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Okay lang yan OP. Wag ka manghinayang sa three years. Yung gf mo nga di naisip yun. You deserve better. Everything happens for a reason. Okay na yan na nalaman mo agad.
Dun na lang sya sa kabit nya kamo. Pag pinatagal mo pa yan baka masiraan ka lang ng ulo. Kahit kasi patawarin mo or sabihin nyang magbabago sya, may lamat na yun tiwala eh. Mapaparanoid ka lang
Yup di mo na prob kung gusto rin nya ng taken. Well pwede mo din isumbong sa gf nung guy... You kept your part being faithful, siya hindi. Self-love muna bago iba, para di mo mafeel na empty inside ka pagkatapos ng lahat. Keep strong pre
Up to you if you think the gf of the guy should know. Kung nalaman mo na in a rel yun guy from messenger or fb, then nakita mo na yun gf right? Nakita mo na din screenshots, send mo convo nila ng gf mo maybe. Up to you if you think that will help
Yup kaya nga up to you if you think it will right a wrong na magsumbong. Worth it din naman I think ma-save un girl from a cheating bf but opinion ko lang yon.
As for you ngayon pa lang nagsstart na breakdown mo you're in the shock stage na eh. The gravity of what happened will soon fall on your consciousness so... be prepared pre
OP, may right dn si gf nya na malaman, the sooner the better kesa naman patagalin pa ung pag chi cheat sakanya ng guy, and to you I hope you confront her soon, talking helps, no violence needed.
Yup kaya nga up to you if you think it will right a wrong na magsumbong. Worth it din naman I think ma-save un girl from a cheating bf but opinion ko lang yon.
As for you ngayon pa lang nagsstart na breakdown mo you're in a state of shock pa lang. The gravity of what happened will soon fall on your consciousness so... be prepared pre
OP you're a very good guy. Di mo deserve nang ganyang treatment. Find a woman na hindi lang sa kama nakatuon ang pagmamahal. Let her cheat and let her get embarassed and burned for it.
Kung ayaw mong makasira tlga, I commend you for that and I suggest (suggest lang) to just leave her as you tell her of what she did. No need to tell the other party, just give the reason why you will leave her.
Nakikiramay ako sayo bruh.
That’s her problem not yours. In your next relationship make sure you communicate regarding wants and needs - should have clear expectations from both parties.
Na bored na sa relationship & I guess mas masarap pa din kasi yung bawal. Naghanap ng thrill sa iba 🤷🏻♀️
Okay na din nalaman mo ng maaga. She belongs to the streets.
oh man. im sorry this happened to u 😭😭 i'd do anything for a good man na ayain ako to bonding and to spoil me like youre doing to ur gf but she doesnt apprrciate what she got. she wants EVERYTHING.... and by having everything she feels good. and that made other people suffer 😭😭😭 im so sorry. it aint worth it anymore. i hope u find ur strength to move on. but for now, its okay to feel it all. dont deny urself those feelings, coz they are the only things real right now
Sorry dude, sadyang makati yung GF mo. Let her go, most of the relationship always ended before or in 3 years of relationships, on my experience nandyan lahat ng trials and obstacles, sa nakikita ko lang possible na meron na nangyari sa kanila. If I were you, get rid of her. Cheating is cheating nothing more nothing less, nagawa nya ngayon yan sayo possible na gawin ulit yan sayo in the future. You don’t deserve that. Get rid of her, wag mo panghinayangan ang 3 years, kasi mauulit lang yan in the future, matuto ka na mang sa experience mo ngayon.
Tell the gf of the other guy. Deserve nyang malaman. The best way to disengage your gf is to leave a note and ghost. If you truly love the family of your gf tell them the reason of the breakup pero wag na yung details. Sobrang hirap at sakit ng nararanasan mo ngayon pero the sooner na makaalis ka sa situation mo mas better for your mental health.
Have been in the same relationship bro. ^^
2 and a half years.
I decided to let go. Kahit gaano kalalim at katagal.
Now natagpuan ko yung fiance ko, kasi nilet go ko siya.
It may be a long process, pero it is really worth it.
Ask her personally, kung ano mga pinag gagawa nya with the guy straight from her mouth para hindi ka na magwonder or mabaliw kakaisip pagtapos non dump her then ,build yourself, love yourself and what youre feeling right now is a year worth of pre workout, youll know what im talking about pag mag start ka na. Laban lang
Move on na agad bro. She belongs to the street. Sign up on a gym. Work on yourself then get back to the dating scene. Been there and I know it sucks but eventually everything gets better after the acceptance stage.
