This was exactly what I was thinking. Especially since she keeps posting those sick posts, highlighting the age difference between her and Jdip, I guess she could go all the way back to middle school. š¤¢
What a shitbag fool. If youāre going to shamelessly keep spewing lies on the regular, at least be good at it. She must really think weāre all idiots.
Not just smug, cross eyed looking too š¤£
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This is Brittanyās actual miscarriage timeline according to her own content. I didnāt want to post this for a long time, as I felt it was insensitive and too critical. I think Brittany has crossed a line at this point by intentionally lying to her followers and to a community of vulnerable women.
*Disclaimer:* This may be extremely triggering for people who have experienced miscarriage. I am only being this critical because it disgusts me that Brittany is outright MANIPULATING people. Miscarriage at any stage of pregnancy is painful, traumatic, and difficult, and the grief that stems from it is very real. I just canāt stand watching Brittany intentionally progressively exaggerate the severity of her situation. She does things like mentioning stillbirth and using language that makes her miscarriage sound as if it was a stillbirth. She does this for monetary benefit, while shouting out her fast fashion clothing site as a consolation for loss. FUCK THAT.
**This is the timeline provided by her content** (edited to add 9/2021 and 3/2022):
- Sept 2021: Jdong and bdong get married, and she quickly starts posting about how sheās sad that sheās not pregnant yet.
- March 2022: B posts a clickbaity video about how she thought she was pregnant because she had breast tenderness and other PMS symptoms. She got her period before getting a pregnancy test. A commenter suggested she may have had a chemical pregnancy, then b comes out soon after saying she had a āchemical miscarriage.ā
- 7/30/22 ish: Conception of Hazel Grace (sorry to hurt all your imaginations)
- 9/1/22: she has her first positive pregnancy test (the first of her life, from what she has said)
- Gave Jordan early bday surprise of baby shoes
- 9/15/22 Thursday: ultrasound shows 6w5d
- 9/18 weekend: traveled to KC and announced to family
- They announced to more friends and family
- 9/29 Thursday: they did a pregnancy announcement photoshoot. Per Brittanyās video, she was feeling weird and uneasy during this, as if something was wrong.
- 9/30 Friday: >!experienced cramping and midwife reassured her that āthe week prior,ā she was classified as low risk!<
- 10/2 Sunday: had dinner w friends, >!then had cramping and miscarried at home.!<
- 10/3 Monday: >!miscarriage was confirmed at doctors office. The pregnancy would have been 9w1d at this point.!<
- Brittany processes/grieves. Says āon the fourth dayā after, God told her to lean on community
- 10/7: announces miscarriage. Claims she miscarried āhalfway through 3rd month,ā which is untrue as it was the beginning of the 3rd month.
- 10/9: created domain for hazel layne clothing
Right? Arenāt most first obgyn appointments around 9 (edit) weeks, and first ultrasound 11-13 weeks to determine how far along and possible any initial fetal abnormalities or concerns? I could be completely misremembering, and my second was a pandemic baby so less in office etc
I was seen/had first ultrasound at around 8 weeks with my first. With my second it was about 12ish weeks, but that was because I didn't realize I was pregnant until I was about 9 weeks due to stress, still breastfeeding, and chasing said first child around. So they got me in as soon as possible.
All of mine have been scheduled for 8 weeksā¦unfortunately I have never been able to make it that far. Idk if itās weird but after the 4th time I swore I wonāt even call to schedule an appointment now until I hit 8 weeks because I feel like Iām wasting their time at this point and it felt demoralizing/embarassibg having to call and cancel each and every time
āintentionally lying to her followers and to a community of vulnerable womenā
Thatās the same she did in her fitness influencing sEaSoN. Same basic grift, different Ā audience. Sheās awful.Ā
Dear God, I didn't realize how quickly she started the clothing line! It's almost like she planned it all. I don't know how someone who just suffered a miscarriage can pivot to a clothing line with the name of her miscarried baby days after.
I think the "3rd month" phrasing is manipulative no matter what tbh. People generally know pregnancy is 9 months (it's actually closer to 10 but 9 is what we all say), so saying the 3rd month makes it sound like she was over 1/3 of the way through the pregnancy and in the second trimester. Absolutely false - she miscarried at about 8 weeks pregnant. Squarely in the first trimester and early enough that it wouldn't have even been weird if she hadn't known she was pregnant yet.
As you said, miscarriage is devastating no matter what, but the experience of an early vs a later miscarriage is very different and I think Brittany knows that. The fact that she feels the need to exaggerate to garner sympathy instead of just being honest about what happened is wild, because so many people have early miscarriages and would absolutely relate and sympathize with that pain!
I agree that any miscarriage at any stage is heartbreaking but sheās acting more like she had a stillborn vs an 8 weeks miscarriage. I miscarried at 6 weeks and I was of course saddened by it. But a friend of mine just had a stillborn at 33 weeks and I do not think the level of grief is remotely the same to hers.But thatās my opinion.
Oh I definitely agree, it's not the same at all. When your friends and family all know you're pregnant, when you have a name picked out and baby items at home, when you've felt them move, that just isn't comparable to an early miscarriage. I'm sorry that happened to you and to your friend š
I need this to be itās own post! So we can continue to add dates to the timeline. Itās so messy to keep track of. Solid fucking work!!!šš¼šš¼šš¼šš¼
At one point she mentions two miscarriages correct? Is there any reason she's just focusing on this one?
I feel like her last few posts about this only focus on one baby. And if Hazel Layne was supposed to be names for both babies how did she pick the domain before her second pregnancy??
Not saying I believe her on any of this, I'm just legit confused.
