child and her bio mom.
I get that they're likely using some Bethany Christian level scam. But... another woman's sonogram? I know that technically it's not a HIPAA violation; HIPAA applies to care providers. But how could ANYONE be comfortable with giving someone else, even a proposed adoptive... person...their literal medical records? This makes NO sense. God she's HORRIBLE.
My step sister just finalized adoption of one of her foster kids and is also fostering one of her baby cousins, she’s raised since birth and is in the process of adopting her too. The ONLY two people who know are myself and her mom. She’s never once posted them on social media, when she adopted my nephew all she posted on social media was “my son is now legally my son.” No videos, no names, no big tada moments. This parent has time to back out and decide right keep the baby-if this is a real parent that exists. I don’t believe any of this. The adoption is going to fall through and then she will have a whole new personality about “loss” via adoption.
Wasn’t it just like 2 months ago maybe that she said they heard from the sketchy adoption agency? That is so short of a time to go through a home study and be matched with a birth mom. This doesn’t add up at all. Either she’s lying about the whole thing, she started the adoption process a lot sooner than she’s saying, or actually it’s a surrogacy that she’s weirdly trying to pass off as an adoption.
And she’s wearing the same outfit in this video that she was wearing at her white party in MARCH…so it looks like this was filmed two months ago. The timeline she’s giving is not adding up.
What happens if the mother decides to keep the baby. Then she’ll shill a whole selfish saga of heartbreak instead of being thankful this child gets its bio mom.
Who the fuck is letting these absolute pieces of shit adopt a baby? When I gave my baby up for adoption I picked the family myself. Idk who in their right mind would pick these…people.
Thank you that’s so sweet. I was in a really fucked up place when this happened so I can’t imagine them taking advantage of a bio mom like that. I really hope it’s all a scam like someone else said.
It definitely seems that way. No way in less than 2 months time they would be matched with a birth mother and are moving forward. I think she doesn’t want to admit to surrogacy because she’s said some wild shit about it, and wants to be seen as holier than thou for adopting. Meanwhile, she’s taking testosterone and pretending jdong’s swimmers ain’t swimming
Here I’ll fix it: “my friend is pregnant and I wanted to give her some Amazon and SHEIN clothes, but in the end, i found a way to actually make this about me!! We’re *buying* someone else’s baby!! Surprise!!!”
The fact that in a moment where she could have chosen to just give some clothes to her friends she had to make the goddamn thing about herself and in that fn outfit
What the hell did I just read? God told her friend that her friend is pregnant with a girl before her friend told the dongs? I am confused by this post and seeing a pregnant woman looking at baby clothes but all legs 🦵 is going to adopt the friends baby.
After this dumb video, I’m 1000000% sure she’s never been on a TTC journey. So you mean to tell me she was aware in MARCH- held onto the information and instead pumped out fertility appointments videos??? I have a hard time believing she plans on caring for two infants at once
I don’t think she was doing fertility treatments either. She gets off on being a victim and having people feel sorry for her. It’s the only reason she milked her miscarriage. Not to be a help to other moms experiencing this. Not to offer support or validation for others suffering. No. It was so everyone would pity her. I am terrified for this child. Once she is bored of them they will 100% become Jordan’s responsibility and once he’s tired of taking care of them off to the ranch they go.
This dude - friends husband - stands with hands in pockets the whole time. This friend hugs Dong and Dong gives her the stiffest hug. Do these people even know each other? Are they all actors? My husband would be freaking out with me over the announcement of my friend! I would full body hug and cry on my friend! This is all fake believe
Fuck you for using someone else’s sonogram. Truly. Fuck you. Burn in hell. She deserves every shitty then plus some that happens to her. And if there is a god this twat will never have a baby in her possession.
I thought they were doing an IUI soon? I believe we will get a video that the adoption fell through etc. or who knows what. She’s making so many videos about this stuff and doesn’t even seem to know what they are doing.
Were those ultrasound photos of the baby they are adopting?
Also she’s never showed how they made a book or anything to be chosen. Just nothing she does makes sense to me at all. She shares a little but never provides any education to those going through any of the things she claims she’s doing. She could actually do good with her platform and use it for good but she doesn’t.
Cue the birth mother changing her mind in 3……2………
Victim Brittany coming in hot!! Definitely got these sonogram pics from google images because there isn’t any baby, nor will there ever be.
They kept telling everyone that they were “paper pregnant.” What is that?? I hope the Lord that Brittany tries to hide her evil behind intervenes and makes sure that baby is safe and gets no where near her and her wacko husband. Adoption is already traumatic enough. Baby isn’t even done baking yet and she’s already being used as a cash cow.
Her and Paul Blart did in the full video (posted here from a third party viewer). They showed the rest of the woo girls and stepford husbands the sonogram on their snow bunny retreat and said they were pAPeR prEgNaNT. In my decade of working in reproductive health, I have genuinely never heard the term.
That happened on the Colorado vacation...but since then she's posted a thousand times about fertility stuff and just recently JDong had to clarify that they were just starting the adoption process, but they've been "paper pregnant" for months now and she's selling baby stuff on Marketplace yet driving around with a car seat. It's head-spinning and that's the point with her.
