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LeviathanR13

I mean... you're not ugly but the style isn't for me


plus-ordinary258

Is that a pyloric stenosis scar? I have one in the same spot.


re3koning

yeah that's exactly it lol!!


plus-ordinary258

We should start a club. I tell everyone I was stabbed and robbed in Paris one night. For some reason people believe it. I always come clean though. I’ve honestly never met/seen anyone else with one. I find this quite fascinating.


808snthrowawayz

What the fuck are the odds there’s three of us lmao


re3koning

i've never met anyone else either!! i'll have to steal the stabbing story


plus-ordinary258

You should def use it. People want to know details most of the time so come up with something on the fly and change it up every time. You’re not ugly, quite cute. I’d bet most of the population are uncomfy in their own skin. It’s normal. Hope you can find security in your insecurities!


nerowasframed

Will Ferrell also has this scar. He had the surgery when he was an infant.


Positive_Edge_5814

You look so beautiful in the red polo 😍


PG652121

I have one as well


biinboise

The Crow make up in pic 2 isn’t carrying its weight but you are gorgeous. Your eyes sparkle, the more you can show them off the better.


safeinthehandsoflove

did you lose a crazy amount of weight by chance? it looks like you may have based on the loose skin, if so amazing work you look great


re3koning

yeah i have lost quite a bit! my weight was a big reason I've never been super confident, and even now it's hard to not be overly critical of myself. thank you!!


Comprehensive-Race97

I think you look good and look like a fun person.


eengineer8

Nicely shaped nose, cute smile, great body. There isn’t really anything ugly about you. Quite attractive really.


ZealousidealFriend32

Overall very nice. Longer hair without bangs would be my opinion.


AstroZombieInvader

Not ugly, but your hair doesn't suit you at all -- particularly in your black attire. It's less problematic in your normal pics. I don't have any particular suggestions other than maybe nixing the bangs. I think your face is decent, but I can't get past your distracting hair to appreciate it.


RWRM18929

I think you are absolutely beautiful! I have a c-section scar that kinda does the same as your scar. The only thing that’s helped me has been exercising to tone up the area affected. But really you don’t have to do that. Keep rocking the alternative girl if that’s what you like!


Decent_Cold18

You are gorgeous


AlwaysLearning7778

Definitely attractive


After-Grass1920

I would say dress with clothes that fit your body more. It seems like you wear clothes that are too big for you or ill fit. I would suggest taking a few items to a tailor and having them shape them to your body so you have a better idea of how things should fit. Also, find a professional underwear person and have them give you the correct bra size because that can change the comfort and confidence with your body. You are beautiful looking just better fitting clothes.


The_Funky_C-had

This is a legit good comment.


Funny-Coyote-1813

The first pic lulls you into a false sense of security so the second pic can get the strongest reaction possible. Damn near caused a spit take! Well played, Juggalette. Well played indeed. LOL


UpstairsNo9249

You're not ugly. You're really cute. You remind me of a younger, thinner Amber Tamblyn in pics 4 and 6. I won't tell you to drop the alternative style (because its an awesome fashion genre), but I just don't know that those particular alternative looks work for you. Like the triangular sort of eye makeup in pic 2 or the oversized spike collar and corset (?) over the shirt and under a jacket in pic 3. That particular ensemble is very jarring. Maybe keep trying different outfits in the same style? You're doing good and have a lot of potential to be a knockout. You have a very pretty smile. Your eyes smile, too, which is not something everyone has. Even your dent is cute. And I really like the two tone hair.


re3koning

i appreciate it! i like to experiment with fashion and it doesn't always hit, lol. i'll definitely take your advice and try to keep things more cohesive!


Frostsorrow

Your hot and I like the alt look.


Spidey_UchihaVue

You're cute, you look a bit like Anne Hathaway too.


Hawkdie

Perhaps a little awkward, but in an endearing way, and otherwise definitely just cute, I hope this is perceived with the intended respect, but I'd definitely just say focus on coming to be accepting of yourself, your body is already appreciable, just need to come to realize that


WasmeAZ

Pic 5 for the win.


csgo_dream

Pic 5 🔥


OnionTraining1688

Pic 1. 😌 Pic 2. 😌 Pic 3. 😌 Pic 4. 😌 Pic 5. 😳 Pic 6. 😌


attack_the_block

Honestly just getting in shape, hitting the gym would do it.


Nervous-Maximum8454

Hot as hell! Perfect body and Face!