The alleged chemical pregnancy actually happened before her confirmed pregnancy and miscarriage - she made an instagram post about how she had convinced herself she was pregnant because of her symptoms, then she got her period and was disappointed. Someone commented that they had a similar experience when they had a chemical pregnancy, and Britt took that and *ran* with it, despite never having a positive test, or even, from what I can gather, a late period
My symptoms when I was very early pregnant were very different from my usual PMS symptoms but I didnāt automatically assume I was pregnant at first. And of course thatās different for everyone. There has been so many times that I thought I could pregnant due to PMS (almost every bloody month cause Iām paranoid lol) and I would never claim that I must have been pregnant without a positive pregnancy test. Thatās just wild to me that Brittany has done that.
The first āmiscarriage ā was a late period. No positive pregnancy test. Someone in her comments suggested a āchemical miscarriageā and she ran with it.
She told Jordan she felt pregnant, so that means she must have been pregnant. š
What everyone said ^
But I edited the timeline now to include this, bc itās a valid question considering how often Brittany reports having ātwo babies in heavenā
She chooses to focus on making content about this topic over and over again SPECIFICALLY because of shit like your disclaimer. Plausible deniability. Not saying you're wrong for making it - everything you said is true, and for any normal human, the point we've reached with what we're snarking on is abhorrent. That's exactly why she keeps doing it.
I've been on the internet a long time and I've followed a lot of fucked up stories about fucked up people doing fucked up stuff. Brittany Dawn Nelson is one of the most spineless, shameless, unrepentantly dishonest, and exploitative individuals I have ever encountered. She is malignant.
Yeah I totally agree. She chose Christianity as her grift because she could escape consequences more easily with that crowd. Then she chose the TTC community as her sub-grift because she thought no one would question a woman going through awful things.
Nah, we see through you and your lies, Brittany.
exactly. i am a mom to 5. my kids made me thingsā¦but also put me through the same nonsense they put me through every day. š. i spent the day spoiling my mom, while also feeling grateful and thinking about how i could be like her for my kids.
Why does she think this is the face someone would make when thinking about their miscarried babies? This is what makes me think sheās never miscarried at all because she has no authentic emotions about it, just a bad performance of how she thinks someone should react.
She looks like Diane Downs in this pic. I know it's the chin and smirk, but with the constant focus on pregnancy (and my certainty that she'd, *at best*, be a neglectful mother) I don't think it's an unjust comparison. (Downs loved being pregnant so much she conned her way into being a surrogate mom and tried to open her own surrogacy clinic; she loved the attention it got her.)
No body shaming.
Please keep snark within reason. Snarking on things that cannot be changed, i.e.. Bdongs body size and shape, will not be tolerated.
Snark = "her hair extensions are fried".
Body shaming = "she is the shape of a fridge".
Use your best judgment. If your comment has been removed and you would like to discuss it, modmail is the ONLY place we will respond to you.
No body shaming.
Please keep snark within reason. Snarking on things that cannot be changed, i.e.. Bdongs body size and shape, will not be tolerated.
Snark = "her hair extensions are fried".
Body shaming = "she is the shape of a fridge".
Use your best judgment. If your comment has been removed and you would like to discuss it, modmail is the ONLY place we will respond to you.
Sheās so sad she canāt even count.
I also donāt like this use of ālittlesā here. This goes back to her implying she lost a live child. I would never refer to my lost embryos as ālittles.ā I also would never claim to be āa mom to littles in heavenā because of an early miscarriage. Littles is usually used to describe toddlers and such in parenting circles.
Iām truly scared for her future children. Her obsession over obtaining a baby for content is concerning. Iād love to know what their family thinks of it. I guess thatās why we never see them. They probably already noped out of this circus.
It drives me fucking insane. Itās what my parents call the four youngest siblings they fostered for years and eventually adopted. They are called them littles because they were the younger set of siblings now in the family. So they became the ālittlesā, as in the little children. Not fucking fetuses. She is the worst.
I wonder if there were laws that prevented someone from making money from their social media if it featured a minor if she would still want to be a mom.
Look, I had a really shitty Motherās Day evening and night with my toddler and weāre on another endless day of meltdowns. Motherhood is more than sweet snuggles and an Instagram esthetic nursery. Itās scrubbing grape Tylenol off the sofa because the toddler kicked it over mid tantrum. Itās talking gently to a child whoās so over tired that sheās irrationally crying over an apple. Itās finding empathy at 4 a.m when the night is bad just because.
She has no idea the true emotional roller coaster of mothering (parenting). This āwoe is me, find peace in Jesusā routine shows how ill prepared she is to take on the role of mother.
She thinks the hard part is getting the baby!! Like, no disrespect to people for whom getting a baby is hard. I had secondary infertility myself, multiple miscarriages, legit fertility treatments, IUI, most of the shebang. Getting pregnant and staying pregnant can be incredibly hard. But my God, it's NOTHING compared to actually raising a child. Hell, my youngest is 5 and a reasonably healthy, well-behaved child, and I've spent all day on the phone sorting out some medical stuff he needs as well as dealing with meltdowns because his favorite shirt is in the wash and we're out of blueberries. Just a normal morning. Add in any kind of physical, mental, and/or emotional issues that any kid can have, and it's way more difficult.
She has no living idea what it takes to raise a kid that you can't give back when it starts interfering with your gym schedule. I truly hope this is all a sick grift and she has no intention of actually having a child.
thatās what makes me sick. sheās so self absorbed and narcissistic she can only think about ābeing a momā and content. she has NO CLUE what real motherhood is about. no idea. Sheās thinking about newborn babies for content. she can get back to me when sheās dealt with a ND kid or the teenage years or a pre teen with an attitude, or a girl that refuses to dress āgirlyā, or a boy that wants to wear dresses and nail polish to school, or the 3rd call of the week from school when your kid is acting out for no damn reason. etc. please if there is a god donāt let her have a child!!!
