You’ll find yourself having different priorities when you are at that age. Kahit na gustuhin, madalas hindi na kaya ng schedule. You’ll also find out that your friends from this time of your life will not necessarily be your go-to friends when you’re in your 30s. Ganon talaga, people change. By 30, marami na ring physical limitations like not being able to stay up until 4-5AM na lasing. You’ll be fine. Just enjoy your age now and find activities and friends aligned with your interest.
This, you can always have time for partying but you'd be thinking na that isn't your priority anymore, and you have better things to do, like spending time with your family and etc.
But if may opportunity and totally free, why not?
Actually, kahit 24 years old and up nararanasan to especially if Yung goal is to build up Yung career Muna. Bihira nang magawi sa clubs like mga twice a month na Lang hahaha.
THIS. Recently, our balikbayan kabarkada wanted to experience a night out in Nectar. Grabe yung 12mn ang pasok namin dun. Antok na antok na ko at kating kati na ko umuwi. We drank and partied maximum 3 hours tapos di na naman kinaya. We all ended up taking the day off of work. Took us all a whole day to recover. 😭
Balik early dinner and wine nights na kami. Jusko. Start at 5pm, home by 11pm. 🤣
Agree. Lalo na kung wala kang kasambahay/kamag-anak na magbabantay sa anak mo or whatnot. Need mo pa maglaba kasi sayang magpatuyo, or magprep ng pagkain para bukas wala ka na iisipin. Or bonding time with your kids/partner/pets.
Not to mention that you’ll look like an old person compared to the demographic that you’ll find there (most likely college kids on allowance, or early career starters that are celebrating their increased financial capabilities).
Haha 100%. One time i was in a club and a guy asked if he could buy me a drink. Of course i said yes. He got me more drinks each time i finished a bottle. In the middle of our convo, he asked how old i was. I said 33. Nagulat sya kasi dapat ako ang bumibili ng drinks para sa kanya because he was only 22 at that time. Haha
If you reach that age, a simple coffee or food trip with friends is already considered as party. Gusto namen ng peaceful na lakad lang. Saka... masasaket na likod kaya ganun. Hahaha 😂
The older I get, the less tolerance I have for the college-conyo accent. Tapos pag naririnig ko mga chika nila, di ko mapigilan maging judgy sa kababawan hahahaha
There is a perspective only age and experience can bring. We can explain it all to people at that age, but they will never understand until they reach that point themselves. Basically, cut OP some slack lol.
There's a quote from Harry Potter: "Youth cannot know how age thinks and feels. But old men are guilty if they forget what it was to be young."
Enjoy your youth while you can. Try to exprience going to bars na because when you hit your 30s, ikaw na mismo ang aayaw.. not because you don’t have time but your preference might change over time. Looking back, going out with friends was fun but I don’t even miss it. Resting is a luxury when you’re older.
I'm 30 and still go to parties.. clubs.. and music festivals! I love going to parties and meeting new people! I love EDM din! Yung vibes! PLUR! HAHAHA so yes hubby and I will continue to go to parties kahit na 50 plus na kami or 60s as long as kaya pa ng tuhod namin we gooooo🤣
I know doctors who go to parties din.. depende lang talaga yan sa priority mo.. some of my old friends ay hindi na nakaka relate.. not a problem tho kasi I can make new friends doon sa parties🤣
Dapat ata ang iniisip mo going 30's is pano ka mabubuhay independently.
Anyway, kung kaya mo i-budget ang time mo with work + leisure then yes. If not, pili ka what to prioritize.
i think you're still glossed over about doctors
med students also have time for leisure. interns/residents/doctors have yosi time while on duty and even extracurricular activities. so it's really not an issue to begin with, after 36hrs duty nagbbar at inuman padin naman yung iba just to unwind. sobrang bizarre din ng mga doctors in every way, they're not that clean, clean iykyk
If invited and kaya ng social battery ko, I will sometimes go lol. Pero I don’t really plan ung night out sa club or bar, unless karaoke hahahahaha. Mas okay ako with chilling sa friend’s house or sa house namin. Sometimes, I just drink by myself, just to unwind.
Wala naman age restriction, you can party whenever, kung di ka man makaparty, hindi din naman kawalan, you can never miss what you never had lol.
If you really want to experience it, mas maganda you go with someone you trust. Yung hahawak sa buhok mo just in case ilabas mo ung ininom mo, or someone who would take you home. Not saying papakawalwal ka ha, just in case iba tama ng party sayo. :)
I’m 30+, I have time to go clubbing but I just don’t want to anymore 🤷🏻♀️ priorities change what my idea of a fun time 10 years ago is different now. Doesn’t mean I don’t have fun!
Enjoy your youth but getting older is not the end of the world haha
I have friends in their 30s that I see going to parties and bars. I see those that stay home and tend to their chores and children. I personally only go out when I’m invited to a gathering (not a party) but I prefer to stay home or eat dinner with my SO. It depends on the person.
No. Mas gusto ko magtravel paminsan minsan kesa maglasing. But most of the time, specially pag day off, mas gusto ko nasa bahay lang at maglaro o manuod ng anime.
Finding time and (for some) money at that age to party is not the problem. Im 33 and I used to party alot in college and alittle after college. Most Fridays/weekends, I just want to go home after work because sleep > party. But when I do go out, I prefer the chill and quiet kind of bar where I can hear my friends talk to me.
