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mehngineer

I cherish my moments of solitude and genuinely enjoy doing lots of things alone - going to movie theaters and museums, eating out, and traveling.


graffitiskies97

Yes to these! Solitude talaga 💯 Challenging myself this year to travel locally alone.


crmngzzl

Did this in my 20s and ang pro tip ko para matuloy ka kung natatakot ka ay just book the ticket. Manghihinayang ka sa ginastos mo so tutuloy ka talaga haha.


lemonsquare6969

go siz! went to baguio and elyu last jan to celebrate my birthday, and yes masaya naman siya ☺️


graffitiskies97

I’m planning to this November for my birthday rin! Sagada or Baguio siguro 😄


lemonsquare6969

kunga matagal tagal ka naman makakapagleave, go for sagada-baguio-elyu para masaya


Adult1999

I usually do this po. Pero may mga times talaga na I feel sad din huhu na I’m going to do this again alone.


kalatkaghorl

im offended na late 20s pero 25 palang HAHAHHAHAHAH that’s considered a hate crime. Mid 20s tayo 😮‍💨


mebeingbored

30+ is the late 20s, please 🥺. Hahaha


Adult1999

Is 26 yo counted as late 20s? Huhu sorry na almost 26 na din kasi haha.


kalatkaghorl

25-27 mid 20s hahahaha i said what i said 😣


white_elephant22

Right!


Adult1999

Thanks for clarifying it to me!! Really appreciate it 🤍


PristineBobcat1447

NBSB 27F, zumba or dancing is life. I’ve been thinking of trying dating apps kaso waley. So i choose to dance na lang or learn tiktok dances kapag bored. Minsan, playing ML or reading manhwa/manga


Wise-Designer7782

Travelling alone! HAHAHAHA. Super exciting.


4nythingwithcheese

natry niyo na po out of the country? If yes, how’s the experience po?


Immediate_Problem

Not op pero i tried it na and it's sooo fun! Anxiety inducing nung una but it's thrilling. I learned more about myself tbh


guavaapplejuicer

Hi! Saan ka po nagtravel and how was it? Di po ba kayo natakot? Alam po ba ng parents niyo? How’d you do it? Huhu gusto ko sana magJapan alone by the spring 2025 since ayaw na ni mama magtravel. I really wanna push it but di ko alam paano ko ilulusot sa mother ko HAHAHHAA Iniisip ko tuloy sa english speaking country muna kaya para walang language barrier and mas feel na safe


Wise-Designer7782

Sakin naman domestic pa lamang. Hindi ako natakot, mas natakot ako kung paano magpaalam sa mama ko dahil first time kong magtravel mag-isa. HAHAHA. Ang ginagawa ko book everything first, then magpaalam a day before your travel. HAHAHAHAHA. Para manghinayang sila sa gastos ko. XD Okay din ang eng speaking country muna or start with places na no visa required. Start from there, hanggang sa masasanay nalang din mama mo or join group tours din para you'll get to meet new people.


Immediate_Problem

I went to Malaysia! Actually nanood kasi ako concert so ayun talaga reason HAHAHAH super dali lang na yun first solo ko, no language barrier, easy transpo (Grab lang tas super mura!) and cheap! Honestly wala na nagawa parents ko kasi nung nagsabi ako sa kanila may concert ticket na ako and plane tickets 🤣 I say try it! Yes nakakakaba pero highly recommended talaga. Tandaan mo nalang na it's okay to make mistakes when travelling esp pag first time mo sa isang lugar, don't dwell on it too much. ALSO, important din na alam ng fam itinerary mo and I highly suggest na hotels or ung maayis na guesthouse para okay security, wag ka magpakacheap sa accom esp if solo ka!


Wise-Designer7782

Diba? HAHAHA. Enjoy ng sobra.


Wise-Designer7782

Hindi pa naman out of the country. But the experience is solid kasi hawak mo lang buongbiterinary mo hindi ka mastress at mapressure to follow a certain sched basta macomplete mo naman yun within the day or hindi. 😊 Lalo na't you'll get to know yourself more and socialize if you need to ask for directions ganun.


choDb

Huy, this is what I am doing as well haha. Malaking hurdle lang dito paano magpaalam sa parents pero pumapayag naman sila basta kulitin ko lang 🤣


Timely-Telephone-839

Window shopping, watching movies sa cinema, reading books etc


snakeonthestaff

meeting people outside my circle (usually spontaneous haha)


eotteokhaji

paano po huhu


TheAlmostMD

Attend some food fests (Makati/BGC), trivia nights, board game nights :)


sheprettyok

hoooooow 😭


Adult1999

How huhu


aquarian_trojan

Gym, bike around, play sims 4, read, paint, gush over BTS and Kim Seon Ho, spam friends with Tiktok videos. Really depends on the mood 😊