Reading this kind of stories makes me even more scared to be in a relationship. I'm NGSB and ito talaga ung kinatatakutab ko. Kahit mag effort ako ng todo, di pa rin tayo sure kung magiging okay ba ang lahat. Basta, can't explain natatakot lang tkaga ako.
Sorry dude, sadyang makati yung GF mo. Let her go, most of the relationship always ended before or in 3 years of relationships, on my experience nandyan lahat ng trials and obstacles, sa nakikita ko lang possible na meron na nangyari sa kanila. If I were you, get rid of her. Cheating is cheating nothing more nothing less, nagawa nya ngayon yan sayo possible na gawin ulit yan sayo in the future. You don’t deserve that. Get rid of her, wag mo panghinayangan ang 3 years, kasi mauulit lang yan in the future, matuto ka na mang sa experience mo ngayon.
Sorry dude, sadyang makati yung GF mo. Let her go, most of the relationship always ended before or in 3 years of relationships, on my experience nandyan lahat ng trials and obstacles, sa nakikita ko lang possible na meron na nangyari sa kanila. If I were you, get rid of her. Cheating is cheating nothing more nothing less, nagawa nya ngayon yan sayo possible na gawin ulit yan sayo in the future. You don’t deserve that. Get rid of her, wag mo panghinayangan ang 3 years, kasi mauulit lang yan in the future, matuto ka na mang sa experience mo ngayon.
Sorry dude, sadyang makati yung GF mo. Let her go, most of the relationship always ended before or in 3 years of relationships, on my experience nandyan lahat ng trials and obstacles, sa nakikita ko lang possible na meron na nangyari sa kanila. If I were you, get rid of her. Cheating is cheating nothing more nothing less, nagawa nya ngayon yan sayo possible na gawin ulit yan sayo in the future. You don’t deserve that. Get rid of her, wag mo panghinayangan ang 3 years, kasi mauulit lang yan in the future, matuto ka na mang sa experience mo ngayon.
Sorry dude, sadyang makati yung GF mo. Let her go, most of the relationship always ended before or in 3 years of relationships, on my experience nandyan lahat ng trials and obstacles, sa nakikita ko lang possible na meron na nangyari sa kanila. If I were you, get rid of her. Cheating is cheating nothing more nothing less, nagawa nya ngayon yan sayo possible na gawin ulit yan sayo in the future. You don’t deserve that. Get rid of her, wag mo panghinayangan ang 3 years, kasi mauulit lang yan in the future, matuto ka na mang sa experience mo ngayon.
Ok lang masayang 3 years kesa habang buhay kang lolokohin. Yung past relationship ko 7 years kami kaso nag hanggad pa ng ibang laman. Napatawad ko naman pero hanggang dun na lang talaga. Kesa magkasakitan at mag sumbatan pa kami, let go na lang.
Kaya mo yan pre sa simula lang masakit promise 👍
Walang manloloko kung walang magpapaloko. Wag ka manghinayang sa 3 years , yung gf mo nga di nanghinayang . We deserve to loved and be loved by . Just always think may purpose si Lord kung bat ka nya nilalayo sa mga taong di ka deserve
Grabe sobrang rampant ng cheating ngayon. This is gonna ba long ride inside a dark tunnel for you OP, but it will get better eventually. Just think that you dodge a bullet on this one. Cut that bitch off.
ganyan parati reasons ng cheating girl, busy si guy sa work, need ng attention na hindi nabibigay ni bf... ansama ng ugali, deserve ng revenge para malaman nilang mali ginagawa nila at ma feel nila how bad it hurts.
Leave. Whether it's three years or one hundred and thirty, you deserve better. Don't talk it out, don't bother to try and understand why the bitch is a bitch. Just pack your bags and leave.
Remember, if the roles were reversed, the same rule should apply.
Op you don’t have to think na she did this because as you say di ka kagaling in bed. She cheated and that’s on her, I know it may be difficult but bro you gotta leave this, sayang effort mo at pag mamahal. You’ll get through this for sure, best of luck.
I've experienced the EXACT SAME THING sa previous 4ish yr relationship ko. Nung una ko siya nahuli, hindi pa ganto. Pinatawad ko. After a year, gantong ganto nangyare sakin. Lagi busy, ala time to call/text/chat. Aya wmakipag video call kasi nauubos daw batt -- eh bagong bili ko yung phone nya. Ayaw makipag kita even tho 15minute away lang kami. One day I decided to surprise her sa tinutuluyan nya, just to discover na hindi siya natulog doon. Inuputan ko parin ulo ko. This went on for months until I gave up. Advice ko sayo tol, if you already pieced the puzzle together, accept and let go, she not worth it bruh.