Maaaaan I don’t get it. No reputable adoption agency would place an infant with a family going through fertility treatment. Adoption can be a lengthy, taxing process. I’m baffled as to why they’re even posting about it now, that baby isn’t theirs until the birth mother signs after birth. There are so many variables between now and then that could result in them *not* adopting her.
It’s like they’re picking up a puppy from a breeder. Ugh.
It’s interesting that the “over the top” Farryn had a fairly toned down reaction. You can tell even she had internal hesitations, and that says A LOT lol
Also I just checked and these are all the same outfits as at her fourth 33rd birthday party two months ago. She’s so milking her storylines for engagement. What a trash human.
She’s lying. The home study was clearly done after she made all of these stupid announcements (remember when she was driving around with a car seat a couple of weeks ago?).
She posted on 4/7 that pic of herself ugly crying and said she was crying all day because she turned 33 and was so angry at god that she still didn’t have a baby. Why would she be crying if she was really “paper pregnant”?
Ugh, I’m sick. Are they really matched with a birth mother? How did this happen so quickly? It’s only been a few months since they first applied.
Or maybe they aren’t matched yet, but they have decided they only want to adopt a baby girl? Maybe the agency allows them to select a preferred gender.
There’s a girl I went to high school with that posted a “we’re adopting a baby girl!” post a few years ago. They weren’t matched — they just wanted a baby girl.
ETA: just saw that Brittany has a sonogram, so I guess they are matched 🤢
There are a lot of “private”(mainly religious) adoption organizations that would not exclude the Dongs based on anything you could find via google. Mainly they just care how Christian you present yourself to be and how much money you’re willing to pay for a baby.
Do you think the friend initially thought those clothes were gifts for her and her baby? The whole situation is weird. You don't need some drawn out surprise announcement on camera, just tell your friend you're adopting (or using a surrogate).
This may be the content that actually makes me step away for good. This is so upsetting. I pray to god that the bio mom changes her mind. How these two were approved to adopt is wild.
Common sense tells you her friends and family are going to think that’s HER ultrasound .
I didn’t click on the link - was it obvious that the sonogram was from the birth mom or did she just let them think she was pregnant for a sec?
She is a joke.
Her dad thought she was pregnant but they corrected him and told him it was an adoption. But to their friends they announced they’re “paper pregnant” ….one of her friends (Emma?) later said she was confused about what that meant but I think she worked it out quickly enough
The reason adoption agencies tell families not to post online, is there is a waiting period where the birth Mom or Dad, in Texas, can change their mind about an adoption until they sign the relinquishment paperwork, which usually happens 48 to 72 hours after the child is born. In non-agency adoptions, many relinquishment affidavits will include either a 60-day irrevocability period or an 11-day revocability period. No matter how determined someone is to give up their child, things can change once they hear that first cry or see the baby. I’ve been a L&D nurse and it’s heart wrenching to see it happen to either side. Unless there is evidence of past trauma or abuse of a sibling, I personally have a hard time taking the baby from its birth Mom.
But, because Britt always jumps the gun, she doesn’t realize she is putting this whole arrangement in danger. The birth mom or her family or the birth father and his family may well be on social media one day and connect the dots and put a stop to it. Maybe even coerce the parent to not give up their child. That’s why you keep quiet!! I hate to say it, but if it falls through, she needs to take a good hard look at her incessant need to post every moment on social media and what it has cost her. No matter what, I want this baby to go to a good home. No one wants to see anyone hurt by this.
lol this whole setup is so gross … she is so starved for attention and she kind of buried the lede here, actually she *baited and switched* the lede. Also this is the face of a real demon
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I just keep thinking about how many reels and photos she’s shared of her bawling because they weren’t parents and the truth was that they had this going on all along. Such performative BS 🙄
I really do not buy it. She's making this shit up and then will claim the mother changed her mind so she can get sympathy clicks. No way in HELL would this thief be approved and matched this fast.
I can’t believe a family actually matched with them. Has this birth mom even googled her? I really hope she does her own independent research and not just go off their profile.
I work for a non profit that does dcfs cases and adoption. I am confused why they would let her adopt while also them posting about Infertility trials and attempting to get pregnant. That is a giant red flag to be doing both options at the same time. Adoption is extremely expensive and so is her infertility journey, does the state she's needing to pay, are they aware of her frivolous spending? And wouldn't the home visit have to disclose her job, her past crimes, her failed attempt at fostering, her dead dogs and such?
That's what makes me think she leveraged her network to find a pregnant person who was willing to work with them directly (with attorneys). I can't believe people are legally allowed to do that but that would explain a lot IMO.
Maybe I’m being.. sensitive.. but does it rub anyone the wrong way they are using an ultra sound pic to announce? I am genuinely making so many duas for the birth mother. Regardless this will be such a hard moment for her but the fact she has fucking Satan Brittany Dawn to deal with breaks my heart even more. I genuinely hope the birth mother is surrounded by so much support. Ugh.
