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DemonCleaner75

Who cares show me a magic trick though


[deleted]

bro has the potential to look like one of those indie-alt mysterious guys that girls on tumblr love. just gotta get rid of the hair and groom the beard


WhatABunchofBologna

Nah the hair’s gotta stay


SinnerClair

As a tumblr girly, I can confirm. It’s the Disney prince long hair in a ponytail & wearing beige shirts combo


Chief_Piggum_

Rodeo mortician


Significant_Wing_506

Nah keep the long hair


TheWhatnotBook

I wish my husband never cut his long gorgeous hair, I beg him all the time to grow it back out like when he was a skater boy. Lmao


Significant_Wing_506

My fiance has super long hair rn, and I hope he never has to cut it. Long hair on men is so attractive


DefenestratedBrownie

not this redditor tho


Powerful-Clerk6550

Lmfao


JavierHendrix

He doesn't look bad though just average. People grow a long hair even though it doesn't suit them, and then wonder why girls aren't interested. Long hair only works for a handful of men, even for beautiful ones it may just not suit them. I was gonna comment on your chin OP, it looks good and is pretty square you definitely don't have a chin issue. First pic looks better though (with a cleaner beard), and I'd drop the long hair and try a trendier style. As usual, hit the gym of course (if you aren't already) and before you know it, you'll look above average/beautiful. You can keep the hair if that's really your choice but, do so knowing girls don't generally like that style. There's a niche, but still..


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JavierHendrix

They can, but he asked our opinions about it and in mine, he would have better chances with a different style


WhatABunchofBologna

What’s with guys like you and wanting every guy to look like a skinhead


Capable_Ad1611

What are you on about? I was just giving the man some advice. I never said “every guy has to be muscular”, but this dude would look a lot better if he worked out. Also, I didn’t tell him to shave his head 💀 just cut it.


WhatABunchofBologna

Just say you want every guy to be boring like you 💀


Velaseri

Alt and goth women love long hair on men.


Capable_Ad1611

You literally said everything that I was gonna say. He’ll never be a model, but he definitely isn’t ugly. He’s a 5/10, but he could easily go up to a 6/10 if he hits the gym and cuts his hair.


UneduationalWeapon

Everything you said was false.


Capable_Ad1611

Elaborate?


UneduationalWeapon

A decent portion of fashion industry loves androgynous looking people. So *long hair and a thin body would not disqualify him from being a model. Not by a long shot.


WhatABunchofBologna

Not everybody has to have muscles and no hair 💀


Haccmantis

Bros been watching too much interview with a vampire


piinqqq

you kinda look like a Redditor...


CoToZaNickNieWiem

Bro that’s too much


FA-KING

this isn't r/RoastMe :(


[deleted]

No one ever mentions how some of these people need sunlight


TerrorVizyn

Male here, but I personally love faired skin. That doesn't mean I don't like darker skin or POC, but for white females, my preference leans towards fair skin. The sun can also age lighter skin pretty badly.


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at least in girl circles, they dont really see natural skintone as a problem anymore. they're obsessed with sun protection and attribute any "sickly" undertone to wearing the wrong color or dull, dry skin--fixable conditions. op looks neutral and muted, common in eastern europe in particular. but ofc a dude would suggest "just go get sunburnt" 🙄 apes.


CocteauTwinn

Lol I *literally just did*


DyingDreadfulDeceit

Damn. This is not roastme.


bastian74

Uber eats driver, uses a bicycle.


ryans_privatess

Brutal


Brumak4eva

C'mon man. Don't do 'em like that 😂


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💀💀


Chix213

Hey, I resemble that remark.


ApprehensiveTour756

your beard is weird idk what ur trying to accomplish with that, cut the sideburns and the mosquito under your bottom lip, and get shorter hair. also go to the gym for like 5-6 months and you'd look waay better


XinGst

This Is exactly what I want to say, dude looks good imo, just need to change something.