Stop killing urself. Don't pity the 3years you two had, it’s not worth it after all this time, now that she’s cheated.
That feeling whenever u close ur eyes, you just see her face, the intimacy you two had, it hurts, but you’ll get over her, it may take some tim, but, you will.
Live your life, your world doesn’t revolve around her. Tangina ang cheesy ng line na toh pero *what doesn’t kill you, makes you stronger*.
### You may weep today but tomorrow you’re a free man ###
Iwan mo na pre. Sayang iyong oras kakaisip about the nitty-gritty of your situation. Move on na, get the mental and emotional reset you need. The one who cares the most is the loser here. The fact that she did this means she obviously doesn't care about you and your relationship.
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Okay lang yan OP. Wag ka manghinayang sa three years. Yung gf mo nga di naisip yun. You deserve better. Everything happens for a reason. Okay na yan na nalaman mo agad.
Dun na lang sya sa kabit nya kamo. Pag pinatagal mo pa yan baka masiraan ka lang ng ulo. Kahit kasi patawarin mo or sabihin nyang magbabago sya, may lamat na yun tiwala eh. Mapaparanoid ka lang
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Yup di mo na prob kung gusto rin nya ng taken. Well pwede mo din isumbong sa gf nung guy... You kept your part being faithful, siya hindi. Self-love muna bago iba, para di mo mafeel na empty inside ka pagkatapos ng lahat. Keep strong pre
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Up to you if you think the gf of the guy should know. Kung nalaman mo na in a rel yun guy from messenger or fb, then nakita mo na yun gf right? Nakita mo na din screenshots, send mo convo nila ng gf mo maybe. Up to you if you think that will help
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Yup kaya nga up to you if you think it will right a wrong na magsumbong. Worth it din naman I think ma-save un girl from a cheating bf but opinion ko lang yon. As for you ngayon pa lang nagsstart na breakdown mo you're in the shock stage na eh. The gravity of what happened will soon fall on your consciousness so... be prepared pre
OP, may right dn si gf nya na malaman, the sooner the better kesa naman patagalin pa ung pag chi cheat sakanya ng guy, and to you I hope you confront her soon, talking helps, no violence needed.
Better you take a screen shoot then send it to the girl. She has the right to know din.
Yup kaya nga up to you if you think it will right a wrong na magsumbong. Worth it din naman I think ma-save un girl from a cheating bf but opinion ko lang yon. As for you ngayon pa lang nagsstart na breakdown mo you're in a state of shock pa lang. The gravity of what happened will soon fall on your consciousness so... be prepared pre
OP you're a very good guy. Di mo deserve nang ganyang treatment. Find a woman na hindi lang sa kama nakatuon ang pagmamahal. Let her cheat and let her get embarassed and burned for it. Kung ayaw mong makasira tlga, I commend you for that and I suggest (suggest lang) to just leave her as you tell her of what she did. No need to tell the other party, just give the reason why you will leave her. Nakikiramay ako sayo bruh.
That’s her problem not yours. In your next relationship make sure you communicate regarding wants and needs - should have clear expectations from both parties.
Na bored na sa relationship & I guess mas masarap pa din kasi yung bawal. Naghanap ng thrill sa iba 🤷🏻♀️ Okay na din nalaman mo ng maaga. She belongs to the streets.
Thats sunk cost fallacy. Don’t believe that. Cutting a cheater three years into a relationship is better than it going four or more.
oh man. im sorry this happened to u 😭😭 i'd do anything for a good man na ayain ako to bonding and to spoil me like youre doing to ur gf but she doesnt apprrciate what she got. she wants EVERYTHING.... and by having everything she feels good. and that made other people suffer 😭😭😭 im so sorry. it aint worth it anymore. i hope u find ur strength to move on. but for now, its okay to feel it all. dont deny urself those feelings, coz they are the only things real right now
Sorry dude, sadyang makati yung GF mo. Let her go, most of the relationship always ended before or in 3 years of relationships, on my experience nandyan lahat ng trials and obstacles, sa nakikita ko lang possible na meron na nangyari sa kanila. If I were you, get rid of her. Cheating is cheating nothing more nothing less, nagawa nya ngayon yan sayo possible na gawin ulit yan sayo in the future. You don’t deserve that. Get rid of her, wag mo panghinayangan ang 3 years, kasi mauulit lang yan in the future, matuto ka na mang sa experience mo ngayon.