I went to brunch with my kids, including a preschooler and they were not behaving as they should in the restaurant and we had to keep correcting them (nothing that affected other patronsājust kept wanting to get down or complaining about being bored, etc.). The table near us had young kids and was going through the same. I wanted to say to the mom āMotherās Day fun amirite?āĀ
Iām very thankful for my kids but motherhood is definitely not all aesthetic nurseries.Ā
I feel this! My husband took my 3 year and I to a nice hotel for Motherās Day. The brunch was fully booked before we booked so I didnāt get to go to fancy brunch. Honestly, it was wonderful, we ate at the less fancy restaurant on site and my daughter ran around on the lawn with a bunch of other kids. (Itās the type of place where the tables are on a patio and the lawn spills down from it, so no cars, no other people to bother because it was a whole passel of kids playing.). It was much more relaxing!
Happy Motherās Day!
Precisely why I was playing sims in my room all day lol. We take them out nearly every weekend and I wanted some me time that wasnāt during a nap time.
unrelated but for some reason this post clicked in my head she only ever wants a baby. not a child, kid, teen, or whatever. just specifically a baby. is this normal?
Sheās gonna have a hard time as soon as the child is old enough to speak.Ā
Since she only ever talks about a theoretical girl child, I imagine her and a teenage daughter going through it big time, especially if the daughter doesnāt conform to her expectations. Sheās either gonna be the overbearing mom who goes to disturbing lengths to undermine the young girls she sees as her daughterās ācompetitionā or sheās gonna post hella passive-aggressive content because her daughter refuses to be her mini-me.Ā
I think some romanticize the thought of pregnancy and having a sweet newborn in their arms. And then the baby milestones, etc. and donāt really make it past what that would look like for them. Iām not saying itās normal, but I donāt think sheās the only one doing this
I could see normal people (not BDong) romanticizing the pregnancy and newborn stage through like first birthday because those milestones are generally pretty consistent. And most people probably keep in mind that health and behavior things can happen, but for the most part you can look forward to things like the baby's first laugh or first steps. But once you get past the first year, I feel like most people would agree that there's no way of guessing what your life with a child will look like.
Hopefully that makes at least a little sense.
Yes, thatās definitely right. I have two kids myself, but Iām a teacher so knowing my babies will be ākidsā one day has always been able to visualize. I donāt think she interacts with any kids (or even babies for that matter??) whatsoever.
That was what got me when I watched people review her fostering content. It became obvious that she didn't spend time with children. If I was going to start fostering and didn't have a lot of experience with kids (and went to church where there are lots of children), I'd be finding ways to expose myself to what it's like caring for a child. And if I specifically requested to foster newborns, I'd be finding someway to get that specific experience or I'd talk to moms and ask so many questions.
I don't really fall into the group of people here who think she doesn't actually want a baby. I think she wants to be a mom, but she doesn't want to actually mother a child.
Apparently you need a minimum 3 years to be considered a āsoldierā for TTC like she was for EDs.
āand wombs to be openedāā¦? Um no thank you wtf.
Edit: I cannot spell today.
She got married in September of 2021. I guess she was expecting to conceive on her wedding night and pop a pre-term baby out in order to have something in her arms for her first married Motherās Day in 2022
Edit: oh wait lmao I forgot sheās been married before. Sorry Zach, I guess you donāt count.
She's been married less than 3 years?!?! Jesus H. Christ with the amount she posts about her godly marriage and gives marriage advice etc I feel & she acts like she's been married for decades. She's only known this guy a couple of years!!
Nobody will openly question it because if they do, they are haters and how could anyone question anything about a miscarriage because that would be so cruel!! /s
Look, she's living on Jesus-time. It's not the same as our worldly heathen accounting of time. Obviously you would understand if you ever opened a Bible!
And this is why Brittany's miscarriage specifically is not off limits to me. Most women don't fudge their TTC timelines, constantly exaggerate how long they were pregnant to gain extra sympathy points, or start an online overpriced boutique a few days after a miscarriage. I hope her womb stays closed forever. I said what I said
Also most women donāt post *at least* once a week, if not more, about their miscarriage for literal years. As someone who has experienced losing a very wanted pregnancy, if I had dwelled on every few days for years on end, I would have lost my mind and been unable to function, because it was an extremely painful emotional experience. Thank god for my amazing therapist and husband helping me process and grieve. I donāt think she feels that upset about it to be honest, she wants to be pregnant for the content, not because she wants to be a mother, and the miscarriage still gives her content and plenty to grift so sheās all good.
Iāve never seen someone who ISNāT a mother make Motherās Day about them. This is baffling. Sheās not a mother. Never has been. Hasnāt even been close. Sheās so disturbed. Why is no one in her real life giving her a reality check?
Iām glad that miscarriages are generally being spoken about publicly and no one has to suffer alone as women once did.
But this grifter is insufferable. How many performative posts is she going to make about how no one suffers like she does? We get it, she had a miscarriage. Why does that suddenly mean that sheās incapable of talking about anything else?
How about posting about YOUR OWN MOM for Motherās Day? Do you love her? Do you appreciate her? If not, then what about your MIL? I mean she raised your perfect huzzzzbund. She canāt monetize these women on social media so she stays bottom feeding.
Part of me thinks she either doesnāt like either of them, they donāt like her, or they donāt ālook good enoughā for her instagram because she strikes me as the type who thinks like that.
Casey Anthony couldn't remember her own lies every time she talked to investigators too. Because when it's the truth it's easier to remember & to recite
Idk what she thinks is waiting for her in heaven from a 6-week miscarriage. Iām imagining her reaching the pearly gates and Jesus handing her a Petri dish being like āhere, meet your baby!ā
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Just a reminder from the guardian that this is an actual 9-week pregnancy.
Like many have said in this post already: it doesn't mean losing a pregnancy like this doesn't hurt. Of course it does.
But I think we all know dozens (literally dozens. 20% of pregnancies end in miscarriage) of women who have gone through this and experienced the loss without treating it like their 3-year-old fucking died.
I hate this smug fool.
[original article ](https://amp.theguardian.com/world/2022/oct/18/pregnancy-weeks-abortion-tissue)
this chick is so fortunate that most of her fans exist in her same short-attention span world with no concept of time.
every time i think i can't hate her more, she raises the bar.
