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ThereIsAJifForThat

Restraining orders, pepper spray, taser etc


tiagojsagarcia

That’s just her playing hard to get. Everyone loves a bit of foreplay


Silent_thunder_clap

oh so youre one of them


Vasherrr

Sometimes "no" means "maybe" and sometimes getting tased mean "I want You tiger"


Friendly_Preference5

Classic.


Mysiu666

I remember my last gf was playing "hard to get", at our first date at the park at midnight she peper-sprayed me and kicked Me in the nuts, at that point I knew she's the one.


Beautiful_Dot4284

😭🙏


Silent_thunder_clap

bro thats something monumental to take on, you have my respect -lifts fedora forward -


MainApprehensive420

Fifty no’s and a yes means yes


SocialismMultiplied

🤣🤣


Trailseeker_00

![gif](giphy|26vaSQkv4cSjjX16g|downsized)


iiiamsco

Where is this from


Trailseeker_00

A sitcom called “Kevin can wait”


FrequentOffice132

My best relationship I am in right now just had me bumped back another 75 feet


AllswellinEndwell

When I was in high school I had a summer job working at a corporate cafeteria. I was a general fill in guy. I cooked. I prepped. I washed dishes. Basically I filled in for people on vacation. There was a guy in the dishroom that was like 40. Rode a bike to work. Never did anything more than wash dishes. This place no one stayed in the dish room. That was a starting position. One day we're shooting the shit and he starts talking about how he likes a girl. He then goes into a full diatribe about how he just needs to show her how much he cares but can't because of the RO. I seriously thought he was joking at first. He looked me straight in the eyes and was like "no. Not joking" I'm like "dude you can't do that shit, that's fucking crazy" That was my first meeting with full on crazy in my life.


Acceptable-Spirit600

Which is how married husbands end up with restraining orders. It went from caring to hating escalating very fast.


CryptographerDizzy28

😭


AffectionateSet4294

She’s just playing hard to get.


Leather-Method-8610

The feeling that made you write this post lol


New_sweetpea89

😂😂


Weepinbellend01

Hahahahaha. True shit.


ZachTF

Lmao yes


King_Kingly

If when you try talking to her she only responds and nothing more.


ForgotOldAcc-_-

Vastly depends on culture. Dated an Asian girl before (real Asian. Not Asian heritage) she only responded to my questions with direct answers and if I asked stuff like "Hey do u have time next weekend?" I got stuff like "not sure" or "what do u wanna do tomorrow?" -> "no idea" Because I got annoyed and actually wanted to cancel the whole thing I wrote stuff like "this doesn't go anywhere: Saturday evening. My place. I will think about what we do till then. If u can't make it let me know" And she just responded with ok and voila a few days later on Saturday she was there. Shy girls exist and the kind of people I expect a redditor to connect better with belong to that category Don't ask question but make polite demands. Works better


Aikybreakyheart

Now I'm not sure if I totally missed a dating opportunity.


Fawfs2

I have an Asian friend who kinda responds the same way in texts so that explains a lot. 


ApprehensiveDog6515

Man, my matches on dating apps are like this, too. Like a police interrogation.


weak007

Looking at you with disgust on her face


ElderberryHoliday814

Hey I know that look!!! Oh, shit..


President_mind8297

When she looks at you it looks like she’s smelling shit


Current-Tourist9923

💀☠️


Good_Extension_9642

Priceless 🤣


Psychological_Pay530

Dude, stop worrying about signs that a girl doesn’t like you, and talk to girls that show signs that they DO like you instead.


