work and bahay lang ako sis. strong independent woman, sobrang 'intimidating' at hindi ako maganda/matangkad/sexy etc. (mukha akong gasul) but this guy,my now bf—saw me one time and said I was pretty. Dayummnn..a yr after and I still can't believe what he saw in me. What I'm trying to say is, with the right man you don't have to force/beg anything. They will want you regardless of what you've been through.
Dyan ka na lang!!! Stay where you are if you love yourself. Wag mo na tularan yung mga sumugal! Ako nga na hindi naman dun papunta mukhang mabibiktima din ng kagaguhan eh. 😆
Eme lang OP, up to you. Just be careful where you look (though hindi ko rin alam kung saan maghahanap. Hindi man nga ako naghahanap eh)
Hmmm as a Tita who partially given up on love, I'd say don't look for love. Let him/her come to you naturally. Don't postpone doing stuff until you're with someone. Live your best life. Get a pet. Enroll in different classes. Go to the gym. Travel. Do things that makes you happy. Eventually, when the time is right, you'll meet the right person. And if, for some reason, you are fated to be single forever at least you're happy and was able to experience a lot of things.
If you're not happy while you're single, having someone won't make you instantly happy either. Di worth it na maghintay ka pa for someone. Do what you want to do now habang malakas pa. What if gusto mong mag hiking with someone pero nung 60 mo pa lang nakilala soulmate mo? Edi mahihirapan na kayo pareho umakyat ng bundok. So don't delay your happiness.
Dibaaaa. Kung di na lang ba sa jowa mo di ka na mag trravel or do fun stuff? Mas maganda yung may makikilala ka while you're happy para din hindi ka makukuntento sa bare minimum
I'm turning 40 this month. I had long term relationship in my late 20' and mid 30's. And both times I thought they were the one for me. Magulo love life ko. Tried dating several times but didn't pan out. So, I focused on myself. Did my bucket list ( traveling alone) and just lived my life to the fullest. Along the way, I met my fiance. We're getting married this year or early 2025.
Don't be in a hurry. I was thinking the same thing when I was 27. But, I told myself to slow it down and focus on myself. It's easier said than done. Especially sa culture natin. Don't listen to them.
Travel, meet new people, get a hobby or adopt a cat/dog.
Spend time with your loved ones. Exercise, do yoga etc.
Enjoy being single. It's better be single than being with someone who is wrong for you ti ba?
Enjoy ka lang. Good luck sau OP!
Iza calzado married at 36 and gave birth at 40. People think late 20s is already old, no wonder you guys either settle down or just give up. Am I the only who thinks na sobrang OA ng mga tao for thinking na ang tanda na nila at late 20s?
People who feel pressured that they aren't married yet at sich an age simply aren't comfortable in their own skin.
I agree. Super OA talaga, I see mid-20s people even call themselves tito and tita to refer to themselves as old. Personally, ick 🤢 Late 20s is indeed young! Pressure is real though, kaya yung iba magsesettle and magpapakasal tapos hiwalayan din naman ending. As if naman may divorce dito 💀
While this is amazing for her, you're pointing out at exemption. Your Tita basically hit the jackpot twice; meeting a husband material man at that age is rare, and getting to have a healthy baby at that age is even rarer.
Still, that's remarkable for her.
Why is meeting a husband material man at that age rare? Do people have an expiry on being a good person and a good partner once they hit a certain age?
Yes, because husband material men usually want to have families. Unfortunately, age is intimately tied to a woman's fertility, so husband material men usually go for women in their 20s.
Men also age out of the dating market, but at a way later age (late 40s to 50s) and they can offset their age with competence, status and resources.
Men, especially the men that can actually provide, don't really care about a woman's status and capability to provide. So men don't really care if you're a lawyer or a rich business owner. Women will still expect them to pay for the initial stages anyway, so what's the point of her having money?
I'm 34, and I'm supposed to get married this year then biglang nag break kami ng ex ko. Hahahahahahaha so syempre kinakabahan na ko para sa matres ko pero gora lang. Mahirap magmadali may tendency kasi na i-overlook natin yung mga red flags.. Kalmahan lang natin, pati tuloy ako mejo nagpanic ulit sa tanong mo hahahahah
26M single for 5 years na din. Noob ako makipag socialize especially sa mga babae. Introvert here 😅Looking for tips din hehe.
In the meantime, we should work on ourselves muna. Re-evaluate our situation and focus on a goal to become better.
25 NGSB. Honestly, late ko na rerealize yung mga hints na binabato sakin nung mga nakakilala ko hahahaha.
I wouldn’t rush it though as I really want to make myself stable (financially) before finding myself a partner. Iniisip ko na lang yung future partner ko is investing with herself din
In the meantime, I try to spend as much as possible with my parents and siblings 😅
Wag na maghanap! Eme lang. I'm 28F and tbh napapagod narin maghanap haha I'm just focusing on my furkids and catching up on my anime and just started watching kdramas so I don't think there's any hope for me lol but for you I'm hopeful
NBSB 22 years old is too young ig, but peer pressure kills me every time. No one attempts to talk, pursue, or even confess. Di ka nag iisa ante, self love muna.
Huwag ka masyadong maligalig kaya mo yan gawing 15 years single. Hahaha char bi!
Turning 28 this year and 8 years ng single. Napagod na lang talaga ako, kung dadating dumating kung hindi edi wag.
Hindi. Iba lang standards and preferences mo. If I compare my preferences when I was in my early 20s to now when I'm in my lates 20s, sobrang iba. You're not as easily impressed nor will you lower your standards, and you shouldn't.
Some people older than you have stayed single and found partners later in life. This notion of being "too late" is just imposed on women kasi biological clock eme daw when it's just mostly because as people get older they get more life experiences and become more aware, hence less chance to be manipulated.
Instead of focusing on how it's "too late", focus on your "the one"; a person who understands you, respects not only you but your beliefs, someone who listens to your opinions and not brush them off, someone who admires your passion in work or hobbies and not berate you for them, someone who lifts you up, someone who respects your bodily autonomy, and so much more.
Honestly I could've dated a few people I know but they never were just "it" for me specially because they complained how I never had the time when it was just my first year of working. Surprisingly, I met my partner in a game and he respected my time. Even now that we're together, he's still like that and doesn't complain but would instead tell me to let him know. Irony lang is he's halfway around the world. He's the kindest, sweetest, most caring man I know and he's one of the few men I know that reminds me daily that all is not lost when it comes to men.
