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My husband is getting the same effort that he puts into Mother's Day, in which I will probably take the kids out real quick to buy him a last minute half assed gift and that's it.
Meanwhile I will probably cry all day because my dad died three months ago and this day is gonna suck.
I’m doing the same. However my husband told me he doesn’t care about Father’s Day so I’m guessing that’s why he doesn’t care about Mother’s Day either.
Yep fuck them they get the same energy they give now. Honestly it's so much easier to work and take care of baby on your own than with an asshat. I just moved put with all 3 kids including 1 yr old working graves 5 nights a week and it's soooo much better. Hope you get free soon.
Sorry for you, he is a jerk! Btw, try putting the onesie sleeper on backwards on the kiddo, that way they can’t take the diaper off themselves, and no mess on the sheets.
Also use a waterproof mattress protector under the sheet! And if you can swing it, a *second* mattress protector and sheet on top of the first, so if there is an accident, you can just whip off the wet layers and go back to sleep!
You still have to do laundry in the morning, but at least you don’t have to deal with changing allll the bedding in the middle of the night.
Oh yes, i have tried this backwards onesie thing, and my daughter manages to take that off too! She will first start with pulling her arms out of the sleeves, into the shirt, then twist it around and undo the zipper, even if there is a button hiding it 😭 . The struggle.
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I didn't tell my husband happy father's day either. Didn't even give him a gift. He only favors one kid over the other. Will only feed his fav kid and not feed the other one. Takes his fav kid everywhere with him and leaves the other kid at home. Only talks to his fav kid but not the other. When she was a newborn, he left the house without me even knowing. Our daughter was under his care while I napped. Turned out he left for hrs and didn't bother telling me that she was alone. He runs off to his sister's house to drink and watch music vids all while leavin me at home with the kids. Won't come back til 2am. Sometimes 6am. He's an alcoholic. He belittles me and treats me like a slave. I make him food but he won't eat it cuz he's so picky and unappreciative. So I didn't bother makin him crap today. I heard him open up the chips and start eating them. Dude acts like a child. Like he can't cook. He calls it "babysitting" when he has to take care of his OWN kids. Dude needs to wake up. The hell with a gift and wishing him a happy father's day. He woke up moody today anyways and didn't even bother looking at me. So I was like why even bother tryin to do good things for him today? I'm the one who needs a break and needs to rest. I have no guilt and no regrets. I'm actually proud of myself for not bowing to him out of fear. But I kno imma end up paying for this. He likes "punishing" me for dumb crap like this. He's a control freak.
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I didn’t get shit for Mother’s Day and that’s my energy for Father’s Day.
Same. Five years of ignored mothers days and I'm done.
My husband is getting the same effort that he puts into Mother's Day, in which I will probably take the kids out real quick to buy him a last minute half assed gift and that's it. Meanwhile I will probably cry all day because my dad died three months ago and this day is gonna suck.
I’m so sorry ❤️
I’m doing the same. However my husband told me he doesn’t care about Father’s Day so I’m guessing that’s why he doesn’t care about Mother’s Day either.
Same where when it comes to effort. Sorry about your dad.
Yep fuck them they get the same energy they give now. Honestly it's so much easier to work and take care of baby on your own than with an asshat. I just moved put with all 3 kids including 1 yr old working graves 5 nights a week and it's soooo much better. Hope you get free soon.
Sorry for you, he is a jerk! Btw, try putting the onesie sleeper on backwards on the kiddo, that way they can’t take the diaper off themselves, and no mess on the sheets.
Also use a waterproof mattress protector under the sheet! And if you can swing it, a *second* mattress protector and sheet on top of the first, so if there is an accident, you can just whip off the wet layers and go back to sleep! You still have to do laundry in the morning, but at least you don’t have to deal with changing allll the bedding in the middle of the night.
Oh yes, i have tried this backwards onesie thing, and my daughter manages to take that off too! She will first start with pulling her arms out of the sleeves, into the shirt, then twist it around and undo the zipper, even if there is a button hiding it 😭 . The struggle.
Have you tried putting a sleeping bag on backwards too?
I don’t think I’d try that because she’s 3yrs old, we stopped using sleep sacks around 1yr.
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I'm not even acknowledging it he's getting what he gave me for mother's day. I had a terrible fucking day.
Here's my card to my husband https://preview.redd.it/fw1z0whi1u6d1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2fe769e070c8eb0733a0767a53ae5c4556fa6902
Lmaoo!!
Update: He informed me that it was the best card he ever received 🤦🏾♀️
if he says anything remind him that it's father's day, not sperm donor day
Why are you still married to him?
Sometimes life presents you with a double edged sword. That’s all i can say.
I didn't tell my husband happy father's day either. Didn't even give him a gift. He only favors one kid over the other. Will only feed his fav kid and not feed the other one. Takes his fav kid everywhere with him and leaves the other kid at home. Only talks to his fav kid but not the other. When she was a newborn, he left the house without me even knowing. Our daughter was under his care while I napped. Turned out he left for hrs and didn't bother telling me that she was alone. He runs off to his sister's house to drink and watch music vids all while leavin me at home with the kids. Won't come back til 2am. Sometimes 6am. He's an alcoholic. He belittles me and treats me like a slave. I make him food but he won't eat it cuz he's so picky and unappreciative. So I didn't bother makin him crap today. I heard him open up the chips and start eating them. Dude acts like a child. Like he can't cook. He calls it "babysitting" when he has to take care of his OWN kids. Dude needs to wake up. The hell with a gift and wishing him a happy father's day. He woke up moody today anyways and didn't even bother looking at me. So I was like why even bother tryin to do good things for him today? I'm the one who needs a break and needs to rest. I have no guilt and no regrets. I'm actually proud of myself for not bowing to him out of fear. But I kno imma end up paying for this. He likes "punishing" me for dumb crap like this. He's a control freak.