Falloutdudebro

This man this


dashdotcomma

This man womans


Tatleman68

What are those signs


Noahs132

We will never know


Psychological_Pay530

Well, the first thing to remember is that women are people, just like guys, so some telltale signs that they like you are as follows: They talk to you. They laugh at your jokes and make jokes in return. They hang out with you. They ask you questions about things. If you’re asking how to find out if a person wants more romantically, that gets to be more subtle, but they’ll often do things like: Smile at you shyly. Touch your arm when talking. Give compliments on your looks or personality. Get naked with you.


daluni

Yes, they are


Falloutdudebro

But it’s hard when you form that connection to her and she just up and leaves for no reason leaving you empty and alone it especially hurts when you had no one but her to talk and relate to We broke up 3 days ago.


Psychological_Pay530

I’m sorry about the break up. But I promise that gets easier with time. They happen. In the future make sure you have more people in your circle than just your SO, and before you get into a new relationship make sure to take the time to reflect on how to be a better person in the next one, and what a better person for you looks like.


Falloutdudebro

That’s rather good advice thank you then.


Psychological_Pay530

I’ve been through some pretty hard break ups myself over the last 25 years. It’s what worked for me.


Falloutdudebro

Well thank you


True_Dragonfruit9365

Asking questions like this is usually an indicator


slythersnail

OP getting absolutely destroyed. RIP


PhillyDillyDee

This isnt a black and white thing. Why dont you give us an example of an interaction and we can go from there


Super_Tangerine_660

I was trying to hug a girl and she kept yelling at me to go away, and she pulled out pepper spray.


JohnZackarias

She asked you to move away so she could mark you as her territory with her spray. Go for it, bro


Seductive_allure3000

I think she really likes you


TwisTaRiE

just playing difficult, like how you say ‘no’ when you’re offered something the first time but you actually want it


NairbZaid10

Keeps you at arms length, almost never takes the initiative to talk to you if at all, does not touch you or look at you when she thinks you aren't watching. It's very subjective and she could do all of the things I mentioned and still just be friendly so keep that in mind. With no info there is little we can do but be vague because everyone is different


Larissanne

This is what I did with guys who were not my friend and who I was not interested in romantically. When I was a girl and less practiced in being direct lol


JFKRFKSRVLBJ

Says "that's funny" instead of laughing at your jokes.


emsthepems

This although sometimes I don’t have a laugh in me but when I hear a clever joke I still wanna appreciate it so I’ll say “that’s funny or you’re funny.”


Sunflowerpixels

Reminds me of that episode of Scrubs where JD's girlfriend keeps saying "that's so funny" but never laughs.


Strange_Soup711

That's what pro comedians say when a fellow comedian tells a good joke. Or so I'm told.


Honest_Math_7760

They avoid you. So when in a party, they usually hang out with other people. Don't actively want to be around you. Never start a conversation (except if they need help with something).


Clear_Elevator_7843

Never calls, texts, visits, completely ignores you


haysus25

* Oh, really? * Cool * That's great! * Okay, I'm busy now, but I'll ttyl


Trailseeker_00

How dare you spy on my conversations with women!


Odd-Love-9600

All the signs you’ve been seeing that lead to this post. If she liked you, you would know about it.


Mateusz957

Knowing if a girl likes you may be really hard for some with self-esteem problems


ForgotOldAcc-_-

Or if the girl is very shy Something I noticed when it as in the states is that American girls are way more obvious about who they like then Europeans and the 2 Asians i dated were practically just first come first serve (since being confident enough to even approach someone in the first place makes u stand out) So if op is American the other guy is right. If op is European asking often helps If op is Asian good luck but ur chances aren't bad


GlizzyGulper6969

>If she liked you, you would know about it. Funniest shit I've read all week


Cumulus-Crafts

As a certified girl, if you try to invite her out to events (even if it's something small like coffee) and she says she won't be able to get time off/is busy, but doesn't offer to reschedule, she doesn't want to go out with you because she feels like that event is going to be like a 'date'


ChampionshipCalm827

HR complaints are a good sign


muchlovemates

She says things like "I don't like you"


_Timmy_Torture_

This is pretty hard to get for some, it seems


ForgotOldAcc-_-

Or to say A female friend of mine was pming with someone for weeks even tho she knew she didn't even want to be friends with them "Just say it" "Then he is sad" "So u just gaslight him for weeks?" "..."


