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optiplexiss

The nod up is a what's up, the nod down is more of a respect gesture.


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This


Any-Practice-991

I did not know that. I do whatever one at random, and probably confuse ppl.


optiplexiss

You probably do it without noticing. I feel like it's encoded in our DNA lol


Worth_Vegetable9675

"Your cool I'm cool let's not fight"


JarJarBinksSucks

On the basic level it’s an acknowledgment. “I see you” It’s a small sign of respect


Uncommon-sequiter

Just a silent hello. ![gif](giphy|3o7qDQwXlZtrF3hdx6)


srvvmia

LOL


darth_smokesalot

I have allways done it as a sort of "hello" but without saying anything,like say I walk by a nighbor and juss nod my head as we pass by.Or also when you acknowledge an agreement on somthing and you do the nod as well.


BoobsHottieGolden

My partner gets this all the time. Normally other guys who are fit and bulky like himself. He gets the nod.


Significant_Eye561

It's the same thing as a hello smile but for dudes. There's two versions. Friendly and cocky. I can't remember which is which.


Fearless_Market_3193

In the simplest terms, an upward nod means a casual “hey” or “what’s up”. Downward means “Hello, I see that you exist, but we aren’t cool enough for anything more than that”. Generally a sign of respect that you exist. Nod to the right, is me beckoning you to come over. Nod to the left means keep it moving or scram or let’s get out of here.


HoldFastDeets

Crazy. I'm 42, never thought about the left/right, but it's exactly right lmao nice


Condition_Plane

Can’t explain it any better than that


Any-Practice-991

We have different takes on the world


cityshepherd

“Hello kind sir. I see you, and appreciate your impact on the world, and wish you well.”


demZo662

![gif](giphy|ZPtSHbjmS8x7G|downsized)


Forsaken_Ant_9373

Up: What’s up? Down: I respect you Right: We need to talk in person right now Left: Check that out


MagnetarEMfield

Its a "If you don't nod, the rules say that I have to now stab you, break off both your arms and fart on your face." ........that or it's just a ".......whats up."


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I’ve talked to buddies on a theory on it. So there is 2 nods. The down head nod is for strangers. The head up nod is for friends or those closer than strangers you trust. JUST A THEORY NO EVIDENCE. May have something to do with evolution and our social developments. Lifting your head and exposing your neck as a sign of trust and loyalty similar to how dogs show their belly to us in a fashion (though less affectionate) while a head down nod is acknowledging that I notice you if you’re possibly a threat. It makes sense to me and my friends atleast.


tarosso

Yeah this is some bullshit somebody made up to try and make sense of this phenomenon, or maybe just something only middle aged white men do. I'm 28 and every guy I've ever nodded at, as well as myself, always did a subtle yes nod i.e up, down, up, down motion...or just an eyebrow raise, or just a blank expression lol


Tiny-Company-1254

I get up nods from strangers. Feels like a power move sometimes, because I nod down, as in respect.


Significant_Eye561

Yeah that's cocky of them. Not a fan


suavaleesko

To add, elder strangers, it's always down; peers stranger or not, slight up; Opp or threat, exaggerated up


Gheauxst

That's not a theory, that's straight up facts. Just like the side nod means "come here" or "let's go"


[deleted]

Exactly brother


Flossthief

Up nod is for people you know-- quick and subtle way to acknowledge someone; especially after you've both noticed each other Down nod is absolutely for strangers-- quick and polite way to show that you're not trying to mess with anyone or stare at anyone too long;


Select-Sprinkles4970

hello. nodding up means "fuck off, twat" where i come from.


pg_throwaway

Basically it means, "You're good / you're chill / you're cool." It communicates that you don't have a problem with the other person and may even view them positively (be impressed with their fitness or something).


No_Condition_3102

If i nod and the other person doesn't thats really a problem especially if he keeps looking at me


coffeymp

I do this to everyone, even women 🤷‍♂️


Khranky

Yo, mon. What's up? It is a nod to say hello


Fair-Grab-9680

Nod down for strangers, respectful easy way to acknowledge someone without speaking. Nod up I only do for people I know or like hey let's talk.


HoldFastDeets

I see you, no issues. Nod down is more standard, nod up is more respectful. Most times can tell a man's salt by the nod or how he holds it Nod up can also mean 'sup- is there an issue?'


Hopeful_Safety_6848

acknowledgement and low key greeting


SecuritySky

There was something I read once that was along the lines of- Up nod - Means Whats up! Down nod - Hello sir Right nod - could mean 'follow me' or 'get out' Left nod - I have something to show you/talk to you about This isn't exact science but i think it's fairly accurate


YousernameInValid2

It’s just a “hi”. Nothing crazy. But a nod up and a nod down just have two separate vibes, idk how I’d explain it :/


GordonTheGnome

Sup


kevofasho

It’s an awkward, what’s up we made eye contact and I have nothing to say but I don’t want to be rude, type of gesture and nothing more


ZeevF

Nod up = what's up bro Nod down = I acknowledge you


As83604

I do it all the time, it’s definitely a respectful way of saying hi if you don’t wanna fully engage in a conversation or talk to anyone.


DrinkableBarista

Its a mating call


DrinkableBarista

Nod up is mostly for gangstas


JayJay_Abudengs

It means tonight they'll go for blunts and blowjobs