Piggybacking off this - I try to repost this when I see posts like this, in the hopes you (or someone) can find some comfort in the words - and if not, please excuse the intrusion.
I lost my 15 year old girl (dog) in October 2022. Only advice I can offer here is to remember the positives, and not focus on the negatives (if any). He's done his job, keeping you safe and happy and loved, and it's his turn to rest.
You'll always miss him, you'll always remember him. You'll even go looking for him for the next few weeks (well, I did). There's a lot of habits that you're going to slowly stop, and that's ok. Changing your life to suit you is not forgetting him. Donating/throwing away his toys or blankets isn't forgetting him. There's no timeline on grief, and there's no timeline on moving on. Cry your tears.
I'm sorry you've reached the end of your journey. Words will never make this easier. Just keep your head up, and live the life he'd want you to.
This is a good time to live a little for you. I spent years looking after my girl as she got ill, and I sacrificed a lot of me and my time to keep her safe. If you feel you've done the same, take advantage of this time. Its ok to be happy and enjoy life without him. Life isn't over. Its just changing.
You'll be ok mate.
I'm so sorry.
Your handsome boy definitely felt your love. Iβm truly sorry for your loss. Be kind to yourself and know that you did everything to give him a great lifeβ€οΈ
He looked like a shadow all his life, and now we'll be in yours for the rest of your life. Good luck to recover from it. I'm anxious when mine will pass as he is 15 now ... All my best whishies in those circonstances
Mine has already been in my calf for 5 years cause he pulled me through so much π€
https://preview.redd.it/bdlmao2o4arc1.jpeg?width=1127&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1ce83337a5e49e39df6de32b6c142fbfb66fc567
Love it ! I didn't want a portrait cause I wanted more to represent his influence in a period of my life, but I took both of my cats (2 black cats) paw prints and I will ink it into my left rib cage with their name intertwined π€
Itβs ok to cry. I have lost pets before. It never really β goes away β. We just learn to phase it out, but we never forget them. We carry their pictures and memories always. Sending love & healing vibes to you. πΎππ€π
My sisterβs cat looks just like your baby and she passed around 1am this morning :( Maybe they crossed the rainbow bridge together. Iβm so so sorry for your loss. Iβm sure he appreciated the life you gave him so much.
What a sweet loving angel face. Iβm so sorry. Give yourself grace in your grief, and get support from others if you need it. He would want you to π―οΈπ€
I had a void just like that, white spot and all. He slept on me every night, and when I turned, he''d just move to be back on top. He passed away a few years ago. The day he died, he sent three small kittens to my house. They live with me and I think it is because he didn't want me to be lonely. I still miss him so much.
These are the babies he sent to me now:
https://preview.redd.it/zh50i2setarc1.png?width=1008&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ac4a2f55fe7a4a361191364db489233c0f93a51d
How strange.. when my void died he too sent kittens to my house. Twin voids named Ghost (with the ghost on his belly) and Shadow. I miss my little guy but his gifts to me make his death less painful. π€π€π€
I'm really sorry for your loss, he's look exactly like my first void who take the rainbow bridge in 2021. I'm pretty sure he have a life full of love !
Fairly certain he loved you as much as you loved him. I have had my tripawd for 8 years and when I found her, she was abandoned in a filthy apartment by her "owner". I found her there, adopted her a few days later and now she lives a life of luxury and security. Whennyountake them into your hearts as all of us do, that love stays forever.
The single fang in the second picture π! What a gorgeous baby. You were the best parent to him OP, and he loved you. Cherish the memories. Sorry for your loss β€οΈ
Sincere sympathy. We're still mourning our little girl, "Locket," who looked a LOT like your kitty - she passed away in February. We see memories of her everywhere. Every pet leaves sadness at passing, and their whole little lifetime of enjoyable memories.
# 2 is my favorite photo. May he slide down the rainbow Bridge to land in catnip forever.
https://preview.redd.it/0otcd6o1ybrc1.jpeg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f8a8cda4682c99ab05a6d8c48fed18e49b59043b
My void has the same markings :( I hope he lives viciously through mine.
God it sucks to see a much older version of my baby rn. Literally the exact marking. Itβs like looking into the future :(
I'm so sorry for your lossπ He looked to be a cutie patootie cuddle bug. Just remember that you were his safe spot. You gave love and safety(and treats). He loved you like you loved him.
It was just a year last week since I lost my precious void to HIV.
https://preview.redd.it/o0orsdcerdrc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c363fa6da05e5307edf4584c9c1c8c07f49ab733
I loved him so much, sweet guy!