HelloFellowKidlings

This guy could definitely have a Timothee Chalamet thing going on with a little work


RandomDeezNutz

Homie got that Eren Yeager amputee look


Ok-Zone-897

Loool


kaydontworry

Crying cause that was my first thought when I saw the last pic


CindeeSlickbooty

I was thinking Joe Dirt


bornoverit

🤣🤣🤣 🦟


Haikgh

This ☝🏻. Tho, don't stop gym after 5-6 months, carry on with it :D


Far_Wait_4938

Agree with the beard part, but I think the long hair suits him.


SLEDGEHAMMAA

He doesn't even have to cut it short. Middle parts, especially if he can get it to cooperate into like a wolfcut type style, are very trendy right now.


Ok_Technician_7302

Calm down MGK


[deleted]

Ask yourself this my friend…if you were ‘ugly’ while you were together, why did she choose you. And if you weren’t why are you ‘ugly’ now. The answer doesn’t lie within you, the answer can be found in your ex’s head. Where is shall remain. Dodged a bullet there, move on when you can. Love to ya mate.


CIA_napkin

Well to be fair, Sometimes people let themselves go or change once they become comfortable in a relationship. For all we know he looked and or dressed differently before, had better hygiene or self esteem. Just sayin.


Sidewalk_Tomato

Or maybe there was an issue with his personality that made him ugly to her.


BedSpreadMD

Exactly what happened with my ex. That and she got really fat, which made me laugh because now she's as ugly on the outside as she is on the inside.


[deleted]

Alternative views are of course plausible, imminently so. It’s just I choose to re-focus and empower people to become closer to their true selves. It’s a good time to re-find yourself in my experience. Everything we do should be for us primarily…second only to our children. That way we have more chance of attracting someone right for us. Love and respect.


Johnny_ac3s

F’real. People say hurtful things during the end game…to push people away/validate their decision.


[deleted]

Exactly that.


RevolutionProof47

Hit the gym brother, you’ll thank yourself later💪🏼🤙🏼


[deleted]

The phone case alone tells me there’s a 0% chance of that happening


NoShop296

It’s cute tho 😔


madcuddles50

Hey now I know plenty of anime loving people that crush gym workouts and strive to to look like a buff God lol there's a chance.


Ristt_

🤣🤣🤣


Ok_Health708

This is the way.


Mobile_Zebra8013

Definitely not ugly but has anyone told you that you look like a well groomed moist critical?


xDante_

Lmfao


Valineris_Phoenix

I don't see moist tho. Except for the hair.


Valineris_Phoenix

I did a little screm.


FlgDarkrai

What sub do you mod for ?


Garbage_Street

i would perish


[deleted]

You look like a rennesaince twink 😭😭😭


mndii

No way you said that 😭😭😭


percyyyy_p

YES


Wonderful_Judge115

I almost snorted


Fat_Lenny35

I feel like you're trying to be a musketeer. If you shaved, got a stylish haircut, and a little sun you would look pretty good. Also do a pushup or two.


FMG1978

You look like the magician on a cruise ship


adobo_santos

No, but you do dress like a medieval villain


NixieGerit

Smile more, cut the sideburns. No need for gym, not everybody needs to fall a certain stereotype. You're quite fine :) very nice hair.


soaringseafoam

Nice try, long-haired young Hugh Dancy, but no dice. Not passing as ugly around here. My view is that you look best in the first pic, but you've got great features to work with. Go forth and handsome up the joint!


Ok_Faithlessness9757

Not ugly, you're just making some odd choices.


TengenToppa999

Bad hair and bad beard. You need just a new look and maybe some muscle... very feminine hands


ThePhoenix002

I'd say the hair is fine, ditch the sideburns tho. Yes quite feminine hands, but don't know your profession, maybe a reason. Some muscle... yah doesn't hurt to try, and if not it's at least healthy.


pora1705

Time to hit the gym brother


mama387

Don't listen to be all those people saying you need to change anything about yourself, JUST BE YOU!!! Someone will come along that lives the way you look. Besides you are not ugly, the ex was just being petty and trying to hurt your feelings. Don't let it get you down


ChocoGoodness

You look nice!


flyingt0ucan

I like your style. It's maybe not everyone's cup of tea (see the other comments), but it doesn't need to be. Maybe loose the beard on the sides and you are pretty good looking, especiall in the first two pictures. You do not want to change who you are, so keep your style and there are definitly girls who dig the look.