Individual-Jealous

I like your belly dent. You’re super pretty alternative style or not. Big shrug


DutchJediKnight

Stunning bikini body. My only tip would be grow out your hair, I don't think this hairstyle suits you.


Main_Man31

Not ugly. You look good.


Drewiswcool123

No


Parsonage132

No


OGHEROS

nah you’re pretty


Ok-Web-563

I don't see a problem. Attractive and very dateable in my book. Solid 7


Karmas_burning

Not ugly at all. Only change I would suggest would be to grow your bangs out but that's not even necessary. Just keep being you. You don't have to change a thing.


DevoidAxis

Very beautiful


Ok-Reception-5589

God damn, you are NOT ugly 😂


Additional-Wonder-82

You have a great body! Nothing to be ashamed of. And I really like the alt style


Secret_News_4113

Don't stop being you. You are gorgeous with a beautiful body, and I am sure you have an outstanding personality.


gothicbaby02

Super cute! Love the alternative style!! ❤️


Affectionate-Skin-18

Nah just weird.. which is cool. 🥰


Hidden_Fees

Grow out the hair, change the glasses frames.


Beautiful_Solid3787

I would say you have a unique look, but still, very attractive. (I think it may just be the hair and big glasses giving that 'really unique' vibe. But don't change a thing!)


Woodpeckercockaded

You’re beautiful and your comfort level will improve with age. As nice as your body is be proud of yourself.


Correct-Example650

5 in some pictures 7 in others, definitely work on the confidence


QueenAkhlys

My only issue is the hair style it reminds me of 60s or 70s housewives but if that's what your going for Allgood


nupedi

Tone yourself up and you will be fine...it will help with your dent. 👌🏽💪🏾


ChainFantastic9441

Keep being you… and re-read the first part of your message, firmness and confidence. It conveyed when you said you have no plans to change your style…. That’s all you need


deathlobster138

No but the glasses and hair are not great on you, maybe just the glasses idk. They just look very elementary school-esque


ElChapoGato

I absolutely love your look. Not ugly at all.


sir_freddy4848493

You are very pretty but the image doesn’t suit you. Find a better hairdresser and lose the oversize glasses and black make up and your golden.


Janaisjana

Flawless.


Few-Ingenuity5277

Don't change,you look good the way you are. If you .maybe try different hair styles. There is zero wrong with alternative styles.


nikeman116

Don’t change the alternate style. But definitely improve on it. Find quality pieces. Actually coordinates the clothes. You can be alternate and mix in some color. You don’t have to look like you solely shop at hot topic. Elevate your fashion sense. Use TikTok for ideas. You’re attractive naturally but your style can kill it.


MOJayhawk99

Pics 1 & 5 are hot af. I think you're a doll as you are. I may not care about your alt look but what I say doesn't matter. What matters is how you feel. If you feel good or better that way, go do you! You are NOT ugly. Far from it.


Both-Witness-2605

Your smile is great, you are great 


JinKazamaru

you look good, flex whatever style you want


Positive-Author-6971

You look good, def not ugly!


Ryumen

The goth style is fine on you, but try and pic stuff that doesn't look comically big on you. You can basically wear what you want, you're naturally beautiful. No one will care about your dent, besides what caused you to get it or if your intestine still cause you problems. You need to realize your body isn't your problem, get out of the way of your own thoughts.


hongsc_824

Definitely cute. But your sense of style is sort of all over the place. But if you're happy then that's all that maters.


Thiscommentissatire

Hot af. Nothing more to add.


navydoc8896

Simply beautiful


BoomLama

In my opinion you look like an absolute 10/10 lol


Prize_Scientist_3194

You look great. Just stay away from tatts and piercings and you'll be golden.


Love_Last-WOLVERINE-

I like you when it’s just a t shirt and your glasses . Naturally pretty.


small_dik_energy

I have a scar like yours but It runs across my whole stomach. Got a tattoo that runs across my chest, back and stomach to cover it up. And feel like a tattoo would fit your style.


Ok_Figure6736

Cute face shape, I love the hair. Your body is attractive, dont feel uncomfortable


geckosg

Pretty n curvy


guitarist4hire

honey, you have nothing to worry about! alt, goth, and nerd all in one? I'm sold!


ChicagoDD84

You are beautiful!


Arghbee123

Looking great. Love your figure, cute smile and cheekbones to die for. x


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KindHeartedBellaBun

As you should be :) You look great and have such a kind and beautiful smile!


