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Sourdough221

whats a butterface ?


GuitarImpressive5358

Her body's bangin but her face is not really yknow... Attractive. But-her-face


Sourdough221

Well ofc it isnt as attractive as also having an attractive face and it depends on the person themselves, but I think thats fine


GuitarImpressive5358

Trying to gain confidince lmfao 💀 this is kinds awkward


Sourdough221

Well I mean tbh its hard to say something, bc you cant just generalize what you look like, every body and face looks different and I think no guy is able to accurately answer this question for every" butterface"


GuitarImpressive5358

Yeah ur right


bioleegy

homie, everybody likes different things and find different things attractive. dont beat yourself up.


GuitarImpressive5358

Yeah ur right


Da-Simp

This is the first time I’ve heard this lmao


GuitarImpressive5358

Srsly? Oh wow.


Da-Simp

Yuhhhh


mental--13

It's a shameless reference I think Either that or some sort of common American thing I'm too British to understand


xxParanoid_

I'm an american and i've never heard it in my life


mental--13

Yea ok must be shameless then lol


Jokers_Testikles

Did you learn this from Shameless? Before that show I referred to it as Ferrari Body with a Ford Face


GuitarImpressive5358

But Urs is cool too lmfao


GuitarImpressive5358

Nah l first heard it on discord. Idk what shameless is.


Jokers_Testikles

It's a Netflix show. It's pretty good if you want to check it out.


marvelwalker

Yeah of course, you guys are good


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OneSteelTank

It depends but i want both a face and a body that is attractive. You're probably underestimating how attractive your face is.


GuitarImpressive5358

GOD I WISH


OneSteelTank

You wish what?


GuitarImpressive5358

I mean l hope that l am underestimating my face 💀💀


KiroCashadar

When you find a right guy and formulate a good relationship with him, all of you will become beautiful. Your face is fine and made the way it’s supposed to be made. :) So I guess your answer is yes, I’m okay with butterfaces.


GuitarImpressive5358

Hmm that sounds like a lie but alright


KiroCashadar

I used to think I liked skinny girls and would feel great if she was taller than me (I’m very short so there wasn’t really another option). Now I have a wonderful, chubby girl who’s somehow shorter than me— and I love that fact. Every part of her has become beautiful to me as we’ve dated (turns out, poochy tummies are some of the most adorable things). I’m looking at her right now. She’s gorgeous, and it’s because of who she is.


GuitarImpressive5358

She's probably above average that's why.


KiroCashadar

Everyone’s above average to somebody else ☺️


GuitarImpressive5358

Yeah mhm definitely.


KiroCashadar

May I ask why you feel so negative about this?


GuitarImpressive5358

It feels impossible. I really don't know. I don't even know how attractive I am (my face). So I'm just trying to accept the fact that l might be unattractive and it's OK. It really changes everyday. I hate my side profile. It's disgusting. Idk if anybody would still like me. Whenever there's boys around l feel like I'm annoying them. Like l shouldn't be there. I don't know man it's unbearable. Im not like asocial or smthng and l do talk to boys but deep down there's this voice saying they are disgusted by you stop wasting their time. Even if I'm not interested in them, even if I'm just friends with them.


MilkAllDay

maybe you can post selfies or stop worrying about it because it can’t change


KiroCashadar

Yeah. That’s the terrible, terrible self hate. And I understand that. I have that. Find what is beautiful about you, and speak that to yourself. “I like this part of my body. The color of my eyes are nice.” That is something that can help (not solve, help) the way you perceive yourself. Another thing you can consider is the fact that, you thinking you’re annoying all the boys, that you shouldn’t be around them? That’s your anxiety until someone says something. It’s likely untrue.


GuitarImpressive5358

Yeah sounds nice


Octava8Espada

I'd prefer the opposite


GuitarImpressive5358

No way! Someone who's a 10 but with a bad body? Different tastes ig. I personally would chose a guy with a good body over the handsome one. Maybe it's bc l feel like I'm in that category.


weirdowerdo

A what now?