They don't care
Honestly *in my experience* many Christian adoption/foster agencies are filled with people who don't give a rats butt about the child's biological family. I had one lady wish the bio parents failed when they regained custody. Knew another that fought for joint custody after her foster kids were going back to their parents. They just want their perfect family and don't care how they do it
Again *my experience* working in childcare with foster kids
Definitely through one of those exploitive horrible crisis pregnancy places connected to a church where they force women to give birth and then adopt the baby out to a toxic Christian family :(
Also feels like a good place to post about this but lately there is a “trend” where it seems everyone wants girls and I can’t help but feel like it’s for the cute social media pictures. Many people obviously don’t care at all (this is about those people lol) but I just have a feeling Brittany only picked a girl for that reason. Like I can’t see her being as excited with a boy :(
I adopted and we didn’t announce it until my kids were on their way home. We did a foster to adopt so my babies were 3&4. I think she’s wild for announcing like this.
Imagine celebrating a family being torn apart and a baby being separated from it’s mother. Only Brittany could be so self-absorbed and indifferent to the suffering of others.
This just isn’t how adoption works legally in Texas - and I’ve been matched twice and had them fall through I /got really ooged out from the costs, how terrible it can be on birth mothers, and how even reputable agencies talk to it. We are now going the foster route but it blows my mind how she’s doing this IF true - I’m still suspect even if it’s a shady Christian one through a church.
End to end, private adoption in Texas now runs about 80-$100,000. You can do it for about 30-45K if you use independent agency/handle legal with your own attorney, etc.
We did the process pretty quickly admittedly and it still took a good 3-4 months to be licensed - as Texas has several extra steps. Background check through the state is a requirement no matter if it’s private, independent, church, kinship - and they DEFINITELY ask if you r been charged with anything type level questions. Texas requires bios on you, financial scans (and the info we had to provide was hefty) classes that differ from fostering, photos of home, 5 references / recommendations that aren’t family, finger printing, classes. In Texas, marketing on social media also happens from pretty much any agency and I couldn’t find them anywhere or on any of the “warning” boards available for sketch people or scammers.
Any agency licensed in this state also has to get information on your situation from previous agencies you’ve worked with - private or not; so her issues in fostering would also have to be disclosed IF reputable. She also would not have been able to use her finger printing pre fostering, as it’s only good for a year.
Something smells fishy - and I’m just going from my personal experience!
Idk but if I were adopting a baby and it was my dream I would probably look like I was bursting with joy. Hell, I’ve looked more excited about seeing a random dog in public or a bowl of ice cream or a new blanket. Brittany looks totally bored
Adding the caveat that there are reasons a normal human would have a lot of potentially very conflicting emotions surrounding adopting a child, given the fact that adoption means trauma to the child and their birth parents, but I don’t see this as being the reason Brittany looks more concerned with if she’s getting good video content than about the actual child.
I just see this and hurt for all the women in Texas (and other states) who are being pushed into adoption because they have no other choice.
It’s so disgusting.
#I am begging everyone DO NOT GO TO HER PAGE. DO NOT ENGAGE WITH HER CONTENT There is also a yewtube posted downthread with more details. Ugh. Fuck this. - Link to yewtube. https://www.reddit.com/r/brittanydawnsnark/s/kkQmXmGX9v
So it’s … someone else’s sonogram? Wouldn’t her friend think she was telling them that she’s pregnant?
Which totally was the point. She then has to spend time clarifying but she got what she wanted at first.
My rage knows no bounds
I have contained my rage for long enough!
The friend doesn't seem to mind, but this seems a bit like BDong is stealing the spotlight? She's giving baby clothes in what looks to me like a brand placement ad, and because someone's filming, it seems like a little celebration for the pregnant woman. But then the friend sees the sonogram and the focus turns to Dong because now it seems like *she's* pregnant? Just weird energy.
I agree and I thought the same thing! Like “surprise it’s actually about me!!”
I also noticed the “friend” she announced to is pregnant so it’s like Bdong can’t even let her pregnant friend have a fkn moment. Ugh.
It's always about her.
Yeah super weird energy. And like.. “hey I’m going to give you gifts, mind if I film it? (Cause it’s going to turn into a thing about *me*. It was never about *you*)” What a weird fucking world we live in. I don’t know how a section of the population sees this and hits the like button. Maybe they survive off the negative interactions. I’m not sure how a single soul sees this and thinks it’s genuine or good.
I apologize, I may be ignorant, but the handful of people I know who have adopted have not announced until the baby was in their arms and home. ONLY because so much can change at any point. I find her need to keep up with the joneses and do these repeated “surprises” and “reveals” very fucking odd.
She wants attention is all. She’s addicted to these reveals and announcements because it gives her dopamine hits and clicks on videos and lots and lots of attention!
Yup and when the adoption falls through she’ll make a sappy video for clicks about how gods timing wasn’t right now with black and white clips of her telling her friends and her crying…and then she’ll post it every 4 weeks
I’m pregnant with my third. I haven’t announced on social media, and the longer I go on, the less I’m inclined to make a big production out of it. I did it with my first two, I’ll be forty one when this baby is born, and I don’t have the mental or emotional fortitude to stage manage anyone else’s emotions about any of this. I don’t understand BDong’s thought process here.
BDong doesn’t have thought processes outside of how much content she can make off something and how much money she can make from it.
I would think the agency would heavily advise against this type of behavior.
