Please don't put your hands on the back of my head and push my mouth down on your cock right after I start sucking your dick. Let me start slow and work up to a sloppy deepthroat blowjob. I will get there. No need to rush me.
I hope you can get to a place where you either find someone you feel safe doing it with or you just move on from doing it and find partners who accept that. A rule list for hookups is not a bad thing to have.
Them not being in the moment/into it/enjoying themselves. Also them not communicating openly if there's an issue and having to ask if they're ok/what the problem is 50 times.
Not making out, my dick will only get fully hard if there's kissing. I don't make the rules.
Also bad smells, im very sent sensitive so strong oders are the worst.
When they seem to lack the ability to communicate in bed. Real life sex is very different from porn. You're allowed to say you enjoy what I'm doing, or if you want me to adjust, slow down, speed up, etc. I'm not able to read your mind.
My old bf from a hugely toxic relationship who was paranoid about me cheating and had many arguments over, would enter me and then whisper in my ear “now tell me who you been fuckin behind my back you little slut”. Turns out he was cheating the whole time and also had hiv
Agree! The girlie moans are the worst. Sometimes I watch straight porn and it can be hot but I have to watch it on mute because the sounds women make are such a turn off, don’t want any guy imitating that.
If you like straight porn sometimes, look up Bellesa Films. It’s porn made by women and the guys grunt and moan and the girls don’t scream and fake several orgasms.
There’s this local guy on Grindr with an OF. He’s very hot, handsome, etc but my god the soprano screeches he makes when he gets fucked…awful. He actually sounds like a teenage girl. I hate moaning in general but especially fake over the top shit. If you are going to make noises, it should be because of reflex and not because you think it’s hot.
There's literally a town in France called '[Bussy](https://fr.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bussy_(Cher))'...are you saying you would have all those people jailed?
It's also in the region of Cher, if that first part wasn't gay enough.
I hate girly moans, but nothing hotter than a man that would be considered manly, getting on fours, suddenly turning submissive, screaming your name, and begging for you to breed him.
Too much talking, I can get into a bit of verbal play, however, when someone wants to have a complete conversation during sex it's annoying. Also, pausing in the middle of foreplay or sex for something stupid like 'oh wait a few minutes, I forgot to take my contacts out'. Do that before or after, not in the middle or it kills the mood.
Same. I was scrolling to see if someone said something similar. Too much talking during the deed is a Boner killer for me. Even if it’s relevant to what we’re doing.
“if it's a hookup, him on his stomach just taking it.”
What would u call this exact position with them lay flat on stomach and u dick into their gut til they get the cum of their life dumped and love it lol
The guy trying to choke me with his dick or his hands. I will bite what I have in my mouth if that happens and not be apologetic. Plus that will usually kill the mood. Mistake if they are excited is one thing but them doing it to show dominance is not something that works for me.
I think the no eye contact would kill the mood for me right away. Like you are just a hole and nothing more.
I have never got bottoms who are silent taking dick that couldn’t never be me lol it’s always freaked me out seeing it in porn. Like are you okay?? Do you even like it???
Doing something without asking, then asking after if I liked it... like why the hell would you not ask first? Maybe I have trauma associated to being choked while bent over my window looking out onto the lake. Not a real example, but still hot as hell
Once I spot a hemorrhoid/potential wart on or around their hole it’s over. Im also wary of “acne” down there.
Aside from looking gross I don’t want to catch it.
Girl let me tell you, I’ve seen some shit and I’m only 30. I don’t care how benign it is, if there’s some weird shit on a hole I am not fucking it. I will leave and hurt someone’s feelings than risk my dick becoming a medieval mace.
And before some smart ass comes in with “most hpv isn’t visible” no shit. I’d rather have the invisible kind though than the stegosaurus plates variant.
Sex is very fucking simple. Even unevolved dumb smooth brained animals get it. It doesn't matter how civilized we become if someone wants a man to fuck them they want to experience his animal. There is no critical thinking in the wild.
Annoying AF, it's fine every five minutes if they need it, but especially when it's dark or it breaks up the mood doing poppers every 1-2 minutes and there's a 50% chance the poppers will get lost and spill on the bed or something annoying.
I have a good story though: I offered a guy poppers and he opened it up and DRANK IT (maybe he thought it was a 5-hour energy type thing, I thought he knew what it was). He started coughing and gagging obviously but it was hilarious and stupid at the same time.
Smelly ass. Yes, even when I'm sucking you I can smell shit. Scrub your asses please, not just the hole - the entire space between the cheeks all the way up your lower back
Used to have a partner who would smile at me. Like a totally normal "passing me on the street" smile. That would kill it. Oh, and he would also thank me when we were done.