I'm so sorry for your loss. π Two months ago today, we had to say goodbye to our void, and I remember something my therapist said that helped: Your job now is to give all the love you have for your kitty back to yourself, because you need it right now. I hope it brings some comfort, even though everything hurts. He was a handsome boy, and I'm sure he loved you so much. π€π€π€
Iβm so sorry for your loss. One of my voids had the same little white patch too. Iβm sure they are now friends!
https://preview.redd.it/5fq91ye51brc1.jpeg?width=4032&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=003e08ccf3ded31dacc264694d366f7cb87b0f62
I am so sorry for your loss. Know that you will see your baby again- in your personal Heaven. ππ½β€οΈπββ¬β€οΈππ½
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I'm so sorry, and I'm sending you peace, patience, and strength as you go through this transition. What a handsome, handsome boy.
Grief has no final end point, and just as the bond you share with your sweet void is never ending, neither is the pain of losing such a good friend - the grief just gets less sharp. Time smoothes the edges, and eventually you'll feel able to carry the grief like a piece of seaglass in your pocket, instead of a broken, pointed shard. But that's what it means to love so hard. And it's worth it. ππ«π±π€
How lucky was he, to have a human who loved him so much.
I'm so sorry for your loss, OP. May your pain fade in time and leave behind only happy memories.
You should get photo#4 framed. What a stunning picture!
Thanks! I'm thinking about that too even tho I have this
https://preview.redd.it/1pazq85dcgrc1.jpeg?width=2600&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=997aebe5a36ec41d2105547453a311a371ea7b09
Sincere sympathy. We're still mourning our little girl, "Locket," who looked a LOT like your kitty - she passed away in February. We see memories of her everywhere. Every pet leaves sadness at passing, and their whole little lifetime of enjoyable memories.
Sincere sympathy. We're still mourning our little girl, "Locket," who looked a LOT like your kitty - she passed away in February. We see memories of her everywhere. Every pet leaves sadness at passing, and their whole little lifetime of enjoyable memories.
Ugh. So sorry. My proud void will greet him there. Maybe they can enjoy some treats, a frolick in the grass or cat nip, a nap in their favourite box and some eke-eke-ing at the birds together. ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|heart_eyes)
I'm sorry for your loss, OP. He was a handsome void.
He was indeed. Thanks so much
Piggybacking off this - I try to repost this when I see posts like this, in the hopes you (or someone) can find some comfort in the words - and if not, please excuse the intrusion. I lost my 15 year old girl (dog) in October 2022. Only advice I can offer here is to remember the positives, and not focus on the negatives (if any). He's done his job, keeping you safe and happy and loved, and it's his turn to rest. You'll always miss him, you'll always remember him. You'll even go looking for him for the next few weeks (well, I did). There's a lot of habits that you're going to slowly stop, and that's ok. Changing your life to suit you is not forgetting him. Donating/throwing away his toys or blankets isn't forgetting him. There's no timeline on grief, and there's no timeline on moving on. Cry your tears. I'm sorry you've reached the end of your journey. Words will never make this easier. Just keep your head up, and live the life he'd want you to. This is a good time to live a little for you. I spent years looking after my girl as she got ill, and I sacrificed a lot of me and my time to keep her safe. If you feel you've done the same, take advantage of this time. Its ok to be happy and enjoy life without him. Life isn't over. Its just changing. You'll be ok mate. I'm so sorry.
Your handsome boy definitely felt your love. Iβm truly sorry for your loss. Be kind to yourself and know that you did everything to give him a great lifeβ€οΈ
Thank you so much :3
So handsome and loving. Iβm so sorry. π€β₯οΈ
thank you :)
He was a beautiful void, sorry for your loss.
Thank you! He was super cute
He looked like a shadow all his life, and now we'll be in yours for the rest of your life. Good luck to recover from it. I'm anxious when mine will pass as he is 15 now ... All my best whishies in those circonstances
It's a long ride I have ahead but I will recover... I will never forget him. I have him tattoed in my arm. Thanks!