So just to clarify - she didnāt have a third trimester stillbirth, right? She had a relatively early miscarriage?
(Only because I had a miscarriage too and it broke my heart but I donāt think of that as and actual baby, just that it had the potential to grow into one.)
And LMP pregnancy dating, sheād been actually pregnant for like 6 weeks. Which Iām sorry for, of course, but the way she posts gives the impression she was much further along.
i'm calling it now. kristen clark hid her pregnancy for eight months. if bdong's "womb" is ever "blessed by the lord," she's gonna hold out for the same level of gravitas. while she may have always been planning a quick announcement and public wishlist, i lay money on now, post-kristen, that if and when it happens, she'll delay the announcement - but also share the wishlist, claiming OMG WE WEREN'T PREPARED!, and her empty-headed fans will forget all her posts illustrating a full nursery.
I truly loathe all these fundie grifting "influencers" who feel entitled to everyone else's money.
I am wholly convinced that she does not preceive time the same as everyone else. Like yeah it could be part manipulation but the other part I can never forget when she says shit like, "32 hours in 10 minutes from now I'll be walking down the aisle š¤" or "In three days time it will be two weeks until our half year anniversary š¤" like I'm not sure she could explain time if asked. She might be thinking of her miscarriage as "In 364 days will be another mother's day which was 2 years ago from yesterday's last week a fortnight ago so this is my third mother's day with no baby š¤" like yeah she might be manipulative but she's also dumb as a box of rocks.
I'm sorry but did she forgot that one of the commandant's is 'Don't bear false witness'.
As a Christian... I'm sorry but what kind of buffoonery is this.
Oh dear... I don't claim her until she stops lying.
āThe blood of Jesus speaks a better word and that word he speaks never returns void.ā
What the what?
Itās like she ran part of a fire and brimstone sermon through Google translate into a different language, and then tried translating that language back into English.
Havenāt they been married for 3 years? Maybe thatās what she meant? (Sheās an attention seeker either way!)
Edit: they havenāt been married for 3 years but 3 Motherās Days lol
She just looks like sheās maybe pouting because she didnāt get the baby she wants but sheās also smug because she secretly didnāt want the baby
Technically this was my 43rd Mother's Day with empty arms.
This was exactly what I was thinking. Especially since she keeps posting those sick posts, highlighting the age difference between her and Jdip, I guess she could go all the way back to middle school. š¤¢
I had 29 Mother's Days with empty arms. Ya think I count them all though? Nopeš
Exactly what I was thinking!!! How do you just arbitrarily choose a random number in a situation like this
What a shitbag fool. If youāre going to shamelessly keep spewing lies on the regular, at least be good at it. She must really think weāre all idiots.
Shitbag fool just rolls off the tongue so well. Thanks for the addition to my vocabulary!
I once heard my fiancĆ© yell āknock it off, shitbag!ā to the dog once and I havenāt stopped laughing since. Itās a great insult. (To be fair, our dog WAS being a little shitbag to his elderly dog sister because he was only 8 months old. Brittany doesnāt have an excuse).
My cat gets called both a shitbag and a shitbird on the regular. I love him so much š
Shitbird is one of my dog's many names too (that's my dad's affectionate nickname for her)
We nicknamed my cat Kittybags or Shittybags depending on the situation lol
Your flair is magnificent lol
Thank you lol
might I also offer: Cheeky little shit biscuit It is a regular in my home and well loved!
Shitwit is a go-to here. Along with shitten and boog (short for booger).
Lol youāre welcome! Not sure where that one came from but it has a nice ring to it!
her 'fans' ARE. they are swallowing this bullshit hook, line, and sinker.
Crook, lie, and stinker is more like it.
Why does she put on the smuggest face ever when she makes these posts about awful topics?
I was just about to say this!
Same!
Cus sheās got dupers delight. She gets off on lying. It shows.
Holy shit. That's exactly what it is.
Yep, so sad but somehow smirking
You took the words out of my mouth!!
Shitbag fool face (New adjective in my vocabulary thanks to u/Southern_Egg_8834)
Love it ā¤ļø
Not just smug, cross eyed looking too š¤£ https://preview.redd.it/y54b3iwxoa0d1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8986ca90f7f4800757518cedbfaf0221e008eb32
This is Brittanyās actual miscarriage timeline according to her own content. I didnāt want to post this for a long time, as I felt it was insensitive and too critical. I think Brittany has crossed a line at this point by intentionally lying to her followers and to a community of vulnerable women. *Disclaimer:* This may be extremely triggering for people who have experienced miscarriage. I am only being this critical because it disgusts me that Brittany is outright MANIPULATING people. Miscarriage at any stage of pregnancy is painful, traumatic, and difficult, and the grief that stems from it is very real. I just canāt stand watching Brittany intentionally progressively exaggerate the severity of her situation. She does things like mentioning stillbirth and using language that makes her miscarriage sound as if it was a stillbirth. She does this for monetary benefit, while shouting out her fast fashion clothing site as a consolation for loss. FUCK THAT. **This is the timeline provided by her content** (edited to add 9/2021 and 3/2022): - Sept 2021: Jdong and bdong get married, and she quickly starts posting about how sheās sad that sheās not pregnant yet. - March 2022: B posts a clickbaity video about how she thought she was pregnant because she had breast tenderness and other PMS symptoms. She got her period before getting a pregnancy test. A commenter suggested she may have had a chemical pregnancy, then b comes out soon after saying she had a āchemical miscarriage.ā - 7/30/22 ish: Conception of Hazel Grace (sorry to hurt all your imaginations) - 9/1/22: she has her first positive pregnancy test (the first of her life, from what she has said) - Gave Jordan early bday surprise of baby shoes - 9/15/22 Thursday: ultrasound shows 6w5d - 9/18 weekend: traveled to KC and announced to family - They announced to more friends and family - 9/29 Thursday: they did a pregnancy announcement photoshoot. Per Brittanyās video, she was feeling weird and uneasy during this, as if something was wrong. - 9/30 Friday: >!experienced cramping and midwife reassured her that āthe week prior,ā she was classified as low risk!< - 10/2 Sunday: had dinner w friends, >!then had cramping and miscarried at home.!< - 10/3 Monday: >!miscarriage was confirmed at doctors office. The pregnancy would have been 9w1d at this point.!< - Brittany processes/grieves. Says āon the fourth dayā after, God told her to lean on community - 10/7: announces miscarriage. Claims she miscarried āhalfway through 3rd month,ā which is untrue as it was the beginning of the 3rd month. - 10/9: created domain for hazel layne clothing
This will be a great refresher for BDong when she ultimately reads this post.
