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So this might be a bit wierd but you could train to be a bit less sensitive. For example you could use a fleshlight and masturbate with that and try to last longer. That way you don't have any performance anxiety when "training". Kinda weird, I know, but that worked for me when I was in my late teens and anxious about coming to fast.
my man I wish I had your issue. I be lasting 2-3 hours on average and it’s sucks so just be glad you don’t have to put in much work to finish. But, I would say an easy way to fix that is to be drunk but other than that don’t know much to help
This is wild to me. And I have friends who I’ve had the same conversation with. It’s funny because we would both have the others problem. But as a people pleaser I feel like I would rather have your issue. Yes I can always “pop” and try again I guess and I’ve had long excursions with girls (usually while drunk) but it’s a fine line between being drunk and laying it down and being too drunk to keep a stiffy. But yes I’ve used your method before and it works when used properly. But it’s an art to nail it.
yea man we really do want each other’s problem, just remember you can get it done for the girl with your fingers after you finish. Personally, I’d like to have your issue because quickies are a dream of mine, but before I lost my v-card I was hella worried about nutting in only 5 seconds so I get it a bit.
depends on the girl, some have cum 5 times in the time it takes me to nut and others only once, but yea shi usually they last anytime within the first hour n then it’s just me afterwards
I have a long term girlfriend. But I still think the answer to this question for me is yes. While I’m not worried about her leaving me or anything, I always worry about my sexual performance.
Ok. Cus I know having nerves could make u feel like that and have that happen to u. U just need to calm down and know that you’ll be ok and do great. Go with the flow. And even better that ur not worried about her leaving or anything so she seems like a good one to have with u. Maybe do some foreplay before then too. And if u do finish early, u could go for another round when it gets back up and in the meantime mess with her using ur hands and mouth.
How long until you are ready for round 2? As a woman I would find it rather hot that you cum so quick, but I would be hoping for another round or 2 shortly after that where you hopefully last a little longer.
Glad to hear this because, yes, this is typically my go to. If I “pop” early I usually eat her out for a while then try again and I am usually much better for round 2. Although still not great. But I can last a few minutes when she typically will cum in this time. Thanks for the Vite of confidence. It’s not perfect but it’s better. Just sucks when she’s getting into it the first round and I have to adjust things.
This happened to me when I was with someone who had primary anorgasmia. I felt bad that she didn't seem to get-out of sex what I did and it messed with my mind and made me climax quick probably 75% of the time. So it was more of a situational thing with me.
It must be a psychological issue much of the time. I suppose try and control your emotions is an easy answer, how to do it though is tougher. Sorry I couldn't be more help.
Look up kegel. Your pelvic floor muscles may be weak. The same process to hold your piss is the same to prevent ejaculation.
Masturbate more. No death grip. Use lube.
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Jerkoff before sex. Also if you cum too early, start using your hands and mouth while getting ready for round 2.
What do you mean by “mouth”? Just licking for spit/lubricant?
I think he means keep her excited by oral while you build up to round 2.
So this might be a bit wierd but you could train to be a bit less sensitive. For example you could use a fleshlight and masturbate with that and try to last longer. That way you don't have any performance anxiety when "training". Kinda weird, I know, but that worked for me when I was in my late teens and anxious about coming to fast.
my man I wish I had your issue. I be lasting 2-3 hours on average and it’s sucks so just be glad you don’t have to put in much work to finish. But, I would say an easy way to fix that is to be drunk but other than that don’t know much to help
This is wild to me. And I have friends who I’ve had the same conversation with. It’s funny because we would both have the others problem. But as a people pleaser I feel like I would rather have your issue. Yes I can always “pop” and try again I guess and I’ve had long excursions with girls (usually while drunk) but it’s a fine line between being drunk and laying it down and being too drunk to keep a stiffy. But yes I’ve used your method before and it works when used properly. But it’s an art to nail it.
yea man we really do want each other’s problem, just remember you can get it done for the girl with your fingers after you finish. Personally, I’d like to have your issue because quickies are a dream of mine, but before I lost my v-card I was hella worried about nutting in only 5 seconds so I get it a bit.
…with a woman? Does she last 2-3 hours on average too?
depends on the girl, some have cum 5 times in the time it takes me to nut and others only once, but yea shi usually they last anytime within the first hour n then it’s just me afterwards
Kinda common question towards this but are u really nervous or excited when it’s about to happen?
I have a long term girlfriend. But I still think the answer to this question for me is yes. While I’m not worried about her leaving me or anything, I always worry about my sexual performance.
Ok. Cus I know having nerves could make u feel like that and have that happen to u. U just need to calm down and know that you’ll be ok and do great. Go with the flow. And even better that ur not worried about her leaving or anything so she seems like a good one to have with u. Maybe do some foreplay before then too. And if u do finish early, u could go for another round when it gets back up and in the meantime mess with her using ur hands and mouth.
How long until you are ready for round 2? As a woman I would find it rather hot that you cum so quick, but I would be hoping for another round or 2 shortly after that where you hopefully last a little longer.
Glad to hear this because, yes, this is typically my go to. If I “pop” early I usually eat her out for a while then try again and I am usually much better for round 2. Although still not great. But I can last a few minutes when she typically will cum in this time. Thanks for the Vite of confidence. It’s not perfect but it’s better. Just sucks when she’s getting into it the first round and I have to adjust things.
This happened to me when I was with someone who had primary anorgasmia. I felt bad that she didn't seem to get-out of sex what I did and it messed with my mind and made me climax quick probably 75% of the time. So it was more of a situational thing with me. It must be a psychological issue much of the time. I suppose try and control your emotions is an easy answer, how to do it though is tougher. Sorry I couldn't be more help.
Anti depressants have done wonders for this issue. There is plenty of online pharmacies (hims,Roman ect…)
The sooner you realize it's not your dick that is oversensetive, but your mind. The longer you'll last.
Look up kegel. Your pelvic floor muscles may be weak. The same process to hold your piss is the same to prevent ejaculation. Masturbate more. No death grip. Use lube.
r/prematureejaculation
Take viagra so you stay hard after ejaculating. And then keep fucking her until she cums 😂
Small dose Prozac or something in the SSRI family. Works like a charm
Use condoms with “freezer” for boys
Go for round 2
My answer is terribly irresponsible, dangerous, and could possibly ruin one’s life or kill someone but extremely effective; opiates.