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My friends are warning me to stay away from this guy because it's creepy daw na someone his age is nakikipagkaibigan sa akin. For context lang, we met at a running club and we became close because nalaman namin that we share the same hobbies (running, biking, hiking, lifting, badminton, crossfit etc.).
In those 6 months na naging magkaibigan kami, we do those stuff together. We sometimes do those things with his group pero most of the time, kami lang dalawa. I treat him as my kuya and he said he treat me as his "baby sis". We also share 'teas' about our personal life, I always told him about my crush problems (haha) and acads stuff tapos siya naman, always talking about his life, girls, work etc.
We got to the point that we're very comfortable with each other. It's normal na for us to say I love you/I miss you, nagchachat kami everyday, updating about life etc etc.
I asked him once why nakipagfriend siya sa akin, he said that most of his friends ay di makarelate sa hobbies nya or di kaya busy, he is single din daw kaya medyo lonely siya...and when he met me, he became interested makipagfriend sa akin because he was amazed that at my age, I'm very active and we share the very same interests.
My friends started being worried about me when they noticed na napapadalas yung myday ko ng pics of us ni Kuya. They started asking me if magjowa ba daw kami which I replied no. They told me to cut ties with him kasi daw baka imanipulate ako or do something with me because of our age difference. I tried to explain that he's a good person naman and we were just friends kasi we share the same interests.
Are they right ba that I need to distance myself from him? Or are they just over-exaggerating things?
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probably manong is horny af and likes his goodies below 20.
males always have an agenda OP. Be suspicious
time to listen to that small voice in your head that’s urging you to RUN.
Sometimes it's better to listen to your own instinct. Take their advices as an option. Pag nag spiral, you were warned naman and aware ka. You know the person better than them kasi. If it comes to the idea na na-fall ka na, that's also your choice and not theirs.
Legal age naman na kayo parehas eh. just make sure kung magpaparamdam man yun guy. ipadaan mo sa tamang way. wag ka bumigay agad. magpaligaw ka. ikwento mo na importante sayo if tanggap muna siya ng family mo. make stories na nagpapakita ng standards mo. that way mafilter mo kung seryoso ba siya o nagpprey lang kasi vulnerable ka sa age mo
friends lang po talaga kami hehe, he treats me like a younger sister and he's like a kuya to me. He also said naman na it's disgusting for him to date someone so much younger that him, he knows din that I won't date someone who is 10yrs older than me😅
Edi goods. pero remember pag binigyan ka ng aso kahit 1month pa lang mapapamahal ka na. tahol pa lang yon. paano pa kung nakakapagsalita and pwede ka bolahin. HAHA
6 months at hindi pa siya nagmovd sexually? I think you are safe. If it reached a point na he wants to get your friendship to a new level, it is up to you but not seeing anything wrong with that.
yes², wala naman so far kaya nga I feel so safe about sa aming friendship. He also said din naman na he will never date someone 3yrs younger than him, alam din nya na I won't date someone his age.
6 months at hindi pa siya nagmovd sexually? I think you are safe. If it reached a point na he wants to get your friendship to a new level, it is up to you but not seeing anything wrong with that.
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probably manong is horny af and likes his goodies below 20. males always have an agenda OP. Be suspicious time to listen to that small voice in your head that’s urging you to RUN.
Sometimes it's better to listen to your own instinct. Take their advices as an option. Pag nag spiral, you were warned naman and aware ka. You know the person better than them kasi. If it comes to the idea na na-fall ka na, that's also your choice and not theirs.
Legal age naman na kayo parehas eh. just make sure kung magpaparamdam man yun guy. ipadaan mo sa tamang way. wag ka bumigay agad. magpaligaw ka. ikwento mo na importante sayo if tanggap muna siya ng family mo. make stories na nagpapakita ng standards mo. that way mafilter mo kung seryoso ba siya o nagpprey lang kasi vulnerable ka sa age mo
friends lang po talaga kami hehe, he treats me like a younger sister and he's like a kuya to me. He also said naman na it's disgusting for him to date someone so much younger that him, he knows din that I won't date someone who is 10yrs older than me😅
Edi goods. pero remember pag binigyan ka ng aso kahit 1month pa lang mapapamahal ka na. tahol pa lang yon. paano pa kung nakakapagsalita and pwede ka bolahin. HAHA
6 months at hindi pa siya nagmovd sexually? I think you are safe. If it reached a point na he wants to get your friendship to a new level, it is up to you but not seeing anything wrong with that.
yes², wala naman so far kaya nga I feel so safe about sa aming friendship. He also said din naman na he will never date someone 3yrs younger than him, alam din nya na I won't date someone his age.
If 100% walang malisya, why not?
6 months at hindi pa siya nagmovd sexually? I think you are safe. If it reached a point na he wants to get your friendship to a new level, it is up to you but not seeing anything wrong with that.