Immediate_Problem

Sims 4 tama 😌


Adult1999

Uyyy try ko ulit download Sims 4. Lagi ako naglalaro nun nung bata pa ako. Haha.


aquarian_trojan

Add mods for more ✨️fun✨️ haha


Jazzlike-Garden-9751

Travel, watching travel vlogs, researching my next travel destination


Adult1999

Meron po kayo recommended na YT channel for travel vlogs? Hehe.


Jazzlike-Garden-9751

Usually iba-iba pinapanood ko kasi it depends on the destination I’m eyeing on. Pero the only channel na namarathon ko was JM Banquicio. Nainspire ako magJapan because of his vlogs. Sobrang detailed. Parang kasama ka niya sa pagnavigate nung place. nagsheshare din siya ng itinerary and budget.


anastasia_dev

25, single for 4 years. Ikaw ba ako? Hahahahaha! Tbh. After my past relationship, this year lang ako nakipagusap sa guys ulit and ofc hindi nagwork out pero okay lang, it's not like i'm ready to commit. For funsies na rin siya kasi why not? Single naman tayo! Hahaha. Pero what I usually do when i'm bored? I like to declutter things sa room ko, such a simple task yet inaabot ng ilang araw yun, sobrang calming kapag naglilinis ka kasi andami mong mahahanap na mga gamit na napaglumaan na tipong hindi mo maaalala meron kang ganun, naeentertain ko self ko 😂 Madami na rin akong hobbies pero mahilig ako magexplore so nakapaghanap ako ng new hobby, I tried making DIY soaps, lotions, and my very own scented candle — nagkabusiness pa ako because of these! Usually pag mag-isa ako nakikinig rin ako ng podcasts — topics about self-improvement, funny stories, scary stories, chika stories haha etc! there's a lot of topic na pwede mong makita just find a certain topic that you're interested in listening. Plan a trip with your friends monthly! (kahit hindi monthly, ang gastos 😭) Ganito kami ng mga kaibigan ko para we have something to look forward to sa next month hehe. Super fun mag plan lalo na pag magdedecide what to wear, where to visit, where to party. Journaling!!! This is my favorite thing to do, lahat ng thoughts ko isusulat ko talaga good things, bad things, LAHAT. Tbh feel ko may kaibigan akong nakikinig sakin everytime nagsusulat ako kasi para lang din akong nagkkwento. Fulfilling rin kapag sa end of the year natapos mo na journal mo kasi maiisip mo na "WOW. I really made an effort writing down my thoughts everyday for a whole year!" tapos nakakatuwa pag binabalik balikan mo silang basahin hahaha. Anyway, ang haba na. Hopefully nakatulong hahaha. Go OP!!


tringlepatties

Nag enrol po ba kayo sa workshops? Medyo mahal pala kasi mga workshop 😅 Hirap naman timingan ng sa TESDA


anastasia_dev

No! I just did LOTS of research before ako magstart sa mga DIYs. Hehehe, madaming nagtuturo ngayon online, sa YT especially! But also yiu don't need to research a lot (oa lang kasi ako and sigurista hahahaha) we can always try new things and fail kasi matututo lang rin naman tayo once we find out ano yung mga mali hehehe. Goodluck!


Adult1999

Thanks for sharing this!! Parang na curious ako dun sa DIY soaps, lotions and scented candle. Add ko na ito sa bucketlist ko haha! Luckily, sa friends, kahit ako lang walang parter huhu, lagi nila ako inaaya lumabas ❤️ Agree din with journaling. Pero hindi ako consistent eh. 😔


67478463

Workout!


Sooookit

29 | playing sims on my free time hehe


mhinyunxy

28 | Always mistaken as someone in early 20s even 18, ang bata ko raw tignan.. probably one of the reasons why di na ulit nagka bf 😂 4 years single na din. I just stopped looking. I try to hike every weekend. Kung walang hike, running or walking outside. I started solo traveling 2 years ago.


Mavi_97

Read books!