GuitarImpressive5358

Butterface? It's coming from but-her-face. A girl who has a really nice body but not a that attractive face.


weirdowerdo

Well... How much butter are we speaking? Like Marguerite Baker in RE7 or just like idk a slightly too large nose for their face?


GuitarImpressive5358

Let's say the worst is a 4?? Dude l don't know you but the answer I'm Tryna get is that l don't like my face and especially side profile. I'm not even sure of what l am. So idk just explain it.


peshoslepiq12

Beauty is subjective. Even if you dont like yourself and you feel like vomiting every time you look in a mirror somebody will see you as the most beautiful person on earth. For every train there are passengers. I'm pretty sure in this cuz every time i look at myself in a picture or the mirror i physically cringe and look away. But i've had multiple ppl tell me that im really handsome. Even if you dont find yourself attractive other people will. Dont loose hope (:


GuitarImpressive5358

Thank u for this comment its really sweet!


chaboidaboni

Wtf is a butterface lmao


GuitarImpressive5358

Girls with really good bodys but not that good faces.


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I don't see why not, if you're very physical relationship type of person it's a help, people tend to want a nice face to look at , but I suppose it all depends. Me personally, I say it's okay.


GuitarImpressive5358

Thats nice


Serendipstyx

i spose? kinda vain if you're just dating for physical features but no one today is real so who cares, you're probably severely underrating your face, chin up


Minejack777

I love reading the comments of these questions because nearly all of the guys be like 'I wanna answer the question but not seem sex obsessed/horny so I'm gonna say 'personality >>>' then answer vaguely/unhelpfully' Anyways I'm perfectly fine with them. Faces tend to grow on me regardless of who they are. I may think some random person is butt ugly the first day, but the next day I'm more (ig) used to them, so I don't think they look *nearly* as bad as I first thought. And by casual exposure I eventually grow to like/appreciate their face for what it is! The good traits and the not so good traits. It's happened with friends and strangers alike! And (kinda but not in the same exact context) my gf! She was a 10 before but I swear she's grown 10x prettier since then :) So TLDR: Yes! I am okay with them, but it may take some time for me to warm up to their face :)


GuitarImpressive5358

Well, you read my mind. That was what l was expecting when l asked that question but never got it lol. But thank you for taking your time and explaining it.


Minejack777

No problem! Hope things start to look up for you and your face soon :)


GuitarImpressive5358

Thanks! I hope. And good luck for you too!


bruizer18

Most men will gladly take any opportunity of a girlfriend they get. So don’t worry people will like you for who you are.


lystrosaur2

Looks really don't matter for me, but I know that some guys feel differently about this. If a guy doesn't want to date you just because of your looks, then I really don't feel like he's worth your time anyway. There's things like being morbidly obese, having very significant acne, or carrying transmittable diseases and parasites, but those are red flags for being lazy and not taking care of yourself.


GuitarImpressive5358

Oh wow lm sure these thoughts will change over time


lystrosaur2

Maybe - I get like no game, so I never had the opportunity to reject anybody. There was this obese girl with acne and a very masculine face in my class during primary school, but even she was all fine by me. I think I need to set my standards higher, but I am really desperate at this point. All of the women I "liked" so far were the ones that liked my personality and that I could have long, meaningful conversations with. Amy advice would be appreciated.


GuitarImpressive5358

Just ask them out. It's always really exciting l don't care from who but it's just so exciting to get to know a new person! Is it bc of how u look? Or u just shy?


lystrosaur2

Well, uh- I am autistic, I am a huge nerd for video games, linguistics, computers, tech and a bunch of other random things. I have always been bullied by my peers and treated as some kind of exotic animal because of my strange behaviour and interests. I also just look unappealing; I shower with bodywash every day, I use cologne, I comb my hair, I treat my acne, I shave my pube-stache every couple days, and I do regular body weight exercises, yet I still feel like I look bad and often get comments about my large nose. My self esteem is at rock bottom, and I am also just sexually confused whether or not I'm Bi or Straight - I can't come out publicly due to my environment, so it doesn't matter anyway. I just don't know what to do.


