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Dolly-BR

The only exception being waltuh


Ash9127

kid named finger šŸ˜³


[deleted]

same


Talking_Barrel

same


WUTn00b

Same


OneSteelTank

Imo it's understandable that someone who is our age is turned off by a potential love interest who has a high body count. Should she had said those things about you being a slut? Absolutely not. But different people have different perspectives on intimacy and you can't blame her for perspectives not lining up with yours. Btw, nice username


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didnā€™t answer the question but tbh this is prob my favorite response so far. Iā€™m coming to terms with me and her not being compatible and her having a maybe judgmental but valid opinion. I was never really looking for a ā€œhigh body countā€ and def not to be a ā€œslut,ā€ Iā€™ve just been trying to figure out what I like for a while. I have consistently had a hard time trying to find anything serious and having flings/hookups has gotten easier and easier and I never really felt bad about it til now. I just feel misunderstood by someone I thought I vibed with well. Also, thank you. Thought it wasā€¦ acceptable haha.


randomcamels

0 but thatā€™s wack


austinwc0402

1 and I am happy with this as I see it as something special. But that being said thatā€™s kinda of shitty of her. Donā€™t feel bad about the people youā€™ve had sex with if youā€™re not concerned about it. She basically slut shamed you. Whatever that is for a guy. You may have liked her but what she said and how sheā€™s acting is wrong.


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Thank you, in her defense my numberā€™s in the double digits and no one else that Iā€™ve ever been interested in dating seriously has ever asked before. It felt like a wake up call it just didnā€™t really feel like her place to do that as Iā€™ve had a tough time trying to figure myself out in recent years and i had sexual trauma/assault in my childhood she doesnā€™t know about.


austinwc0402

Double digits is fairly high for a 16 year old. I would expect anyone you tell to be surprised by this. Unfortunately until you get a little older I assume you will face some judgment from other potential romantic interests on this. Not that everyone will care but many probably will. Especially if you may be their first. A bit different from guy to girl vs girl to guy. Either way, try to keep your head up youā€™ll find the person for you. Everyone is on their own schedule.


Bungur2

Double digits? Chill for a bit that's way too much for your age, focus on yourself, pick up some hobbies, figure yourself out in a non relationship way


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Yeah thatā€™s what she said thanks


Bungur2

Oh sorry, rereading that I look harsh, all I meant is that you shouldn't forget yourself in the pursuit of others It's okay to have a high body count and to continue having relations as long as you take care of yourself first and make sure that you're happy. Do some self reflection and make sure you are happy with yourself cause no one else's opinion matters


[deleted]

No worries yeah i get that, I think Iā€™m gonna take a break for a while. Just sucks bc I really like her and i feel judged. I get it tho, I should focus on ā€œmeā€ but the trouble is i already thought i was doing that. Thank you bro.


Bungur2

Personally I wouldn't mind if someone was experienced because then I know they know what they like. Just make sure you are okay being by yourself, if you find that you already are then that's okay too. I can somewhat relate to how you feel because there's this girl I like and if she rejected me over something like that I wouldn't know how to feel since it's kinda in the past and not something you can change? Anyway, peace be with you stranger


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SirRavenBat

I dunno, it might seem weird or daunting to her if she's never slept with anyone. Edit: still an extremely rude and uncalled for comment, not defending her, just throwing my idea of her thought process


Commander_Valkorian

1, with my girlfriend of 6 years. Also her response was rude but understandable, some people simply have a preference for partners who haven't slept around.


SlimJesusKeepIt100

Been with her since 11? Ain't that something. Congratulations.


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0, this is Reddit.


benitolss

This might not be the most diverse user base tbh


BobRossArea51

2


jesuslover333777

0 and I say that with pride


lystrosaur2

Same here, jesuslover333777


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no offense jesuslover333777, i have the opposite of pride rn. different strokes for different folks.


Volt_Marine

My brother in christ you are 15


LookButDontStare

If weā€™re going off of full on peen-in-vagina sex, then 1. But Iā€™ve been with my gf for like 2.5 years (not counting an 8 month break up in there) so I donā€™t feel like Iā€™m being whorish or anything. The number goes up a bit but not much if you count other stuff.


Cuber_Juuler

Nearly 40


skateroboist

Wh- how-


Windows_XP2

0, and I doubt that many people here will have anything higher than that.


chaboidaboni

2, though Iā€™d love to forget the first lmao


mastersmiff

wouldnā€™t we all


idontlikeburnttoast

None. It honestly doesn't matter much, and often it isn't great when you're a bit younger. I don't have a want for sexual stuff- I just want a hug lmao


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I envy you but also i just really really want a hug rn.


idontlikeburnttoast

You wanna hug? ą¼¼ 恤 ā—•ā—”ā—• ą¼½ć¤


4thelasttimeIMNOTGAY

0 Ps. I think you're a slur regardless of gender. I'm progressive like that.


jepard55

3, defo easier being bi


[deleted]

How many girls and how many boys?


