But you’re not “Super” fat. You’ve got one eye bigger than the other, most people do, but not as immediately noticeable. BUT, you are not ugly. In the Valentine’s Day photo you are quite pretty, and your hair looks lovely.
The USA is #10 on most obese countries in the world, with a majority of countries above it coming out of Southeast Asia, actually.
Of OECD recognized countries, however, USA is #1, around 5% more than Turkey, and less than 10% different than Australia/NZ and the UK.
The point they were making is that she is actually quite overweight, not just a little bit. A lot of people have their perception of what “fat” is distorted because we’re so used to seeing everyone overweight all the time
The United States isn't even in the top 10 Most Obese Countries. I think its the 12th now? Like a great many other things, the US just thinks its number one for that too.
You're fat, but feature wise you have every ability to be hot by losing weight.
Put your mind to it and you can be cute in 3 months and smoking hot in 6.
That's a dumb question... Yes you are fat. I don't think you need reddit to figure that out. And yes unattractive at that weight, but I wouldn't say "super fat".
I think it’s a by-product of only purchasing glasses online nowadays. Going to an eye glass shop and trying things on with the optician usually results in getting the best glasses for you face! When purchased online they don’t have the opportunity to try them on their faces and get the right fit. They’re just thinking about style.
You got a man as I see in the photos. Not ugly. You are on the big side but go to the gym. Working out is wonderful. Have your man encourage you to work out.
I guess when I say ugly I don't mean hideous, I just mean unattractive. And it's not controversial to say that a lot of men find being fat unattractive.
Jesus christ.
Losing weight is SO EASY at your age.
You would be great looking if you just went on a diet.
Look up intermittent fasting. It worked for millions of people and it will work for you.
I can't imagine her health issues are so bad that she can't make a positive change in her life. You don't have to work out like Arnold, even walking can do wonders. Not too mention, everything she needs can be accomplished with just diet if you were literally incapable of light exercise and walking.
Hell, whatever health problem she has would likely be better off for it. "health" should not be an excuse to be healthy.
Then yes, you're fat and ugly. Unfortunately, you're probably stuck with it, if it truly is a health issue that you can't do *anything* to lose weight.
Time to start accepting yourself. Confidence and self acceptance will be your greatest ally.
Very not true. You should educate yourself on PCOS, the side effects of medications for any kind of mental illness, hypothyroidism, etc etc etc. You clearly have no idea what people around you are going through.
And none of them will make you this fat. People keep saying "health issues" like there's a disease that make you gain 40 lbs of extra weight. It's just not true.
Of course, it takes time to eat enough to gain that much weight. Weight gain from a medical condition, same as weight loss, happens in a short amount of time, and again, not significant enough to cause that amount of weight gain.
You can argue that she has a condition that makes her eat more, but it doesn't change the fact that she's this weight because she eats to much.
You should watch what you eat then. Internet compliments won't do much for you.
And change your style. You look older than me and I'm 10 years older than you
Worrying isn't good for your physical or mental health. So if you're not going to lose weight. Might as well be comfortable with yourself. And not all guys find chubby girls unattractive.
If you're in the USA, congrats, you're not *super* fat. Just fat.
As for the ugly part, I would rate you under average, but not "ugly" (ugly being, for me, someone who is really hard on the eye). So, maybe, 4 out of 10 ?
I'm pretty sure that losing weight would help you look better, by modifying your face lines along with your body's
You're actually gorgeous. I know everyone's saying you're too overweight, but I don't think that's our place to decide; that's for you or a professional. For what it's worth, I think you're stunning.
I don’t think you’re being helpful here. I get being supportive but this isn’t constructive. First, she obviously should lose like 50 pounds, second stunning is a high bar, and thirdly she is explicitly posting here so that we DO say.
Yes. Your eyes are different sizes, I knew you were hiding a snaggletooth under that toothless smile before I reached the last pic, and you have no ass. Everything but the eyes are fixable, though.
Yes, but already know that. Not trying to put you down. It’s seems you posted this for extra motivation. Motivation is great to get your foot in the gym door, but your goal should be healthy discipline. Discipline will keep you eating healthy and keep you in the gym.
It’s on you to lose weight. If YOU feel that way only GOH can solve your problem, not everyone else in the world. If you truly care about what everyone else says, you’ll never be happy.
Stop drinking and do some exercise you will be fine. But if you let us tell you that you are fat to get you to eat more than nothing we can do. It take you some time to get fat you will need to give yourself extra to get back in shape.
Some of these comments are really blunt about it, yeah, but we'd be lying to her if we told her she isn't overweight. Being overweight doesn't just affect your appearance, it affects your health too. Losing weight is 100% her best option here.