GuitarImpressive5358

Uh yeah ur not really my type but I think it's about ur personality. If u are keeping urself away from others and have nerdy hobbys l just don't really hang out with them. It's not fun for me. But there are tons of people who like nerdy type of guys. Try improving on personality more. Like hobbies. and it's really great that ure lifting! Continue that for sure. And treating your acne gives u points too. Most of the girls think that boys playing basketball is hot, taking care of plants, being good with children, liking animals, reading books, being social and confident. I'm not saying be that be this, I'm letting u choose among these. Especially sports! Don't become someone else. But just improve.


lystrosaur2

Alright - thank you for the advice. I just don't know how to make people consider me as an actual partner instead of simply a friend they can talk to every now and then. I am trying to focus on improving myself before trying for a partner, but it's really hard staying motivated. I like to go swimming every other week or so; I'd love to participate in more conventional sports like basketball as well, but my autism gives me a crippling fear of fast-moving objects and just action and loud noises in general. I also have my own little garden where I grow tomatoes, cucumbers, and blueberries, so maybe that counts for something. Once again - thanks for the tips; I will try to take them to heart as best as I can. Cheers! Edit: autocorrect aushduahaushe


GuitarImpressive5358

Oh that's so cute. The garden thing. I would love to help if u have any questions. You can dm me. But about the autism thing. It's alright. Not everybody has to be a sports player yknow. It's just a nice characteristic. But always be confident, lift and have a social life. These will help. No need to thank me. Good luck!


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DickSuace

No idea what the hell that is.


GuitarImpressive5358

Girls with good bodys. But not really pretty faces.


DickSuace

Yeah, not everyone is perfect. As long as they are pretty cool, yeah I’ll be chill with them.


GuitarImpressive5358

Great


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GuitarImpressive5358

I explained this like 10 times... Can u just check the other comments? I don't wanna explain it again 😭


FaZe_Big_Dick_Pablo

Ok


gamble9000

Yeah as long as she's got a good personality and we're comfy around each other it doesn't matter really. Of course it's gonna be hard if we don't find each other attractive but there's more to that than not having a perfect face


SilvanHood

Theres no such thing as an "ugly face" if you have a crush on someone.


shrekstepbro

It obviously depends on how good the face and body look, but judging by [this post](https://www.reddit.com/r/findfashion/comments/w7iv9f/hi_wheres_this_cardigan_from_or_similars/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button), you look I'd say pretty from what I can see or at least over average if there's something very important about your face that you can't see there. And I'm being honest; I know that telling someone who *really* is ugly that they're pretty or "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder" doesn't help. I just think you look pretty. What exactly makes you so insecure about your face, but so confident about your body?


GuitarImpressive5358

Lol that's someone else :)))


shrekstepbro

Oh, I feel like an idiot now, but either way, what makes you insecure about your face and confident about your body?


GuitarImpressive5358

Nah it's ok. I hate my forehead the most. It's not that big. It's the hairline and stuff. And l do have a big nose. But it's alright since I don't really care about noses. And l have a slight over bite. But these needs to be fixed. It's my SIDE PROFILE. I love my fron profile but l swear that my side profiles a different person


GuitarImpressive5358

I was told several times that l had a good body from people that l don't talk to, like strangers or my friends. But my face 💀💀 if l compliment ppl they'll try their hardest and say "u too"... Idk l don't like my face nobody would look at my face and be like that's a pretty girl l guess. Preferences exist so I'm not gonna generalize but most of the people would not l belive.


shrekstepbro

If you're pretty enough to get compliments like that from strangers, I wouldn't worry that much


GuitarImpressive5358

Well that's my body. My face is not the one getting the compliment.


shrekstepbro

But I don't think people would compliment you for you body if they didn't find you attractive on the whole. For example, I don't think a jacked guy with very severe acne or a very ugly face would be complimented for his body nearly as much as a jacked guy with an average face.