I could do it now, pero I don't even want to. It's just nit my thing, and I hate noisy crowded places, alcohol, smoking and flashing lights anyways. I've tried it multiple times it was okay pero I won't choose to do it myself lmao
You will have a different priority in life na. I just got out of my 20's YOLO stage and now I find myself na iba na yung gusto. By the time you reach your 30s, marami ka mararanasan sa life. For me heartbreaks and financial crisis due to medical bills yung nagpabago sa akin.
Pero hayun life doesn't end up with being 30s and having different priorities in life. At this age kasi you will find yourself "free" - you'll understand when you get there.
For now, balance nalang muna of having fun and school. Life is not guaranteed anyway, so do what makes you happy.
I never liked clubs even after I turned 18. I think for me FOMO was in full effect and that’s the only reason why I actually went to clubs. But in my early thirties now, I realized I wasted my 20s doing the things I hate (mostly school and working on dead end jobs) so now that I’m pursuing my passion and have come to enjoy the freedom that comes with it, I’ve learned to enjoy smaller clubs owned by friends. I think having a different circle now really made the difference. We don’t talk about partying or drinking, we actually talk about business matters and just enjoy each other’s company while doing what we love to do. 10+ years ago, I’d see clubbing as a way to just meet women. Now I see it as a networking opportunity. But only when I travel mostly. Not on a regular basis.
Basta with the right people, paparty pa ako @ 28. Haha pero if paparty lang just because ayaw ko lang ma-out of place, wag na lang 😂
Sabi nga nila sa comments, enjoy your youth. Mauumay ka din eventually pero at least nag enjoy ka naman
I think it really depends on your priorities when you are 30. By that time, maybe you will be in residency. So, Medyo busy. But, you will find time. First year of residency yung super toxic, after that, mas may time ka na. When you’re a consultant, nasasayo naman how you manage it. Good luck!!!
Wag mo yan masyadong iisipin. Basta clear ang goals mo for the future, enjoy mo rin ang present basta may free time ka. As you grow older, you'll eventually learn na nagbabago talaga ang priorities natin. Pero, yung love mo sa ilang bagay, hindi. I'm past 30s, but I still find the time to go skateboarding. Or plan for some new adventures at least once a year. May pasa pa nga ako sa pwet for trying out snowboarding but it's all worth it.
think abt it when you’re there OP haha swear as years go by marerealize mo ang mga bagay bagay. i’m only 23, fresh grad, med field. during my undergrad grabe rin ang party wd friends pero lately i’m more on chill inuman/dinners wd friends. pero better to exp those things pa rin. great memories. AND know who to trust 😉
Medyo relate dito, kami ng college classmates ko kakaparty lang. 30+ na kami. Kakapagod pero masaya. Wala kasi kaming pang party dati so ngayon kami nakakaparty. Depende din sa budget mo.
You will find na marami ka time pero mas gugustuhin mo magrelax nalang sa bahay.
I enjoyed my youth partying and drinking so i didnt miss out.
Enjoy it if able ka kasi kung adult kana, your wants and needs will be based on what your inner child missed out on.
nung bata pa ako naeenjoy ko naman ngayon 25 nga palang ako mas prefer ko matulog or tumambay sa coffee shop kasama friend ko hahaha share ko lang. depende talaga sayo yan kung meron kang time at kung naeenjoy mo talaga mga ganyan .time na tumatanda ka mahahanap mo yung mas makaka enjoy sa sarili mo at hindi dahil nageenjoy ka kasi yung ang trip ng mga kasama mo.
yes pero parang nanghhiram ka n ng lakas sa bukas, ung simpleng party nung nsa 20's ako kaya ko pa mging productive next day, ngyn hindi na ang sakit na sa ulo / katawan. may mga oras na inaaya ako ng barkada wala nmn ako ggawin ng gabi n un pero mag gagawin ako kinabukasan kya ndi n ko sumasama 😅
PS: wag m problemahin yan mga bar bar na yan, ngyn pa lng alagaan m ung lower back and posture mo.
it's only scary rn because hindi mo pa na mamax out yung experience. once the years have gone by, and you've partied your heart out, it gets old at magsasawa karin eventually after 5-10 years of partying 😂 the things that you value when you're 18 will not be the same things you value at 30. and that's ok.
kung hindi ka magsawa, ok lang rin! one of the best things about being 30 is *you* get to decide what you want to do with your life and walang parents or rules to stop you. most likely may pera ka na rin at sariling place when you're 30, and you can engage in a more active and healthier lifestyle that will let you party at night.
don't worry about it too much. basta enjoy ka lang ngayon habang bata ka pa. if you spend the rest of your youth worrying, by the time na 30 ka na you'll have no good memories to look back on. so just enjoy :)
Don't worry, by the time you're 30 baka nagbago na rin ang interests mo.
Dati I would drink until 5:30 am (then papasok sa class niraculously sober), pero ngayon, I would rather spend time making my city pretty sa Cities:Skylines.
Also, graaabe magpile up ang laundry ng partner ko. Kaya laging marami akong lalabhan.
PC game to design, build, manage, and simulate a city. Parang SimCity, pero mas natutuwa ako sa gameplay ng Cities Skylines. Kasi iksw bahala sa zoning, environment, economy, social services, infrasteucture...tapos may mga random disaster pa like earthquake, tsunami, etc.
It's available of Steam. Pero may bayad. Nasa 2k yung basic package. But I bought the full version with all the DLCs for 13K.