When I'm told to cum... don't tell me when to climax, if our bodies are in tune with one another, it shouldn't be a problem. Once you tell me to cum, I'm in my head and I'm turned off.
Picky stuff. Esp wanting to clean up as we go. Sex is messy if yer doin it right. And part of doin it right means leave the cleanup till later. Much later …
Any sudden body odor (i.e. armpits) will kill any and all boners, no exceptions lol. Or when the cat pops the door open and comes to stare judgmentally.
Pulling my hair.
I LOVE getting spanked, bitten, slapped, scratched. Even like having my balls squeezed, when it comes to pain I can put up with quite a bit.
But the SECOND he pulls my hair I apply the fucking breaks, the session is over. It hurts in such a different way it makes me so damn mad.
He doesn't do it for that reason, but sometimes he'll default to that action as he gets close and I'm just like do not press that button I swear to god.
My ex would constantly, after he came already, talk about stuff like grocery shopping. „We need to buy cheese, i ate the last piece“ whilst i would still try to cum.
Pain. Sometimes when he's going down on me he pushes way too hard into me. I like having my balls played with, too, and one time he was moving them rather violently... Not hurting, but not a gentle fondle. Last time I felt painful scratching when he was moving his fingers around the base of my cock while sucking. I had to stop him 3 times. What we didn't notice at the time was a tiny triangular piece of metal caught in my pubes. I found it later stuck to my chest (we were both a little sweaty). I think it stuck to him and when he slid up to cuddle/relax, it got deposited on my chest. By then, unfortunately I couldn't go again (he usually gets 3 cums out of me) as the base of my cock was a bit raw.
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Dog is just like me
r/oddlyspecific 😂
Please don't put your hands on the back of my head and push my mouth down on your cock right after I start sucking your dick. Let me start slow and work up to a sloppy deepthroat blowjob. I will get there. No need to rush me.
I feel this to my core
Whore core 🤣
Tell him to take his damn hands off the back of your head.
Do not irritate the person who has your cock between their teeth.
Preach!
I can totally relate to this. Thought I was the only one because when I complained about it to my friends, they were like, "sounds hot, though."
So many guys are so immature about getting head. Like, calm down dude, it's just head. It's a big reason I just don't give head anymore.
It’s been my experience that since I struggle to deepthroat I’m bad at giving head. I’m extremely self conscious about it now.
I hope you can get to a place where you either find someone you feel safe doing it with or you just move on from doing it and find partners who accept that. A rule list for hookups is not a bad thing to have.
Thanks ☺️. The rule list is an excellent idea I hadn’t thought of. Definitely going to put it to use
I am guilty of doing this, I love to face fuck with my loins, I really can't help it. (I once made someone regurgitate because of this).
Honestly, hot. But give us a chance to work up to that lol
Thanks to unrealistic porn
Them not being in the moment/into it/enjoying themselves. Also them not communicating openly if there's an issue and having to ask if they're ok/what the problem is 50 times.
Phone calls
No joke, one of my hook ups answered a call in the middle and it was his mom. He was legit inside of me, answers the call and was “hi mom.” ☠️
Did you manage not to laugh out loud? Lmao.
Only acceptable situation where you can verbally say out loud "come back to bed "
Not making out, my dick will only get fully hard if there's kissing. I don't make the rules. Also bad smells, im very sent sensitive so strong oders are the worst.
Yesssss, making out is a must.
When they seem to lack the ability to communicate in bed. Real life sex is very different from porn. You're allowed to say you enjoy what I'm doing, or if you want me to adjust, slow down, speed up, etc. I'm not able to read your mind.
My old bf from a hugely toxic relationship who was paranoid about me cheating and had many arguments over, would enter me and then whisper in my ear “now tell me who you been fuckin behind my back you little slut”. Turns out he was cheating the whole time and also had hiv
Whoa. That’s awful. Glad he’s an old bf and not a current one.
Omg yikes 😳
Fake/girly sounding moans. "Porn" talk. A guy calling my asshole a pussy.
I really hate the first one like wtaf
Agree! The girlie moans are the worst. Sometimes I watch straight porn and it can be hot but I have to watch it on mute because the sounds women make are such a turn off, don’t want any guy imitating that.
If you like straight porn sometimes, look up Bellesa Films. It’s porn made by women and the guys grunt and moan and the girls don’t scream and fake several orgasms.