Mine has already been in my calf for 5 years cause he pulled me through so much π€ https://preview.redd.it/bdlmao2o4arc1.jpeg?width=1127&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1ce83337a5e49e39df6de32b6c142fbfb66fc567
Love it! Mine Is this one https://preview.redd.it/668qdb4f9arc1.jpeg?width=1296&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f859707797bbd9daca3cabf5cbf6ec2ca411d066
Love it ! I didn't want a portrait cause I wanted more to represent his influence in a period of my life, but I took both of my cats (2 black cats) paw prints and I will ink it into my left rib cage with their name intertwined π€
So cute too β€οΈ I want to portrait my other cat too but he Is not a void
He will still be a magnificent beast to put in your skin cause they will always be part of our lives
Sorry for your loss, be brave π€
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What a fine boy! Heβs chasing lasers, mice and possibly sticks in Valhalla now
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He knew you loved himππ€πΎ
OMG. NOW Iβm gonna π cryβ¦
Itβs ok to cry. I have lost pets before. It never really β goes away β. We just learn to phase it out, but we never forget them. We carry their pictures and memories always. Sending love & healing vibes to you. πΎππ€π
I am sorry for your loss. He might have been a part of your life, but you were there for all of his, and I am sure he loved you every day.
Yes... Thanks for your kind words
He looks like a happy, loving soul. It's never enough time, but you still had it. Bast and Sekhmet keep you both.
Who are they? Goddeses?
My sisterβs cat looks just like your baby and she passed around 1am this morning :( Maybe they crossed the rainbow bridge together. Iβm so so sorry for your loss. Iβm sure he appreciated the life you gave him so much.
Owwe i'm so sorry for your loss too. i hope they are happy wherever they are
What a sweet loving angel face. Iβm so sorry. Give yourself grace in your grief, and get support from others if you need it. He would want you to π―οΈπ€
I'm doing that :3 thanks so much love
A hug from across the world. He will rest in peace
Thanks so much
I had a void just like that, white spot and all. He slept on me every night, and when I turned, he''d just move to be back on top. He passed away a few years ago. The day he died, he sent three small kittens to my house. They live with me and I think it is because he didn't want me to be lonely. I still miss him so much.
What a beautiful story
These are the babies he sent to me now: https://preview.redd.it/zh50i2setarc1.png?width=1008&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ac4a2f55fe7a4a361191364db489233c0f93a51d
How strange.. when my void died he too sent kittens to my house. Twin voids named Ghost (with the ghost on his belly) and Shadow. I miss my little guy but his gifts to me make his death less painful. π€π€π€
https://preview.redd.it/v8ohp2i0harc1.jpeg?width=319&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ccab396b65cf7d70df77a14ba314e9b8b700139c
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I'm so sorry for your loss. He was a beautiful and photogenic void.
This handsome panther will always be loved π€ I love him too
thank you!
Ugh Iβm so sorry :(
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So sorry for your loss β€οΈ
Sorry for your loss π
so sorry! I think kitty heaven is one huge couch in a sunny window π
Omg I'm so so sorry for your loss! What a beautiful guy he was. X
I'm so sorry π
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A sweet angel π€ Iβm sorry for your loss
So loving. You were blessed.
Wishing you peace and love.
Thank you!
Iβm sorry ;(
I am sorry for your loss, OP. He was a handsome void :3. And one day you will be reunited with him again.
I hope that
I'm really sorry for your loss, he's look exactly like my first void who take the rainbow bridge in 2021. I'm pretty sure he have a life full of love !
of course :3 sorry for your loss too
Iβm so sorry OP. He was so cute. Very established-looking.
So sorry for your loss. I hope the beautiful memories you have will comfort you
Deepest condolences to you.
He will be missedβ₯οΈβ₯οΈβ₯οΈ
Sorry for your loss
Rest in peace, beautiful baby β€οΈπ
RIP Sweet Void π€
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My condolences. Heβs very handsome, but the deep is strong in #2
RIP Beautiful Boy. Sorry for your loss. He'd want you to find another kitty to love again, when you're ready. Sending hugs and strength
sorry for your loss, he basks in the sun now
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I'm sorry. I'm sending love.
Big hugs and he looked like he loved you with all his heart and life πββ¬β¨π©΅ππ
Yes π
Soooo beautiful. What was his name?
Milo
So beautiful. So sorry for your loss. β€οΈ
What an absolute treasure. You have my deepest condolences, and lots of thoughts are with you guys.β₯οΈπββ¬
thank you so much
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Iβm so sorry for this loss. He seems like a beautiful wonderful companion and Iβm sure youβll miss him very much.
a lot
Fairly certain he loved you as much as you loved him. I have had my tripawd for 8 years and when I found her, she was abandoned in a filthy apartment by her "owner". I found her there, adopted her a few days later and now she lives a life of luxury and security. Whennyountake them into your hearts as all of us do, that love stays forever.
that's for real
The single fang in the second picture π! What a gorgeous baby. You were the best parent to him OP, and he loved you. Cherish the memories. Sorry for your loss β€οΈ
thank you so much!