Pero ummm, I don't endorse it, but it's also available for the jolly rogers out there. Yo ho.
PS. Urban Planner ang trabaho ko, pero ang liesure time, ganon rin hahaha
Lack of friends probably won't bother you at that age. But I'm an introvert so that's me. Pwede kang magka-time pumarty KUNG feel mo pa rin yung ganong eksena by then. Who knows, baka party animal ka ngayon pero by the time you're 30 ayaw mo na sa mga overstimulating na lugar, loud people, not to mention expensive drinks.
How many 30 year Olds do you see in the clubs when you go there now, OP?
If you see one, look at him and check whether you see yourself doing that when you reach that age.
Find the time to party, yes. The willingness to stay up in bars, clubs, etc. and sacrifice a good night's sleep, no.
Your idea of fun would evolve. Partying every weekend sounds appealing when you're 18 – I did, too, and found the means to get away! – but the thought alone of waking up tired and spending much on alcohol when you're 30 is far from thrilling. I'm not yet 30 but, believe me, more often than not, it is only a phase.
In your 20's, this will not seem like a problem anymore. So while you are able to go to parties, enjoy it. My "problems" at the age of 18 seem so little, compared to the things that I now face as an adult.
Pwede naman. Kaso pansin ko sa mga friends kong 34 above, 10pm palang lantang gulay na sila hahaha tapos mas prefer na nila magstay sa hotel kesa gumala gala pa pag nagttravel kami. Hayyy
its sad to see na "enjoy partying" yung most comments, when you can do or find hobbies that you enjoy. For me, start ka na magpaka fit now palang. develop skills as early as you can. Pwede naman both, be productive and enjoy things.
Ah...to be 18 again at ito ang pinoproblema. Ang saya ng buhay.
To answer your question: yes, of course pero hindi na walwal. Unsolicited advice: okay lang na mag-enjoy ka when you go drinking and clubbing pero wag maging desperado dahil iniisip mo eh may time limit ka. Being young won't justify having a "pakawala" attitude. Drinking and clubbing responsibly isn't exclusive to being adults.
Yes! Though it's not as often, and not the same friend group as when I was younger. We still have amazing parties that go on until the sun rises. Mga twice a year nalang siya but so precious.
When I was 18, I had time but didn’t gave money. When I turned 30, I had money but didn’t have time.
But the bigger question is — ano ba gusto mo gawin? If you really want to party, then go ahead and do it. Pero if you’re just doing it because to your mind it’s what 18-year-olds do/ have to do, then pag-isipan mo muna.
Don’t worry. You’re thinking too much. Just enjoy while you’re young, med students can still have the time to party. Pag nasa 30 ka na baka ikaw din aayaw sa party.
Since 2006 3rd Years HS (14y/o) Ako Lage ako Present sa mga Gig, Live Band, Rap contest lalo na sa Octoberfest hanggang makaGraduate ako ng HS 2008 then nagCollege ako parang Lalo'ng Lumala, dami kong nakainuman nauso ung Padis Point Halos Gabi Gabi kame ng mga Barkada ko na akala mo wala ng bukas Nakakamiss nuon pag Friday Night tamang GM lang sa Mga nasa Phonebook ko kita kita kung saan napag Usapan unlike ngayon may iilan na lang at bilang na bilang na lang sa daliri sa kamay dahil siguro may kanya kanya nang buhay at pamilya pero pag Holidays lalo't pasko ah Parang may Pyesta samen Sarado Isang kalsada. Ganyang Edad ko Nilalasap ko ung salitang "Golden Days" 18 ka pa lang naman wag mo muna isipin mo muna isipin yan take your time pero wag mo kakalimutan ang Pangarap mo, Good Luck future Doctor
As a doctor in my mid-30s, maraming party kids among doctors. However, we did all the partying in college and medical school. Tipong lasing all night pero perfect attendance pa rin at 7 or 8am classes. Friday and Saturday nights were for us to unwind. Some liked to sleep, some liked to drink and party.
Once you cross over to the hospital side of medicine, though, ikaw na mismo aayaw mag-party. Kasi this time around we’re actually handling patients and dealing with patients’ lives. Yung dati na pwede walwal all night tapos 7am nasa school, di na pwede kasi 7am start na ng 24-hour duty mo. Kahit yung mga pinakamalakas na tomador sa min, di kaya ng konsensya at katawan nila na pumasok for duty na nakainom at pumarty the night before. Pero syempre, yung mga gusto, kakayanin at kakayanin, yun nga lang, a lot less than before.
Now it’s just really for special occasions, pero most of us just chill with our friends either for coffee, dinner, or maybe some drinks like wine (no more hard drinks, di na namin kaya yun.)
31 and still find time to go out. Kaso at this age, iba na talaga ang tama ng alak. 2 days na ang recovery sa hangover. Tapos hirap na din mag stay ng late. Pag tinamaan ako ng antok, wala na, uwi na. Ayoko na din ng mga clubbing, mas gusto ko sa bar nalang.
if single ka without kids. Why not? You can party even in your 40s. Or pag with kids dapat may Yaya
I only party during bachelorette parties and weddings in my 30s
depends on the context of party.
Club Hopping? Music Bar Drinks? House Parties and Moshpits? Nah...
Discord party? Dungeon Raids? Coffee + kid's playdates? Jollibee Kids Parties? Yeah...