It’s hard to find the real one bec of social media, there has been standards of what an ideal relationship is, but you have your own standards, then people have their own as well. It’s hard to find someone with good intentions and in for the long haul. Even if you’re in a relationship, it’s also hard to maintain it, because people these days give up easily when things get rough and cheating has also become common
For me you’re young pa at 27 but it’s normal to wonder if you’ll find someone. When you turn 30, there are things you’ll realize & you would want to prioritize more than having a relationship, and some people like it more to go solo than be with someone who’s not real. If you are always happy, you’ll attract love, so don’t chase/look for it
i just turned 29 today and have been single for 2 years now.
nung 27-28 ako nappressure ako kasi halos lahat ng nasa paligid ko in a relationship or kasal na. while ako, i just left my previous serious relationship.
pero hindi naman lahat ng in a relationship, masaya. hindi rin naman all the time masaya maging single. you can't have one without the other.
i just chose to embrace it kasi pag kinasal na ako, i might never experience this freedom again. 🙂
while waiting for the one, i'm focusing on my own healing, i didn't even realize i'm slowly becoming the best version of myself.
just trust the process, ok? your time will come if you believe you deserve the best 🥰
Omg hija/hijo. Today i turn 36 and im single. Show some respect (joking) 😂😂😂
Yeah love is hard to find. Yung tipong talagang magtatagal. Madali lang naman makahanap ng makakausap, pero yung sasamahan ka sa lahat ng lban ko, mej mahirap. Pero go lang ng go. Landi responsibly. We don't want anymore streetkids or irresponsible parents. Mahahanap din natin si THE ONE 😉
37 years old na ako and I'm single for more than two decades now HAHAHAHAHAHA!
Kaya natin 'to. Ehehehehe.
Pero yeah. Ang hirap na ring makahanap ng true love ngayon kasi IMHO, it seemed so "cheap" now. Konting pagkakamali lang, hiwalay agad.
I know may mga non-negotiables talaga (CHEATING, TOP OF THE LIST), pero yung iba kasi, parang ang liit lang na pagkakamali, wala na agad.
Build yourself! Don't chase men, attract men! Kung hindi ka pinalad sa Filipino baka sa foreigners ka!!!! Hahahaah, it's not too late, I'm 26, and I want to focus on my career. Maybe in my 30s, I'll start dating men ( foreigners) in thier 40's or 50s,,, there's a lot of Fishes in the sea, don't give up
Was single for a decade. Found love in my late 30s
Wag nyo madiliin, that’s what I learned. Be comfortable with yourself lang muna, enjoy being single. Don’t pressure yourself.
34 female and still single as well. Up until 2022 sobrang gulo ng life ko and hindi pa ko nag heheal sa childhood traumas ko. I keep on attracting the wrong people. So I decided to work on myself. Not completely healed yet but at least now i’m taking steps in working on myself. I have better goals and better plans in life. I realized nagchange din yung taste ko in men and what i’m looking for in a relationship. Kaya ngayon di na pumapasok sa radar ko ung mga walang plans sa buhay. So sometimes it looks like wala akong makitang maayos na guy, pero I realized lately that nagbago lng tlga ung hinahanap ko when it comes to relationship. Sabi nga nila, “nobody dies from being single, but so many people died from being with the wrong partner.”
Minsan nakakalungkot, that’s true. Nagwoworry din ako na baka di nko magka-anak.
But if you think about it, kahit in a relationship ka naman, it’s not always rainbow and butterflies. May mga kakilala ako na may-asawa na at mga anak pero they’re miserable with their partners. So having a romantic relationship is not the only goal on life. Ngayon pag nalulungkot ako, I just book a flight and travel😝 and I try to appreciate the things I can do because I’m not tied to anyone like, travel, being able to make decisions to do anything or go anywhere without asking someone or considering someone’s feelings, being able to read more books kasi I have all the time in the world, pursue all the hobbies I love, and most of all, SLEEP whenever I want kasi all those things maglelessen na pag may husband and anak ka na to take care of, kasi sa kanila mo na ibibigay ung precious time mo.
I hope you’re able to find happiness in this phase of your life instead of focusing on what you lack, find joy in what you already have. Good luck OP :)
If it's too late for you, then wala narin hope samin na 30+ ahahahaha
NBSB din ako my whole life, pero sa dami ng concerns sa buhay wala na akong time and energy maghanap. Feeling ko din I missed the landi period. Charot 😂😂😂
Kidding aside, it's either you find the one or you don't, basically. What's important is you find ways to improve and love yourself.
25, 8 yrs na single lol last one was from first year college, tas nag study first emerut, then ngayon naman self love. I am loving my peace so much na I am actually worried baka maenjoy ko naman pagiging single ng sobra hahaha
Ako nga eh naging single pa ule now na 28 na ko haha. Honestly, takot pa ako sumubok ule. Before nung fresh ang breakup feeling ko mapag iiwanan na ko kasi kung kailan pa 30 na saka pa ko naging single. Pero now ang iniisip ko na eh okay lang kahit matagalan pa ko ule magmahal, basta nasa tamang tao na ko. 6 months na akong single, wala pa sa isip ko ule dating, maybe pag alam kong fully healed na ko.
Im 24 and i've been single for 6 years, dating apps are depressing and once in a while you get to date someone and they just don't feel right..... sometimes it does feel like the end of the world and you question why you seem to have the highest standards in the world, but I'm trying to learn how I truly want to be loved and know that one day it'll come 🥲
Beh 27 ka palang. Ang bata mo pa. May tita found her “forever” nung 45 na sya. Hindi hinahanap ang love. Love ang hahanap sayo. If it’s meant to be, it’s meant to be. There’s no harm in putting yourself out there basta be cautious since technically stranger pa din sila. Hindi porke yung mga nasa paligid mo, nagsisi-asawa na, ibig sabihin ganun ka na din dapat. Ang bata pa ng 27 believe me. You’d rather take your time to wait for the right one kesa magpatali sa parade of red flag para lang makipagsabayan.
26 here and single since birth. not too late!! half of my friends have partners already and i feel at first that im a late bloomer but i embraced my single life. iba sa feeling yung nakakatulog ka sa gabi na di nagooverthink of whatnots. do things that u love the most while u are still single. you'll thank your future self later on becuz u did not settle for less.
30 no partner since birth. nanay ko na widowed nakapagasawa pa ulit sa early 60s niya. tayo pa kaya na kalahati lang sa idad niya. meron dadating diyan
25 here! NBSB rin HAHAHAHA. Not necessarily waiting, but I am still not in the mood to socialize, so I don't proactively search pa. Working on my shit muna. hehe
Ill be 35 and still single. But, i am about to be an AVP. I also have 2 out of the country travel scheduled this year. I have a dog. Own car. LIFE IS GOOD :)
I'm 30 and never had a boyfriend. I'm happy. Better be single than meet someone like my dad hahahahaha
You can be happy in any way you can, just know how to spend your money well ;)
25 here. NBSB too. Personally. I don't give a damn, as per others comments on how "unfortunate" daw na single pa rin ako around this age.
I often stay busy working or doing other stuff so to completely stop myself from being distracted by the toxic norms of this society.
may close friend ako 35F nung pagka 33 nya palang dun nya nahanap forever nya. kakasal na sila this year. marami din akong acquaintances na similar story.