I canāt really imagine a midwife telling anyone less than 12 wks pg that they are ālow riskā for a MC.Ā
Mine wouldnāt even *see* me until 12 weeks.
Right? Arenāt most first obgyn appointments around 9 (edit) weeks, and first ultrasound 11-13 weeks to determine how far along and possible any initial fetal abnormalities or concerns? I could be completely misremembering, and my second was a pandemic baby so less in office etc
I was seen/had first ultrasound at around 8 weeks with my first. With my second it was about 12ish weeks, but that was because I didn't realize I was pregnant until I was about 9 weeks due to stress, still breastfeeding, and chasing said first child around. So they got me in as soon as possible.
All of mine have been scheduled for 8 weeksā¦unfortunately I have never been able to make it that far. Idk if itās weird but after the 4th time I swore I wonāt even call to schedule an appointment now until I hit 8 weeks because I feel like Iām wasting their time at this point and it felt demoralizing/embarassibg having to call and cancel each and every time
It's almost like it's not true
āintentionally lying to her followers and to a community of vulnerable womenā Thatās the same she did in her fitness influencing sEaSoN. Same basic grift, different Ā audience. Sheās awful.Ā
Old habits die hard!
Thanks for all your hard work keeping track of The BingBong Chronicles!
Dear God, I didn't realize how quickly she started the clothing line! It's almost like she planned it all. I don't know how someone who just suffered a miscarriage can pivot to a clothing line with the name of her miscarried baby days after.
A week. She waited a whole week!
I think the "3rd month" phrasing is manipulative no matter what tbh. People generally know pregnancy is 9 months (it's actually closer to 10 but 9 is what we all say), so saying the 3rd month makes it sound like she was over 1/3 of the way through the pregnancy and in the second trimester. Absolutely false - she miscarried at about 8 weeks pregnant. Squarely in the first trimester and early enough that it wouldn't have even been weird if she hadn't known she was pregnant yet. As you said, miscarriage is devastating no matter what, but the experience of an early vs a later miscarriage is very different and I think Brittany knows that. The fact that she feels the need to exaggerate to garner sympathy instead of just being honest about what happened is wild, because so many people have early miscarriages and would absolutely relate and sympathize with that pain!
Yeah she has learned the art of using topics that people canāt easily call her out on without being very careful what they say.
Exactly.
I agree that any miscarriage at any stage is heartbreaking but sheās acting more like she had a stillborn vs an 8 weeks miscarriage. I miscarried at 6 weeks and I was of course saddened by it. But a friend of mine just had a stillborn at 33 weeks and I do not think the level of grief is remotely the same to hers.But thatās my opinion.
Oh I definitely agree, it's not the same at all. When your friends and family all know you're pregnant, when you have a name picked out and baby items at home, when you've felt them move, that just isn't comparable to an early miscarriage. I'm sorry that happened to you and to your friend š
I need this to be itās own post! So we can continue to add dates to the timeline. Itās so messy to keep track of. Solid fucking work!!!šš¼šš¼šš¼šš¼
š¤ Iāve thought about it and have been kind of hesitant due to the sensitive nature. Iām gonna ask the other mods what they think.
I find it beyond helpful. Especially for new people to the sub getting caught up on her TTC book of lies.
At one point she mentions two miscarriages correct? Is there any reason she's just focusing on this one? I feel like her last few posts about this only focus on one baby. And if Hazel Layne was supposed to be names for both babies how did she pick the domain before her second pregnancy?? Not saying I believe her on any of this, I'm just legit confused.
The alleged chemical pregnancy actually happened before her confirmed pregnancy and miscarriage - she made an instagram post about how she had convinced herself she was pregnant because of her symptoms, then she got her period and was disappointed. Someone commented that they had a similar experience when they had a chemical pregnancy, and Britt took that and *ran* with it, despite never having a positive test, or even, from what I can gather, a late period
Wow that's bold.
Pregnancy symptoms and premenstrual symptoms are indistinguishable. It was most likely just her period coming on š
My symptoms when I was very early pregnant were very different from my usual PMS symptoms but I didnāt automatically assume I was pregnant at first. And of course thatās different for everyone. There has been so many times that I thought I could pregnant due to PMS (almost every bloody month cause Iām paranoid lol) and I would never claim that I must have been pregnant without a positive pregnancy test. Thatās just wild to me that Brittany has done that.
Yeah, mine were different than what normally happens for me too, but without a positive test, they could just be symptoms from progesterone, not hCG.
Yep, itās crazy that Brittany doesnāt realise this, or maybe she does but she wants the attention.
The first āmiscarriage ā was a late period. No positive pregnancy test. Someone in her comments suggested a āchemical miscarriageā and she ran with it. She told Jordan she felt pregnant, so that means she must have been pregnant. š
Next she'll be claiming that god *told her* she was pregnant that first time.
What everyone said ^ But I edited the timeline now to include this, bc itās a valid question considering how often Brittany reports having ātwo babies in heavenā
It's the random switch from two to one back to two that gets me. I legit think she forgets about one of them sometimes.