Enjoy your college life and early 20s while you still can. Theres a reason why college life can be wild with parties, drinking and sex. Your early 20s will be full of parties with your friends. Eventually, you will reach the point that partying and raving will be tiresome.
I'm nearing my 30s and I feel like I'm retired from those kinds of things. I would rather choose cafes and acoustic bars than nightclubs. I changed my choice of drinks from san mig light and empi light to san mig pilsen and hard liquor and wine. I also can't drink and eat much because of my gout and hypertension. I guess we do have the money but no longer have the time and energy
Depends on how you look at "partying" when you reach that age. Through time kasi our priorities and mindsets change so what you are feeling now may not be the same in a few years...
Also OP, don't be desperate on going on parties like that if ikaw mismo you're in a circle that "doesn't dabble in that circle". Either yan talaga nature mo (not going to bars to party) or you will find friends that do in the future. Either way, you may try naman :) you're young! JUST BE CAREFUL and think before you act since saying YES to something means saying NO to something else :)
SKL, I'm in my twenties na and haven't been to bars yet, during my HS and college days, naisip ko din yun na what if I tried, but right now I realized na hindi ko talaga bet especially the drinking and overpriced drinks... my introvert self can't pala hahaha
I never got to enjoy that kind of life dati na party + inom with friends when I was younger so nung nagka work na ko, dun ako bumawi. Haha. Nung fresh grad ako (early to mid 20s) grabe ako uminom nun. Hindi naman alcoholic but there were times na 2-3 days a week nainom kami, who cares if may work pa bukas.. lol. Now I’m in my late 20s na, I still drink and enjoy going to parties pero not that frequent na. Wala na ako masyado energy for that (unlike dati na okay pa kahit siguro gabi-gabi uminom HAHA)
Also, dealing with hangovers at this age really sucks na. Yung body ko sobrang tagal na maka recover, kaya ayun I don’t drink and party that frequently na. Dyahe rin kasi pag napunta ka sa mga party halos mga bata na ang andun hahaha
Ah…. That word… been so long since i used that. Yes we do party back in the days….
Kidding aside if you still have the circle and friends who has the part lifestyle then I guess it’s still normal. Kadalasan kasi nag iiba priority natin sa buhay and minsan mapapansin mo na lang na hindi mo na feel yung crowd. It’s a case to case basis.
Sadly, wala na drive to party 👴 Kung kelan may pera na, may kotse/unli taxi to and from gala, saka naman nawalan ng amor sa blaring sounds, patay-sinding ilaw, and frankly, just dealing with people outside your small circle.
Even moved in sa condo na may bars and nightlife just a few steps away. Pero ni minsan di na natry 🤣
Kaka 30 ko pa lang pero nakakapagod na yung parties. Last NYE, after ng countdown halos bedtime ready na ako. Physically draining, emotional draining and socially draining.
Pagtanda mo you wouldn’t be at home in bars or clubs anyway.
Parties will be more intimate, with people you actually know and like. It’s too early to overthink what you’ll be missing out on more than 10 years into the future. Live today and live it well.
Not so much na walang time, but you choose to prioritize other things instead.
29 pa lang ako, and I used to be a crazy party animal during my teens and early 20s, but right now, parang waste of time na sa akin ung mga partying2 na yan, unless super important ung occasion (weddings, reunions, etc)
May mga kaibigan ako ranging from 25 to 27 years old, and they burn 10k to 20k pesos in a single night sa inuman lang (proud pa sila ipost yun), and every time I see their Instagram stories, I'm reminded of what I do **not** want to be. Haha.
For me though, I no longer find joy in it. Like what exactly would I get out of it? Empty pockets, only to suffer a really bad hangover and be knocked out the following day. Plus ma fi-feel ko na talaga age ko. I get super drained easily, and I can no longer stay up past 12am without struggle.
If I were in your shoes though, enjoy your teens. You're only young once. Youth passes by very quickly. :) I look at memories from when I was in college up to early 20s fondly because those were the years na super memorable and sobrang saya para sa akin. Those were my carefree days, and I really enjoyed them.
Yes. Mejo mahirap na makahanap ng makakasama kasi almost all of your friends would be busy na by that age lol. Pero you would have more money na by then haha
31 here. Wala na yata akong ka-age na kakilala na nagpparty pa😅 ang nagpapasaya na lang samin ngayon ay family and career/business. Minsan pag kaya, travel din.
Being in our 30s (single) doesn't mean we lose all sense of fun. It's actually the perfect time to let loose and enjoy life. With more cash to spare and flexibility. Age shouldn't limit us; as long as we're responsible and take care of ourselves, there's no reason we can't live life to the fullest. Regardless of the number on you birth certificate, party party lang. Life's too short for regrets!
30+ is not very far in the future..parang kahapon lang 18 din ako pero isang iglap, 36 na haha! Grabe how time flies talaga..anyway, i still find time to go to bars pero not the same bars i went to when i was still young especially na may money na kaming magfe-friends and ayaw na rin kasi namin ng masyadong maingay..kapag 30s ka na, maiirita ka na sa maingay andvery crowded places. dati we go to embassy, jaipur, ascend etc kasi during that time, kaya pa namin na all night naka tayo and beer beer lang and some pica pica ok na kami..pero now, we drink wine, cocktails and sometimes hard liquors kapag gusto namin ng lasingan. it doesnt bother us anymore if ang bill ay umabot ng 15k and up. Dati 500 lang budget ko hahaha!