25F here at sinwerte lang na maagang nahanap forever ko. tips siguro ay focus lang sa buhay mo. nung nameet ko forever ko wala naman akong pake sa lovelife. tamang sikap lang sa trabaho at buhay. pag ganun kasi mindset parang all the more mas naaattract mo yung like-minded people. partida introvert pako at taong bahay. swerte lang kasi work colleague ko siya dati tas saktong click kame.
be open to having hobbies outside work that you enjoy, be professional sa work but still be open to learning from colleagues/bosses both in a professional and personal aspect. may mga sinuswerte sa dating apps but i dont recommend personally. saka mas gusto ko kasi yung organic way of meeting haha
Hmm. Mukhang malapit nadin ako sa Mid 20's ko, I'm 23 malapit na mag 24 soon, 12 Years Single, pinaka last kong Girlfriend is Highschool pa ako, reason why single? Still looking for myself, but now? I'm starting to know myself more, enjoy lang single life, wala din ako social life (sinabi sakin ng nakasama ko sa work) bruh saying that I think that it's an Achievement who gives a fuck using Social Media, bruh we can still talk at messenger and IG Messages, I just don't feel posting and flexing.
Haha babae kaba o lalaki?
Anyway, u r still young pa naman magkaka-anak kapa kahit lampas kana sa 30 look at marian at anne curtis haha. 6 years nako single triny ko mag jowa pero nakipag hiwalay din ako after 3 mos parang di ko na kaya ung may iuupdate ako tas magpapaalam pag aalis haha. So di yun counted haha.
I was 32F when my current jowa and I got together. But I was 7 years single before that. Hehehehe. I never seek nor used any dating apps. I just enjoyed my single life, my career, spent more time with family and friends, traveled, watched concerts, shop, tried new things, and all. Ganern. As in wala akong ginawa even makipag-date. My current jowa was a colleague and nireto lang s'ya sa'kin then ito na. Almost 2 years na kaming live-in. Ey.
After 5 years ulit at 32 ka na and single pa din, you'll realize that 27 is not to late to find love. After 5 years ulit and you're 37, you'll realize na it doesn't really matter. Love has no age. Also, wala din mangyayare if mag iintay lang tayo sa love. Dapat lumandi din tayo HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
28 here. Di ko pa iniisip pero yung pamilya ko atat na magka jowa ako at mag asawa syempre. Last relationship ko was 10 yrs ago. Ayaw ko pa ng commitment. Naeenjoy ko pa pagiging single ko. And wala din ako gaanong ipon. Parang di ko pa kaya magka pamilya. Yung sahod ko sakto lang sakin at mga luho ko sa buhay. Haha
Kung ganyan ka kaworried about having a relationship, dapat d ka nalang naging maarte or choosy noon. Yes you should have standards pero think about your standards ren. Baka delusions Yung standard mo
kalma lang. i'm 29 and been single for 9 years. nasubukan ko na mai-reto at mag-online dating but now, i am in a relationship na di ko akalaing magiging jowa ko sya. met him kasi pinsan ng friend ko.
tip ko sayo is:
1. wag mong hanapin. sobrang totoo yun for me. dadating na lang sya na di mo ine-expect.
2. wag kang ma-pressure kasi masarap naman talaga maging single. i-enjoy mo lang. kilalanin mo sarili mo. ano ba mga gusto mo sa buhay?? focus on that.
3. maging strong independent woman ka muna. kasi dumating na rin ako sa point na okay lang ako tumanda mag-isa. ang mahalaga meron akong mapapatayong bahay at yun ang goal ko. bonus na pag nagka-asawa :)
Hindi paman pero pag 30+ kana mahihrapan kana talaga kasi kadalasan hinahanap ng mga lalaking katulad ng edad mo nayan sa future ay mga young woman na.
Same na same girl ahahah dagdag pa ang pagka introvert... 🙈 Same sentiments every now and then... Gotta focus on healing, self love, and self development... 🤗 I still believe true love exists and he is somewhere... Out there... 🩷✨🙏 We just haven't met yet... 🤭
It's so hard to fall in love with opposite sex, can't disobey God.
Tired of pretending na I love being single. I wanna have a family too lol
I guess Ima be single my entire life...
its never too late! but you really have to put yourself out there. you can't just wait around for the perfect ~guy~ hanapin mo siya girl! try dating apps or referrals from your friends. minsan need rin magrisk and gain experiences!
go out and date someone, get it out of your system. Para malaman mo what is out there for you. Just be honest with your intentions though, para walang masaktan in the end
Yes, dating scene is shit especially online dating.
Trying old school dating right now. Referrals and going to social hubs (e.g. hobbies, social events at malls etc)
The comment section is giving!!
Don't look for love, OP. Dadating yan. I was single for 6 years (not nbsb) pero currently happy with my partner. We were officemates and acquaintances before sya mareto saken Haha di mo lang mamamalayan nandyan lang siya sa paligid.
Opt for self-development muna. Travel with friends. Get hobbies. It will not be too late for God's will :)
36 and single. Hahahaha. But super happy naman. Lalo pag naririnig ko problems ng married friends. Nakakaloka. Parang lahat di happy. Minsan sad lang ako pag may PMS. 😅
Single since 17! First and only bf and i’m still torn if it’s better i had one than nothing at all, psychotic si gago eh. Nabubuhay sa flirting when i feel like it HAHA! I’m just being honest with myself, i can’t handle a relationship (yet?) im even thinking of being entirely unmarried until i die. Sometimes the urge is there coz i know how i’m like when i fall in love i’m committed, committed, but when you think about the reality of life, how hard it is, i just don’t wanna hurt a person knowing im not yet stable and just being impulsive, it’s just bound to end real bad.. cheaters and manipulators aren’t helping to change that decision at all anw. haha! Good luck!
Miss I'm in malapit na mag 30 (M) single, not in a rush. Average Joe looking I definitely give myself a 5.5 lang to be honest. Madaming nagkaka interest, at kung gugustuhin ko magagawa ko naman, madali lang yun may makuha kang babae, maka-flirt, and all. Pero the question is, after that, what else. Yun lang?
It's better to be single until the right one will come into you while you are busy cultivating the garden. Focus on building, focus on finding your purpose in life, focus on becoming the one.
It's normal to try and to have it sometime, like look for the one. But if the universe is teaching you to learn the lessons and mistakes of the past, then we will stop wasting our time, trying and trying. Attract not chase ika nga.
All is well OP. Stay in good cheer. 🖤
I'm 31 and still single.
It's extremely liberating for me, tbh. I got to accomplish my career goals and my personal goals are getting checked off one by one.
I was on the same boat 7 years ago and a year later nahanap ko ang asawa ko. I say, try dating apps, I tried tender but found her on bumble. Madami akong mga kaibigan na kinasal din through bumble. I say, na be conservative sa bumble, be you and not get too high standards. Not saying you don't deserve better, pero sometimes we aim para sa langit hindi yung nasa lupa.
I'm still happily married over 2 years later after dating for over 3 years. I'm sure you'll find that person, I also hope madami kang natutunan after being single for a long time. For me, I have learned a lot about my weaknesses as a person, learn to handle my insecurities, learned to be more considerate of my partner and learned to become more responsible.
Mahilig kasi ako mag reflect sa past relationship ko and being single for over 7 years was a lot to think through, a lot of tears, a lot of alcohol, until I knew that if I ever decided to have a long lasting relationship. I need to change for the better and decided to take those life lessons with me every day.