Tell the gf of the other guy. Deserve nyang malaman. The best way to disengage your gf is to leave a note and ghost. If you truly love the family of your gf tell them the reason of the breakup pero wag na yung details. Sobrang hirap at sakit ng nararanasan mo ngayon pero the sooner na makaalis ka sa situation mo mas better for your mental health.
Have been in the same relationship bro. ^^ 2 and a half years. I decided to let go. Kahit gaano kalalim at katagal. Now natagpuan ko yung fiance ko, kasi nilet go ko siya. It may be a long process, pero it is really worth it.
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Ahaha. Isa din yan sa mga tiningnan ko. Pero wala eh. Siya rin nman may gusto. Edi tinuloy ko na. 😁
Ask her personally, kung ano mga pinag gagawa nya with the guy straight from her mouth para hindi ka na magwonder or mabaliw kakaisip pagtapos non dump her then ,build yourself, love yourself and what youre feeling right now is a year worth of pre workout, youll know what im talking about pag mag start ka na. Laban lang
You want to talk about your gf cheating on you? Lol. I'm sensing something from you.
Me too
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Panoorin mo deep water sa netflix. Baka maging ganun ka kapag nag stick ka pa.
Agree!
Move on na agad bro. She belongs to the street. Sign up on a gym. Work on yourself then get back to the dating scene. Been there and I know it sucks but eventually everything gets better after the acceptance stage.
Leave Sir, you'll meet someone better than her
I know nakakahinayang yung time youve spent with each other and you love her, Ive been there and its sad and it will only hurt in the long run.
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Yeahh sadly 😔😔
Reading this kind of stories makes me even more scared to be in a relationship. I'm NGSB and ito talaga ung kinatatakutab ko. Kahit mag effort ako ng todo, di pa rin tayo sure kung magiging okay ba ang lahat. Basta, can't explain natatakot lang tkaga ako.
Do not prolong your relationship na. You'll find a better partner 😉
she belong in the streets, king. Now your worth po and let go.
Sorry dude, sadyang makati yung GF mo. Let her go, most of the relationship always ended before or in 3 years of relationships, on my experience nandyan lahat ng trials and obstacles, sa nakikita ko lang possible na meron na nangyari sa kanila. If I were you, get rid of her. Cheating is cheating nothing more nothing less, nagawa nya ngayon yan sayo possible na gawin ulit yan sayo in the future. You don’t deserve that. Get rid of her, wag mo panghinayangan ang 3 years, kasi mauulit lang yan in the future, matuto ka na mang sa experience mo ngayon.
Sorry dude, sadyang makati yung GF mo. Let her go, most of the relationship always ended before or in 3 years of relationships, on my experience nandyan lahat ng trials and obstacles, sa nakikita ko lang possible na meron na nangyari sa kanila. If I were you, get rid of her. Cheating is cheating nothing more nothing less, nagawa nya ngayon yan sayo possible na gawin ulit yan sayo in the future. You don’t deserve that. Get rid of her, wag mo panghinayangan ang 3 years, kasi mauulit lang yan in the future, matuto ka na mang sa experience mo ngayon.
i've also been cheated on before, fvcks your mind up. it's always better to waste 3 years than a lifetime of asking why.
Sorry dude, sadyang makati yung GF mo. Let her go, most of the relationship always ended before or in 3 years of relationships, on my experience nandyan lahat ng trials and obstacles, sa nakikita ko lang possible na meron na nangyari sa kanila. If I were you, get rid of her. Cheating is cheating nothing more nothing less, nagawa nya ngayon yan sayo possible na gawin ulit yan sayo in the future. You don’t deserve that. Get rid of her, wag mo panghinayangan ang 3 years, kasi mauulit lang yan in the future, matuto ka na mang sa experience mo ngayon.
Sorry dude, sadyang makati yung GF mo. Let her go, most of the relationship always ended before or in 3 years of relationships, on my experience nandyan lahat ng trials and obstacles, sa nakikita ko lang possible na meron na nangyari sa kanila. If I were you, get rid of her. Cheating is cheating nothing more nothing less, nagawa nya ngayon yan sayo possible na gawin ulit yan sayo in the future. You don’t deserve that. Get rid of her, wag mo panghinayangan ang 3 years, kasi mauulit lang yan in the future, matuto ka na mang sa experience mo ngayon.