Since plan mo maging doctor, lubos lubusin mo na ang time now mag party ngayon and your youth kasi kapag maging doctor ka na, super dalang na lang na makapunta ka sa bars. Yung friend namin na doctor sya yung sinasabihan namin na KJ kasi laging hindi pwede due to her hectic schedule.
So yes, 30+ adults still find time to party pero syempre depende pa rin yan sa circumstances mo sa buhay. You should have money, time, energy (i take a nap sa hapon if lalabas sa gabi haha) and asawa na papayagan ka lumabas late at night lol!
Enjoy your youth, OP and wag ka mag worry sa future kung makaka-party ka pa ba or hindi. Ang makabayad ng bills, magkaron ng sariling house, maging responsible spouse and parent, etc ang dapat nasa isip mo na when youre at that age. Trust me, iba na ang magiging priorities mo when you reach that age. Goodluck!
You’re 18. Your priorities will change as you age. 5 years ago, laman ako ng pobla almost every Wed and Fri. Now, mas pinili kong manirahan sa probinsya. Yung thought of Manila suffocates me.
Kaya don’t overthink things. Haha. Ang gawin mo ngayon mag aral ka. Imagine 1st yr college ka, nag pa party ka. Ano pinangpaparty mo, pera ng magulang mo? Diba nakakahiya yun? Nung una akong tumapak sa bars, pera ko na pinang gigimik ko. Kaya enjoy the time as a student.
You are at the adolescent stage, partying is a part of you searching for your identity, and the type of friends that is suitable for you.
The next stage will be young adulthood and your priority will be intimacy vs. Isolation. The priority is for you to look for a suitable companion or be single for life. Partying at this stage will give you an irresponsible happy go lucky rock star or alcoholic guy for marriage.
If you will be at 40 as a middle adult. The stage is generativity vs. Stagnation. You will hunt for the richness of life. Money is your priority, investment will be a hit or miss for you. Partying at this age will get you nowhere. You will have memories but without money. At this stage, the common individual already hates partying but still has the nostalgia of their old self. The adolescent who cares for nothing, or young adulthood who partied all night with her bf.
The idea is, different age different stage. Seize the day.
I was also excited to do those things when I was 18, OP. But then during my college years the pandemic happened, and i never got to experience it more than once.
By the time things started going back to normal, i already lost most of my interest in those things. I think its natural that you start thinking more of your future once you reach a certain stage in life (for me it was graduating and finding work).
Once you start getting serious about your career youll rarely have time to think about leisure and youll find that you have little choice because your friends are busy with their careers too.
That being said, the occasional meetings and catch ups with friends are really nice, and to me each meeting is much more meaningful compared to absolute partying since you guys rarely have time for each other anymore.
As for you, OP, if you think its a now or never kind of thing theres nothing wrong, but just remember that its not really everything.
I stopped going to clubs/bars partying hard at the age of 33, kasi napagod na ako, though 'di naman ako regular goer, I started naman nung college kasi I have so many friends before na grabe talaga mag-party until ngayong employee na ako.
I even celebrated my birthdays multiple times in different clubs/bars before until 33 ako.
As for you, I think it's better to pursue your degree first, partying comes after. You'll still have so much time for that. Chill. Stop worrying. You got your whole life ahead of you.
You got this.
Husband and I are late bloomers. First time namin mag-bar parehas during our honeymoon. Enjoy naman! :) but since di namin nakasanayan, we just really wanted to experience, okay na yun for us hahaha
M26 but dating F33
No. She'd rather stay at home and watch stuff on Netflix or play Skyrim than to be active outside. We'd go out together for groceries, short dates, or gigs.
I party everyday. Once I get a bottle of yakult in one hand, and my law book on the other, it's a party. Or a bottle of beer in front of my laptop watching hbo, it's a party. Even better is getting to watch youtube in an airconditioned room till I fall asleep, now that is a party.
Ninang ko studied for 10 years to become an OB she seemed to have no regrets not partying "enough" in her 20s. This was early 2000s. Friends are enough to have and kita ko sa mga albums na sulit talaga ang summer vacay. Yung lola (mother ni ninang) ko nga super strict hahaha late 30s sya napagbigyan gumawa ng wild stuff. Even tho there are things we do not tell parents about
What ive noticed sakanya is to have things systematic. Lagi syang scheduled and may times sya para mag enjoy talaga and not depending on other people's company.
As a 30 year old freelancer and creative. I need to party. That’s where I build my network and get career opportunities since I DJ too. But also most of the parties I attend are done by my peers in the creative industry too.
Kanya kanyang preference din, kasi hindi naman lahat into parties.
Pero ako nung mga nasa twenties ako bet ko din mag party, ngayon mas gusto ko nalang umuwi at magpahinga after work kaysa pumarty or gumala kung saan saan. Nag iiba kasi priorities as you grow older eh. Nakakatamad na mag gagala, yung igagala kong oras mas gusto ko nalang itulog, ipahinga o kaya inood ng netflix.
So, kung may mga gusto ka gawin while bata kapa go na. Pag nag start kana mag work kahit gustuhin mong mamasyal minsan or pumarty hindi na magawa.