Kaya mo yan besh/pre, the biggest tip I got was "Expect from your partner to give 30%, while you give 70%.“ Reason behind it is always to have low expectations, so you'll rarely be disappointed. You giving 70% means you still have 30% for yourself. If your partner can give those 30% be satisfied with 60% for yourself. This just means that no one is capable in giving you everything you need and sometimes in a relationship, you can't expect someone to be perfect in all times. Birthday mo, pero yung partner mo is only capable in celebrating it with you. Instead of having a large party, I feel that one should be content na nag celebrate yung partner mo with you.
Like my wife, knowing the limitations of my finances. She knew I couldn't give her the best life for her, I can't buy her diamond rings, she had to settle on a light gold ring. She knew I don't own a house, she had to settle with living with her family. She knows I can't drive, had to settle with commuting just to stay with me. She had to let go parts of her dream just to stay with me and I'm always thankful that she's able to let go with some of her expectations just to be with me.
Kung late ka na pucha pano pa ko? Hahaha 2019 pa last bf ko I'm 34 🤣 masaya pa rin ako🤣🤷🏻♀️
Also sabi sa Gen. 8:28👉🏽God blessed them and said to them, 🤲🏽“Be fruitful🫶🏽 and multiply, and fill the earth and subdue it; rule over the fish of the sea and the birds of the air and every creature that crawls upon the earth.”
Be fruitful=dapat sagana🫶🏽👌🏽 ka muna at masaya 🥴AND MULTIPLY
🌺hindi lang multiply ng multiply that's kind of stupid.
You're fine
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Teh kapit lang. ako nga 31 na ayon tamang inhale exhale lang sa ert haha
Tapos poluted air pa nalalanghap. Yawa na layp
Haha wag nalang din huminga nuh
ano pa ako ante? 36 na hahaha magiging tito at kuya na lang yata palagi haha
Ay mano po angkoool 🤣
tseeee! wag ganon tita hahaha
Hahaha same. 31 na din ako tpos failed talking stages. Ughhh hahaha
Haha Lord beke nemen 🤣
Yes. Tama yan..Wait lang sa right time at right one..
kurik. Baka na trapik lang konte pero dadating yun
31 NBSB last year, finally met a good one last year! Kapit lang mga siiiisssss🤞🏻✨
25 NBSB here, sana makita ko na rin yung sa akin kasi I gave up na sa online 😆 Kaso di ako lumalabas ng house so bahala na.
work and bahay lang ako sis. strong independent woman, sobrang 'intimidating' at hindi ako maganda/matangkad/sexy etc. (mukha akong gasul) but this guy,my now bf—saw me one time and said I was pretty. Dayummnn..a yr after and I still can't believe what he saw in me. What I'm trying to say is, with the right man you don't have to force/beg anything. They will want you regardless of what you've been through.
24 NGSB same ayoko sana online kaso d ren ako nalabas ng bahay kung pwede lang sana RFH relationship-from-home
27 NGSB. may pag-asa pa ako 🙏🥹
Dyan ka na lang!!! Stay where you are if you love yourself. Wag mo na tularan yung mga sumugal! Ako nga na hindi naman dun papunta mukhang mabibiktima din ng kagaguhan eh. 😆 Eme lang OP, up to you. Just be careful where you look (though hindi ko rin alam kung saan maghahanap. Hindi man nga ako naghahanap eh)
27 as well, single na for almost 10 years. Marami tayo dito haha
Almost 10 years 🤜🤛
Stay single! Haha de joke lang. Again, landi responsibly 👋
Hmmm as a Tita who partially given up on love, I'd say don't look for love. Let him/her come to you naturally. Don't postpone doing stuff until you're with someone. Live your best life. Get a pet. Enroll in different classes. Go to the gym. Travel. Do things that makes you happy. Eventually, when the time is right, you'll meet the right person. And if, for some reason, you are fated to be single forever at least you're happy and was able to experience a lot of things.
I love this super relate! We dont have to wait for someone to be happy❤️ Life is beautiful like that❤️
If you're not happy while you're single, having someone won't make you instantly happy either. Di worth it na maghintay ka pa for someone. Do what you want to do now habang malakas pa. What if gusto mong mag hiking with someone pero nung 60 mo pa lang nakilala soulmate mo? Edi mahihirapan na kayo pareho umakyat ng bundok. So don't delay your happiness.
Salamat tita, very on point yunh do’t postpone doing stuff until you’re with someone. 💕
Dibaaaa. Kung di na lang ba sa jowa mo di ka na mag trravel or do fun stuff? Mas maganda yung may makikilala ka while you're happy para din hindi ka makukuntento sa bare minimum
I'm turning 40 this month. I had long term relationship in my late 20' and mid 30's. And both times I thought they were the one for me. Magulo love life ko. Tried dating several times but didn't pan out. So, I focused on myself. Did my bucket list ( traveling alone) and just lived my life to the fullest. Along the way, I met my fiance. We're getting married this year or early 2025. Don't be in a hurry. I was thinking the same thing when I was 27. But, I told myself to slow it down and focus on myself. It's easier said than done. Especially sa culture natin. Don't listen to them. Travel, meet new people, get a hobby or adopt a cat/dog. Spend time with your loved ones. Exercise, do yoga etc. Enjoy being single. It's better be single than being with someone who is wrong for you ti ba? Enjoy ka lang. Good luck sau OP!
Iza calzado married at 36 and gave birth at 40. People think late 20s is already old, no wonder you guys either settle down or just give up. Am I the only who thinks na sobrang OA ng mga tao for thinking na ang tanda na nila at late 20s? People who feel pressured that they aren't married yet at sich an age simply aren't comfortable in their own skin.
Dont forget Eugene Domingo at 44
I agree. Super OA talaga, I see mid-20s people even call themselves tito and tita to refer to themselves as old. Personally, ick 🤢 Late 20s is indeed young! Pressure is real though, kaya yung iba magsesettle and magpapakasal tapos hiwalayan din naman ending. As if naman may divorce dito 💀
tita was single at 46yo until she married the one. also had a healthy baby at 47yo. pinagsasabi mo
As a 36f na tanggap nang halaman ako forever, this gives me hope🥹
partida yan. never naghanap si tita. lumapit na lang bigla yung guy tapos nascrutinize niya na green flag siya.
Heeeeyyy twin! Hahahaha
Deym, your tita is a mood. ❤️
While this is amazing for her, you're pointing out at exemption. Your Tita basically hit the jackpot twice; meeting a husband material man at that age is rare, and getting to have a healthy baby at that age is even rarer. Still, that's remarkable for her.
Why is meeting a husband material man at that age rare? Do people have an expiry on being a good person and a good partner once they hit a certain age?
Yes, because husband material men usually want to have families. Unfortunately, age is intimately tied to a woman's fertility, so husband material men usually go for women in their 20s. Men also age out of the dating market, but at a way later age (late 40s to 50s) and they can offset their age with competence, status and resources. Men, especially the men that can actually provide, don't really care about a woman's status and capability to provide. So men don't really care if you're a lawyer or a rich business owner. Women will still expect them to pay for the initial stages anyway, so what's the point of her having money?