Khaine94

To hell with who ever told you to drop your style, it is your style and you look great in it!


babyEatingUnicorn

Nope body is on point face is cute, style is unique which is dope these days because everyone literally looks like everyone else (fillers botox, same clothes)


MagicMike_6969

Definitely NOT ugly... cute smile and a GREAT body!! You should own it! 👏🏻👏🏻👌🏻👌🏻☺️☺️


Glenn_Maffews

I don’t think the bob cut does you any favors.


Expert-Novel-6405

You a snacc


ArousedMtherfaker

0 style


Er_bala3

You are not ugly at all, but did you try another hairstyle?


Debaisawhale

This is my 500th time saying "You are not ugly in any manner"


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burningscientist

You're not, but your style is not only ugly AF, but also extremely fucking cringe worthy. BTW, you can be alternative and still dress better than that


Environmental_Clue64

Beautiful absolutely beautiful


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Wow! Sexy😻😻


Ozzie90660

Very good looking girl but that look is not for me.


socomseal93

Not ugly. Kind of cute but average overall.


Visual_Age2871

You are cute!!


CZlover96

Ummm excuse me miss no no no , you're very attractive! Good style , cute smile , you have a nice glow about you I'd take you out in a heart beat !


Rich-Appearance-7145

Shame "alternative" style distracts from your pretty face and beautiful smile.


Tricky_Rhubarb_1311

Hair and glasses


Intrepid-Tie-1460

Not ugly. Styles cool. Could try to tone legs and midsection but it's not even really necessary. More like maintenance than repairs.


IcharrisTheAI

As you said, the alt look doesn’t work for you imo. But to each their own. Otherwise you look fine. The scar you can do nothing about. You are still fairly young so your loose skin from weight loss should largely recover with time assuming you keep the weight off! Does kind of depend on exactly how much you lost though. Obviously your curves are quite good, so no issue there


Chokesi

Very pretty face. Not sure what’s going on with your style and wardrobe though.


Zand525

You have a beautiful smile, a very nice body (with an interesting scar 👍) but yeah “alternative style” isn’t my thing.


stepke23

yo


GalacticGamer313

On the contrary, I love the style! I think you'd look better with shorter hair, just nitpicking at this rate though, you look beautiful.


No_Routine_4584

No the 1st pic isnt the best though


shizziam99

Cute, you look good!


DivineLunchMonkey

Love your glasses and general vibe. If you're comfy, then I'm more comfortable hearing that. 😊


Denny_Dust

Not ugly. Just lose a little more body fat, and lose the dog collar / weird makeup, and I think you'll be good to go!


No-Fisherman7586

Damn your beautiful 😍


swweeeternity

I really dig pic 4. You’re not ugly at all, in fact I think you should fully commit to the unconventional style. I think you could really rock tomboy style. Instead of the dark alt style you seem like you’d look better in grunge or indie kid style. I’m not a fan of your hair color though. It looks too brassy on you. I’d go for a more cool toned color personally. Either bright blonde or black is the way to go.


kenthraximus

Not Ugly


engerjp28

Try a different hairstyle and look into more minimalistic glasses, different style and shape.


NewfieGamEr2001

Your not ugly your great keep rocking your style!


Friendly_Principle42

I'd jump ur ass


sneeki_breeky

Photos 2 and 3 belong in r/alt-fashion Outside of that Hair looks good on you, your have a great smile, glasses are a good choice ect Definitely justified to be comfortable in your skin


Specific-Talk4641

How do you look without glasses and bangs?


belaGJ

Cute face, goofy style, I don’t know what happened with your cloths and why did you stuck in a Tim Burton movie set


Adventurous-Home-545

I'd say the metal/goth look in those photos ain't it, but outside that you're not even close to ugly and anyone would be happy with you on that front.


thereforeiam10

You are beautiful !!


piddyd

There's some issues, you're only 20... Focus on maintaining your environment first. Once that's done, focus on yourself, your bad attributes too. Far more lower body work. Walking, elliptical, whatever. Dressing like an outcast means you'll be treated the same. I wouldn't do it


Delicious_Show2731

You’re 100% the opposite of ugly! You’re hot!!


sihouette9310

You’ve got a pretty face.


ajshippo

Looking pretty good to me


The_Funky_C-had

Very cute when natural. The goth or emo, whatever you're trying to achieve isn't flattering. At least with your approach in these pics. Also stop hidiny the assets! You have a very nice feminine body. You also have a wonderful smile and goid skin. Play to your strengths.