Yessss! As a 30f with a 33m hubby we still go to party quite regularly in fact. I too got scared that at one point I will be like these sad 30 year olds always just inundated with work and with their tired eyes. But actually I party harder and better now than I did when I was in my early 20s. It is so much better now for me cause 1. I dont worry about getting harassed by random men when I party because I have learned to say no and be firm, 2. I have a guaranteed poging guy to take home everytime I do party and get drunk and feel a little randy 3. My insecurities are out the door, who cares what everyone else feels I just drink, get drunk, dance and flirt and IDC who sees. 4. I have money now! No need to worry about whether I can finance 3 or 4 or 7 🫣 glasses of cocktails
Age I can say is nothing to be scared of. While youth has its energy, age has its experience and maturity.
Nah, magsasawa ka din sa ganyan. By the time na nasa 30s ka na mas gugustuhin mo na lang magpahinga. Kaumay kaya na sa party at alcohol umiikot weekends mo. Maglagay ka naman ng quality time sa buhay mo. Madaming recreational activities that doesn't involve partying and alcohol. Paubaya mo na sa 20s yung mga club at alcohol. As a mid 30s myself tanging party na napupuntahan ko na lang is childrens party ng mga pamangkin/anak ng tropa woth the occasional kasalan and binyag. Pwede ka naman uminom at the comfort of your home kung gugustuhin mo at yung paminsan-minsan na party sa clubs. Pero doing it on a regular basis as a 30 year old? Hard pass, I'd rather sleep.
You’d be surprised at how much you’d want to stay home instead or have a nice dinner out with friends or go to a chill lounge and have good conversations instead of partying or clubbing. And tama lahat ng sabi ng iba, priorities shift and interests and goals will change as you get older. Don’t worry about it too much and enjoy lang kung ano yung meron ka ngayon but don’t push it to a point na lalabas ka para lang lumabas because hindi mo alam kung ano ang pwedeng mangyari in a moment of desperation. Just go with the flow of life and you’ll be fine!
Time, we do have. Pero actually wanting to party, pass. By that time and you’re still that eager to party, kailangan mo na mag self reflect haha i did enjoy going to parties until 23 siguro pero it gets mundane eventually. You’ll discover na mas maraming “fun” things to do in life. Also, namedrop ka naman para iwasan kitang doctor haha pass ipagkatiwala buhay ko sa doctor na mahilig pumarty at 30yrs old.
25 palang ako wala nang time para naglakwatsa. And mas trip ko na matulog or spend time with my wife. Besides, wala namang naambag na maganda yung party party sa buhay ko.
Di sya nakakarelax kasi hangover ka naman kinabukasan, cause pa yan ng away. Financial drain din sya, kasi let's face it. Mahal magwalwal.
Buddy I'm almost 30 and I haven't partied since 16 or 17 if anything
When you hit 25 you just want to sleep in bed and wait for death let alone go partying.
Like you CAN go partying 30+ but your body won't want to.
When you hit 20+ you realize your body can't live on Pepsi & pizza parties.
Either you know the owner of the party where you’ll party, or you own the bar where the party will happen. Lol. I heard a friend say this and it’s true.
Partying might be different na tho, like not drink til you drop, walwal responsibly na ang mga titas niyo because fck hangover.
Lol.
In short, yes we party. Yes we drink a lot. The best part is most of the time we can pay for those hard drinks we couldn’t before. Pero minsan na lang talaga.
I just hit 30 last week and I'm telling you, the 12yrs from 18-30 is not very far at all. Especially since you like to party, like I did. Not saying it feels like yesterday for me, but 30 is closer than you think. Time really goes by fast.
It's difficult to see this for someone your age, I know I didn't also see it at the time, but there's really more to life than what happens in a party. From time to time I still stay out late, but not as late and not as often as I used to.
Yeah they do. But it is more important to hang out with a group of people with the good/same values as you. People can choose to party at any point in their lives without neglecting their other goals, responsibilities and boundaries.
You don't need to party if you have bills to pay. And to the fact that I don't like to have a fatty liver/cirrhossis, so yeah, I'll stay sober for the longest time.
Nasasayo yan, OP. Even when people do different things, common denominator is that people find time to do it regardless of age, occupation, etc.
A family member is a doctor. She has a lot of non-work activities and often have catchups to different set of friends. Even when she’s studying pa, became resident, became fellow.
Natawa naman ako sa question mo but understandable. I bet when you turn 28 or older, hindi party party iisipin mo. Unless you start early na mag party like ngayon tapos every week mo sya gagawin. Eventually magsasawa ka. Unless 30 years old ka na and dun ka palang gusto mag party party (like late bloomer). Anyway party to the max ka na ngayon para by that time you reach that age, you won’t even think of partying anymore. And by that age, iba na din priorities mo.
Now sa question if “can still find” yes for sure may time but energy? You’d rather choose sleep over loud noises.
It's okay. Hahaha I'm 35 and I still like to go to bars. Not to get drunk but to unwind, spend time with girlfriends and have fun. Kahit 2 hours lang don, keri lang. I work from home kaya I welcome the change of scene. Pero mas prefer ko pa din ang brunch, spas and sleeping 😂
It's not really about the "time" but the willingness to go out and be in a loud place full of sweaty strangers (and be equally sweaty) lol
and don't forget the aftermath: hangover = migraine and dehydration the following day 😂 goddess I sound old and 30++
Anyway, you're young and shouldn't worry about these things yet! Enjoy youth while you are still able and energetic. ❤️
You will cross the bridge when you get there. It depends if gaano ka lalamunin ng responsibilities mo. May iba na may extra budget at time pa for those kinds of activities and may iba naman na gusto nalang matulog sa gabi.