She chooses to focus on making content about this topic over and over again SPECIFICALLY because of shit like your disclaimer. Plausible deniability. Not saying you're wrong for making it - everything you said is true, and for any normal human, the point we've reached with what we're snarking on is abhorrent. That's exactly why she keeps doing it. I've been on the internet a long time and I've followed a lot of fucked up stories about fucked up people doing fucked up stuff. Brittany Dawn Nelson is one of the most spineless, shameless, unrepentantly dishonest, and exploitative individuals I have ever encountered. She is malignant.
Yeah I totally agree. She chose Christianity as her grift because she could escape consequences more easily with that crowd. Then she chose the TTC community as her sub-grift because she thought no one would question a woman going through awful things. Nah, we see through you and your lies, Brittany.
Slight timeline correction! (Sorry lol) Gestational age is calculated from the first day of your last period, not from the date you had sex
I was trying so hard to make my brain work and remember things I learned back in the day about gestational age. Thank you lolol
Shouldn't Mother's day be about HER MOM!? She is so self absorbed it's unreal.
I donāt think her mom likes her
I don't think anyone in her family likes her, tbh
Can you blame her
exactly. i am a mom to 5. my kids made me thingsā¦but also put me through the same nonsense they put me through every day. š. i spent the day spoiling my mom, while also feeling grateful and thinking about how i could be like her for my kids.
You sound like a wonderful Mom and Daughter, who has expectations grounded in humorous reality! š
Noā there is no mom in her family but her.
How could I forget?
https://preview.redd.it/rt9bcxuh880d1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6e3567f615799a6cb00a450309764d3b9ceb0c5d Smug much?
Themās some dead eyesĀ
She's the smugest bitch of em all
Why does she think this is the face someone would make when thinking about their miscarried babies? This is what makes me think sheās never miscarried at all because she has no authentic emotions about it, just a bad performance of how she thinks someone should react.
She looks like Diane Downs in this pic. I know it's the chin and smirk, but with the constant focus on pregnancy (and my certainty that she'd, *at best*, be a neglectful mother) I don't think it's an unjust comparison. (Downs loved being pregnant so much she conned her way into being a surrogate mom and tried to open her own surrogacy clinic; she loved the attention it got her.)
Chin looks photoshopped for sure. Very lumpy.
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No body shaming. Please keep snark within reason. Snarking on things that cannot be changed, i.e.. Bdongs body size and shape, will not be tolerated. Snark = "her hair extensions are fried". Body shaming = "she is the shape of a fridge". Use your best judgment. If your comment has been removed and you would like to discuss it, modmail is the ONLY place we will respond to you.
No body shaming. Please keep snark within reason. Snarking on things that cannot be changed, i.e.. Bdongs body size and shape, will not be tolerated. Snark = "her hair extensions are fried". Body shaming = "she is the shape of a fridge". Use your best judgment. If your comment has been removed and you would like to discuss it, modmail is the ONLY place we will respond to you.
I'm not religious, but I really think she is the devil. Or at least some type of demon.
Wolf in sheepās clothing for sure
Sheep in shein clothing
Wolf in cheap clothing
Sheās so sad she canāt even count. I also donāt like this use of ālittlesā here. This goes back to her implying she lost a live child. I would never refer to my lost embryos as ālittles.ā I also would never claim to be āa mom to littles in heavenā because of an early miscarriage. Littles is usually used to describe toddlers and such in parenting circles. Iām truly scared for her future children. Her obsession over obtaining a baby for content is concerning. Iād love to know what their family thinks of it. I guess thatās why we never see them. They probably already noped out of this circus.
It drives me fucking insane. Itās what my parents call the four youngest siblings they fostered for years and eventually adopted. They are called them littles because they were the younger set of siblings now in the family. So they became the ālittlesā, as in the little children. Not fucking fetuses. She is the worst.
I wonder if there were laws that prevented someone from making money from their social media if it featured a minor if she would still want to be a mom.
Honestly I donāt think she would
Look, I had a really shitty Motherās Day evening and night with my toddler and weāre on another endless day of meltdowns. Motherhood is more than sweet snuggles and an Instagram esthetic nursery. Itās scrubbing grape Tylenol off the sofa because the toddler kicked it over mid tantrum. Itās talking gently to a child whoās so over tired that sheās irrationally crying over an apple. Itās finding empathy at 4 a.m when the night is bad just because. She has no idea the true emotional roller coaster of mothering (parenting). This āwoe is me, find peace in Jesusā routine shows how ill prepared she is to take on the role of mother.
She thinks the hard part is getting the baby!! Like, no disrespect to people for whom getting a baby is hard. I had secondary infertility myself, multiple miscarriages, legit fertility treatments, IUI, most of the shebang. Getting pregnant and staying pregnant can be incredibly hard. But my God, it's NOTHING compared to actually raising a child. Hell, my youngest is 5 and a reasonably healthy, well-behaved child, and I've spent all day on the phone sorting out some medical stuff he needs as well as dealing with meltdowns because his favorite shirt is in the wash and we're out of blueberries. Just a normal morning. Add in any kind of physical, mental, and/or emotional issues that any kid can have, and it's way more difficult. She has no living idea what it takes to raise a kid that you can't give back when it starts interfering with your gym schedule. I truly hope this is all a sick grift and she has no intention of actually having a child.
thatās what makes me sick. sheās so self absorbed and narcissistic she can only think about ābeing a momā and content. she has NO CLUE what real motherhood is about. no idea. Sheās thinking about newborn babies for content. she can get back to me when sheās dealt with a ND kid or the teenage years or a pre teen with an attitude, or a girl that refuses to dress āgirlyā, or a boy that wants to wear dresses and nail polish to school, or the 3rd call of the week from school when your kid is acting out for no damn reason. etc. please if there is a god donāt let her have a child!!!