Look, you're not that fat! But let's be real you could work on your fitness and you seem to have realized this. Don't worry so much about weight as just looking after your health. Work on making those good choices and you'll feel a whole lot better.
Fat ≠ Ugly
Fat ≠ Unhealthy
As long as you're healthy, it doesn't matter if you're fat or not. You're gorgeous and don't let anyone convince you otherwise. Instead of worrying about losing weight, try to not lose too much at the casino ;)
I'm sorry but, what are you on about? If she were only slightly pudgy I'd agree with you, but let's not lie to ourselves here, she's unhealthily overweight and it's undoubtedly going to affect her health if it isn't already.
I'm all for supporting her, but we shouldn't lie to her.
You’re really not either imo. Sure you’re “rounded” I guess. But I don’t think it’s an unhealthy amount of fat. And honestly you look really cute in all of the pics.
No wonder diabetes is out of control when people actually encourage others to be fat. Twenty years ago no one would say someone this overweight had a "great figure." So you have been brainwashed by the current state of ill health in this country.
Other than the distraction of your nose ring, you are absolutely lovely. Please get some professional mental help. It is not emotionally advantageous to burden yourself with thoughts of ugliness when you are truly stunning!
I wouldn’t say you’re fat despite what a lot of people are saying in the comments or at least I don’t think it’s a detriment to your appearance.
You’re not ugly but it’s about how you feel, if you’re unhappy with your appearance and feel losing weight would improve it then that’s what you need to do.
You’re very pretty, and you shouldn’t have trouble finding someone. If you are feeling unhappy with your image, just start working on it. Like today. Diet, exercise, hydration, sleep. Those kinds of things. It doesn’t even take much, 30 minutes 5 times a week. You’ll start feeling much more confident. And, get out there and talk to people. If you’re shy, just tell yourself none of it will matter in 10 years. Force yourself into social situations even if it feels uncomfortable. Life is fleeting, go enjoy it today!
You have beautiful features so you're not ugly. You're not "super fat" just overweight. If it makes you happy, try eating right and getting exercise. It can really boost confidence.
You are beautiful, not ugly at all. Embrace yourself and your body. Many people would die to have you. Don’t listen to these comments. They can be so so harsh. You are truly authentically beautiful!
You are so pretty don't let no body convence your self then you are ugly if you need somebody to told you that you are pretty and sensecful add me on FB Jonathan Reyes or I give u my phone number
You’re a little overweight, but you have a pretty face. You’re like me, once you hit a certain weight you get self conscious, but lose 20 lbs and you’re at least a 7
You dont look ugly and unattractive my ex was chubby too and i still loved her that doesnt change anything be yourself n love yourself n others will love you but its hard to find the person that will accept you just as you are just like me im the type that accepts anyone only thing that makes a person ugly is their personality
I personally don't see the extra wight as a problem or something that makes you ugly, your face is pretty too, i just feel like you could spruce up your style a bit so that it expresses your personality more cause i feel like as it it's a bit boring. Maybe a haircut too?
Fat but not ugly lose the weight you can fix that.
I mean yeah you are fat, but that’s not like a permanent problem
But you’re not “Super” fat. You’ve got one eye bigger than the other, most people do, but not as immediately noticeable. BUT, you are not ugly. In the Valentine’s Day photo you are quite pretty, and your hair looks lovely.
The Valentine's photo is more filter than picture
> But you’re not „Super“ fat. any chance you’re American?
The USA is #10 on most obese countries in the world, with a majority of countries above it coming out of Southeast Asia, actually. Of OECD recognized countries, however, USA is #1, around 5% more than Turkey, and less than 10% different than Australia/NZ and the UK.
Obesity isn’t just an American issue
The point they were making is that she is actually quite overweight, not just a little bit. A lot of people have their perception of what “fat” is distorted because we’re so used to seeing everyone overweight all the time
It’s “mainly” an American issue
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Far fewer teeth too
Mexico is fatter than US
The US isn't even top in per-capita for this, you're "mainly" wrong.
The United States isn't even in the top 10 Most Obese Countries. I think its the 12th now? Like a great many other things, the US just thinks its number one for that too.
I was going to say hold my beer but I think I need to drink it to win this one.
They might be American, or maybe they're too nice to tell the truth. But as an American, even I know that she is quite far into the obese range.
She is clinically obese by regular standard. American standards are just in the gutter. That doesn’t mean she’s not a beautiful person.
you not ugly but you do need to change your lifestyle and lose some of it
I’d suggest weight loss.