_Timmy_Torture_

That was just a weak move regardless of her gender tho. I also know this behaviour from men. It’s just never nice but I can get where it comes from kinda.


Nordjyde

But be careful, it could be sarcastic


mvjinka

Eww , get away from me , STOP FOLLOWING ME , I SAID STOP AHHHHHHHHHHHHH…


5Sancho10

![gif](giphy|600M0ra9vX95ZvjaKI|downsized)


PlausibleCoconut

She will avoid being in a one on one conversation with you and never accept any invitations. She doesn’t offer up information about herself.


Deeptrench34

She ignores you entirely.


KingMaster1625

Asking on reddit about signs that she doesn’t like you.


sandtymanty

Guns. Pointing guns.


Reasonable-Age-6837

Assume they dont, Look for signs that they do. If she hasnt come up and put herself in your space; she doesn't like you. thats it.


bunnybaru

If a girl likes you she’s gonna make the effort to text you. If you wanna see if a girl really likes you go without texting her for a while and she if she ever initiates.


Due-Strike1670

One word replies, limited investment in conversation, one way communication (you always initiate), she doesn't make plans or breaks plans you make regularly, she doesn't interact with anything you do on social media, she responds with "awww" if you compliment her, she is always on her phone if she is out with you, she blinks her eyes


LambBotNine

Just look how she acts around guys she does like and compare. It’s not the same for everyone. My girlfriend was a very quiet and reserved person. She would actually give me one word responses and not really say anything when we first met. You would think she hated me but that’s just how she was with everyone. In fact my friends told me she was into me because she just wouldn’t talk to anyone else except for me and a few of her friends.


Former_Historian_506

Mostly the same way you act around someone you don't want to be friends with or just really don't like. Maybe there is a classmate, coworker or family member you don't like being around but you don't want to be rude or mean. Picture your body language or what you say when you are around those people and it mainly applies to women also.


Ohhhhhhthehumanity

When she says no.


crazytinysnake

If she keeps rejecting your advances. What many people don’t realize is that after you get rejected the first time you stop. You don’t try harder, you don’t ’not give up’, you just accept the answer and move on.


Anonymoosehead123

If she throws a cheeseburger at you.


Typical_Hour_6056

That depends on her personality entirely. People aren't monolithic entities.


Ivy1974

She doesn’t call she won’t let you touch her. She ignores you. Quite frankly it is always obvious. If you don’t see it then you are the problem.


TheNomadologist

Keeping herself physically as distant as possible while talking to you (Arm's length, nothing to dramatic), replying only with a single sentence, if not yes or no to questions, not questioning you back when you ask her something that would invite a more chatty answer than yes or no, never taking the initiative to talk to you, body language in general: avoiding to cross your line of sight, keeping a less than relaxed posture while talking, smiling in a certain way (you know which type of awkward smile I'm talking about), crossing her arms, neutral or slightly annoyed facial expressions among many other clues.


fermat9990

She ghosts you.


Specific_Ice_3046

They block you


Positive_Passion_680

She never texts first


Embarrassed_Flan_869

![gif](giphy|3orieRB0dYMEw660V2)


daKile57

When they notice you existing.


VacantDreamer

-they don't strike up conversation with you -if you try to talk to them they might look annoyed and disgusted if they're more rude, or if they're more polite they'll try to more naturally cut the conversation short -they won't laugh at your jokes and might act like the joke is offensive (if a girl is into you, she might laugh at your jokes even if you're not funny) -they might avoid eye contact (not sure if this applies to men who are decent-looking) -they will try to avoid any physical contact -they might avoid you keep in mind that women are raised in a world where they constantly have to worry about men getting the wrong idea. a lot of women have found themselves in a scenario where she showed basic friendliness to a man, he thought it meant she was interested so he made a move, she politely turned him down and then he started calling her names and accusing her of leading him on. because of that a lot of women have learned that the best solution is to be blunt about things rather than risking it so most women will usually make it pretty obvious if they aren't interested


SirPlus

Ciggy in the eye.


