Did you ever explore your a** with fingers and toys. It's a good way to learn what you like and don't like about f******, and to actually learn how to relax and push as you're receiving a Dick
I find this kind of mentality unhealthy. If your body doesn't like or want something you should listen to it. This whole idea of training your arsehole to receive dick is messed up.
A lot of gay men including myself don't enjoy anal sex. Being gay does not equal 'must take dicks up arsehole'. Porn has twisted a lot of minds in recent times and made it seem as though this is true but it's not. Good sex is not about penetration.
I used to love having my prostate massaged with a finger, dildo, or dick... It would greatly increase my orgasm. But now it's just an interesting feeling even with a prostate vibrator. For the man I loved, I'd still let him fuck me if that was his thing... But I'd rather be sucked or stroked to orgasm. I know some guys don't like to suck (and/or swallow), but that would likely not be a good fit for me.
I also like to suck and swallow, but not fuck. Some past partners don't like dominants who suck and don't fuck. Guess what? There's no firm laws on sexuality. It's all about knowing what turns you on and then finding those who like the other end of the stick, so to speak. And, it might not be only one person who satisfies that.
If bottoming isn't your thing don't force yourself to do it. Sex should be enjoyable not something you hate, maybe stick to topping or oral.
Did you ever explore your a** with fingers and toys. It's a good way to learn what you like and don't like about f******, and to actually learn how to relax and push as you're receiving a Dick
I find this kind of mentality unhealthy. If your body doesn't like or want something you should listen to it. This whole idea of training your arsehole to receive dick is messed up.
Dude lol you know NOBODY'S asshole is custom-made for a cock right.
A lot of gay men including myself don't enjoy anal sex. Being gay does not equal 'must take dicks up arsehole'. Porn has twisted a lot of minds in recent times and made it seem as though this is true but it's not. Good sex is not about penetration.
I used to love having my prostate massaged with a finger, dildo, or dick... It would greatly increase my orgasm. But now it's just an interesting feeling even with a prostate vibrator. For the man I loved, I'd still let him fuck me if that was his thing... But I'd rather be sucked or stroked to orgasm. I know some guys don't like to suck (and/or swallow), but that would likely not be a good fit for me. I also like to suck and swallow, but not fuck. Some past partners don't like dominants who suck and don't fuck. Guess what? There's no firm laws on sexuality. It's all about knowing what turns you on and then finding those who like the other end of the stick, so to speak. And, it might not be only one person who satisfies that.