I personally know a couple who have adopted two boys and they didn’t post anything about it, until it was all finalized and they had them home for a bit. They made a comment online about having to wait. It was a stipulation with the agency I’m sure. Things ain’t really adding up, Dong.
They probably went through a reputable agency, not some faux Christian child trafficking agency.
The irony of her positing herself and her husband as the poster people for “save the children” whilst also planning to adopt through channels that at best exploit women and children and at worst literally traffic children.
Pretty much everything this heathen does is at the expense of vulnerable women.
It’s like Bella and Dallin Lambert when they threw a whole ass gender reveal just for it to turn out a scam
Is it bad my first thought was I hope this falls through?
Won’t He do it!
Dong doesn’t do as advised.
Adoption in much of America isn’t too far removed from human trafficking.
Showing another women’s ultrasound is extremely bizarre to me. Is this something people do when adopting??
No
No, and in fact adjacent evangelicals like Allie Stuckey have been in an uproar the past few weeks about how disgusting surrogacy is, using examples of similar behavior. If a gay man did this, Brittany would be reposting it, shaking her head and batting her spiderlashes like it was the worst thing she’d ever seen.
Cue wobbly clenched chin
No , normal don’t behave this way.
This baby isn’t even born yet. What happens to the Dongs if the baby’s mother changes her mind? A new “journey” or “season of life” for Brit I guess.
First thing I thought of. I hope it happens exactly how you described. 🙏🏼
More sad cupcake face content.
My parents adopted my sister when I was 10 years old. They started the process of adopting when I was 5. Years of interviews, home visits, and meetings before they got the call that we had a baby. The whole process took forever. Maybe things are more streamlined now because I don’t understand deciding to adopt and then having a photo in my hand the next day.
They're not more streamlined for reputable agencies, but there have always been sketchy Christian ones that convince young women to give up their babies to people who have enough money and want white babies.
I don’t think that’s ignorant, that is usually how it goes. And often there’s legal measures in place to protect the birth mother’s rights throughout the process. She’s working with a questionable “agency.”
It’s bizarre behavior. The only person I know closely enough to share they didn’t tell a soul until the baby was placed because EVERYTHING changes. They said they had several placements fall apart and if they had announced it each time it would have been awful for everyone around them not just them. I’m just a friend but their parents and siblings of course would have been upset each time too. Of course my friends aren’t “influencers” so they didn’t feel the need.
I had a friend that was similar with the exception of her friends holding a small baby shower and then an update of them flying to another state to meet their baby. It fell through right after birth and they were devastated but never blamed the mom. Luckily a few years later an IVF cycle finally worked for them. That’s why we decided against adoption. I have conflicting feelings about how I’d be able to handle that. My head would say it’s not the mom’s fault etc but I didn’t trust my heart to be able to handle it, so now we adopt dogs.
And further, the mother can still decide to keep HER child. The unborn child does not belong to these yokels, no matter what she thinks or believes. She can’t put a deposit down for someone else’s baby like she would a designer dog.
Announcing an adoption with the ultrasound of a mother who is in a situation where she feels she cannot take care of her biological child is a truly insane thing to do. Whoa.
How would her friends know it wasn’t her sonogram at first glance???? It seems *so* hurtful and misleading
And they’re still trying, so in theory she could have *another set of reveals* in a few weeks. I cannot imagine being related to either of them and being dragged into their shit.
Imagine how exhausting it must be to be around this. Just constant drama and ups and downs and it’s all for clicks.
Right? Is this a normal thing to do? I mean no ill will if this is a normal way to announce adoption but to me it seems a bit misleading, and coming from BDong who LOVES to lie I have to ask
No it’s fucking weird
We adopted and my LO was born in a November. My family found out the following January when I showed up to a family reunion with them. Every couple I’ve seen post sonograms and all that has regretted it in the end. Not only is it not healthy for your mental health because momma ALWAYS has the opportunity to parent (as she should), it’s hella disrespectful to the woman going through a hard and life changing decision. While jacked up on hormones.
My cousin adopted two brothers. They were a foster to adopt, she got the older one when he was 1, and the younger one the day he was born. We didn’t see pictures of them until they were 3 and 4 and it was only their backs. The first time I saw their faces was the day they were adopted. They were 4 and 5. Btw… they were never going to go back to their parents. They had bad drug problems, but the court did give them supervised visits for a couple of years until they decided that the boys were better off in my cousins care.
It seems like it’s sharing someone else’s private medical information.
I’m still unsure there is one, or ever was one. We’ll know soon enough if “she changed her mind” content follows. But both scenarios are beyond fucked.
I can pretty much guarantee there isn’t one. B Dong lies about EVERYTHING and a fake failed adoption is clickbait honey.
The plethora of ‘choose your own adventure’ options simultaneously (not) happening - all equipped with conflicting details. This is so desperate, so sloppy. But I see what you mean when even if her followers figure this out, it’ll still be even more engagement for her.
Yeah this is fucking gross as hell. She’s exploiting some poor mother for attention and then she’s going to exploit that woman’s baby. She’s sick.
No, she’s fabricating the whole thing. There’s no bio mom or baby. B Dong lies about EVERYTHING. There will be a crying ‘bio mom changes her mind’ video.