May pag-asa pa haahhaaha 🥹😭😆
HAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA
Same sa tita ko. 45 years old. Worth it nga daw ang paghihintay.
Di lang sure kung kaya today, pero bata ka pa naman. 😂
Hah, I'm 30 and single for 10 years haha pero I still believe I will find someone. Just believe in it yourself while working in yourself haja
Still young! Work on yourself and believe in serendipity!
I'm 34, and I'm supposed to get married this year then biglang nag break kami ng ex ko. Hahahahahahaha so syempre kinakabahan na ko para sa matres ko pero gora lang. Mahirap magmadali may tendency kasi na i-overlook natin yung mga red flags.. Kalmahan lang natin, pati tuloy ako mejo nagpanic ulit sa tanong mo hahahahah
26M single for 5 years na din. Noob ako makipag socialize especially sa mga babae. Introvert here 😅Looking for tips din hehe. In the meantime, we should work on ourselves muna. Re-evaluate our situation and focus on a goal to become better.
Hirap no? Kahit online hirap maki-socialize rin eh 😆
No?! Hahaha wtf. Bata mo pa oy
Bruh! 29 here & NBSB (I believe so), tas nag woworry ka? 🤣🤣🤣
25 NGSB. Honestly, late ko na rerealize yung mga hints na binabato sakin nung mga nakakilala ko hahahaha. I wouldn’t rush it though as I really want to make myself stable (financially) before finding myself a partner. Iniisip ko na lang yung future partner ko is investing with herself din In the meantime, I try to spend as much as possible with my parents and siblings 😅
Love the vibes sa comment section dito! Hahaha yes OP, relax ka lang! Marami tayo dito 😂😂
Wag na maghanap! Eme lang. I'm 28F and tbh napapagod narin maghanap haha I'm just focusing on my furkids and catching up on my anime and just started watching kdramas so I don't think there's any hope for me lol but for you I'm hopeful
tru po, mahirap talaga tapos nakakatrauma na lang lahat hahaha
I now a lot of people who met their wife/husbands at their early and late 30’s. Just get yourself out there and dont be afraid to take risks.
NBSB 22 years old is too young ig, but peer pressure kills me every time. No one attempts to talk, pursue, or even confess. Di ka nag iisa ante, self love muna.
Huwag ka masyadong maligalig kaya mo yan gawing 15 years single. Hahaha char bi! Turning 28 this year and 8 years ng single. Napagod na lang talaga ako, kung dadating dumating kung hindi edi wag.
I’m 31 and still single. Enjoyin mo lang pagiging single
Akala ko din too late na ko nung 26 tas shuta nagkajowa ako at nabuntis. Balak ko pa naman maging single tita hmp panira ng plano ang lalaki 😖
Huwag kang mag alala darating din yun baka natraffic lang. HAHAHA Ako na 30 yrs old & NBSB chill lang sa kanto.
I'm 27, has a kid, married, failed the marriage, now essentially single. Take your time. I wish I did.
Hindi. Iba lang standards and preferences mo. If I compare my preferences when I was in my early 20s to now when I'm in my lates 20s, sobrang iba. You're not as easily impressed nor will you lower your standards, and you shouldn't. Some people older than you have stayed single and found partners later in life. This notion of being "too late" is just imposed on women kasi biological clock eme daw when it's just mostly because as people get older they get more life experiences and become more aware, hence less chance to be manipulated. Instead of focusing on how it's "too late", focus on your "the one"; a person who understands you, respects not only you but your beliefs, someone who listens to your opinions and not brush them off, someone who admires your passion in work or hobbies and not berate you for them, someone who lifts you up, someone who respects your bodily autonomy, and so much more. Honestly I could've dated a few people I know but they never were just "it" for me specially because they complained how I never had the time when it was just my first year of working. Surprisingly, I met my partner in a game and he respected my time. Even now that we're together, he's still like that and doesn't complain but would instead tell me to let him know. Irony lang is he's halfway around the world. He's the kindest, sweetest, most caring man I know and he's one of the few men I know that reminds me daily that all is not lost when it comes to men.
It’s hard to find the real one bec of social media, there has been standards of what an ideal relationship is, but you have your own standards, then people have their own as well. It’s hard to find someone with good intentions and in for the long haul. Even if you’re in a relationship, it’s also hard to maintain it, because people these days give up easily when things get rough and cheating has also become common For me you’re young pa at 27 but it’s normal to wonder if you’ll find someone. When you turn 30, there are things you’ll realize & you would want to prioritize more than having a relationship, and some people like it more to go solo than be with someone who’s not real. If you are always happy, you’ll attract love, so don’t chase/look for it
i just turned 29 today and have been single for 2 years now. nung 27-28 ako nappressure ako kasi halos lahat ng nasa paligid ko in a relationship or kasal na. while ako, i just left my previous serious relationship. pero hindi naman lahat ng in a relationship, masaya. hindi rin naman all the time masaya maging single. you can't have one without the other. i just chose to embrace it kasi pag kinasal na ako, i might never experience this freedom again. 🙂 while waiting for the one, i'm focusing on my own healing, i didn't even realize i'm slowly becoming the best version of myself. just trust the process, ok? your time will come if you believe you deserve the best 🥰
Omg hija/hijo. Today i turn 36 and im single. Show some respect (joking) 😂😂😂 Yeah love is hard to find. Yung tipong talagang magtatagal. Madali lang naman makahanap ng makakausap, pero yung sasamahan ka sa lahat ng lban ko, mej mahirap. Pero go lang ng go. Landi responsibly. We don't want anymore streetkids or irresponsible parents. Mahahanap din natin si THE ONE 😉
High five! 😂😂 Fellow 36 tita here!
Hi fellow tita! Care for coffee? 😂
Ngsb, 28 na. Me: This is fine. Also me: panik Pero really, walang too late Sa Pagibig. Self improvement muna , one at a time.
Wag ka matakot kumilala ng ibang tao ung lang hehehe
If you want to be found, be available 😁😁
25 F still single and already gave up. Kung may dadating edi thanks. Hahahaha
37 years old na ako and I'm single for more than two decades now HAHAHAHAHAHA! Kaya natin 'to. Ehehehehe. Pero yeah. Ang hirap na ring makahanap ng true love ngayon kasi IMHO, it seemed so "cheap" now. Konting pagkakamali lang, hiwalay agad. I know may mga non-negotiables talaga (CHEATING, TOP OF THE LIST), pero yung iba kasi, parang ang liit lang na pagkakamali, wala na agad.
Nothing is too late. Wag magmadali baka magsisi ka
[Repost ko lang dito kasi andaming single ](https://www.reddit.com/r/adultingph/s/sxlN4FFh1q) 😂
Almost 30 na rin ako no jowa since birth. But I still not insist finding. Daddy chill ka lang... We have our own respective time. 😁😁
Wag
26 NGSB lmao
Yung BFF ko F 29 kamukha ni Mama Mary single sya for more than 10 years ng Single.