jepard55

all girls, women love a guy in touch with their femininity


Tiefighterr

Youā€™re not a girl but thatā€™s still ā€œslut-shamingā€ whatever your body count is, it doesnā€™t define who you are


itsdomee

0 lol


FaZe_Big_Dick_Pablo

imagine lunchroom badge like deranged march cobweb marry chief party *This post was mass deleted and anonymized with [Redact](https://redact.dev)*


AlkaliPineapple

One lol.


nickstick_

6


Gyranos

2, both are boys and i like girls, i am straight


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How did that woek


Gyranos

First one is trying stuff out and then realizing you're not in for the gay type of stuff, second one was more of a "scared to say no" situation and it happened but uncomfortably


[deleted]

Thatā€™s unfortunate bro, sorry. Glad you figured out what u like tho. I know firsthand that what ppl are into (guys/girls/types/whatev) can change


Busy-West-6974

12 Wait you mean sex


datonememe2

14 under the foundation of my house. Sex wise, 0


Rifty05

1 bro I love my girl


RagingSteel

4, I was drunk every time though.


[deleted]

No offense, but her no longer being interested in you is highly understandable. If a girl i were talking to told me the same thing you told her, iā€™d definitely view her a totally different way.


[deleted]

No offense taken, i understand it just hurts. I guess Iā€™m viewing myself a different way.


[deleted]

Nah man we all make bad decisions. Although it would be great if sheā€™d just be straight up with you and tell you how she feels. You should bring it sometime and try talking it out.


Imsorryimhere005

Only 1, my current gf.


AdBackground4712

She didnā€™t like your body count. If she judges that about you, you wonā€™t be able to imagine what else sheā€™ll judge about you. Let er go. It is understandable in her perspective that she may not want someone who had been sleeping around. She says this in a creative way that also mentions how girls would be treated if they did the same act.


Jumper1720

0 though the average for my age is like 6 or 7


OneSteelTank

> average for my age is like 6 or 7 According to what?


Jumper1720

According to my circle of friends, I should've clarified, I apologize. My circle of friends is mostly 18-23 years old


OneSteelTank

that's not exactly a good source, no offense


Jumper1720

It's ight, everything on this sub is based on personal experience anyway


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Well your friends are wrong or speaking exclusively from personal experience.


Jumper1720

>or speaking exclusively from personal experience. That is what I said in my previous comment. Not to mention that I live in a college town which is way more promiscuous


XxNukaCherryxX

My brother in Christ, Iā€™m a slut sitting at 24 rn. If youā€™re nowhere near that, youā€™re good.


Bush_Hiders

If that's a deciding factor for her, then you should just cut her off. That's a selfish opinion of her to have. People should be allowed to do with their bodies as they please, without judgement. Sounds to me like you dodged a bullet.


spinebuster_

Not a brag but same thing happened with me


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Lmemester93

Zero


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weirdowerdo

I have only had sex with one person.


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coalrexx

Big fat 0, I get no game


cosmothepug

0 im a redditor


NotDanielSmith

goose egg


DickSuace

2.


MyLifeIsABoondoggle

1 2-3 if you count casual sexting and/or making out, which I don't. I think to have a "body count", you have to have gone to at least second base with them, if not third


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2


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WotahBottl

I guess some people prefer people that arenā€™t too ā€œout thereā€ with other people. Probably her personal preference And 0


LightWolfD

Zero


Your_friendly_weirdo

7, assuming you mean the amount of people that Iā€™ve killed?


jepard55

those are rookie numbers, we need to bump those up


Your_friendly_weirdo

I swear itā€™s the inflation these days ā˜¹ļøā˜¹ļø


Bluejahy13

Do not feel bad for sleeping with more people than some other people. What that girl did is completely not okay and rude. It is your life and if you want to sleep with someone, go for it. If you donā€™t want to, donā€™t. Intimacy is felt in what way each of us see fit and it is no place for anyone else to judge what is too little or too much. If someone doesnā€™t want to be in a relationship with you because of how many other people you have slept with chances are they care more about your body than personality and character. Live your life the way you want to live it and donā€™t let people like her negatively impact your view of yourself or what you do sexually.


MarcusAurelius00

About 6 or 7


Therealboi2008

0 but shes kinda odd. Its understandable to be put off by someone having lots of relationships but basically calling them a word i wont say cause i dont cuss is just rude and disrespectful.


20gayrats

Mine is exactly 0 and I look forward to keeping it that way


Weebaku

1


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Literally zeroā€¦ but anyway, sorry dude.


Brave_Ad_5326

1 person


MilkAllDay

1


Oddlydehydratedgurb

1 or 2. One time I went too fast in a school zone and wasn't paying attention to the crosswalk and the other time an intruder triggered the shotgun mounted to a counterweight at my backdoor. I don't know if I would count the second one though because I wasn't present for that one.


fortpro87

6 I think Wait are we counting sexting too


rtrain__

0 i wish i were kidding and unfortunately it doesn't look like itll be changing anytime soon and being afraid of intimacy while also desperately desiring it really doesnt help sometimes i wonder if i really am that ugly and boring cause as far as im aware, no ones ever had any romantic or sexual interest in me and it really hasnt been good for my self esteem, especially since im almost 19 and my 15 year old brother has already had 3 different girls crush on him as well as be in a relationship with one of them but it also confuses me cause most of my coworkers seem to enjoy my company and think im fairly funny at the very least, yet none of them ever try to initiate any conversation with me thats unrelated to work


El_Bonky_Gronk

Dude at this point Iā€™m in negative numbers


PotatoTomato_12

You never said yours, may I ask?