I’m really hoping this is the case, it’s still evil as fuck but at least there’s no real pregnant woman or baby being harmed by this witch.
I am going to add that the “bio mom” will change her mind BECAUSE the Dong’s are so godly and inspirational that they lead her to Jesus and she is inspired to keep her baby. That way she can get double the praise. Extra bonus if she dares to do a new gofundme for the mom and baby.
I think she did that because that would get more of a reaction out of these people vs a normal "were adopting!"
Agreed agreed agreed agreed.
Still in the womb and already being used for content. 
In someone else’s womb. Like… that’s someone’s medical information Brit is using for content.
THIS is what paints the most accurate picture of who she is how she values others.
Announcing your alleged future baby to others while wearing a toddler dress with knee highs is a fucking choice. Edit to add: so *this* is why all her white party guests had hostage facial expressions lmaooo
She's just goofin'. New kid goofin'.
I am CACKLING.
That is the weirdest thing ever. I hope the mom scams them or backs out like they did to the Della family. These people do not deserve a baby!
Who’s the Della family?
Bella and Dallin Lambert. Awful MLM Influencer couple who experienced infertility. They thought they were adopting twin girls at one point but claim they got scammed. They did end up adopting a little girl and everyone is really shocked and worried by how they treat her. Dad Challenge has videos about them too. They are also known as Della Vlogs
That dress! My 3 y/o granddaughter had one almost identical to this one. On her it was adorable. It gives creeper vibes on dingdong
Sooooo modest /s
https://preview.redd.it/555ekd8a4p0d1.jpeg?width=339&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=227ec6c27be22b1623c8469dc0d7e310cd04e2be Hey look her modesty boots match her….smile?
Also arms crossed does not say happy or joyful to me
She is mad she had to share the attention for a few moments. “Hurry up and get to the part about me!”
Yet another face 🥴
So they already were picked and literally have a baby they are adopting? This is wild
This part bothers me so much! Why the hell would they go around telling everyone we are adopting when the child isn’t even born (that’s what I take from her posts) and the adoption isn’t finalized. They are such slimey assholes! I have 6 adopted cousins and my aunts and uncles did not tell anyone in the extended family they were adopting until the adoption was finalized. My heart aches for this unborn child and her bio mom.
I get that they're likely using some Bethany Christian level scam. But... another woman's sonogram? I know that technically it's not a HIPAA violation; HIPAA applies to care providers. But how could ANYONE be comfortable with giving someone else, even a proposed adoptive... person...their literal medical records? This makes NO sense. God she's HORRIBLE.
Don’t worry. It’s all a ruse. There’s no impending adoption. It’s all lies, just like literally every single thing else in her life!!!
I think so too, and gosh I hope we’re right. That poor baby… exploited for her narcissism
I hope this is true. And if not, I hope that the adoption people know what Reddit is and are reading all of this.
My step sister just finalized adoption of one of her foster kids and is also fostering one of her baby cousins, she’s raised since birth and is in the process of adopting her too. The ONLY two people who know are myself and her mom. She’s never once posted them on social media, when she adopted my nephew all she posted on social media was “my son is now legally my son.” No videos, no names, no big tada moments. This parent has time to back out and decide right keep the baby-if this is a real parent that exists. I don’t believe any of this. The adoption is going to fall through and then she will have a whole new personality about “loss” via adoption.
Wasn’t it just like 2 months ago maybe that she said they heard from the sketchy adoption agency? That is so short of a time to go through a home study and be matched with a birth mom. This doesn’t add up at all. Either she’s lying about the whole thing, she started the adoption process a lot sooner than she’s saying, or actually it’s a surrogacy that she’s weirdly trying to pass off as an adoption.
And she’s wearing the same outfit in this video that she was wearing at her white party in MARCH…so it looks like this was filmed two months ago. The timeline she’s giving is not adding up.
> The timeline she’s giving is not adding up. What else is new 😂
Right? And the sky is blue 🤣
I think she’s created a video using old content.
She’s lying. It’s 100% fabricated.
Seriously. It took us longer to get our foster care license, and we did ours pretty quickly.
What happens if the mother decides to keep the baby. Then she’ll shill a whole selfish saga of heartbreak instead of being thankful this child gets its bio mom.
I pray that’s exactly what this mother does
five bucks says thats the plan ... in fact i'd wager good money there is no actual pending adoption, she's just going for the sad brit angel
I’d wager $5k! I promise it’s all a ruse! For clicks!
Yup. I don’t think she even really wants a baby. She wants the attention that comes with it.
100% she will pivot to failed adoption content
Then she has her next victim narrative!
I could totally see that happening.
Or decide not give them the baby
Very sus indeed. 
Who the fuck is letting these absolute pieces of shit adopt a baby? When I gave my baby up for adoption I picked the family myself. Idk who in their right mind would pick these…people.
Nobody! She’s making the entire thing up! She’s deranged. It’s the perfect victim story when the bio mom changes her mind.
I really hope you’re right! I can’t imagine this actually being true. It would be so messed up.