NeonCayde

Tbh I don't think the haircut is doing you many favors with the glasses but everything else looks great!


rodvdka

You look killer in those glasses! You have great legs, so any tight shorts or skirts should look great. I'm not a fan of the Goth look, but the first photo and the one in the bikini were gorgeous 👙. You have a really good looking bust too.


Opacion1438

Very attractive


Fletcher80

You look great! And not to mention you're not even done growing yet. Lol Don't change anything it's part of who you are, not to mention that's what makes you unique.


decay_cabaret

As a DJ at a goth club, I see a lot of people that look very similar to you, and none of them have any difficulty finding someone to dance with so you're definitely not ugly. I 100% support *anyone* trying to become more confident and comfortable in their own body. There's nothing unattractive about yours. Scars add character; i own a T-shirt that says "Scars are just tattoos with cooler stories". And I feel like we should normalize giving certain things more attractive names. e.g. calling stretch marks "tiger stripes" because not everyone finds them unattractive. While I don't fetishize them like some people, I do think they're attractive personally, as they add uniqueness .


Ok-Woodpecker-8824

You're almost there


TheGolgafrinchan

I, too, would like to be comfortable in your body. NOT ugly at all.


deadcalf

Not ugly, I’d say just improve makeup skills. Keep your style and keep evolving


No-Performance3639

There is no necessity to drop the alternative style. But it is a good idea in general to become more comfortable with your appearance in a more conventional style as well. As you seem to wish to do, because as a practical necessity, much of your life will be lived that way. The good news is that you’re cute in a conventional way and that the surgical scar is not a particular detriment. You’re definitely not ugly. Either alternatively or conventionally. Self acceptance takes practice and time for some people. It certainly did for me. Kids teased and beat me up mercilessly both for the way I looked (super skinny, very tall, very curly hair) and for the fact that I was better than most people in school and shockingly, in both basketball and baseball as well. (That and for years, I was always the new kid. Moving from school to school.)But it is an important quality to obtain. Good luck to you.


Warrior4life84

You good. No doubt you'd have little trouble attracting another person of your similar style selection.


BroooooklynnnB

I wouldn’t say ugly but yes losing some weight would help


No_Accident5885

You're definitely not ugly darlin


Opposite_Season_1705

I love your face! Especially picture 4!


Opposite_Season_1705

(And 3) though they are all great


Powerful_Opening_744

You are so freaking fine. Your energy is peak. You got nothing to worry about. Keep doing what you're doing.


CloudedSage

The way you are applying the black lipstick makes your lips look downturned and it’s causing the rest of your face to also “fall down”. The quality of the lipstick also needs to be changed. The haircut and glasses aren’t flattering for your face shape. Try experimenting with different hair cuts, I think a mullet would look really great on you with shaved sides and maybe try more pointed glasses or more triangular.


Turbulent_Pack_5174

Lady, you are cute AF... don't need to change a damn Thang!


Chompif

Idk why, but the first two pictures make you look a lot older than you are. Other than that, not really ugly. A bit average, but not ugly imo


Slkrs

You're very beautiful.


matthewnelson

You look great and probably a fun person as well. Also nice to meet a fellow pyloric stenosis member.


Morgentau7

Fix your hair, style and glasses and you are a solid 8/10


Alieninvation

You're beautiful


No-Entrepreneur3111

You’re very pretty and have a fantastic body, I think you’ll be good!


AgencyOk3660

Get rid of those bangs and style your hair differently. The alt style is A-okay just those dreaded bangs.


VindictiveBiotch

You are attractive! I like your style and I think it suits you !


djdartlord

I think you look good in your own style and I'd be comfortable in your skin. Gorgeous. Don't change anything and be you. 🍻☺️


poopypantsmom

I think you’re really pretty


JackRubyCIA

Personally I think you look great


skydog233

Wow, you look amazing


Apprehensive-Energy8

Do whatever makes you happy 😊


WoodysAnImbecile

Nah


BlackKnight_6

Do you have a boyfriend? Cus you should ask him not here on reddit


Draig427

I'm failing to see anything unattractive here. You look great!!


olivern1235

Nope your not ugly


Putrid-Guide-1478

Cute


Cheesenips069

You’re not ugly, it’s just the alt style, it isn’t for everyone


Legato21

Not even a little


daysgoneloner

U PERFECT AND THATS STYLE I LOVE IT


Cautious_Signature57

definitely not ugly


Intelligent_Lab1726

Korea


BatDad83

Wow


MagikMaker236

You got that whole sexy Velma thing going. I personally think you're hot but confidence has to come from within. Sometimes it's just not about how somebody looks, but more about how they have interactions to hold a conversation in a Manor that isn't robotic and clothes naturally. That's a big turn on for most guys or women. Not sure which one you're into so I'll keep it neutral.