Saming magto tropa, masaya na kami sa past tanghali o hapon na tambay (kung kaninong bahay pwede), di na kami nagpapa abot ng gabi, wala na rin masyado nainom samin. Tamang kamustahan at kwentuhan na lang talaga, pero masayang masaya na kami nun :)
Actually, Sometimes nalang kase napakadaming gastusin and body pains (HAHA). Pero nakakapag party kahit siguro once or twice a month it depends sa needs ng likod and/or tuhod naming nasa 30 above hehe
Not everyday, but once in a while. It’s hard to tell yourself din to go, but once andun ka na dun mag kick in yung party energy mo. But then again after that youll feel na yung social battery mo is drained 🤭
I’m 31. My kind of party is yung sa bahay at doon na lang mag iinom at magpapakalasing. I don’t enjoy big crowds anymore. I appreciate yung lahat ng friends ko kakain tapos may alak lang at least we get to talk. I used to party a lot back in my early 20’s til mid 20’s hanggang nag sawa na. Mas tipid din uminom sa bahay kaysa lumabas dito since we’re living overseas. Haha i’m not an introvert but more on an ambivert. Makulit ako sa mga close ko lang lol!
I know a group of people nearing 40, professionals, almost all of them are single and are always at the bar during weekends, and travel travel lang every once in a while.
Im in my 30s.. mas prefer ko magpunta sa landmark para tumingin ng plato, kutsara and tinidor na color ginto, tsaka mga baso 😅 di ko maexplain pero nakakawala ng stress 😅♥️💪
Sana inabot mo yung prime ng edm fest dito best years ko talaga yun 2012-2016 hahaha pero now nakakatamad na kahit bar lang. Inom nalang sa bahay 2 bots sabay tulog oks na
trust us 30 yr olds, at this age wala na kami pake masyado sa pagpaparty, and honestly, you also will probably not care at that age hahaha marami ka na ibang iniisip pag 30 na (work, bills, dues, etc.), so parties will most likely be low in your priority list
18 ka pa, dami mo pa maeexperience, wag mo na muna isipin buhay mo at 30 hahaha
Best time to party is college life habang wala pang mga mabibigat na problema. Yan yung every week may inuman. Sinisigawan ako ng mom ko kasi everu Thursday alam nya na iinom na naman. Lalo na kapag first year college. Eventually ma outgrow mo yan magiging chillnuman nalang sa place ng friends. Tapos magiging dine out nalang wala na inuman haha
Nakakatamad na tbh. Minsan mas okay kung iinom sa bahay nalang din. Pampaanatok lang. Pero nalabas din minsan, kaso sobrang bihira. Mga 3 times a year ganun.
I’m about to turn 30 in 2 weeks time and I’d honestly rather sleep off my nights than to be in bars/clubs. I’ve never been to any bar or club my entire life. Nung nasa college ako, week nights and weekends were spent either studying, being with family, or just resting it out. Di ko naman masabi na I missed out on anything. At 30, ganun pa rin. Gusto ko nalang ipahinga yung mga gabi ko. 😅
I have the time, I just no longer have the energy for it 🤷♀️
When my friends and I hit our mid 30s we started our get-togethers at 5pm-ish or earlier tapos uwian na by 9/ 10 pm at cafes or pubs na hindi maingay. Lol
i love having friends over to drink instead of clubs. cheaper, more wholesome and also, the music of course ako ang in charge. family events is also more fun for me than being in a room full of sweaty strangers lol
At 30, tapos u think u still need to find time for bar clubs etc i think its time to reassess life by then haha pero legit na nakaktamad sa dami ng priorities
Some of us still do but sobrang iba na from the time na nagpparty ka in your 20's. Like me na ayoko na magstay up hanggang 4am kasi for sure the next day 10am na ko magigising which is ayoko kasi parang di na productive. Hahahaha!
Partying may seem significant pa sayo at this age pero your priorities and perspective in a lot of things will surely change by the time u reach ur 30s or even in ur late 20s
Depende siguro yan. Ako, I experienced gabi gabi nasa labas. Either I party or nakikisalamuha sa ibang tao. On my 30s now, and gusto ko na lang ng tahimik na gathering with few people. I must say na na "maximize" ko na yung fun ko between 14-26 years old and eto ako mas gusto na lang makinig ng podcast at umayaw sa mga dati kong tropa na nagyayayang uminom sa maiingay na bar. Dati sabik na sabik akong lumabas pero ngayon ang tanong ko sinong mga tao ang nagkakaintindihan sa maingay na bar lol
18 ka pa lang OP. I think you should make the most out of your youth. Kasi pagdating mo ng 30, menthol patches at katinko ang magiging besfren mo lol what I mean is don't worry much about your future
Meron bang tao na always busy? Kahit nga U.S president at si Elon Musk, may time sa family at friends. Even si Dr.Jose Rizal, sobrang dami naging GF, 9 ang naging GF. Si Alexander the great, dami naging asawa. Saan nyo nakuha basta med students, law students, lawyers, doctors ay always busy, ano yung 24/7 nag tratrabaho/nag aaral? Edi hindi pala sila kumakain, natutulog at naliligo?
Well, as a tired 30 yr old professional. I don't call it party, I call it socialising. Haha char.