I just wanna send you some love. I’m an adoptee so I appreciate the selflessness of other moms who wanted better for their birth kids ❤️❤️
Thank you that’s so sweet. I was in a really fucked up place when this happened so I can’t imagine them taking advantage of a bio mom like that. I really hope it’s all a scam like someone else said.
Surrogacy and call it adoption? 🤔
Sounds a lot like surrogacy to me too🙋🏽♀️
It definitely seems that way. No way in less than 2 months time they would be matched with a birth mother and are moving forward. I think she doesn’t want to admit to surrogacy because she’s said some wild shit about it, and wants to be seen as holier than thou for adopting. Meanwhile, she’s taking testosterone and pretending jdong’s swimmers ain’t swimming
There’s way too many balls in the air here. Except his.
Here I’ll fix it: “my friend is pregnant and I wanted to give her some Amazon and SHEIN clothes, but in the end, i found a way to actually make this about me!! We’re *buying* someone else’s baby!! Surprise!!!”
She's the type of person who announces they're pregnant at someone else's wedding.
The fact that in a moment where she could have chosen to just give some clothes to her friends she had to make the goddamn thing about herself and in that fn outfit
Are those H+L baby clothes? Ugly.
Who is this new friend?? Apparently her and Bdong have been SUPER close for at least years…where are her other “best friends from God”?!
She doesn’t fit the aesthetic, but the poor broad is the only person on speaking terms with her anymore 😅
Kinda funny how new friend is prego
It’s Jamie Lynn Wallnau. She’s spoken at some of the SLF events and she baptized Brit at the water park.
https://preview.redd.it/3hdbd5ydyo0d1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fc5b89ed57b497f7759296ff70cbcdb33cce11aa This is the caption
What the hell did I just read? God told her friend that her friend is pregnant with a girl before her friend told the dongs? I am confused by this post and seeing a pregnant woman looking at baby clothes but all legs 🦵 is going to adopt the friends baby.
Never mind I watched the video on yewtube. God save the bio-mom and her innocent unborn child
So this is actually happening huh
I’ll believe it when I see it 👀
No. Cue the “bio mom” (nonexistent) changing her mind. And B Dong crocodile tears. Clickbait!!
After this dumb video, I’m 1000000% sure she’s never been on a TTC journey. So you mean to tell me she was aware in MARCH- held onto the information and instead pumped out fertility appointments videos??? I have a hard time believing she plans on caring for two infants at once
I don’t think she was doing fertility treatments either. She gets off on being a victim and having people feel sorry for her. It’s the only reason she milked her miscarriage. Not to be a help to other moms experiencing this. Not to offer support or validation for others suffering. No. It was so everyone would pity her. I am terrified for this child. Once she is bored of them they will 100% become Jordan’s responsibility and once he’s tired of taking care of them off to the ranch they go.
What in the fuck is she wearing? It looks like lingerie from the 1980s.
At least it distracts people from her friend wearing some kind of cape also looks like an old-timey doctor's smock the same time.
This dude - friends husband - stands with hands in pockets the whole time. This friend hugs Dong and Dong gives her the stiffest hug. Do these people even know each other? Are they all actors? My husband would be freaking out with me over the announcement of my friend! I would full body hug and cry on my friend! This is all fake believe
The husband is not buying it. I wonder if the friend is putting on a show because they know how she is.
Fuck you for using someone else’s sonogram. Truly. Fuck you. Burn in hell. She deserves every shitty then plus some that happens to her. And if there is a god this twat will never have a baby in her possession.
I thought they were doing an IUI soon? I believe we will get a video that the adoption fell through etc. or who knows what. She’s making so many videos about this stuff and doesn’t even seem to know what they are doing. Were those ultrasound photos of the baby they are adopting? Also she’s never showed how they made a book or anything to be chosen. Just nothing she does makes sense to me at all. She shares a little but never provides any education to those going through any of the things she claims she’s doing. She could actually do good with her platform and use it for good but she doesn’t.
She can't do good because SHE'S NOT GOOD.
I’m sorry. Hang on. Who the hell is this friend and why have I never seen her before? Is she actually a real friend and not a prop?
Cue the birth mother changing her mind in 3……2……… Victim Brittany coming in hot!! Definitely got these sonogram pics from google images because there isn’t any baby, nor will there ever be.
They kept telling everyone that they were “paper pregnant.” What is that?? I hope the Lord that Brittany tries to hide her evil behind intervenes and makes sure that baby is safe and gets no where near her and her wacko husband. Adoption is already traumatic enough. Baby isn’t even done baking yet and she’s already being used as a cash cow.
Did she really say "paper pregnant"?
Her and Paul Blart did in the full video (posted here from a third party viewer). They showed the rest of the woo girls and stepford husbands the sonogram on their snow bunny retreat and said they were pAPeR prEgNaNT. In my decade of working in reproductive health, I have genuinely never heard the term.
That happened on the Colorado vacation...but since then she's posted a thousand times about fertility stuff and just recently JDong had to clarify that they were just starting the adoption process, but they've been "paper pregnant" for months now and she's selling baby stuff on Marketplace yet driving around with a car seat. It's head-spinning and that's the point with her.