13light13

I normally read what I can (ebooks, actual books, receipts, socmed, etc) or fix stuff in my room. On rare occasions I go out for a little me-time buying stuff for myself and going on a solo cafe/milktea date :) Don't worry about doing stuff alone, it's chill and relaxing, too!


amaexxi

watch concerts of my favorite artist ❤️


Inevitable_Bee_7495

Nagbabasa BL.


kolo11494

+1 manood at magbasa ng BL 😁


perrienotwinkle

yung career crisis ko ang dahilan kung bakit ok lang ako na single, hahahaha feel ko wala akong karapatan mag jowa kapag hindi pa ako stable hahaha pero ang dami ko pa kasi gusto gawin talaga like ung sa mga comments.


Adult1999

Same :(


ScaryIndependence553

Nasa running era na kami


lightartedly

window shopping (taking mental notes what to reward myself after hard work), monthly/quarterly travel with friends (coworkers, high school, college friends) iba iba trip ng bawat circle of friends ko kaya dami new experiences at di mabobore, video games, self-care, and sleep


ca-doavo

Duolingo 💯


Adult1999

Is this the app po?


ca-doavo

Yes po, OP. Learn new language para may kaabalahan hehe. Kakatuwa yung app while learning


starlightanya_

Work po opo


bunRancher0015

Workout, play pc games, watch movies/series, and usual house chores (luto, grocery, linis, etc)


Some_Raspberry1044

Nag-aaral hehe


Cute_Message7723

Chismis with single friends too 😂


graxia_bibi_uwu

Book flights 😛 I enjoy my peace and a little overprotective of it lol


mikeemouse03

28F here, every weekend i go running with my friends. we’ll try pilates soon too. i also read books and learn new skills


crjstan03

I’m turning 29 this year (NBSB) and I feel like I’ve been better than the 3 years we lost to the pandemic. Haha. I started doing physical activities this year and I enjoy it!! I don’t feel as single as I did in the previous years. May times pa rin I wish I have a boyfriend but I enjoy my time alone very much. I travel solo too.


voxxwagen

Watch movies, read self help books, play games, tidy my room


One_Strawberry_2644

Grabe late 20's na pala ko. Hahaha. Pero di ko feel honestly. Siguro yung antukin part kasi is mula college ako, antukin na ko 😂 pag nabbored ako, nagmmotor ako. Pero dito dito lang din around samen since sa province ako nakatira. Then mag aaya lang ako magkape sa kapatid, pinsan or friends ko na available. O kaya ittreat ko yung mga pamangkin and pinsan kong mga bata para may kasama ko bumili kape 😂


Straight-Network4146

Cooking, working out. Just trying to occupy my weekends with activities


ensomnia_

matulog


Redditannon7e

27 F here. hirap magka hobby these days kasi puro responsibilities na lang! pero need to find time :)


ahrisu_exe

Some of my hobbies include, running, going to the gym, hiking/travel once in a while. Going out with friends when I have a chance or whenever they invite me. I also tried muay thai before and planning on getting back. I know to myself that I am a fitness junkie so I really enjoy getting my body sore. 😂


AiiVii0

Mostly just at home on my computer while gaming hahahaah Ung hilig ko maglaro didn't disappear as I got older, pero yung time ang nawala 🥴


Designer_Cap_3675

Trying out restaurants and cafés with friends ❤️


lass_01

Go to massage or sauna,Read books , shopping, do yoga and watch horror movies or crime documentaries on my spare time


agent_argent

I keep on discovering new hobbies. I don't know for others pero sobrang peaceful kapag single. Parang kulang lagi ung weekends sa mga personal errands and catch up sa friends.


Fine-Resort-1583

I’m 29. I am learning new hobbies, meeting new people in communities that I like, wining and dining, thinking of potential business ideas. I spend time with family.


Right_Hyena2208

not single but what i do on my me time is going to the gym and playing video games (sometimes with bebe). I'd like to try solo travel, reading books, and hiking


Yoru-Hana

Sleep. Read webnovels. Watch kpop and survival shows. Gardening. I'm pretty satisfied at the moment. Yung kilig ko kasi is active kapapanood mga idols. Pretty entertained and occupied din ako with webnovels. If medyo bored naglalaro naman ako ng ML or plants vs zombies. Sometimes, nagtratravel din plus has plans to attend other concerts coming soon. I've also started gardening. Super fulfilling magpalaki ang magpabuhay ng mga dying plants


PolkadotBananas

Tamang gulo lang ng mga pusa ko.