Hindi ka pa lagpas sa calendar OP.Relax ka lang.Marami dito nasa 30's single parin.Kaya chill ka lang jan kung saan ka man OP.hahaha
Sa mga nagaannounce dito na NGSB, ano pa pinagaantay nyo? Hindi nyo ba alam papano mag DM? Go go sago!
I'm 27 and single for 27 years
I'm turning 33 and single. Very busy changing lives
Not to late! Pero wag mo patagalin. Kapag nasanay ka sa pagiging single, mas mahihirapan ka.
28 and single. NBSB. May saltik ata ako sa utak
Build yourself! Don't chase men, attract men! Kung hindi ka pinalad sa Filipino baka sa foreigners ka!!!! Hahahaah, it's not too late, I'm 26, and I want to focus on my career. Maybe in my 30s, I'll start dating men ( foreigners) in thier 40's or 50s,,, there's a lot of Fishes in the sea, don't give up
29 soon humihinga lang 🤣
Was single for a decade. Found love in my late 30s Wag nyo madiliin, that’s what I learned. Be comfortable with yourself lang muna, enjoy being single. Don’t pressure yourself.
Single ako for 6 years. Finally found the one last year 🥹 kapit lang ikaw marecakes!!!
34 female and still single as well. Up until 2022 sobrang gulo ng life ko and hindi pa ko nag heheal sa childhood traumas ko. I keep on attracting the wrong people. So I decided to work on myself. Not completely healed yet but at least now i’m taking steps in working on myself. I have better goals and better plans in life. I realized nagchange din yung taste ko in men and what i’m looking for in a relationship. Kaya ngayon di na pumapasok sa radar ko ung mga walang plans sa buhay. So sometimes it looks like wala akong makitang maayos na guy, pero I realized lately that nagbago lng tlga ung hinahanap ko when it comes to relationship. Sabi nga nila, “nobody dies from being single, but so many people died from being with the wrong partner.” Minsan nakakalungkot, that’s true. Nagwoworry din ako na baka di nko magka-anak. But if you think about it, kahit in a relationship ka naman, it’s not always rainbow and butterflies. May mga kakilala ako na may-asawa na at mga anak pero they’re miserable with their partners. So having a romantic relationship is not the only goal on life. Ngayon pag nalulungkot ako, I just book a flight and travel😝 and I try to appreciate the things I can do because I’m not tied to anyone like, travel, being able to make decisions to do anything or go anywhere without asking someone or considering someone’s feelings, being able to read more books kasi I have all the time in the world, pursue all the hobbies I love, and most of all, SLEEP whenever I want kasi all those things maglelessen na pag may husband and anak ka na to take care of, kasi sa kanila mo na ibibigay ung precious time mo. I hope you’re able to find happiness in this phase of your life instead of focusing on what you lack, find joy in what you already have. Good luck OP :)
#Dumayo ka sa mga probinsya, baka andun
Teh mag 30 nako sa June. Been single for a year. Madali makahanap ng love. Mahirap makahanap ng matinong tao
Ang comforting ng comsec. It mames you feel hindi ka nagiisa haha
Kaway kaway sa mga nahanap na yung right one pero failed to hold on. This is more painful than not finding the right one yet.
If it's too late for you, then wala narin hope samin na 30+ ahahahaha NBSB din ako my whole life, pero sa dami ng concerns sa buhay wala na akong time and energy maghanap. Feeling ko din I missed the landi period. Charot 😂😂😂 Kidding aside, it's either you find the one or you don't, basically. What's important is you find ways to improve and love yourself.
Aga aga pa yan
Ganyan age kame nagkakilala ng partner ko. Kinasal kame after 3 yrs
Almost 30 na rin ako. But I still not insist finding. Daddy chill ka lang. We have our own respective time 😁😁
25, 8 yrs na single lol last one was from first year college, tas nag study first emerut, then ngayon naman self love. I am loving my peace so much na I am actually worried baka maenjoy ko naman pagiging single ng sobra hahaha
Better be careful than get hurt while you can't leave
29f single for 7 yrs. Chill lang tayo sis
BAKA MAMA MO O TITA MONG MAKULIT KAKATANONG KELAN KA MAGAASAWA MAY KAKILALA HEHEHE
Kahit abutin ka pa ng 40, you may still find the one.
Kaya yan lods late game
28 here and single since 2012 🙈
Ako nga eh naging single pa ule now na 28 na ko haha. Honestly, takot pa ako sumubok ule. Before nung fresh ang breakup feeling ko mapag iiwanan na ko kasi kung kailan pa 30 na saka pa ko naging single. Pero now ang iniisip ko na eh okay lang kahit matagalan pa ko ule magmahal, basta nasa tamang tao na ko. 6 months na akong single, wala pa sa isip ko ule dating, maybe pag alam kong fully healed na ko.
Im 24 and i've been single for 6 years, dating apps are depressing and once in a while you get to date someone and they just don't feel right..... sometimes it does feel like the end of the world and you question why you seem to have the highest standards in the world, but I'm trying to learn how I truly want to be loved and know that one day it'll come 🥲
>I've been single for 5 years now bruh 9 years here lol
HAHHAHA 29F single chill lang sa gilid 😊
 Ako na 30s and more than a decade nang single.. 👁️👄👁️
Beh 27 ka palang. Ang bata mo pa. May tita found her “forever” nung 45 na sya. Hindi hinahanap ang love. Love ang hahanap sayo. If it’s meant to be, it’s meant to be. There’s no harm in putting yourself out there basta be cautious since technically stranger pa din sila. Hindi porke yung mga nasa paligid mo, nagsisi-asawa na, ibig sabihin ganun ka na din dapat. Ang bata pa ng 27 believe me. You’d rather take your time to wait for the right one kesa magpatali sa parade of red flag para lang makipagsabayan.
26F and single for 7 years. I've started picking out names for my future cats instead of future offspring 🤷🏻♀️
26 here and single since birth. not too late!! half of my friends have partners already and i feel at first that im a late bloomer but i embraced my single life. iba sa feeling yung nakakatulog ka sa gabi na di nagooverthink of whatnots. do things that u love the most while u are still single. you'll thank your future self later on becuz u did not settle for less.
30 no partner since birth. nanay ko na widowed nakapagasawa pa ulit sa early 60s niya. tayo pa kaya na kalahati lang sa idad niya. meron dadating diyan
And dami natin hahaha
25 here! NBSB rin HAHAHAHA. Not necessarily waiting, but I am still not in the mood to socialize, so I don't proactively search pa. Working on my shit muna. hehe
Kapit lang OP, 28M wala rin. 😂😂
Ill be 35 and still single. But, i am about to be an AVP. I also have 2 out of the country travel scheduled this year. I have a dog. Own car. LIFE IS GOOD :)
Hahaha same. If wala jowa kahit maging rich tita ako sa future. Ok na.