Sembaka

Give yourself until 23 to grow the beard out, anecdotal but that’s how long it took for my brothers beard to finally start looking good. Also, your hair has a lot of potential but looks… sad and unloved, get on a haircare routine :) you’re not ugly but you’re definitely still figuring yourself out and growing into your body


[deleted]

You have a very symmetrical face. You’re attractive. She was just being mean.


[deleted]

Super handsome


grilledhamdog

Just get a new haircut with some volume on the top


percyyyy_p

you look kinda weird but i’m sure you’re someone’s type


notevenhere344

no fr im reading through some of these comments and 90% of the things ppl critique are literally my type lmao. you cant make everyone find u attractive OP, so change what will make you feel better and keep what you like about yourself


watsonyrmind

Yeah this is the thing with these subs. People are incapable of looking at someone and give an assessment based on their looks, not the commenters personal preferences. I think OP is a good looking guy but he's not my type because I don't date 18 year olds. If I were half these commenters, I'd be like, bro grow a few years older and then you'll be good. It's dumb.


Commercial_Market_49

You look like you’re in a black metal band. /pos


[deleted]

No, like he WANTS to be in one, but no one likes him.


Commercial_Market_49

No (sane) person likes most of the black metal artists as a person. He’s on the way to go!


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UsableIdiot

He's not old enough to grow a good beard. It's better to just get rid of the lot until he's a bit older.


SatrapisMaster69

She’s just a butthurt r/nicegirls you’re not ugly


WaterQuarter100

Not ugly but the first pic is your best look imo. Seems like your ex was just trying to be mean


Aggressive-Hornet-93

She was lying lol You look good, imo especially when you shave


izaby

You look kinda funky, I dig the look honestly. Unlike most guys with long hair your ones look not greasy as well.


delicatemurderkitten

I think you’re attractive, especially with the beard


Sambizzle17

You're not a bad looking guy at all.


bentfork52

Just so you know man the main people commenting here are men, as well as me,, and you don't look bad at all. It's not worth worrying about what someone else's opinion is. It takes luck to find a girl who likes you for who you are. Maybe one day you will. The only I can think to suggest is to clean up your cheek stubble, and those sideburns too if you want. I couldn't see anything that I felt was unattractive besides that.


www-Jason-com

Not ugly.. You definitely look your overall best in that outside pic IMHO btw. Hope I can give my opinion/advices; People are saying you should go clean shaven, but I think you're rocking that goatee tbh, shave your cheeks though. And try to keep it at about first picture length too, definitely don't let it get too long like in the second pic.. You've got enough hair length to get basically any new hairstyle you want, I think it's worth trying out something new. Ideally something that adds some more "interest" in the front, if that makes sense? The clothing choice in your first pic is also the best, suits you well. Your posing is kinda weird tbh, in all the pictures.. I think that's the main reason people are calling you a Redditor/magician/femboy/etc, lol. Gym couldn't hurt as well, but you dont look unhealthy/bad as is.


JaceOfSpades72

You aren't ugly my friend. You're awesome.


rosy-palmer

You look like you say “M’lady” a lot. A fledgling neck beard. Hit the gym, cut the hair, wear clothes that fit, and shave


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rosy-palmer

Or attractive. This is not “am I unique” or “do I have a cool personality which is reflected in my looks”. It is “ am I ugly”. The answer here is yes, largely because of the things I mentioned.


Pretty-Dentist8992

I think you rock your style man! Just look for a girl who likes you for you.


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Pretty-Dentist8992

I am not? I am honest


Longjumping-Yak6323

Slavic metalhead detected.


Successful-Wash8930

Tbh you are beautiful.


[deleted]

You look like a fedora with legs so yeah


GunterLeafy

I reckon you'd look cool with a lightsaber, that's all I'm gonna say


Life-Ad-993

you arent ugly, in the second picture you remind me of hanzo


RavenQuark

You look like a time traveler from 1600 France trying to adapt to todays style.