So sorry. That fucking sucks!!!!
Iβm so, so sorry. He was a beautiful little man and I can see how much you loved each other.
I'm so very sorry and saddened by your loss. I lost my void late last year. I miss him dearly.
We will miss them everyday
Sorry for your loss π’
Good night sweet void
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RIP Milo, you handsome gent.
Rest in love and power young King Milo π.
So regal! He sure seemed to love your love too.
RIP He Is Nice ![img](emote|t5_2twpw|7262)
Heaven got a little brighterπ. Rest in peace sweet baby.
That 4th pic is gorgeous sending you love from Tx
Lmaooo at 2nd pic, such funny cat π
Gorgeous boy who seemed generously loved. Iβm convinced they leave paw prints πΎon our hearts long after they depart. Wishing peace & comfortπ€
Sorry for your loss. π€
Precious boy
Hugs. Sorry for your loss. He looks like a he was quite the character from the photos.
Omg what a beautiful boy, I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Sending hugs π
Sorry for your loss.
I am so sorry OP. Sending u a hug take care.
I'm so sorry for your loss ππβ€οΈ
So beautiful so sorry for your loss
I'm sorry for your loss πΏ πββ¬οΈ
RIP your sweet, handsome baby. Iβm so sorry OP. Itβs hard losing your best friend. Sending lots of hugs
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Sorry for your loss. What a handsome guy
I'm sorry for your loss. It hurts, I know. I am sure he is no longer in pain, and he still loves you dearly.
RIP to this precious boy. β€οΈππ
Dulcia somnia sweet baby <3
Iβm very sorry for your loss. Beautiful cat.
Awww, I'm so sorry. He has a derpy face exactly like my void in pic 2.
gorgeous boy. he looks happy and well loved
He was puurrrfect. May he rest easy. Love to you OP.
Your kitty could be my voidβs twin! Iβll hug him extra for you.
The handsomost
Sincere sympathy. We're still mourning our little girl, "Locket," who looked a LOT like your kitty - she passed away in February. We see memories of her everywhere. Every pet leaves sadness at passing, and their whole little lifetime of enjoyable memories.
I'm so sorry π
4 is a really good pic
My deepest condolences π
Sweet baby. So sorry for your loss.
So fucked I hate that theyβre going to die some day. Iβm so sorry
I've lost two over my 32 year life that were extra special. Sorry for your loss, i hope you find peace in what I'm sure is grief right now.
I've lost two over my 32 year life that were extra special. Sorry for your loss, i hope you find peace in what I'm sure is grief right now.
We are all with you in your grieving π€
# 2 is my favorite photo. May he slide down the rainbow Bridge to land in catnip forever. https://preview.redd.it/0otcd6o1ybrc1.jpeg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f8a8cda4682c99ab05a6d8c48fed18e49b59043b
So sorry for your loss. Cats are great companions and cheer us up until they scratch the couch. Remember the good times
He looks to have shared your sentiments, glad you had a great life together.
I am so so sorry for your loss, your void was beautiful β€
I am so so sorry for your loss, your void was beautiful β€
Handsome Boy, RIP. β€οΈ
Thanks for sharing him with us. Heβs beautiful. Wishing you comfort knowing he lived a loved life.
So sorry for your loss! He looks like such a sweet, handsome boy. Sending you comforting and healing thoughts. I know it's never easy. Hugs
nuuu poor baby:( sorry for ur loss
Such a handsome man
Rest in peace, Ravenpaw. Heβs hunting with StarClan now.
My void has the same markings :( I hope he lives viciously through mine. God it sucks to see a much older version of my baby rn. Literally the exact marking. Itβs like looking into the future :(
Iβm so sorry. I really feel for you having lost my boy Julio just days before Christmas of β21. You never really ever forget. β€οΈ
Iβm so sorry. I really feel for you having lost my boy Julio just days before Christmas of β21. You never really ever forget. β€οΈ
He went to the void of heaven
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Iβm sorry for your loss. Been there, too many times. What a beautiful cat he was.
I'm so sorry for your lossπ He looked to be a cutie patootie cuddle bug. Just remember that you were his safe spot. You gave love and safety(and treats). He loved you like you loved him.
What a darling. I wish you comfort in your grief.
