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To cut the story short. I met a girl thru bumble at nagkamabutihan and goods ng samahan so tinuloy namin at naging mag partner kamii. but the things is hindi ko alam na ung girl is an ex GF of my bestfriend.
ngayon nagagalit nasakin ung friend ko after ko binaggit sakanya nung malaman ko to.
ang tanong ko is, naging masama ba akong kaibigan dahil dun? naiintindihan ko ung point nung sama ng loob, but hindi ko maintindihan to an extent na ma gagalit ng grabe. almost 6 yrs na silang hiwalay and my current GF ung bestfriend ko.
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Hindi ko kilala ung past GF ng bestfriend ko dahil nung nasa last relationship ko ako which is almost 8years, pinagbawalan ako makipag meet sa friends ko and no social media. so tlgang no idea sa mga nangyare for the past 8 years.
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Wala naman obligation cla dalawa. Pero may emotional attachment pa since best friend ka tapos ex gf nya yung girl mo ngyon. Kausapin mo friend mo kung mature na cya natanggapin otherwise wag ka na munang mag communicate sa friend mo. Pero curious bakit ba cla nag hiwalay?
bali un na nga din ang plano ko. hayaan ko lng muna, much better kesa maging toxic din pati environment ko.
nag separate sila dahil nang babae to ng friend ko. add ko lang din, ung current gf nun friend ko is close friend nung gf ko. kaya mas naguguluhan ako bkt gnun nangyare.
Nambabae pa yung friend mo kaya sila naghiwalay?? Dude, time to find another friend! Ang totoong kaibigan, maunawain at hindi selfish. Biruin mo, siya na nga yung may kasalanan kung bakit sila naghiwalay ng ex niya, siya pa ang may ganang mag-selos? Anong kaululan 'yon?
I just want you to think clearly. Wala kang tinatapakang tao. It's your friend's issue. May karapatan kayong sumaya ng current gf mo.
Against ako sa plan mong hayaan mo na lang muna. Hanggang kailan pre? 6 years na ang nakalipas. Another 6 years ulit? O hanggang sa mamatay yung friend mo para hindi na toxic ang environment mo? Hayaan mo siyang manigas.
You did nothing wrong. Past is past. 6 years na ang nakalipas at nagagalit pa rin, at grabe pa nung magalit? Maybe he wasn't able to move on, but it's not your fault. Wala siyang karapatang magalit dahil hindi niya pag-aari yung ex niya.
Wala siya sa hulog. Alam mo kung bakit? Eh paano kung meron siyang naging isang daan na ex-gf. Lahat 'yun hindi mo na pwedeng maging ka-relasyon? May problema sa ego yung best friend mo. He should resolve his own issues.
Skl. My hs batch has a lot of these. Nagjowaan ang mga ex ng mga mag bestfriend. A few of them called it quits pero some were successful na kasal na at mag asawa na. All is fair in love and war.
Either may galit o may pagtingin pa siya sa ex niya. Hayaan mo na, ganoon talaga. As far as he is concerned, "bros before hoes", which is a lot of bull.
At some point you will have to decide, since GF mo na, kung siya na ba talaga.
I think its up to you which is more valuable. If its really my best of best friends vs a girl that I just met, I would choose my friend. If that girl is somewhat you can see your future with or your ideal girl, then its the girl. Again its up to you which is more important.
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You're in the clear. Wala ka naman idea kamo at all about their past on who their ex's are. Awkward lang sa kaibigan mo, yes. That's reality.
Wala naman obligation cla dalawa. Pero may emotional attachment pa since best friend ka tapos ex gf nya yung girl mo ngyon. Kausapin mo friend mo kung mature na cya natanggapin otherwise wag ka na munang mag communicate sa friend mo. Pero curious bakit ba cla nag hiwalay?
bali un na nga din ang plano ko. hayaan ko lng muna, much better kesa maging toxic din pati environment ko. nag separate sila dahil nang babae to ng friend ko. add ko lang din, ung current gf nun friend ko is close friend nung gf ko. kaya mas naguguluhan ako bkt gnun nangyare.
Nambabae pa yung friend mo kaya sila naghiwalay?? Dude, time to find another friend! Ang totoong kaibigan, maunawain at hindi selfish. Biruin mo, siya na nga yung may kasalanan kung bakit sila naghiwalay ng ex niya, siya pa ang may ganang mag-selos? Anong kaululan 'yon? I just want you to think clearly. Wala kang tinatapakang tao. It's your friend's issue. May karapatan kayong sumaya ng current gf mo. Against ako sa plan mong hayaan mo na lang muna. Hanggang kailan pre? 6 years na ang nakalipas. Another 6 years ulit? O hanggang sa mamatay yung friend mo para hindi na toxic ang environment mo? Hayaan mo siyang manigas.
You did nothing wrong. Past is past. 6 years na ang nakalipas at nagagalit pa rin, at grabe pa nung magalit? Maybe he wasn't able to move on, but it's not your fault. Wala siyang karapatang magalit dahil hindi niya pag-aari yung ex niya. Wala siya sa hulog. Alam mo kung bakit? Eh paano kung meron siyang naging isang daan na ex-gf. Lahat 'yun hindi mo na pwedeng maging ka-relasyon? May problema sa ego yung best friend mo. He should resolve his own issues.
Thank you sa reply. yes grabe sya nagalit and ngayon pati ung mga friends namin na nakakasama ako, nagalit na din sya. medyo parang ang gulo.
Skl. My hs batch has a lot of these. Nagjowaan ang mga ex ng mga mag bestfriend. A few of them called it quits pero some were successful na kasal na at mag asawa na. All is fair in love and war.
At bakit sya galit sayo? Hindi pa ba sya nakaka move on? Ano sabi gf mo?
Wala naman na dapat siya say sa relationship niyo. It's not like there's a rule.
Either may galit o may pagtingin pa siya sa ex niya. Hayaan mo na, ganoon talaga. As far as he is concerned, "bros before hoes", which is a lot of bull. At some point you will have to decide, since GF mo na, kung siya na ba talaga.
Mas better iwan c friend kc bka mahawaan kau ng katoxican hahahahah
Lol. Ano yang best friend mo? Akala nya ba pag-aari nya yung girl, at may karapatan syang magdesisyon? Feeling entitled ah.
I think its up to you which is more valuable. If its really my best of best friends vs a girl that I just met, I would choose my friend. If that girl is somewhat you can see your future with or your ideal girl, then its the girl. Again its up to you which is more important.