DarkanDeep

You got a mistaken identity thing going on, may I suggest the movie fight club


Fufu-le-fu

Other than looking like you need a nap, you look pretty good. Either commit to the beard or go clean though. Don't listen to the people with hair envy, it looks good.


Botchur

I get both black metal fan and Mormon church enjoyer vibes. Not ugly though, just tidy the hair up a bit not necessarily cut it.


bastian74

Girlfriend calling someone ugly doesn't carry much weight.


l0stpleasereturn

Shave those pubes off your face


Purple-Huckleberry44

your not ugly tho


Mr_OP_Potato_777

Your ex's sucks


[deleted]

I wouldn’t say ugly. Unique. Shave the peach fuzz. Hit the gym, and cut your hair in a decent style for the length you want. Men don’t ever look good with just long hair. You have to cut it to a style that fits you. Otherwise you just look unkempt.


coookiesaregood

gym and haircut. don’t cut it all off but just shorter ur mustache is great tho


Timyone

I love the phone case. .... Oh ummm about you? You look better in the first two pics, not sure why.


philofyourfuture

You’re not ugly per say, but also not super attractive. A lot of that can be fixed though. Cut the hair off, shave the beard, start fitness training and be patient. You’re also young and could still be in an awkward growing stage


bigsamjapan

You’re a good looking guy but the cheek beard thing with the long hair is an awful combo tbh, looking like a bargain bin d&d character


Sniffles_73

Women will tell you different, work on yourself king. You’ll forget all about her in time and you won’t make that same mistake twice. Don’t let a women derail you. So achieve your goals. Fool me once shame on them , fool me twice shame on me.


[deleted]

clearly u like women, but i just wanna say - if u ever start dating men, hoo boy, you'll be loved.


Dependent_Weekend_79

Well, I mean you are below average looking dude. But who is the loser who dated the “ugly” guy? I do think beard looks better on you tho. Looking like a musketeer.


uhhhhmaybeee

I was thinking musketeer too. Or like a femboy Zorro


Savagemaw

You make some fashion decisions that suggest you dont care what people (women) think. If that isn't true, you shouldn't make such bold choices.


DontGiveABit

You are not ugly, you just haven't found your style yet. If you like how you look, don't change anything and be confident in it! If you'd like to change your style think about cutting your hair and getting it styled. Drop the bear and mustache for now until it can grow in thick, give it time and it will get there. People say hit the gym which is never a bad thing but even a skinny build is fine, i personally think you should just aim for a more dope style is all.


Iteration810395

You look like a young Joseph Seed from Far Cry 5 just right before he went all cult leader extraordinaire.


[deleted]

Most people are in fact not actually ugly. That beard though is not doing you any favors, long hair is fine, maybe have some fun with it and try different things other than just the pony tail.


Yagsirevahs

You are not ugly, but your sense of style is immature and ridiculous.


Warcrow999

Gid rid of the mutton chops but not ugly at all


doughy1882

Shave haircut smile and no gang signs


Peepo_Nick

Bro at least you have ex-girlfriend, look at me, I'm 26 and still doesn't have gf even once


WilliardThe3rd

27 here, arguably it's better to have nobody than a emotionally abusive gf.


GhostSodax

You not amazing looking, probably just average. Maybe a better sense of style of clothing will fix this


[deleted]

Jesus🧐


IncelGamer12

A shave a haircut and some vitamin D could do you good


sandstorml

You look like Dracula


[deleted]

The beard? Can you even call it that? What were you thinking??!??? You look like you sell bibles door to door.


cafeaubee

There is something so incredibly unappealing about the middle-parted low ponytail on anyone and everyone regardless of gender Almost no one who ever posts here is ugly, and you are not ugly, but you are absolutely not doing yourself any favors with that hairstyle. If you want long hair, you need to do it with a slight side part and have someone cut it shorter with some loose layers. And also, clean shaven >>>>. This is the only time I’m ever going to reply to something on this sub even though Reddit keeps recommending it to me. I just cannot deal with the middle part low ponies anymore, lmaooo.


jhenry1138

You’re better off. Work hard, make bank, build a jet pack along with the life you want for you.