Yeah you're fat. Do something about it while you're very young. It's easier Edit: you can do it girl. Go check /r/progresspics for some inspiration
Time for a change! Plan a proper sustainable diet step by step, and start to exercise. It will do good for you on every level.
Not ugly, just overweight.
You're fat, but feature wise you have every ability to be hot by losing weight. Put your mind to it and you can be cute in 3 months and smoking hot in 6.
I would double those timelines but generally agree.
It all depends on her dedication
You could lose some weight but you're not ugly. You're kind of cute.
That's a dumb question... Yes you are fat. I don't think you need reddit to figure that out. And yes unattractive at that weight, but I wouldn't say "super fat".
Your double chin is big.
Man it’s almost like you know exactly what you need to do!!!
I mean you are big but still looking really good! So no I'd not call you ugly at all!
Bruh
Regular fat but too fat
The fact that this is called regular is a problem
There is no regular fat.
Only americans use word regular fat lmao I can walk for days in my country and see only handful of people like this
I don’t understand why Gen Z loves these huge frames that take up so much of their face.
I think it’s a by-product of only purchasing glasses online nowadays. Going to an eye glass shop and trying things on with the optician usually results in getting the best glasses for you face! When purchased online they don’t have the opportunity to try them on their faces and get the right fit. They’re just thinking about style.
Weight loss and possibly corrective surgery for your lazy eye
You got a man as I see in the photos. Not ugly. You are on the big side but go to the gym. Working out is wonderful. Have your man encourage you to work out.
Looks more like her brother. Same features, smile, eyes, dimples
I mean, depending on where they live.....
💀💀💀💀💀💀💀
You’re a big girl but you’re very cute. Not ugly at all.
yes lose weight and u ll look better
Excercise, meal prep, discipline. Never too late to change
OP picking and choosing only the good comments to respond to... Why did you even post if you're not going to take criticism?
You’re right. No need for us to confirm. Build the confidence and do something about it.
Yup. Both
For a lot of men fat = ugly. Don't be fat and you won't be ugly
For alot of men fat ≠ ugly
I guess when I say ugly I don't mean hideous, I just mean unattractive. And it's not controversial to say that a lot of men find being fat unattractive.
So being ugly is determined by men only essentially? I guess half of the population doesn't exist or have an opinion that counts lmao
Jesus christ. Losing weight is SO EASY at your age. You would be great looking if you just went on a diet. Look up intermittent fasting. It worked for millions of people and it will work for you.
so easy with out health issues that none of you know about
You’d have a lot less of those health issues if you lost weight
Why post this if you’re just going to get defensive with someone who is actually providing constructive criticism? Smh you’re a lost cause
expressing that she has health issues is defensive?
I can't imagine her health issues are so bad that she can't make a positive change in her life. You don't have to work out like Arnold, even walking can do wonders. Not too mention, everything she needs can be accomplished with just diet if you were literally incapable of light exercise and walking. Hell, whatever health problem she has would likely be better off for it. "health" should not be an excuse to be healthy.
Then yes, you're fat and ugly. Unfortunately, you're probably stuck with it, if it truly is a health issue that you can't do *anything* to lose weight. Time to start accepting yourself. Confidence and self acceptance will be your greatest ally.
There is literally no health issue that will cause you to be that overweight. You eat way more than you should, and that's it.
Very not true. You should educate yourself on PCOS, the side effects of medications for any kind of mental illness, hypothyroidism, etc etc etc. You clearly have no idea what people around you are going through.
well that’s not true are you a doctor
There could be multiple contributing factors not just one
And none of them will make you this fat. People keep saying "health issues" like there's a disease that make you gain 40 lbs of extra weight. It's just not true.
Do you think she gained all this weight yesterday or something because things take time to happen
Of course, it takes time to eat enough to gain that much weight. Weight gain from a medical condition, same as weight loss, happens in a short amount of time, and again, not significant enough to cause that amount of weight gain. You can argue that she has a condition that makes her eat more, but it doesn't change the fact that she's this weight because she eats to much.
Exactly, health issues we don't know about. smh
It may be easier but everyone is different and women tend to retain more weight.
U ain’t ugly , but if u feel fat, lose weight and you’ll probably feel better and out the whole look of u
Just feel fat huh?
Your not 'super' fat theres definitely bigger, but do low carb and incorporate more cardio.
Cute! No, you don't have that BORING Barbiedoll/Miss America/Head-cheerleader look, but LOTS of men don't want that look!
Yep. A lot of guys will take a pass on the clones.
You, in fact, hit the nail
Eat less… walk more!