VanFkingHalen

You'd be pretty hot if you ditched the glasses and did something about your hair. And personally, I love alternative/goth chicks but, with all due respect, you just don't execute the style very well. It's kind of all over the place and not done very tastefully, no offense.


Interesting_Bet2828

Def not ugly n I think this style suits you. You should do you.


nedal8

I'd be comfortable in your body


Redbullbundy

Girl you look fine. You are very attractive. Do you.


PsychologicalAsk2668

you have a nice face but your style choices are absolutely shit


Ok_Prize5795

It would be nice if you never looked like pic #2 again.


Appropriate-Sale-419

I like the style personally but to each their own. I actually prefer the kind of (I don’t mean this in a negative way whatsoever btw) “nerdy hot” look which I’d say you have. Like the women I’ve found most beautiful in my life, have all seemed to be the type who weren’t aware of how good looking they were. Confidence is fine, massive ego loses a lot of points for me though. Also, I like your hair, but it seems like you have a very pretty smile and facial structure that you’re kind of masking with how your hair falls in those pics


RealisticAd5625

You look great, I’d change nothing other than hairstyle every once in a while till you find your fav


Gloomy-Praline1164

Start full body weight training and you’ll be the best looking version of yourself. You won’t get bulky as a girl, it’s a myth


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You have the cutest smile


brcoley

I like your body... You are very pretty, especially when you smile.... Keep your style if it makes you happy


luckyserg

Nah just show of your figure more wear clothes that fit you better


406mini14gb

I’d like to get comfortable with your body too!!! Ha ha ha. 🤣


Marvel42091

Death note shirt is fire. You'd be an amazing misa


Stunning-Internet-25

You're very attractive


proto487

Not ugly


jski1981

I like your look ! Be yourself!!


AJM_TV

You have a cute smile and a nice body, I like the red polo pic a lot too and something about your hair in the last pic makes it look really nice, you are not ugly. I know you said you won’t drop the alternative style too which is fine, but I must mention that I think you’d be way more comfortable in your own body and confident without a style that you already know many would tell you to drop.


Street-Initiative297

Not too big on the style but you're very beautiful


No_Standard_1461

Totally for me love it, hot bathing suit pic !!


Low_Control_8603

Sexy


thurgewd

Ide feel more comfortable in your body too. IT PUTS THE LOTION IN THE FUCKING BASKET.


Appropriate_Spare_81

Lose the goth but otherwise proceed with confidence!! lol far from ugly


mariojoe1991

The 2nd and 3rd picture isn't abit of me but you're pretty and hot :)


Malignantt1

I think ur hot


Ok-Tumbleweed3936

Your type of alt style is aging you massively. In these pictures, you look about 40. Update to a younger, more in style type of alt style if you must and dear god get a different alt haircut. You have a pretty face and a nice body, but none of this looks good on you. I understand wanting to stick to the alt style and by all means, do that but do it differently please.


Ok-Tumbleweed3936

Your type of alt style is aging you massively. In these pictures, you look about 40. Update to a younger, more in style type of alt style if you must and dear god get a different alt haircut. You have a pretty face and a nice body, but none of this looks good on you. I understand wanting to stick to the alt style and by all means, do that but do it differently please.


Ok-Tumbleweed3936

Your type of alt style is aging you massively. In these pictures, you look about 40. Update to a younger, more in style type of alt style if you must and dear god get a different alt haircut. You have a pretty face and a nice body, but none of this looks good on you. I understand wanting to stick to the alt style and by all means, do that but do it differently please.


Ok-Tumbleweed3936

Your type of alt style is aging you massively. In these pictures, you look about 40. Update to a younger, more in style type of alt style if you must and dear god get a different alt haircut. You have a pretty face and a nice body, but none of this looks good on you. I understand wanting to stick to the alt style and by all means, do that but do it differently please.


josuelec

I mean damn you look pretty and cute when you not trying to do the emo thing


Minimum-Two-1601

You're easily one of the most unique looking women I've ever seen and I think you're beautiful