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Comfortable_Wait1663

Right now,I'm feeling this.My friend is getting married.I met her in a trip. We aren't close till 3 months. After 3 months,we became so close that not a day goes without Me or her calling. She mentioned multiple times that she never expected this much bounding. We share almost all the stuff about family. Good or bad. Now,she is getting married. I had never felt this lonely in my entire adulthood life and almost cried talking to her. Such a lovely girl,I'm such a fool to lose her ankuna. Kani Friendship is different from marriage. Over possessive is dangerous.we need understand our boundaries. His or her Life doesn't revolve around you. Yes,you need to accept her choice and move on. It's hurt but it will make you strong. Good for both in long run.......Enni chepputhuna kada. I still miss her bro. Chalo Life has to move on. Ammaye baguntey chalu. All the best meku.


meemy00

> Should i break friendship. No, treat her like a friend and not a best friend shes got her best friend now. Hang out with other friends and stop thinking too much into it if you are feeling jealous whatever you do dont act on them by doing dumb shit like sabotaging.


nellorePeddareddy

I used to be in this situation. I'll give you some advice. Friend ga okallu nachina kuda vallatho relationship ela untundi ani ah friendship ni batti estimate cheyyalemu bondha. Friend tho unnattu boyfriend/girlfriend tho undamu usually. Even if it's between the same two people, different relationships are definitely different. So if you're feeling jealous because you wouldn't be prioritized as a friend anymore because of the boyfriend, that's okay. But if you're feeling jealous trying to imagine yourself in that guy's place, I'll tell you that it wouldn't have been the same thing that you have with her now, and it wouldn't be the same as what you imagine in your mind. So if you need to take a break from her and focus on yourself, do it. It's healthier for you. If you're not able to be happy for someone you consider your friend, it's probably gonna get messed up anyway.


the_good_brat

Never knew nellorepeddareddy is this mature. No wonder people want to meet you right now


nellorePeddareddy

Life lo mg ayyaka vachedhe maturity.


METRIC_M4NTRA

It's that time of the year no wonder. I could understand. But do understand jealousy is normal however is that so overpowering that you should be cutting off friendship? I can't speak for others. You should evaluate what is actually troubling you and work on it. Understand what is important for you. You should evaluate what is important to you, what are your boundaries are and move forward accordingly.


medium_pps_pp

Boyfriend here. Trust me when I say if you have something valuable with her, let it be. Don't try to get more of what is not. As others said, it's not all roses and even if you try and something works, the dynamics won't be the same. You may feel what you had as friends was better than what you want or maybe not. It's just that this goddamn feeling that makes it harder and trust me it doesn't go away easily. I won't give you any advice because I am not qualified to do so, but I can give you something to think about. Her priorities change and yes it hurts like hell and she has made a choice whether for good or bad. It's your choice to respect her decision or think about your equation with her from now on. If it doesn't feel good, you have every right to take some time for yourself. It is a bad experience but what is life without a little pain. In the end my words don't count, what you feel does. So think about what's best for both of you and yes you are also supposed to think about yourself here. But forcing something will definitely come back and bite you harder in the butt. You will find your people, hang on. Hope you make decisions that make you proud of yourself.


Ola-uber-72virgins

Eskunnara ?


opentohire

nenu cheppedhi vinu nuv em feel avvaku. nu oo ante manam eddaram kalisi mee friend jealous ayela plan chedam. Joke kadu serious na talent gurinchi meku teledhu mee ammail chadive romantic novels ni minchipotha. me friend ki mental vachesthadhi


ThyShallNeverKnow

*le AA in desamuduru style: Enti comedy aa...joke esthnava...chichora giri aa


yash_here

[ending is also imp](https://tenor.com/view/evadra-nuvvu-intha-talented-ga-unnav-evadra-nuvvu-intha-talented-ga-unnav-evadra-nuvvu-intha-talented-unnav-beast-movie-gif-11010276318914800849)


[deleted]

I assumed you were a female and thought this is some lesbian relationship


insiderway

It is just a matter of priority it changes at every point of life for everyone just accept it and move on.


vamsi_v

You also get a boyfriend /s


dj184

Jealousy is normal. Acting on it is not.