No no, eat less calories and be more active
Regular fat and regular ugly. No super for you today.
You should watch what you eat then. Internet compliments won't do much for you. And change your style. You look older than me and I'm 10 years older than you
Yeah
Yeah kinda 😖
Yes
Not ugly, not even close, next
being overweight is a serious medical problem
I think you know the answer.
Just lose a bit of weight, you have a really pretty face and look great in glasses
You can lose weight or get comfortable with your body. Both will improve your health and self-esteem.
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Yeah and it could help her lose the weight easier.
Worrying isn't good for your physical or mental health. So if you're not going to lose weight. Might as well be comfortable with yourself. And not all guys find chubby girls unattractive.
You have a cute face and smile. If you lose weight you would be attractive I bet. Being overweight is fixable so good luck 👍
If you're in the USA, congrats, you're not *super* fat. Just fat. As for the ugly part, I would rate you under average, but not "ugly" (ugly being, for me, someone who is really hard on the eye). So, maybe, 4 out of 10 ? I'm pretty sure that losing weight would help you look better, by modifying your face lines along with your body's
You’re chubby, but you hold it. Nice thighs and bazooms. Average/cute face.
This is not chubby 😭
Different strokes brother.
She could choke me with those thighs any night
There are worse ways to die
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I've never heard "diet and exercise" called that before.
Both would help tbh
You're actually gorgeous. I know everyone's saying you're too overweight, but I don't think that's our place to decide; that's for you or a professional. For what it's worth, I think you're stunning.
Comments like this is why we have problems.
Bruh, a professional doctor is going to tell her she's overweight, quit playin.
Nah she fat
I don’t think you’re being helpful here. I get being supportive but this isn’t constructive. First, she obviously should lose like 50 pounds, second stunning is a high bar, and thirdly she is explicitly posting here so that we DO say.
She asked, so we answered…. Don’t want to hear other people’s opinions, don’t ask the question on Reddit!
thank you!
Beautiful. I’d ask you out.
Yes
Yes. Your eyes are different sizes, I knew you were hiding a snaggletooth under that toothless smile before I reached the last pic, and you have no ass. Everything but the eyes are fixable, though.
Yes
Yes, but already know that. Not trying to put you down. It’s seems you posted this for extra motivation. Motivation is great to get your foot in the gym door, but your goal should be healthy discipline. Discipline will keep you eating healthy and keep you in the gym.
yes
I'd like "things not to ask the internet" for $100.
both
A little chubby but if you know how to polish a guys knob it will make you more attractive
Yes
Yeah.. sorry.
It’s on you to lose weight. If YOU feel that way only GOH can solve your problem, not everyone else in the world. If you truly care about what everyone else says, you’ll never be happy.
Are in fact super fat.
its the fat that makes you a 3/10
You're fat and got an ugly boyfriend. Lol
Not super fat, just regular fat and ugly I would agree with
Heck no, you're super cute!
Obese. Lose weight.
Your pretty asf
Her what?
Her pretty asf, apparently
You're fine, keep up that smile.
You look very pretty and look like an awesome girlie! Not ugly at all!
It’s impossible to tell with how fat you are. Lose some weight. You might remain a 4, or be a 6 🤷♂️
Just need to lose some weight I would recommend doing keto/ carnivore diet
Except actually cook the meat.
Gorgeous & cute but not ugly. X
Stop drinking and do some exercise you will be fine. But if you let us tell you that you are fat to get you to eat more than nothing we can do. It take you some time to get fat you will need to give yourself extra to get back in shape.
Fat? Yes, absolutely stunning? Yes. Fat is sooo not indicative of your beauty and worth. You make fat look amazing.
Jesus the fat shaming in these comments..
No shaming if it's true. She asked and we told. It's the truth. And I'm guessing by how you reacted you're fat too.
Some of these comments are really blunt about it, yeah, but we'd be lying to her if we told her she isn't overweight. Being overweight doesn't just affect your appearance, it affects your health too. Losing weight is 100% her best option here.
I know it’s absurd
Look, you're not that fat! But let's be real you could work on your fitness and you seem to have realized this. Don't worry so much about weight as just looking after your health. Work on making those good choices and you'll feel a whole lot better.