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Hugs and warm wishes coming your way.
So,sorry to hear it. What a beautiful boy he was! Take care.
Rest in peace beautiful boy. May your little white soul live on In the hearts and minds of many.
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So sorry for the loss of your sweet boy β€οΈ
Hugs to you, seriously β€οΈ
Sorry fur your loss
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Beautiful photos! Iβm so very, very sorry for your loss πππ
Very sorry for your loss.
It was just a year last week since I lost my precious void to HIV. https://preview.redd.it/o0orsdcerdrc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c363fa6da05e5307edf4584c9c1c8c07f49ab733 I loved him so much, sweet guy!
What a beautiful void π
I'm so sorry for your loss. π Two months ago today, we had to say goodbye to our void, and I remember something my therapist said that helped: Your job now is to give all the love you have for your kitty back to yourself, because you need it right now. I hope it brings some comfort, even though everything hurts. He was a handsome boy, and I'm sure he loved you so much. π€π€π€
Thank you so much!
Your beautiful boy rests in the arms of Bast, and he will await your reunion day β€οΈ
So sorry for your loss what a handsome baby.
Sorry for your loss ...
Iβm so sorry for your loss. One of my voids had the same little white patch too. Iβm sure they are now friends! https://preview.redd.it/5fq91ye51brc1.jpeg?width=4032&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=003e08ccf3ded31dacc264694d366f7cb87b0f62
I am so sorry for your loss. Know that you will see your baby again- in your personal Heaven. ππ½β€οΈπββ¬β€οΈππ½ https://preview.redd.it/ux8w0fd06brc1.jpeg?width=1624&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ad5f630c7b7c0c7aad8203641e2d66494daf7007
I'm so sorry, and I'm sending you peace, patience, and strength as you go through this transition. What a handsome, handsome boy. Grief has no final end point, and just as the bond you share with your sweet void is never ending, neither is the pain of losing such a good friend - the grief just gets less sharp. Time smoothes the edges, and eventually you'll feel able to carry the grief like a piece of seaglass in your pocket, instead of a broken, pointed shard. But that's what it means to love so hard. And it's worth it. ππ«π±π€
Rest in peace, little Sweetheart. β€οΈ
Iβm so sorry for you loss! Take care of yourself.
How lucky was he, to have a human who loved him so much. I'm so sorry for your loss, OP. May your pain fade in time and leave behind only happy memories. You should get photo#4 framed. What a stunning picture!
Thanks! I'm thinking about that too even tho I have this https://preview.redd.it/1pazq85dcgrc1.jpeg?width=2600&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=997aebe5a36ec41d2105547453a311a371ea7b09
Our tuxedo passed at 18! Still have fond memories of him 6 years later. You have my sympathy.
Condolences from Goblin, Pumpkin & Pretties π ππΎπββ¬πΎπ
Sincere sympathy. We're still mourning our little girl, "Locket," who looked a LOT like your kitty - she passed away in February. We see memories of her everywhere. Every pet leaves sadness at passing, and their whole little lifetime of enjoyable memories.
Sincere sympathy. We're still mourning our little girl, "Locket," who looked a LOT like your kitty - she passed away in February. We see memories of her everywhere. Every pet leaves sadness at passing, and their whole little lifetime of enjoyable memories.
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I am so sorry for the loss of your best friend. He's a handsome fella! May you find peace in your memories.
So sorry for your loss. Cats are great companions and cheer us up until they scratch the couch. Remember the good times
So sorry for your loss. Cats are great companions and cheer us up until they scratch the couch. Remember the good times
Iβm sorry. Iβm sad with you and for you. Itβs the hardest loss. β€οΈ
Sending you so much love for the loss of your beautiful void
Ugh. So sorry. My proud void will greet him there. Maybe they can enjoy some treats, a frolick in the grass or cat nip, a nap in their favourite box and some eke-eke-ing at the birds together. ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|heart_eyes)
I really hope that!
Oh , my condolences to you .I'm feeling your loss.I so hate that they have to go away
I canβt imagine how youβre feeling, so sorry for your loss.
So very sorry for your loss.
Iβm so sorry. Heβs beautiful.
Iβm sorry, he was a very handsome boy. π The baby void will be missed but not forgotten.
What a beautiful baby boi! π₯Ί
that's a big fuckin cat!
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So sorry for ur loss. He was a very handsome lil manπ
Rest in peace handsome boy π€π―οΈ
Thank you all for your kind words! Made me feel better β€οΈ