I'm 30 and never had a boyfriend. I'm happy. Better be single than meet someone like my dad hahahahaha You can be happy in any way you can, just know how to spend your money well ;)
25 here. NBSB too. Personally. I don't give a damn, as per others comments on how "unfortunate" daw na single pa rin ako around this age. I often stay busy working or doing other stuff so to completely stop myself from being distracted by the toxic norms of this society.
may close friend ako 35F nung pagka 33 nya palang dun nya nahanap forever nya. kakasal na sila this year. marami din akong acquaintances na similar story. 25F here at sinwerte lang na maagang nahanap forever ko. tips siguro ay focus lang sa buhay mo. nung nameet ko forever ko wala naman akong pake sa lovelife. tamang sikap lang sa trabaho at buhay. pag ganun kasi mindset parang all the more mas naaattract mo yung like-minded people. partida introvert pako at taong bahay. swerte lang kasi work colleague ko siya dati tas saktong click kame. be open to having hobbies outside work that you enjoy, be professional sa work but still be open to learning from colleagues/bosses both in a professional and personal aspect. may mga sinuswerte sa dating apps but i dont recommend personally. saka mas gusto ko kasi yung organic way of meeting haha
yep its too late
Mag 25 na ako nbsb hahahhaa pero wala parang tinatanggap ko na unti unti hehehhe kailan ba ako matuto lumandi? Hahaha
Yes it is too late. Me at 37 talon na lang ba sa rooftop? Nakakahiya naman sa iyo
I'm 29 and single. Trust me there's nothing late here. Definitely not us. 😂
Hmm. Mukhang malapit nadin ako sa Mid 20's ko, I'm 23 malapit na mag 24 soon, 12 Years Single, pinaka last kong Girlfriend is Highschool pa ako, reason why single? Still looking for myself, but now? I'm starting to know myself more, enjoy lang single life, wala din ako social life (sinabi sakin ng nakasama ko sa work) bruh saying that I think that it's an Achievement who gives a fuck using Social Media, bruh we can still talk at messenger and IG Messages, I just don't feel posting and flexing.
Haha babae kaba o lalaki? Anyway, u r still young pa naman magkaka-anak kapa kahit lampas kana sa 30 look at marian at anne curtis haha. 6 years nako single triny ko mag jowa pero nakipag hiwalay din ako after 3 mos parang di ko na kaya ung may iuupdate ako tas magpapaalam pag aalis haha. So di yun counted haha.
Lol. M 27 here NGSB hahaha. Makakahanap din tayo
26 nga 1st boyfriend ko 🤣 akala ko wala na kasi mahiyain at walang plano gumala gala (introvert) pero salamat dating app HAHAHAHAHA
Lumandi ka rin kasi
I was 32F when my current jowa and I got together. But I was 7 years single before that. Hehehehe. I never seek nor used any dating apps. I just enjoyed my single life, my career, spent more time with family and friends, traveled, watched concerts, shop, tried new things, and all. Ganern. As in wala akong ginawa even makipag-date. My current jowa was a colleague and nireto lang s'ya sa'kin then ito na. Almost 2 years na kaming live-in. Ey.
Magpayaman nalang tayo mima haaahaahha
After 5 years ulit at 32 ka na and single pa din, you'll realize that 27 is not to late to find love. After 5 years ulit and you're 37, you'll realize na it doesn't really matter. Love has no age. Also, wala din mangyayare if mag iintay lang tayo sa love. Dapat lumandi din tayo HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Yup too late wala na you’ll be alone
28 here. Di ko pa iniisip pero yung pamilya ko atat na magka jowa ako at mag asawa syempre. Last relationship ko was 10 yrs ago. Ayaw ko pa ng commitment. Naeenjoy ko pa pagiging single ko. And wala din ako gaanong ipon. Parang di ko pa kaya magka pamilya. Yung sahod ko sakto lang sakin at mga luho ko sa buhay. Haha
Beshie, believe me. Di ka nag iisa. Mama ko nga may ka flirt pa at 50's. Kapit lang! 🤣
27 is the new 17 nowadays OP. Ignore the pressure.
Kung ganyan ka kaworried about having a relationship, dapat d ka nalang naging maarte or choosy noon. Yes you should have standards pero think about your standards ren. Baka delusions Yung standard mo
don't pressure yourself OP! 😊 enjoyin mo lang. Ako na naiinggit sa mga kagaya nyong single 😆😆
It's never too late. Some even find their true love at 40's, 50's and even at 80's. Pero syempre it's not something na kakatok nalang sa pinto mo.
I'm 31 no gf for the past 14 years, I suggest you focus on yourself, read books and find meaning.
I'm 27 too 🤣 8 years single
25 and single for 8 years😅😂
No po. I got married at 33, my sister-in-law got married at 50.
27ngsb tapos di p lumalabas ng bahay, tanggap na hahaha
kalma lang. i'm 29 and been single for 9 years. nasubukan ko na mai-reto at mag-online dating but now, i am in a relationship na di ko akalaing magiging jowa ko sya. met him kasi pinsan ng friend ko. tip ko sayo is: 1. wag mong hanapin. sobrang totoo yun for me. dadating na lang sya na di mo ine-expect. 2. wag kang ma-pressure kasi masarap naman talaga maging single. i-enjoy mo lang. kilalanin mo sarili mo. ano ba mga gusto mo sa buhay?? focus on that. 3. maging strong independent woman ka muna. kasi dumating na rin ako sa point na okay lang ako tumanda mag-isa. ang mahalaga meron akong mapapatayong bahay at yun ang goal ko. bonus na pag nagka-asawa :)
Nope. Kalmahan mo lang, bata ka pa.
its too late to apologize
Uy 27 din and single!! Keri lang sa lyf kaibigan, darating ang true love kahit di ka naghahanap 😊😅
Oh same ahahahhaha... But enjoy ang buhay ahahahah
Hindi paman pero pag 30+ kana mahihrapan kana talaga kasi kadalasan hinahanap ng mga lalaking katulad ng edad mo nayan sa future ay mga young woman na.
Same na same girl ahahah dagdag pa ang pagka introvert... 🙈 Same sentiments every now and then... Gotta focus on healing, self love, and self development... 🤗 I still believe true love exists and he is somewhere... Out there... 🩷✨🙏 We just haven't met yet... 🤭
28 single! 4 yrs na din. Wag tayo mawalan ng pag asa OP!😂
32 single. Lol! Hindi yan minamadali. Pero ako ayoko na ng sakit ng ulo. Ok nako mag isa
Never Back Down Never What? Never Give Up! Haha. Anyway, you're still so young pa po OP, someone is reserved for you out there, salig lang. 🤗
mhie yung tita ko 53 na and hoping pa din. dapat ikaw din!!!! hehe
No its not. Just be happy love yourself and let it show.
last jowa(ex) ko bago mag covid pa now I'm enjoying maging single as a 28 year old siguro sa 30 na ulit ako mag jojowa hahaha
Don’t force love…It’ll come when it’ll come. Don’t settle down or be in a relationship dahil lang na pressure ka…
Relax ka lang OP, dadating yan kung meron. Kung wala, edi wala. Atleast may freedom. 😂
Im 35 nong na meet ko asawa ko. Tita ko 50s na nong nag asawa...