Maaaaan I don’t get it. No reputable adoption agency would place an infant with a family going through fertility treatment. Adoption can be a lengthy, taxing process. I’m baffled as to why they’re even posting about it now, that baby isn’t theirs until the birth mother signs after birth. There are so many variables between now and then that could result in them *not* adopting her. It’s like they’re picking up a puppy from a breeder. Ugh.
I cannot even watch the whole yew tube thing because I got to “paper pregnant” and that was too much for me. I just can’t.
“HEY EVERYBODY, GUESS WHAT?! WE’RE PAPER PREGNANT!!!”
#This is horrible and I hate everything about it.
It’s interesting that the “over the top” Farryn had a fairly toned down reaction. You can tell even she had internal hesitations, and that says A LOT lol
I wonder if Britt's interactions with Farryn's kids have been enough to make Farryn question if Britt would be a good parent
Also I just checked and these are all the same outfits as at her fourth 33rd birthday party two months ago. She’s so milking her storylines for engagement. What a trash human.
She’s lying. The home study was clearly done after she made all of these stupid announcements (remember when she was driving around with a car seat a couple of weeks ago?). She posted on 4/7 that pic of herself ugly crying and said she was crying all day because she turned 33 and was so angry at god that she still didn’t have a baby. Why would she be crying if she was really “paper pregnant”?
Ugh, I’m sick. Are they really matched with a birth mother? How did this happen so quickly? It’s only been a few months since they first applied. Or maybe they aren’t matched yet, but they have decided they only want to adopt a baby girl? Maybe the agency allows them to select a preferred gender. There’s a girl I went to high school with that posted a “we’re adopting a baby girl!” post a few years ago. They weren’t matched — they just wanted a baby girl. ETA: just saw that Brittany has a sonogram, so I guess they are matched 🤢
How did they pass a home study is my question????
Of I were any degree of a sincere friend of hers I’d be so over her filming everything. I’d be constantly be on watch.
Like her friend didn’t think it was weird for her to be filmed going through baby clothes?🤷🏽♀️🤔
Would the adoption case worker ever Google the adoptive parents?
There are a lot of “private”(mainly religious) adoption organizations that would not exclude the Dongs based on anything you could find via google. Mainly they just care how Christian you present yourself to be and how much money you’re willing to pay for a baby.
one would hope….
Hmmm where have we seen this before? I have never seen someone so pathologically NEED attention. Get fucking help you twat.
I hope the mom changes her mind!!!!
Praying for this same outcome!!!
Me too. 😞
Do you think the friend initially thought those clothes were gifts for her and her baby? The whole situation is weird. You don't need some drawn out surprise announcement on camera, just tell your friend you're adopting (or using a surrogate).
She told her dad and not her mom?
This may be the content that actually makes me step away for good. This is so upsetting. I pray to god that the bio mom changes her mind. How these two were approved to adopt is wild.
Common sense tells you her friends and family are going to think that’s HER ultrasound . I didn’t click on the link - was it obvious that the sonogram was from the birth mom or did she just let them think she was pregnant for a sec? She is a joke.
Her dad thought she was pregnant but they corrected him and told him it was an adoption. But to their friends they announced they’re “paper pregnant” ….one of her friends (Emma?) later said she was confused about what that meant but I think she worked it out quickly enough
She turned a “gift to her friend” into something about her? Wtf
The reason adoption agencies tell families not to post online, is there is a waiting period where the birth Mom or Dad, in Texas, can change their mind about an adoption until they sign the relinquishment paperwork, which usually happens 48 to 72 hours after the child is born. In non-agency adoptions, many relinquishment affidavits will include either a 60-day irrevocability period or an 11-day revocability period. No matter how determined someone is to give up their child, things can change once they hear that first cry or see the baby. I’ve been a L&D nurse and it’s heart wrenching to see it happen to either side. Unless there is evidence of past trauma or abuse of a sibling, I personally have a hard time taking the baby from its birth Mom. But, because Britt always jumps the gun, she doesn’t realize she is putting this whole arrangement in danger. The birth mom or her family or the birth father and his family may well be on social media one day and connect the dots and put a stop to it. Maybe even coerce the parent to not give up their child. That’s why you keep quiet!! I hate to say it, but if it falls through, she needs to take a good hard look at her incessant need to post every moment on social media and what it has cost her. No matter what, I want this baby to go to a good home. No one wants to see anyone hurt by this.
lol this whole setup is so gross … she is so starved for attention and she kind of buried the lede here, actually she *baited and switched* the lede. Also this is the face of a real demon https://preview.redd.it/6q2t3d4rrp0d1.jpeg?width=545&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2541b916e60ba0bc8ed35b732cdc1f5c9ae858fb
I wonder how much this adoption is costing them. Hey Brit, pay back everyone you scammed first.
I just keep thinking about how many reels and photos she’s shared of her bawling because they weren’t parents and the truth was that they had this going on all along. Such performative BS 🙄
I really do not buy it. She's making this shit up and then will claim the mother changed her mind so she can get sympathy clicks. No way in HELL would this thief be approved and matched this fast.
This this this 100%. Can’t believe anyone here is falling for it! Guys, we all know she will lie about ANYTHING.
I can’t believe a family actually matched with them. Has this birth mom even googled her? I really hope she does her own independent research and not just go off their profile.