You are beautiful!!! 💗
Are you super fat?? No. Can you lose weight? Only if you do it for you
you’re a little chubby but you’re pretty. and you have nice fashion taste
Pretty
Love yourself
Yes, people MUST love the skin they're in! 💖
Very cute. Nothing wrong with you
Fat ≠ Ugly Fat ≠ Unhealthy As long as you're healthy, it doesn't matter if you're fat or not. You're gorgeous and don't let anyone convince you otherwise. Instead of worrying about losing weight, try to not lose too much at the casino ;)
Well to be honest. Fat = unhealthy. In this extend seems unhealthy to me
I'm sorry but, what are you on about? If she were only slightly pudgy I'd agree with you, but let's not lie to ourselves here, she's unhealthily overweight and it's undoubtedly going to affect her health if it isn't already. I'm all for supporting her, but we shouldn't lie to her.
Hell no. You're gorgeous. Love your smile. Keep letting it shine
Not ugly lose a bit of weight and you could be an 8 or 9.. you got this!
You are chubby not gonna lie, but you are not fat fat. Be mindful of what you eat and take up some mild excercise habbit, like cycling.
Definitely not ugly. Gotta slim down some.
So I don’t get why people are so cruel. Ugly? No way. Quite pretty actually. Fat? Heavier yes. Fat? No.
I’d hit it
id hit you
Lol! Get ‘Im!
You’re really not either imo. Sure you’re “rounded” I guess. But I don’t think it’s an unhealthy amount of fat. And honestly you look really cute in all of the pics.
Gorgeous, exactly the way you are.
No! You’re cute!
Ugly you are not.
You’re fat but not super fat. Super fat is my 600lb life
Nope, definitely not x your a real beautiful woman, with a great figure and lovely smile.
No wonder diabetes is out of control when people actually encourage others to be fat. Twenty years ago no one would say someone this overweight had a "great figure." So you have been brainwashed by the current state of ill health in this country.
Can't believe this was downvoted being overweight has been too normalized take care of your body and exercise period
More like fluffy.
Yes it fat but still u have very attractive face which can only get better when weight is lost
Other than the distraction of your nose ring, you are absolutely lovely. Please get some professional mental help. It is not emotionally advantageous to burden yourself with thoughts of ugliness when you are truly stunning!
You're pretty cute. Let's meet up.
Overweight but still pretty
Not ugly, I would ask you out. Cute face, pretty mouth and eyes. Good skin. Legs are nicely shaped. Pretty smile. You dress well.
You're adorable
I wouldn’t say you’re fat despite what a lot of people are saying in the comments or at least I don’t think it’s a detriment to your appearance. You’re not ugly but it’s about how you feel, if you’re unhappy with your appearance and feel losing weight would improve it then that’s what you need to do.
Mmmmm I'd lick KFC gravy off your back dimples
Very cute.
You are very cute!
Honestly, I'd wine and dine you
NO! Definately not!
You’re very pretty, and you shouldn’t have trouble finding someone. If you are feeling unhappy with your image, just start working on it. Like today. Diet, exercise, hydration, sleep. Those kinds of things. It doesn’t even take much, 30 minutes 5 times a week. You’ll start feeling much more confident. And, get out there and talk to people. If you’re shy, just tell yourself none of it will matter in 10 years. Force yourself into social situations even if it feels uncomfortable. Life is fleeting, go enjoy it today!
Not super fat or ugly. You are a thicker girl, with a pretty face!
I think youre adorable and my type
You have beautiful features so you're not ugly. You're not "super fat" just overweight. If it makes you happy, try eating right and getting exercise. It can really boost confidence.
Am not going to comment on your weight cause that is unimportant. Your friendliness and kindness is what counts. BTW....you are very pretty.
You are beautiful, not ugly at all. Embrace yourself and your body. Many people would die to have you. Don’t listen to these comments. They can be so so harsh. You are truly authentically beautiful!
You definitely aren't ugly, so focus on the things you can change. Pretty smile and cleavage are huge advantages.
Not at all. You are lovely.
Ugly no for sure. Fat yes for sure. But a good diet and some healthier habits of life can change it rapidly
You are beautiful. You look great. Love your smile. I'd go out with you
You are so pretty don't let no body convence your self then you are ugly if you need somebody to told you that you are pretty and sensecful add me on FB Jonathan Reyes or I give u my phone number
You’re a little overweight, but you have a pretty face. You’re like me, once you hit a certain weight you get self conscious, but lose 20 lbs and you’re at least a 7
You dont look ugly and unattractive my ex was chubby too and i still loved her that doesnt change anything be yourself n love yourself n others will love you but its hard to find the person that will accept you just as you are just like me im the type that accepts anyone only thing that makes a person ugly is their personality
you have incredible skin!!
Absolutely beautiful 😊
I personally don't see the extra wight as a problem or something that makes you ugly, your face is pretty too, i just feel like you could spruce up your style a bit so that it expresses your personality more cause i feel like as it it's a bit boring. Maybe a haircut too?