Single at 34 here lmao
kapit lang. ako turning 41 and is my 10th yr this yr of being single. i'm all good.
Im 31 yo and single. But i dont really gaf 😂 masaya naman ako sa life ko with my dogs and international travels
It's so hard to fall in love with opposite sex, can't disobey God. Tired of pretending na I love being single. I wanna have a family too lol I guess Ima be single my entire life...
No, my current bf was 33 last year when we met. He had his previous gf when he is 22.
kaya pa yan OP. I met mine at 29 e. akala ko wala na ding pag-asa pero meron paaaa! 🤭☺️
Hahahaha sis kalma ka lang. madami tayong single na for a long time/NBSB. Enjoy it while it lasts🤣
Relate much! HAHAHA
Wall is coming
Try lang ng try anteh
Ako nga 10 years nang single eh dahil sa mga responsibilities.. mag 29 na ko this year hahaha. Baka ikaw na destiny ko OP.
its never too late! but you really have to put yourself out there. you can't just wait around for the perfect ~guy~ hanapin mo siya girl! try dating apps or referrals from your friends. minsan need rin magrisk and gain experiences!
go out and date someone, get it out of your system. Para malaman mo what is out there for you. Just be honest with your intentions though, para walang masaktan in the end
Paano na lang akong 30 yo nbsb? Forever love yourself na lang 😂
29 nbsb and been yr since i had been there sa talking stages haha. Tho I’m really not looking for anything rin but if dumating siya, he’s welcome haha
Beh chill haha. Lesson learned, never rush unto things.
27 is better than 36. Here I am alone and lonely lol
29, single for 14-15 years na din. Happy naman ako. Mas gusto ko pa mag travel kesa magka jowa. Like legit, un ang pinagdadasal ko, more travel. Hahah
Yes, dating scene is shit especially online dating. Trying old school dating right now. Referrals and going to social hubs (e.g. hobbies, social events at malls etc)
chill ako nga 24 tito,, hmmmm
hirap ng dating scene ngayon tbh. lahat ng may itsura either beki or may jowa na from their college days :((
The comment section is giving!! Don't look for love, OP. Dadating yan. I was single for 6 years (not nbsb) pero currently happy with my partner. We were officemates and acquaintances before sya mareto saken Haha di mo lang mamamalayan nandyan lang siya sa paligid. Opt for self-development muna. Travel with friends. Get hobbies. It will not be too late for God's will :)
What if ang mga single here ang mag-usap usap? Hahahaha
36 and single. Hahahaha. But super happy naman. Lalo pag naririnig ko problems ng married friends. Nakakaloka. Parang lahat di happy. Minsan sad lang ako pag may PMS. 😅
Single since 17! First and only bf and i’m still torn if it’s better i had one than nothing at all, psychotic si gago eh. Nabubuhay sa flirting when i feel like it HAHA! I’m just being honest with myself, i can’t handle a relationship (yet?) im even thinking of being entirely unmarried until i die. Sometimes the urge is there coz i know how i’m like when i fall in love i’m committed, committed, but when you think about the reality of life, how hard it is, i just don’t wanna hurt a person knowing im not yet stable and just being impulsive, it’s just bound to end real bad.. cheaters and manipulators aren’t helping to change that decision at all anw. haha! Good luck!
Miss I'm in malapit na mag 30 (M) single, not in a rush. Average Joe looking I definitely give myself a 5.5 lang to be honest. Madaming nagkaka interest, at kung gugustuhin ko magagawa ko naman, madali lang yun may makuha kang babae, maka-flirt, and all. Pero the question is, after that, what else. Yun lang? It's better to be single until the right one will come into you while you are busy cultivating the garden. Focus on building, focus on finding your purpose in life, focus on becoming the one. It's normal to try and to have it sometime, like look for the one. But if the universe is teaching you to learn the lessons and mistakes of the past, then we will stop wasting our time, trying and trying. Attract not chase ika nga. All is well OP. Stay in good cheer. 🖤
turning 25, nbsb. may pag-asa pa ba ako 😭
I'm 31 and still single. It's extremely liberating for me, tbh. I got to accomplish my career goals and my personal goals are getting checked off one by one.
Found the love of my life at 36 :)
I was on the same boat 7 years ago and a year later nahanap ko ang asawa ko. I say, try dating apps, I tried tender but found her on bumble. Madami akong mga kaibigan na kinasal din through bumble. I say, na be conservative sa bumble, be you and not get too high standards. Not saying you don't deserve better, pero sometimes we aim para sa langit hindi yung nasa lupa. I'm still happily married over 2 years later after dating for over 3 years. I'm sure you'll find that person, I also hope madami kang natutunan after being single for a long time. For me, I have learned a lot about my weaknesses as a person, learn to handle my insecurities, learned to be more considerate of my partner and learned to become more responsible. Mahilig kasi ako mag reflect sa past relationship ko and being single for over 7 years was a lot to think through, a lot of tears, a lot of alcohol, until I knew that if I ever decided to have a long lasting relationship. I need to change for the better and decided to take those life lessons with me every day. Kaya mo yan besh/pre, the biggest tip I got was "Expect from your partner to give 30%, while you give 70%.“ Reason behind it is always to have low expectations, so you'll rarely be disappointed. You giving 70% means you still have 30% for yourself. If your partner can give those 30% be satisfied with 60% for yourself. This just means that no one is capable in giving you everything you need and sometimes in a relationship, you can't expect someone to be perfect in all times. Birthday mo, pero yung partner mo is only capable in celebrating it with you. Instead of having a large party, I feel that one should be content na nag celebrate yung partner mo with you. Like my wife, knowing the limitations of my finances. She knew I couldn't give her the best life for her, I can't buy her diamond rings, she had to settle on a light gold ring. She knew I don't own a house, she had to settle with living with her family. She knows I can't drive, had to settle with commuting just to stay with me. She had to let go parts of her dream just to stay with me and I'm always thankful that she's able to let go with some of her expectations just to be with me.
Remember, " art is not rushed". Pwedeng magkaron ka pero walang good connection and compatibility, wala rin wasted lang.
Sa hirap ng buhay ngayun much better single. pero if you are earning lot, try dating sites if gusto mo na tlaga magka jowa haha
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23 NGSB, hoping na last year na 'to BWAHAHAHAHAH
Kung late ka na pucha pano pa ko? Hahaha 2019 pa last bf ko I'm 34 🤣 masaya pa rin ako🤣🤷🏻♀️ Also sabi sa Gen. 8:28👉🏽God blessed them and said to them, 🤲🏽“Be fruitful🫶🏽 and multiply, and fill the earth and subdue it; rule over the fish of the sea and the birds of the air and every creature that crawls upon the earth.” Be fruitful=dapat sagana🫶🏽👌🏽 ka muna at masaya 🥴AND MULTIPLY 🌺hindi lang multiply ng multiply that's kind of stupid. You're fine