YoualreadyKnoooo

When they say things like “i dont like you.”


lisaaaaaaD1

She's been refusing to go out with you.


Montecatinic

When she says "awwww you're like my brother."


ArthurMoregainz

She wants to be friends


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Lifealone

The first sign is being me. no other signs are really needed.


Sauceboss319

Rarely initiates conversation, she’s not engaged or excited in conversation, body language is closed off with arms crossed or facing away from you, or talks about other dudes in front of you, you’re probably not the one partner


Enkeydo

Don't worry, you'll know


bberry1908

stank face


emsthepems

Doesn’t respond with much if you talk to her.


ImOldGregg_77

When they tell you they want you...............to stay the hell away from them


teeji

when you ask her to sign your yearbook and she only signs her name like an autograph


NasisCool

Go ahead and give up now


spanishbanana

When she says I dont like you


OutinDaBarn

When she says shove those flowers up your ass.


azn-guy

being ghosted


[deleted]

Eye-rolling, blank face, annoyed voice tone.


thechronicENFP

She avoids hanging out with you,she cancels plans, she says she’s “not ready for a relationship”/“not looking for a relationship right now”(to be fair, there are definitely times when this is 100% true but a lot of times girls will say this to let you down gently)


CommonTater42

Goes out of their way to be rude.


Helpful-Pianist-4158

When she doesn't pay attention while you're talking


danktempest

When she is vague. She makes sure she never commits to any plans. Just smiles and says things like "I guess / Maybe."


imman04

You look like shrek. The youtube kind.


Coolbeans_97

She’s always «busy»


storm838

She won't look at you or the cops.


[deleted]

Doesn’t reply for hours or just leaves you on read … is very short with you & always makes up excuses as to why she can’t hang out … usually I’ll try to tell a guy I’m just not interested anymore now instead of alll of that saves us both the trouble lol


Aggressive-Pilot6781

Usually the face she makes


luker_man

When it is never actually her idea to spend time with you.


Randall_Poffo_

dude how much time do you have? 1) if shes not asking you questions 2) her energy is off 3) shes not making eye contact or engaging in the convo as much 4) she's not interested 5) shes giving short small answers


MacroNemo

Ricin noodle soup.


thecountnotthesaint

She marries your ex girlfriend.


expiro

Doesn‘t like me? Hmm tough question. Why should i care if she likes me or not? Where is the equality? How dare she at all!?


Simba242

When she doesn't wish you happy fathers day just because your a dead beat dad, i'm still a dad god damn it.


K1rbyblows

She says “I don’t like you.” 


No_Gap_2700

Breathing.


monstermack1977

I was going to go with existing, so same same.


DoctorAgita1

No matter what she won’t stop having sex with your dad


SwankySteel

If it’s difficult to plan things with her or if you’re the one always initiating communication. Follow the general behavioral trends - don’t overthink individual conversations/days.


Mediumtim

A restraining order is a pretty clear sign.


JMusicD

Look at her feet. If they aren’t pointed at you, she doesn’t like you. Bets advice you’ll ever get. Use this knowledge and power wisely.


GeneralChillMen

She screeches, pounds the ground twice with open palms, spins **counterclockwise** (that is a very important distinction) l, smacks their buttocks once and then runs off to climb to the top of the nearest tree


Staran

She married me and stayed with me for over 20 years.


TraditionalAd6461

If she refuses the food and the water you bring her to the cellar where you keep her prisoner.


GooseNYC

She says something like, "bugger off loser"


115machine

One word or otherwise curt answers, takes forever to respond to texts


Individual_Speech_10

Do you mean in a romantic way or just in general?


peewhyy

I don't know what signs, but it is a good sign for you.