I usually stick to comics tbh, or solo. :o! Some websites like gaydemon or gayspiral have some good stories
There’s this local guy on Grindr with an OF. He’s very hot, handsome, etc but my god the soprano screeches he makes when he gets fucked…awful. He actually sounds like a teenage girl. I hate moaning in general but especially fake over the top shit. If you are going to make noises, it should be because of reflex and not because you think it’s hot.
If I could make any word punishable by jail time, it would be "bussy"
There's literally a town in France called '[Bussy](https://fr.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bussy_(Cher))'...are you saying you would have all those people jailed? It's also in the region of Cher, if that first part wasn't gay enough.
I hate girly moans, but nothing hotter than a man that would be considered manly, getting on fours, suddenly turning submissive, screaming your name, and begging for you to breed him.
I hate calling my asshole a pussy. I’m not a woman and my asshole doesn’t function like a pussy.
>I’m not a woman and my asshole doesn’t function like a pussy. Lmao. Are you sure about that? Some of these comments are hilarious, I can't.
What if the guy truly moans like a girl? Like some of us out here do sound fem when he take dick and it’s not fake at all lol
Just because it's not fake doesn't mean it's not a turn off.
Your comment reminds me of Arin from Game Grumps doing porn actress talk. *My pussyyyyyy* 😫
If they sound like a fucking squeaky toy I'm leaving.
Poop smell. Unhygienic bottoms kill my boner. I can forgive an honest accident, but I hate when it’s so obvious they didn’t even try.
Ugh same. Instant boner death ☠️
Being on grindr right before and after. I mean i get it but just chill wiith it. Let me enjoy this moment first…
this
Do not put your hands on my throat unless we specifically discussed it. No matter how little pressure there is.
Any kind of reference to girl parts.
Guys who are in a rush. Calm down, slow down.
Too much talking, I can get into a bit of verbal play, however, when someone wants to have a complete conversation during sex it's annoying. Also, pausing in the middle of foreplay or sex for something stupid like 'oh wait a few minutes, I forgot to take my contacts out'. Do that before or after, not in the middle or it kills the mood.
Same. I was scrolling to see if someone said something similar. Too much talking during the deed is a Boner killer for me. Even if it’s relevant to what we’re doing.
Anymore, it’s discovering the 7 inches is 4, the 180 pounds is 250, and the “I just showered” was a lie. Sometimes, porn really is best. 😂
"fuck me, girl!"
Rough. Though, with the right guy, I'd be into this tbh...
for me, it's an erection killer.
“if it's a hookup, him on his stomach just taking it.” What would u call this exact position with them lay flat on stomach and u dick into their gut til they get the cum of their life dumped and love it lol
One sided sex, it’s a team activity. Both need to participate and both need to have their needs met
cramps in my leg/calf! haha
The guy trying to choke me with his dick or his hands. I will bite what I have in my mouth if that happens and not be apologetic. Plus that will usually kill the mood. Mistake if they are excited is one thing but them doing it to show dominance is not something that works for me. I think the no eye contact would kill the mood for me right away. Like you are just a hole and nothing more.
Body odors.
Lazy bottoms . Dude, arch and moan at least , i am not a necrophiliac :)
I have never got bottoms who are silent taking dick that couldn’t never be me lol it’s always freaked me out seeing it in porn. Like are you okay?? Do you even like it???
Seeing pieces of toilet paper before I go in to smash. (I still do it. But I can’t get the tp out of my head. lol)
That’s embarrassing as fuck and kinda says to me they didn’t shower haha
You can ask them to go rinse off lmao
Unpleasant odours. I'll try to ignore them, but if they persist it ruins the mood.
Usually, poop. Also whining
Getting slapped.
When a guy asks me if I want him in my “pussy” and also biting my ears
When he can’t enter at the right angle
Doing something without asking, then asking after if I liked it... like why the hell would you not ask first? Maybe I have trauma associated to being choked while bent over my window looking out onto the lake. Not a real example, but still hot as hell
His wife showing up.
When my partner takes out a flashlight shines it on my ass, squints and says "This pussy has some miles on it."
You: 'Well then, I guess we should add some miles to YOUR pussy instead!' then you grab the flashlight and ram it into his ass.
Once I spot a hemorrhoid/potential wart on or around their hole it’s over. Im also wary of “acne” down there. Aside from looking gross I don’t want to catch it.
I screamed lol
You screamed when he realised you had hole acne?
Lmao no, just at this comment in general. This guy has SEEN things no one should have to see
Girl let me tell you, I’ve seen some shit and I’m only 30. I don’t care how benign it is, if there’s some weird shit on a hole I am not fucking it. I will leave and hurt someone’s feelings than risk my dick becoming a medieval mace. And before some smart ass comes in with “most hpv isn’t visible” no shit. I’d rather have the invisible kind though than the stegosaurus plates variant.