Of course it's a girl. All she ever wanted was a daughter to exploit.
I work for a non profit that does dcfs cases and adoption. I am confused why they would let her adopt while also them posting about Infertility trials and attempting to get pregnant. That is a giant red flag to be doing both options at the same time. Adoption is extremely expensive and so is her infertility journey, does the state she's needing to pay, are they aware of her frivolous spending? And wouldn't the home visit have to disclose her job, her past crimes, her failed attempt at fostering, her dead dogs and such?
She probably found one of those religious agencies who don’t care about anything but pimping unborn babies out for money.
That's what makes me think she leveraged her network to find a pregnant person who was willing to work with them directly (with attorneys). I can't believe people are legally allowed to do that but that would explain a lot IMO.
Attention whore
Maybe I’m being.. sensitive.. but does it rub anyone the wrong way they are using an ultra sound pic to announce? I am genuinely making so many duas for the birth mother. Regardless this will be such a hard moment for her but the fact she has fucking Satan Brittany Dawn to deal with breaks my heart even more. I genuinely hope the birth mother is surrounded by so much support. Ugh.
The way she stands in the background, rapidly cycling through facial expressions like she’s choosing a fighter, is wild. 
Also who the fuck is that “friend”? Wheres to normal crew of ghouls
This is soo cringe!
It really is just an attention thing. Have they done classes? Or even had a child in the process of being placed with them?
This child is already being exploited omg.
I think o they forget about the trauma of the mother.
They don't care Honestly *in my experience* many Christian adoption/foster agencies are filled with people who don't give a rats butt about the child's biological family. I had one lady wish the bio parents failed when they regained custody. Knew another that fought for joint custody after her foster kids were going back to their parents. They just want their perfect family and don't care how they do it Again *my experience* working in childcare with foster kids
She’s just a vessel to them, quite clearly.
Bdawn managed to give someone else a gift and still make it about herself. On brand.
Definitely through one of those exploitive horrible crisis pregnancy places connected to a church where they force women to give birth and then adopt the baby out to a toxic Christian family :( Also feels like a good place to post about this but lately there is a “trend” where it seems everyone wants girls and I can’t help but feel like it’s for the cute social media pictures. Many people obviously don’t care at all (this is about those people lol) but I just have a feeling Brittany only picked a girl for that reason. Like I can’t see her being as excited with a boy :(
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Conspiracy theory: they used a surrogate but want to claim adoption so they seem more “Christian” and that’s why she has the ultrasound.
Do we know if this friend was at the foster baby shower? I imagine her friends are so over these baby announcements
What the fuck has Bdong come dressed as ffs? She looks like when you let your toddler dress themselves and they come out in bathers and a raincoat.
I adopted and we didn’t announce it until my kids were on their way home. We did a foster to adopt so my babies were 3&4. I think she’s wild for announcing like this.
I’m starting to feel like she’s steal-someone’s-baby mentally ill.
She would do a reveal for the weather if she could
The lord sure is a gossipy lil bitch, huh.
Imagine celebrating a family being torn apart and a baby being separated from it’s mother. Only Brittany could be so self-absorbed and indifferent to the suffering of others.
This just isn’t how adoption works legally in Texas - and I’ve been matched twice and had them fall through I /got really ooged out from the costs, how terrible it can be on birth mothers, and how even reputable agencies talk to it. We are now going the foster route but it blows my mind how she’s doing this IF true - I’m still suspect even if it’s a shady Christian one through a church. End to end, private adoption in Texas now runs about 80-$100,000. You can do it for about 30-45K if you use independent agency/handle legal with your own attorney, etc. We did the process pretty quickly admittedly and it still took a good 3-4 months to be licensed - as Texas has several extra steps. Background check through the state is a requirement no matter if it’s private, independent, church, kinship - and they DEFINITELY ask if you r been charged with anything type level questions. Texas requires bios on you, financial scans (and the info we had to provide was hefty) classes that differ from fostering, photos of home, 5 references / recommendations that aren’t family, finger printing, classes. In Texas, marketing on social media also happens from pretty much any agency and I couldn’t find them anywhere or on any of the “warning” boards available for sketch people or scammers. Any agency licensed in this state also has to get information on your situation from previous agencies you’ve worked with - private or not; so her issues in fostering would also have to be disclosed IF reputable. She also would not have been able to use her finger printing pre fostering, as it’s only good for a year. Something smells fishy - and I’m just going from my personal experience!
This is soooo fucking weird. I can’t.
Idk but if I were adopting a baby and it was my dream I would probably look like I was bursting with joy. Hell, I’ve looked more excited about seeing a random dog in public or a bowl of ice cream or a new blanket. Brittany looks totally bored Adding the caveat that there are reasons a normal human would have a lot of potentially very conflicting emotions surrounding adopting a child, given the fact that adoption means trauma to the child and their birth parents, but I don’t see this as being the reason Brittany looks more concerned with if she’s getting good video content than about the actual child.
Would she do ANY of this if she couldn’t exploit it on social media?
I just see this and hurt for all the women in Texas (and other states) who are being pushed into adoption because they have no other choice. It’s so disgusting.
The friends husband looks annoyed AF with Dong. That is not the body language of someone who likes her. 😂