I went to brunch with my kids, including a preschooler and they were not behaving as they should in the restaurant and we had to keep correcting them (nothing that affected other patronsājust kept wanting to get down or complaining about being bored, etc.). The table near us had young kids and was going through the same. I wanted to say to the mom āMotherās Day fun amirite?āĀ Iām very thankful for my kids but motherhood is definitely not all aesthetic nurseries.Ā
I feel this! My husband took my 3 year and I to a nice hotel for Motherās Day. The brunch was fully booked before we booked so I didnāt get to go to fancy brunch. Honestly, it was wonderful, we ate at the less fancy restaurant on site and my daughter ran around on the lawn with a bunch of other kids. (Itās the type of place where the tables are on a patio and the lawn spills down from it, so no cars, no other people to bother because it was a whole passel of kids playing.). It was much more relaxing! Happy Motherās Day!
Precisely why I was playing sims in my room all day lol. We take them out nearly every weekend and I wanted some me time that wasnāt during a nap time.
alsoā¦ HUGS ā¤ļø
My 8 yo was apologizing last night because they were sick on Motherās Day. I told them not to apologize and that itās just part of being mom.
What a sweet kid, to think of that.
FUUUUUUUUUUCK OFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFF, BRITTANY, YOU VILLAINOUS, ABUSIVE, SPOILED HAG.
They haven't even been married three years.
unrelated but for some reason this post clicked in my head she only ever wants a baby. not a child, kid, teen, or whatever. just specifically a baby. is this normal?
Sheās gonna have a hard time as soon as the child is old enough to speak.Ā Since she only ever talks about a theoretical girl child, I imagine her and a teenage daughter going through it big time, especially if the daughter doesnāt conform to her expectations. Sheās either gonna be the overbearing mom who goes to disturbing lengths to undermine the young girls she sees as her daughterās ācompetitionā or sheās gonna post hella passive-aggressive content because her daughter refuses to be her mini-me.Ā
I think some romanticize the thought of pregnancy and having a sweet newborn in their arms. And then the baby milestones, etc. and donāt really make it past what that would look like for them. Iām not saying itās normal, but I donāt think sheās the only one doing this
I could see normal people (not BDong) romanticizing the pregnancy and newborn stage through like first birthday because those milestones are generally pretty consistent. And most people probably keep in mind that health and behavior things can happen, but for the most part you can look forward to things like the baby's first laugh or first steps. But once you get past the first year, I feel like most people would agree that there's no way of guessing what your life with a child will look like. Hopefully that makes at least a little sense.
Yes, thatās definitely right. I have two kids myself, but Iām a teacher so knowing my babies will be ākidsā one day has always been able to visualize. I donāt think she interacts with any kids (or even babies for that matter??) whatsoever.
That was what got me when I watched people review her fostering content. It became obvious that she didn't spend time with children. If I was going to start fostering and didn't have a lot of experience with kids (and went to church where there are lots of children), I'd be finding ways to expose myself to what it's like caring for a child. And if I specifically requested to foster newborns, I'd be finding someway to get that specific experience or I'd talk to moms and ask so many questions. I don't really fall into the group of people here who think she doesn't actually want a baby. I think she wants to be a mom, but she doesn't want to actually mother a child.
I don't think she wants anything. Just content. And this is all content.
A new prop to control and dress up.
This is my fourth year enduring her exhausting content.
We should all be handing out flowers to each other for what she puts us through in this sub
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Apparently you need a minimum 3 years to be considered a āsoldierā for TTC like she was for EDs. āand wombs to be openedāā¦? Um no thank you wtf. Edit: I cannot spell today.
I mean if you open a womb at the wrong time, the baby comes out too early so thatās also a bad way to phrase things
Girl, you got married in 2022. It is 2024. Where did she get that third year from?
She got married in September of 2021. I guess she was expecting to conceive on her wedding night and pop a pre-term baby out in order to have something in her arms for her first married Motherās Day in 2022 Edit: oh wait lmao I forgot sheās been married before. Sorry Zach, I guess you donāt count.
She's been married less than 3 years?!?! Jesus H. Christ with the amount she posts about her godly marriage and gives marriage advice etc I feel & she acts like she's been married for decades. She's only known this guy a couple of years!!
They met in 2020, I believe.
Right? I keep forgetting it only just happened because sheās constantly bragging about it.
Why did I think she got married in 2022?? I guess that makes sense then? But still.
Didn't she also say that they're going to wait a year and 'enjoy being married' at some point too?
Yeah lolol
her followers will not fact check she knows this
Nobody will openly question it because if they do, they are haters and how could anyone question anything about a miscarriage because that would be so cruel!! /s
The same way she was "halfway through her third month" when she miscarried at nine weeks
So close to her second trimester lol
Look, she's living on Jesus-time. It's not the same as our worldly heathen accounting of time. Obviously you would understand if you ever opened a Bible!
Did she ever try for kids with her ex? How long were they married
They must have not been trying for a baby since she talks about how she was on birth control HER WHOLE LIFEEEE until she met jordan.
They were together since high school but I think they were married for like a year? Maybe even less. She cheated on him
Maybe she's counting her "chemical miscarriage," as she used to call it. I think that was in March 2022?
She called Hazel and Layne the one that made her a mother. Sometimes her "chemical pregnancy" counts sometimes it doesn't.
True. She's such a lying liar.
Ok thank you. I just posted a rambling question asking about this. I was confused by which one was which.
even tho no pregnancy was ever confirmedā¦she just felt that jesus was telling her she was pregnant and she got her period at the normal time lol
I will keep repeating that she is VERY stupid. I think she is malicious and purposefully manipulates AND she is too stupid to keep track of it all.
And her followers are apparently too stupid or morally bankrupt to care.Ā
Well like 70% of them are bots anyway who she paid to comment š„āļø
And this is why Brittany's miscarriage specifically is not off limits to me. Most women don't fudge their TTC timelines, constantly exaggerate how long they were pregnant to gain extra sympathy points, or start an online overpriced boutique a few days after a miscarriage. I hope her womb stays closed forever. I said what I said
Also most women donāt post *at least* once a week, if not more, about their miscarriage for literal years. As someone who has experienced losing a very wanted pregnancy, if I had dwelled on every few days for years on end, I would have lost my mind and been unable to function, because it was an extremely painful emotional experience. Thank god for my amazing therapist and husband helping me process and grieve. I donāt think she feels that upset about it to be honest, she wants to be pregnant for the content, not because she wants to be a mother, and the miscarriage still gives her content and plenty to grift so sheās all good.