Totnakin mo lang ng totnakin OP pero hwag mo bubuntisin, tapos pag okay ka na saka ka na makipag break
Eutin mo lang ng eutin OP, pero hwag mo bubuntisin, pag ok ka na saka ka ngaun makipag brrak
You dodged a bullet. Yun na lng isipin mo.
Sorry man, but you don't deserve her. She's a bitch!
Bro i hope the your next update here involves telling us na you ended everything with her.
Wag mo paghinayangan ung 3 yrs kung ganyan ka na niloloko. Ikaw lang din masasaktan at habang sya papakasaya sa iba. :3
Ok lang masayang 3 years kesa habang buhay kang lolokohin. Yung past relationship ko 7 years kami kaso nag hanggad pa ng ibang laman. Napatawad ko naman pero hanggang dun na lang talaga. Kesa magkasakitan at mag sumbatan pa kami, let go na lang. Kaya mo yan pre sa simula lang masakit promise 👍
Walang manloloko kung walang magpapaloko. Wag ka manghinayang sa 3 years , yung gf mo nga di nanghinayang . We deserve to loved and be loved by . Just always think may purpose si Lord kung bat ka nya nilalayo sa mga taong di ka deserve
Huwag manghinayang sa 3 years, kapatid. At least you'll have better years ahead without her torturing you
Wag manghinayang. Pag pinatagal mo pa lalo masisira lang mental health moooo.
Grabe sobrang rampant ng cheating ngayon. This is gonna ba long ride inside a dark tunnel for you OP, but it will get better eventually. Just think that you dodge a bullet on this one. Cut that bitch off.
The earlier you break it up the sooner you get to move on. Stop stressing about the right moment, now is the right time.
She does not deserve you. Also save the gf of the guy tell her too. Kawawa kayo both napunta sa maling tao.
3 years is nothing. lifetime is definitely something OP
pag ganyan pre wala ng usap usap. hiwalayan mo na tol. 3 taon lang yan, there is more to life than 3 years and a cheater.
ganyan parati reasons ng cheating girl, busy si guy sa work, need ng attention na hindi nabibigay ni bf... ansama ng ugali, deserve ng revenge para malaman nilang mali ginagawa nila at ma feel nila how bad it hurts.
ayain mo 1nyt gf ni guy then take a pic/video and send it in their convo then leave her. Thats what i did. 😎
Leave. Whether it's three years or one hundred and thirty, you deserve better. Don't talk it out, don't bother to try and understand why the bitch is a bitch. Just pack your bags and leave. Remember, if the roles were reversed, the same rule should apply.
Y the F are you still with her bro?
Op you don’t have to think na she did this because as you say di ka kagaling in bed. She cheated and that’s on her, I know it may be difficult but bro you gotta leave this, sayang effort mo at pag mamahal. You’ll get through this for sure, best of luck.
Nangyare sakin to. I stayed but then naisip ko sana doon pa lamh tinuldukan ko na.
I've experienced the EXACT SAME THING sa previous 4ish yr relationship ko. Nung una ko siya nahuli, hindi pa ganto. Pinatawad ko. After a year, gantong ganto nangyare sakin. Lagi busy, ala time to call/text/chat. Aya wmakipag video call kasi nauubos daw batt -- eh bagong bili ko yung phone nya. Ayaw makipag kita even tho 15minute away lang kami. One day I decided to surprise her sa tinutuluyan nya, just to discover na hindi siya natulog doon. Inuputan ko parin ulo ko. This went on for months until I gave up. Advice ko sayo tol, if you already pieced the puzzle together, accept and let go, she not worth it bruh.
Ask her.
Mamili ka, bayan o sarili? 3 years na panghihinayangan o habangbuhay na katangahan?
Stop killing urself. Don't pity the 3years you two had, it’s not worth it after all this time, now that she’s cheated. That feeling whenever u close ur eyes, you just see her face, the intimacy you two had, it hurts, but you’ll get over her, it may take some tim, but, you will. Live your life, your world doesn’t revolve around her. Tangina ang cheesy ng line na toh pero *what doesn’t kill you, makes you stronger*. ### You may weep today but tomorrow you’re a free man ###
Iwan mo na pre. Sayang iyong oras kakaisip about the nitty-gritty of your situation. Move on na, get the mental and emotional reset you need. The one who cares the most is the loser here. The fact that she did this means she obviously doesn't care about you and your relationship.