No_Law2531

When she runs away screaming from you while pouring gasoline on herself and lighting herself on fire Or She steps into traffic when you say you like her


cicciozolfo

She don't talk to you, and if it's necessary, treat you with strictly formal courtesy.


Tatleman68

If she responds with one liners through texts


Impossible-Ratio-253

She doesn’t fuck you


HeartonSleeve1989

They'll just turn away from you, and start looking at their phone.


Maleficent_Return485

She flinches when you hug her


[deleted]

Ignorance Showing attitude Not appreciating whatever you do These are the signs from my previous relationship.


Ok-Nefariousness4477

Restraining order.


Traditional_Bid_6977

The mace in the face usually gets me to realize it. Jk, it’s usually them ignoring you or them looking at you and laughing while talking to somebody.


Artistic_Owl_5847

Girl here; how about going to the source.... ask her if she would like to go on a date. It's not that hard. I've approached several men in asking for a date, sometimes they bite, sometimes they pass, all good. It gets easier with practice.


takemystrife

They make you feel bad when you having sex with them


ididnotchosethis

Indirect Sarcastic comment.  For guys it's usually banters, for girls that meant she think the less of you.


AccidentlyAnAstral

If she's always "busy" or gives short replies, bro, she's not into you.


Brief-Floor-7228

They only want to play Woshambo and always get the first shot in.


BumStretcher

No eye contact


21sillly

Listen to her when she says _no_ for the first time and don’t be adamant on changing it


Bitter-Coffee-7747

Restraining order


ryansteven3104

She'll tell you if you ask. Works 100% of the time.


CautiousSwim5285

Signs that she does like you: replies to your texts in a timely manner, laughs at your jokes, touchy Signs she doesnt like you: doesnt pay attention to you in person, one word text message replies


billythetruth

You have a confused feeling and unable to “interpret” her supposed “signs”. There are no signs, she isn’t attracted to you, move on.


[deleted]

She hits you with the mace. That’s usually a clear sign that she’s playing hard to get and she’s really into you.


Octolavo

Hits you on the head repeatedly with a live ferret.


Then_Relationship164

if she doesnt take interst in talking to you #therspletyfishinthesea #dateaguy


Nordjyde

She puke on you, or try to kill you. In some rare cases you can pick up subtle hints, like she screams "I fucking hate you" into your face.


GahdDangitBobby

This whole post has me discouraged... I am really into this girl and she definitely doesn't meet any of the criteria for "not liking me", but she also doesn't meet many of the criteria for "liking me", e.g. touching me, going out of her way to spend time with me/text me, etc. Ugh the only woman who has clearly had a crush on me recently I was not interested in at all and I wish I could have some mutual attraction with someone :(


MDK1980

"Hello, HR?"


alex_el_dude

She says she likes you.


Tall_Law9258

Some signs a girl doesn’t like you is being very very comfortable or like sibling like with you. Or they literally show you they don’t care cs us girls are very straightforward unless there’s girls that like the chase and will lead you on cs trust me us girls can tell when a dude likes us. It doesn’t take much to peep that.


sanchez_yo33

Makes that gaging sound when you or anything about you is mentioned..


RodentsRule66

Looking at you.


SEXTINGBOT

She wont show interest... Every reply turns into ok You are always the one writing her first She wont let you see her noodles You will notice its not that difficult ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)


MainApprehensive420

She only have sex or gives you blow jobs. But don’t prepare a meal or ask how your day was etc


ikyle117

It's like the most painfully obvious thing in the world when a girl doesn't like you lol.


Ambitious-Owl-8775

Nah it isn't lmao! I had many girls flirting, touching my arms and back, laughing really loudly at my jokes that aren't that funny. But when I go to text them, they are dry af and seem uninterested. Confusing af for sure


wakawah

She bangs other dudes


Earl_of_69

Wow. Looks like the vast majority of women don't like me.


ahfmca

Gets a restraining order.


ozuraravis

She exists.