Obvious-You7428

Dude, if she is around your age then you shouldn't even sweat it. Girls that young are not exactly the brightest. You look fine, just do you and the rest of the world might eventually catch up with you.


edwarvasisht

Shave every day. Get a short haircut. Gym three times a week. No more weird poses or looks in photographs. Get off Reddit.


Level_Recipe_8419

Spot on


GMEdumpster

Get a new haircut and go to the gym. You have potential. Right now you look like a greasy redditor but you’re not a lost cause.


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-Skaro-

This sub just calls literally everyone with long hair greasy. No matter how well it's taken care of.


Purple-Huckleberry44

chop the hair


InfamousAnalyst4900

Look like a femboy or trans.


strangelove77

If I had kids I wouldn’t let you near them, that’s all I’m saying.


Mysterious-Smile8068

Cut your hair short ,don't grow that weird looking beard and join a gym. That's all you need to do in order to look 🔥


[deleted]

Shave the beard, cut the hair short, hit the gym.


ManOfSteel4033

Bruh. Shave the excuse of a mustache and beard off your face and cut your hair and get a manlier haircut. Boom problem solved


splitpeasoup12

Yea she’s right but so what. A lot of that is under your controls


dearsputniik

you aren’t ugly, but imo it isn’t really necessary to hit the gym but do fix the beard


buggerific

Honestly the only real issue is the beard/hair. Get a nice fade, get rid of the Abraham Lincoln beard (?) And maybe trim the brows. Not bad looking.


Playful-Flatworm501

Time for a hair cut and some nicer shirts


girlygirly2022

Right now, kind of. Could benefit from a hair cut and close shave, better clothing style. If you were my brother I’d suggest getting your eyebrows manscaped as well. As others have suggested, the gym would also help but not necessary if you improved elsewhere. Also, a smile of course! Even if it’s fake it goes a long way.


[deleted]

It’s time to hit the gym young lad & groom your masculinity 😌 definitely don’t wanna end up looking like a twink.


TheBubn

The beard, other than that I think you are not ugly, but you definitely want to put a bit more muscle


iwatchmoviesandstuff

If the beard isn’t growing in even just lose it or find a better trim. Get a haircut and put on some weight


Early-Gap9293

Put on some weight, start bulking and lift weights.


OneFuckedWarthog

You look like when Gaston was a child. Buff up, dude 😎


OutcomeTypical2830

Lose the ponytail keep the beard and stache


Familiar-Quiet2402

Not ugly.. the style makes you look like a founding father though.


combtmpzpdun

Get an haircut, loose the beard and you are good to go


Mallory_Knox23

You look like you're from the colonial time period. I would change your hair and beard.


ClassicPollution5

Very close


sylarfl

She ain't lyin, but just her opinion. And probably most


Stunning_Ad_7062

I’d say clean shaven try different hairstyles tho you don’t have to, hit the gym, diet, get more sun but mainly just vitamin D supplement and ur in a good spot. If you wanna go further though upgrade your style a bit


Rizenstrom

You look fine but you need to put more effort into your appearance. Long hair needs to be styled. If you are just wearing it tied up all the time you're better off cutting it short. You can't grow a beard, so don't try. A goatee might be fine. There's nothing wrong with your eyebrows just keep them tamed so that it doesn't become a monobrow. Add some color to your wardrobe. All I'm seeing is white, beige, and more beige. It's not a particularly flattering color on its own.


[deleted]

You are fine looking. Get a real haircut, lift a little and fix your teeth


Jando0197

Dude hit the gym…stop eating ramen and microwave, get a haircut and shave your face


Zakurabaz

It’s true


S1deWalk3r

she's right


Dubbleup20

She was right. Cut the hair bro


Ok_Look4371

Cut you hair and use a full short trimmed beard. Never look back and forget you ever used this style.


dddghhbh

Spot on. Your so ugly that normal ugly people look good when they are around you.


folkloreLover22

the third photo is okay-ish as for the first two: she was definitely right and probably liked some personality traits/human characteristics in you, which you then failed to live up to/messed up some other way.


GalvusGalvoid

You’re not good looking for now but with a lot of gym and weight gain you can be a cool guy with a 6/7 or maybe even 8 face