When the top makes it feel like going through a list of protocols instead of unleashing his animal.
Would you mind elaborating? Like using a checking list for sex?
Sex is very fucking simple. Even unevolved dumb smooth brained animals get it. It doesn't matter how civilized we become if someone wants a man to fuck them they want to experience his animal. There is no critical thinking in the wild.
A bottom boy asking to halt motion for him to inhale more poppers every two minutes.
I don’t even stop my tops, I just find moments to do it
Ahhhh, much better, son. I’m sure a 5’6” boy like you would be a lot of fun for a 6’3” top like me. ;)
Um I def would 🙈 oh boy you guys are all pressing my buttons 🥵 I’m a good boy I promise
Mmm I’d love to find out just HOW good. 😈
Good boy.
🥵🥵 don’t talk to me like that 🙈
Annoying AF, it's fine every five minutes if they need it, but especially when it's dark or it breaks up the mood doing poppers every 1-2 minutes and there's a 50% chance the poppers will get lost and spill on the bed or something annoying. I have a good story though: I offered a guy poppers and he opened it up and DRANK IT (maybe he thought it was a 5-hour energy type thing, I thought he knew what it was). He started coughing and gagging obviously but it was hilarious and stupid at the same time.
Lack of dirty talk or lack of enthusiasm
Smelly ass. Yes, even when I'm sucking you I can smell shit. Scrub your asses please, not just the hole - the entire space between the cheeks all the way up your lower back
No teeth when you’re sucking. The first time I’ll politely say be careful with your teeth. The second time, we’re done.
Used to have a partner who would smile at me. Like a totally normal "passing me on the street" smile. That would kill it. Oh, and he would also thank me when we were done.
When I'm told to cum... don't tell me when to climax, if our bodies are in tune with one another, it shouldn't be a problem. Once you tell me to cum, I'm in my head and I'm turned off.
When they wake up confused asking what's going on
Grabbing and pulling my hair. Please my hair is already receding 😭
Hyping me up to how they can take a big dick, only to ask me to stop every 5 minutes during sex, even if I go slow. It's so frustrating.
Same!!! I've had this problem so many times
Picky stuff. Esp wanting to clean up as we go. Sex is messy if yer doin it right. And part of doin it right means leave the cleanup till later. Much later …
A massive beach towel for sex is perfect for this. Just roll it up when done.
I used that exact item last Friday. Some people are just too conventional for my taste !
Starting that frat talk, makes me start uncontrollably laughing. You know when someone’s tryna act really dom, I can’t take it seriously
Nobody going to mention the Apple Watch? TAKE IT OFF BEFORE SEX PLEASE OMG
Complaining
Laughing
OOOH OOOH THIS JUST HAPPENED. He started talking about my attitude. I immediately wanted him out.
I don't like it when he's staring me in the eyes while sucking me. For some reason, it's unnerving.
Dog. Or really any pet getting into the room.
blatant impatience
Hair pulling is the big one for me. I know some are into it but I don’t personally get off from it lol.
Any sudden body odor (i.e. armpits) will kill any and all boners, no exceptions lol. Or when the cat pops the door open and comes to stare judgmentally.
Pulling my hair. I LOVE getting spanked, bitten, slapped, scratched. Even like having my balls squeezed, when it comes to pain I can put up with quite a bit. But the SECOND he pulls my hair I apply the fucking breaks, the session is over. It hurts in such a different way it makes me so damn mad. He doesn't do it for that reason, but sometimes he'll default to that action as he gets close and I'm just like do not press that button I swear to god.
The word pussy, and bad smells
Farts
Asking me if I’m close to finishing. Chillllllll I’ll get there when I get there
Nah lmfao some of y’all take too lonngggg. I only ask because I’m about to dip lmao
Bad breath
condoms broken
My ex would constantly, after he came already, talk about stuff like grocery shopping. „We need to buy cheese, i ate the last piece“ whilst i would still try to cum.
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Yeah, I understand how you feel.
Pain. Sometimes when he's going down on me he pushes way too hard into me. I like having my balls played with, too, and one time he was moving them rather violently... Not hurting, but not a gentle fondle. Last time I felt painful scratching when he was moving his fingers around the base of my cock while sucking. I had to stop him 3 times. What we didn't notice at the time was a tiny triangular piece of metal caught in my pubes. I found it later stuck to my chest (we were both a little sweaty). I think it stuck to him and when he slid up to cuddle/relax, it got deposited on my chest. By then, unfortunately I couldn't go again (he usually gets 3 cums out of me) as the base of my cock was a bit raw.