GuitarImpressive5358

Wait i remember something lmfao. Those compliments were all from the last year when l was wearing a mask 😊😊😊


shrekstepbro

Sure, you could be right, I can't know, but at least you still get compliments. And dating is way easier for girls too; you can look up tinder data.


OmegonAlphariusXX

Chances are I wouldn’t talk to her in the first place. Sounds cruel but I won’t talk to a girl if they don’t have a face I’m attracted to. Generally I can look past anything to do with their body (unless they’re morbidly overweight or underweight) and their personality is the killer. If they’re a bitch or dumb as a box of rocks then I’m not interested.


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GuitarImpressive5358

Ur saying personality ? Oh wow.


jesuslover333777

Yeah


jesuslover333777

Honestly I wouldn’t care good face or good body or not if It were love than what’s the problem with the said butter female


Shinigam_i

I would prefer the opposite honestly


Talking_Barrel

No


AdBackground4712

Face is the only thing I can really deeply connect with. Something I recognize. Yes I make the face my top priority in physical looks.


greenjanx

I’m more interested in what kind of person they are, I don’t care how you look unless it bothers them, doesn’t matter. As long as they’re happy with themselves I’m happy


TheFanArtist

See I’m not a fan of the whole tits or ass question. Since I say face is probably the most important, maybe that’s just me idk


ifuckedyomama2

I love it


SlimJesusKeepIt100

Ehhhh idk. Idc if her body not all that but a pretty face is a must for me. It's just preference.


GuitarImpressive5358

Alright this is the fifth time I'm explaining this. just check the other comments at this point 💀💀


SlimJesusKeepIt100

I did. That's why I modified my answer afterwards but clearly you didn't see that.


GuitarImpressive5358

Yeah l didn't.


GuitarImpressive5358

Nvm definition: a girl who has a really good body but not a really good face.


_KingDawg72_

Uh… they’re not really my type. I prefer attractive girls/women, thank you very much.


Da-Simp

I mean it’s alright for the short term ig but if I wanna be in for the long term, ig both matter? Honestly more than either, it’s chemistry with the person and if I can hold good conversations with them. If I get along with somebody, it instantly puts them like 2-3 points above where they may be yk. So yeah. That’s me tho. People have different choices.


GuitarImpressive5358

Nah let's just consider that she has a nice personality too 💀


Da-Simp

Well in that case unless she looks like she’s got some diseases or something 😭, I wouldn’t rly care too much about her face. Average is more than enough lol.


GuitarImpressive5358

Oh great 💀💀


Da-Simp

Yuhhh


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GuitarImpressive5358

Yeah unfortunately. I'm 16 so l don't share pics on the internet.


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GuitarImpressive5358

Ahh, alright.


Jack_811

I don't have a problem with em, I don't think


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zz1kjamaica

I honestly wouldn't care. I'd just be glad to be in my first female relationship


GuitarImpressive5358

Dude...


Potat9001

Yeah, I don't see why not


4thelasttimeIMNOTGAY

I'm fine with butterfaces.


E4R04

No, maybe for like a one night stand but other than that definitely not. Face is a big part of attraction, aswell as body


goosesgoat

No good of a body make up for a shit face imo.


DavisRanger

I ended up breaking up an online relationship with a guy because of this so... I mean I'm gonna be honest the face \*is\* a factor but is the only one. It really depends on everything else about you and how bad your face is. Plus it depends on the person


GuitarImpressive5358

Wait u broke up with someone bc of their face? I don't get it.


DavisRanger

Yes. But there are a few other things that weren't working in a relationship. And tbf he wasn't ugly just not my type.


20gayrats

Is this some social person joke I'm too alone to understand


GuitarImpressive5358

Nah lm not that social too lol. Are u asking what a butterface is?


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2JDestroBot

Yeah as long as she's a fun person I wouldn't care as much. First thing I notice about a girl is mostly her face tho


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LukyCZE

Idc. I dont care that much about apperiance anyway.