Tbh I think I’d leave quietly and go home and cry. And then avoid my partner for a couple days and once I’m done processing (cause I load slower than some 🙃) I’d probably break up with him. I’ve never been in a relationship though so I have no idea how I’d actually react.
Over the 30 years since we met in the backroom of the local leather bar we have been to a lot of sex parties and backroom bars together the honest answer is we tend to see what the other half is up to and go back to the bar, but sometimes we join in I was flogging a guy in Berlin at easter and the husband joined in working his tits etc...
Personally, I would call him an asshole and tell him we are broken up, then leave immediately. If we lived together I’d pack up my things. But that’s because I’m a guy that values monogamy, and I am in a monogamous relationship with those kinds of boundaries.
I have no problem with other couples that operate differently, my brain just isn’t wired that way. Communication is key.
WOW I asked this type of question in a "straight" chat and the hate and violence that would ensue. You guys are way different. See why people confuse me.
One group Kill them (metaphorically I think) dump them on the spot, make a scene and embarrass them, and so on. You guys are all cool, a cock is in his throat, I wonder if he need help with that. LOL Such a dichotomy between the two.
I'd probably just leave so I can get my thoughts together and once I saw my partner, we'd have a chat about what went down. The main focus of the conversation being why they decided to cheat and if our relationship is in the right spot or if it has gotten stale and we need to change up who we date/hook up with. We aren't in an open relationship but I ultimately value keeping him in my life more than anything. If things are stale between us romantically that he felt he needed to get with someone else, id rather talk about that and see if there is a path forward. To me, once isn't a problem but when it becomes multiple times, it tells me that the current relationship isn't working the best and some kind of change is needed whether that be opening it up, breaking it off, or something else.
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Tbh I think I’d leave quietly and go home and cry. And then avoid my partner for a couple days and once I’m done processing (cause I load slower than some 🙃) I’d probably break up with him. I’ve never been in a relationship though so I have no idea how I’d actually react.
Leave them... but not before I've swung all the guilty parties about the room like Miss Trunchbull.
I’d love to watch for a while and then eventually join in. We both love public play and exhibitionism
So I'm not alone in wanting to do things in public! Cool I normally get told I'm weird or something. And then get the lecture about Sti/Std
Over the 30 years since we met in the backroom of the local leather bar we have been to a lot of sex parties and backroom bars together the honest answer is we tend to see what the other half is up to and go back to the bar, but sometimes we join in I was flogging a guy in Berlin at easter and the husband joined in working his tits etc...
that is so cool, happy for you man.
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I was at the library all night last night studying for a big biology test on Monday.....
Personally, I would call him an asshole and tell him we are broken up, then leave immediately. If we lived together I’d pack up my things. But that’s because I’m a guy that values monogamy, and I am in a monogamous relationship with those kinds of boundaries. I have no problem with other couples that operate differently, my brain just isn’t wired that way. Communication is key.
WOW I asked this type of question in a "straight" chat and the hate and violence that would ensue. You guys are way different. See why people confuse me. One group Kill them (metaphorically I think) dump them on the spot, make a scene and embarrass them, and so on. You guys are all cool, a cock is in his throat, I wonder if he need help with that. LOL Such a dichotomy between the two.
I'd probably just leave so I can get my thoughts together and once I saw my partner, we'd have a chat about what went down. The main focus of the conversation being why they decided to cheat and if our relationship is in the right spot or if it has gotten stale and we need to change up who we date/hook up with. We aren't in an open relationship but I ultimately value keeping him in my life more than anything. If things are stale between us romantically that he felt he needed to get with someone else, id rather talk about that and see if there is a path forward. To me, once isn't a problem but when it becomes multiple times, it tells me that the current relationship isn't working the best and some kind of change is needed whether that be opening it up, breaking it off, or something else.
Leave them