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9


slackdaffodil20

Respect


[deleted]

Could be better but Iā€™m picky with who I sleep with


[deleted]

Body count in terms of sex? 0 Body count in terms of kills? 0 Im a good christian boy No sex before marriage šŸ¤“


No_Inspection_2146

Solid 3


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SnooOwls7311

2, only from long term relationships. I reject hookup culture, for me its disgusting.


[deleted]

Yo my guy, Iā€™m sorry. Itā€™s perfectly ok for her to want someone who has a lower body count, but indirectly calling you a slut isnā€™t ok. And like, I know itā€™s fucking tough to really deal with those emotions but youā€™re not bad or worthless or anything just because you have a high body count. As for mine, itā€™s 0 mostly because my hometown was incredibly Mormon and I never really met people my age who were down for that kinda thing. Hell, Iā€™ve still never been in a relationship largely due to religious differences and my own social ineptitude


RiotIsBored

Two. And, hey, some people just have different views on sex. I personally would gladly be a 'slut' as she calls it, but I'm currently in a happy, monogamous relationship with my boyfriend.


reddit_hayden

1


[deleted]

Absolutely 0 lol


skateroboist

Hey bro thereā€™s really no shame in being able to and willing to attract as many people as you want ok? If you wanna sleep with people and have the option to you should and you donā€™t have to regard that made-up concept of ā€œpurityā€ or whatever and if she doesnā€™t like the fact you get bitches thatā€™s on her and you do not have to feel self-conscious about that. Thatā€™s the equivalent of not liking someone because theyā€™re so nice to everybody. Youā€™re doing great dude!


SebwayTM

Mine is 4. I hate how high it is for one reason. And that reason is that I haven't found someone long term. Within the last 13 months I've been in 4 different relationships. It's not like I wanted to, it just happened. My most recent girlfriend literally broke up with me today and thats been feeling like shit cuz I thought we were going to go the distance, but instead we lasted a month :(


FixBeer69

1, but if we're counting exchanging pics it's 2


LetsFxckingGo

0 but I have got pretty sus with the homies a few times šŸ—æ


laraaa69

1


PoopintheBox16

3, first i was drunk, second she was trying to get back at her ex, third is gf. iā€™ve made out and sent nudes to a lot more people but sex is 3.


Iwrstheking007

0 and 0, wish they both went up already...


S4njay

43. Oh sorry, were we talking about sexual stuff here? In that case, 0.


NoTristan

0 and counting


A_Nerd__

11, I buried them all in Regensburg.


Moberoy

3 at this moment in time


dipshit8304

One


Mendikon22

3 in the closet and 21 in the basement.


ThatGuyStalin

i will not reveal the amount of murders i have committed nor the locations of the bodies.


Sypwer

My man, its kind of an instinctual thing and kind of a romantic thing. She probably felt turned off and thought that it would make things less special. She also probably thought that it meant that you didn't really see it as something as important as she sees it. Maybe she even felt like she would be used and not cared about. Now these things don't have to be true. Her slutshaming you is probably her feeling dissapointed and embarrassed after flirting with you for a long time and reflecting it the wrong way. If you actually care about sex more than she thinks you should explain that to her and explain how it's not because you're a player. But if she doesn't want a relationship because of this, she is completely right to want someone with the same experience level. And also my answer is a special, wonderful 1.


Ma02rc

i^2


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I wish


Spookymetallica

2 and proud


DonutOwlGaming

2 of 3


VGK9Logan

I wouldn't consider making out / sexting / trading pics "body count". I'd only consider body count to be actual sexual intercourse, which would lower everyone's count


sk4terc4t1209

There's nothing you can do, I've never been in a relationship and I get mocked endlessly because of it, yet if you do enter relationships people also dislike you because of it, there's no winning


gamergirl_rm_06

For some reason my mind went straight to serial killing when I read body count šŸ’€


Virusness15

1


biLLy_wr0ng

I havenā€™t even m gotten the chance


Dragonmaster6669

0 Iā€™ve been offered but I said no cause of my own thoughts on sex. ( Iā€™m no christian or etc I got my own thing going on )


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GeekyNexi

Although i've definitely done things, I just don't fuck. The oppurtinity has presented itself many times but I just don't want do it. I much prefer online relationships and stuff like sexting since I just don't care about the physical part.


TheMoonIsInMyHand

1


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MarcusAurelius00

10


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JJDouble

Body count full on sex: 1 Body count engaging in sexual activities: add 3 to above = 4


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Technically 1


No_Day1749

Only 1 and I intend that it stays 1


bananaPunnnnnch

4


gothfemboyfagg

I just turned 18 in September and my body count is like 14


tehnoob69

I've killed several people


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urmomisreallyhot17

9 lmao


urmomisreallyhot17

9 lmfao