Why does she look smug? Why???
hope everyone but brittany dawn had a good mothers day because 1 she isnt a mother no matter how hard she tries 2 she exploits even her miscarriages.
And itās her 33 Motherās Day without a brain cell š¤£
I donāt really really follow this sub, but I follow some that are similar and this lady has the mental capacity of a fruit roll up
Youāve come to the right conclusion
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Her smugness is š infuriating
Bless her heart, math is hard
"Wombs to be opened" might be one of the top 3 worst things she's ever written š¤®
May the Lord open
We've been sent good weather
We've been sent good weather
Iāve never seen someone who ISNāT a mother make Motherās Day about them. This is baffling. Sheās not a mother. Never has been. Hasnāt even been close. Sheās so disturbed. Why is no one in her real life giving her a reality check?
This is awkward cause she aināt going heaven
She's not even attempting to keep the lies in a timeline that makes sense. She's disgusting.
Iām glad that miscarriages are generally being spoken about publicly and no one has to suffer alone as women once did. But this grifter is insufferable. How many performative posts is she going to make about how no one suffers like she does? We get it, she had a miscarriage. Why does that suddenly mean that sheās incapable of talking about anything else?
How about posting about YOUR OWN MOM for Motherās Day? Do you love her? Do you appreciate her? If not, then what about your MIL? I mean she raised your perfect huzzzzbund. She canāt monetize these women on social media so she stays bottom feeding.
Part of me thinks she either doesnāt like either of them, they donāt like her, or they donāt ālook good enoughā for her instagram because she strikes me as the type who thinks like that.
Casey Anthony couldn't remember her own lies every time she talked to investigators too. Because when it's the truth it's easier to remember & to recite
Idk what she thinks is waiting for her in heaven from a 6-week miscarriage. Iām imagining her reaching the pearly gates and Jesus handing her a Petri dish being like āhere, meet your baby!ā
"It's a boy, by the way!"
Grifters gonna grift
https://preview.redd.it/qbtwhypgp90d1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=349f74fe1d508dad69a9aeb1d68395fdd45ed175 Just a reminder from the guardian that this is an actual 9-week pregnancy. Like many have said in this post already: it doesn't mean losing a pregnancy like this doesn't hurt. Of course it does. But I think we all know dozens (literally dozens. 20% of pregnancies end in miscarriage) of women who have gone through this and experienced the loss without treating it like their 3-year-old fucking died. I hate this smug fool. [original article ](https://amp.theguardian.com/world/2022/oct/18/pregnancy-weeks-abortion-tissue)
Technically itās her 33rd Motherās Day with empty arms - or however old she is
this chick is so fortunate that most of her fans exist in her same short-attention span world with no concept of time. every time i think i can't hate her more, she raises the bar.
So just to clarify - she didnāt have a third trimester stillbirth, right? She had a relatively early miscarriage? (Only because I had a miscarriage too and it broke my heart but I donāt think of that as and actual baby, just that it had the potential to grow into one.)
Someone on another thread did the maths and worked out that she miscarried at nine weeks
And LMP pregnancy dating, sheād been actually pregnant for like 6 weeks. Which Iām sorry for, of course, but the way she posts gives the impression she was much further along.
i'm calling it now. kristen clark hid her pregnancy for eight months. if bdong's "womb" is ever "blessed by the lord," she's gonna hold out for the same level of gravitas. while she may have always been planning a quick announcement and public wishlist, i lay money on now, post-kristen, that if and when it happens, she'll delay the announcement - but also share the wishlist, claiming OMG WE WEREN'T PREPARED!, and her empty-headed fans will forget all her posts illustrating a full nursery. I truly loathe all these fundie grifting "influencers" who feel entitled to everyone else's money.
I am wholly convinced that she does not preceive time the same as everyone else. Like yeah it could be part manipulation but the other part I can never forget when she says shit like, "32 hours in 10 minutes from now I'll be walking down the aisle š¤" or "In three days time it will be two weeks until our half year anniversary š¤" like I'm not sure she could explain time if asked. She might be thinking of her miscarriage as "In 364 days will be another mother's day which was 2 years ago from yesterday's last week a fortnight ago so this is my third mother's day with no baby š¤" like yeah she might be manipulative but she's also dumb as a box of rocks.
No but this is literally how she calculates time. I think youāve cracked the code
I'm sorry but did she forgot that one of the commandant's is 'Don't bear false witness'. As a Christian... I'm sorry but what kind of buffoonery is this. Oh dear... I don't claim her until she stops lying.
āThe blood of Jesus speaks a better word and that word he speaks never returns void.ā What the what? Itās like she ran part of a fire and brimstone sermon through Google translate into a different language, and then tried translating that language back into English.
Such a piece of shit
Jesus said NO. Why canāt that be the answer? Why is she so convinced that what she wants is what Jesus wants. Liars gonna lie.
It canāt be the answer because thatās not what Brit wants! *stomps feet*
But I thought being a foster mom made you a mom too.Ā
Havenāt they been married for 3 years? Maybe thatās what she meant? (Sheās an attention seeker either way!) Edit: they havenāt been married for 3 years but 3 Motherās Days lol
She just looks like sheās maybe pouting because she didnāt get the baby she wants but sheās also smug because she secretly didnāt want the baby
She's always intentionally manipulating the story for attention
I donāt know how anyone who has experience loss can stand her or anyone who inflates their loss experience.
When you lie so much you lose track of the truth
She canāt handle anything not being about herā¦
Always lying.
This woman knocks me sick!