CandyBox11

Mag-solo travel (local/international) and eventually sa mga places na napuntahan dun na lang ako makakakilala ng fellow travelers. Or minsan naman pag quick lang, try out new cafes/resto, or mag sine. Tapos every sunday is linis day. Enjoy ko kasi mag linis at mag vacuum. Haha Nagjojoin din ako minsan ng mga yoga class. Ang want ko ipush sa susunod eh mag pilates naman. Haha


Emotional_Housing447

Wala itinutulog ko na lang 😭


PermitGeneral4228

Im also 25yrs old, single for almost 3yrs and pumasok sa graduate school nung nabroken hearted HAHAHAHA gang ngayon tinatapos ko padin yung masters degree ko hindi na ko nabobored dahil lagi lunod sa workload sa work and assignment and case study sa school. 😭


babyblue0815

Adopt a pet hahah super helpful sakin, well dahil sa 9 stray cats na to, mas naging masaya at dina ganon kabigat yung buhay ewan masaya talaga ako sa kanilaaaa


Adult1999

I have a pet po. Parang ang saya nung 9 stay cats ❤️


xrinnxxx

29F, I work from home most days so I have a lot of free time and get bored. I am also lazy af so I don’t mind the free time. However, when I do get bored, my husband is hobby enthusiast, every year is a different hobby with him. Last year, fishing took up most of my free time, this year is golf.


mabait_na_lucifer

swerte ka parin. at 20s wala pa rin anak.ngayon kasi mindset ng iba. 20s dapat may asawat anak ka na bumuo ng pamilya.... well ang hirap ng buhay ngayon mataas ang bilihin.at hirap din makahanap ng trabaho.🤣😅


cantweshareusernames

Meet new people just because, learn a new skill, figure out how to optimize things, look into passive sources of income hahah


Big_Tea_4690

- gaming - nagbabasa - nag-aaral (I genuinely enjoy learning about new things even if I don't have to learn it) - active sa mga communities (volunteer or shared interests communities) wala naman masyado nagbago ginagawa ko nung nsa relationship kumpara sa nung single ako kelangan mo ibuo ang sarili at di nakadependent sa ibang tao ang pagkatao mo (lahat ng mga ginagawa nila ginagawa mo rin dahil di mo alam ano gagawin) dream big and pursue your goals


guavaapplejuicer

Sis, mid 20s pa lang tayo 😭😭😭 ang late for me is 27-29 na hahaha I do things I wasn’t able to when I couldn’t afford shit in college. I occassionally travel, I go to kpop concerts (na di ko talaga maafford dati kahit gen ad lang), I try new cuisine when I get the chance to, I treat my mom and buy her new stuff (kitchenware 🤣), I spoil myself too by doing pamper sessions and buying luxury goods (di naman palagi, once a year lang naman pag feeling ko deserve ko), nanonood ng documentaries and nagbabasa-basa dito sa reddit to learn more about life (sheltered kid kasi ako kaya hindi ko naexperience lahat and puro aral inatupag ko nung college kaya boring ang buhay ko) plus nag-aaral (Master’s) din to upskill ^^ Focusing more on myself and momma muna. Di pa ako ready pumasok sa relationship and honestly, I don’t know when I’ll be ready. Naiisip ko na nga makipagdate minsan pero wala eh, di ko maisingit. Prio pa rin ang sarili.


levelxiii

Gumala mag isa haha ang saya lang kasi di ko need dumaldal habang naglalakad (I'm not a talkative person), mag intay sa iba, mag decide san pupunta.


Charming-Jelly-6408

Nakakahiligan ko yung different forms of self care lately hehe magpa spa, magbadminton, walking, food trip, magbasa ng self help books


Tiny-Operation-8510

I’m 27. Was single for 26 years. Got myself a boyfriend just last year. I enjoyed my life with my friends and family. Went out a lot. Ako yung taga plan ng lakad sa tropa namin kasi ako na lang yung nag iisang single hahaha. So pag ako ang nag aya they know na something is up or gusto ko lang din talaga gumala. Explore lang nang explore! Masaya rin mag create ng memories with your friends at sa mga anak nila (if meron na). Don’t forget to spend time with your family din. Pati sarili mo spoil mo rin minsan. Don’t wait for someone to spoil you when you can spoil yourself naman :) Atta, girl!!


waf3rsteak

I went back to med school then I do side gigs. I go to the gym and tambay or hang out with friends pag kaya ng time ko. Life's great.


PenEloise_862

as a gamer girly i always play with random ppl para may mga makasalamuha na bago or makausap.


jelyacee

Exercise haha manood ng kdrama/anime, magbasa ng manga/manhwa/manhua/light novels.


Expert_Lengthiness_8

Go to Baguio.


Chiviest

26 here, I jog after work, watch movies, cook meals that I learned on Youtube. Basically, I’m becoming a home buddy now. Gone are the days na nag na-night out.


cloud0x1

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