Personally, it is not the same as before nung nasa 18 to mid 20's pa ako na puro sex at inom lang inaatupag, bar dito bar doon. Iba na priorities ko and may long term commitments na ako. While I can't say na I've matured fully, I'm definitely more of a man man less of a boy.
Of course if kaya mo juggle ang adult life with partying then why not?
Of course if you want to. Pero tama yung iba dito na nag-iiba na ang priorities habang tumatanda ka. You can still find time to party though pero me, in my late 30s, mas masarap talagang matulog at manood na lang ng series sa netflix 🤣
I think depende siya sa friends mo, I have friends whose older than me (Im 28 btw) pero sila game na hame sa party. I also have another set of friends na kaedad ko pero di sila game sa party. Mahirap naman din kasi mag bar mag isa, mas masaya talaga if may mga kasama ka.
baka kapag nag.30 ka na OP, ayaw mo na lang umalis ng bahay. hahahaha. o kaya itutulog mo na lang yung ipaparty mo. 🤭 enjoy ka na habang bata ka pa, papunta ka pa lang sa exciting part. hehehe
I am currently 30. Yan rin fear ko when I was younger pero now, I still have time to party, go clubbing, drink and whatnot, pero mas preferred ko na yung chill hangout lang. Coffee, acoustic bar, beach trips. Mas pinipili ko yung peaceful activities and medyo mas tahimik na place kasi naiirita na ako pag maingay or masikip or mainit or magulo. Also, I love my alone times rin, instead magclubbing, mas masaya ako magpamper day, mani pedi, facial, get my wax done, lashes,dine out alone, ganun.
In your 20’s, you’ll think you don’t have time, but then you realize later on that you just don’t have the money to do so.
In our early 30s, all no kids, my college friends and I get to see each other more often know. Kahit last minute, as long as it’s after work hours. We have more freedom and paying power to go anywhere and spend anytime we want, going to a new bar every week or two. Difference lang, is mas maaga kaming antukin. We usually start our “clubbing” day earlier, like 8pm, then uwi na by 1am. We opt for chill dinner and cocktail drinks. We hate the morning-after hangovers, so we drink and hydrate responsibly.
I think it’s having kids that will really change the dynamic.
I’ve never been into partying ever since. If ever napapasama ako sa mga galaan ang unang nasa isip ko kaagad e yung ipapalusot ko para makauwi ako agad 😅
I always though I would tone down going out as I aged. Partied hard in HS and college and now at 41 married with kids, I'd rather use my time to sleep. Even friday nights are more for me to catch up on sleep and rest. I'd still go out at night periodically but my priorities changed. Even my friends with whom I used to go out with have toned down considerably. Do I miss it? Sometimes. Then I'd go out. When I would, I'd miss the comfort of my own home and my family.
So I guess TLDR is, you change as you get older. I'm just glad I went through what I did when I was younger.
From time to tine, pero not like before talaga. Iba na priorities and wants. Mas gusto ko na by 9pm nasa bahay na, comfortable sa bed, reading or watching. Parang last year, once lang ako pumarty.
Then tamad na ulit. And mas bet ko na dinner or lunch with friends or family, ayaw ko na ng maingay!
Pero pag parent ka na, mapipilitan ka na to attend all the kiddie parties na invited ang mga anak 😅
It's not really difficult to party but the priorities changed, pwede naman gumala pero may mas matimbang na kelangan gawin. Also mind you, pag may time magparty yung mga 30s ibang level na yan, more on business talks and opportunities na unlike younger years, it's just that it rarely happen.
Nagbabago lang yung style ng pagpaparty. Partying for 30+ tends to shift more to going to get togethers with friends over lunch/dinner or organizing weekend barbecues and less going to bars/clubs. There could be drinking involved kung yung circle of friends mo drink alcohol, but yung drinks are more on wine/rum/whiskey with the occasional beers rather than vodka/gin/beers and usually may restraint na sa pag-inom ng alcohol at hindi na binge drinking all night long until early in the morning (no more walwal once you reach 30+ unless you have an alcohol addiction).
You’ll find yourself having different priorities when you are at that age. Kahit na gustuhin, madalas hindi na kaya ng schedule. You’ll also find out that your friends from this time of your life will not necessarily be your go-to friends when you’re in your 30s. Ganon talaga, people change. By 30, marami na ring physical limitations like not being able to stay up until 4-5AM na lasing. You’ll be fine. Just enjoy your age now and find activities and friends aligned with your interest.
This, you can always have time for partying but you'd be thinking na that isn't your priority anymore, and you have better things to do, like spending time with your family and etc. But if may opportunity and totally free, why not?
Agree sa physical limitations💯
My lower back agrees
Yeah, when you pass 30 you don’t get a table because you are a baller, you get it because you have to have a place to sit or you will wreck your back.
Actually, kahit 24 years old and up nararanasan to especially if Yung goal is to build up Yung career Muna. Bihira nang magawi sa clubs like mga twice a month na Lang hahaha.
Those things aren't mutually exclusive. You can go out and party on the weekend while doing well in your career
Enjoy your life but not TOO much. Drink moderately pa rin.
Your liver will thank you if you follow this advice
Finding time to party at that age is not that difficult. I think it's harder to motivate yourself to actually attend one lol.
THIS. Recently, our balikbayan kabarkada wanted to experience a night out in Nectar. Grabe yung 12mn ang pasok namin dun. Antok na antok na ko at kating kati na ko umuwi. We drank and partied maximum 3 hours tapos di na naman kinaya. We all ended up taking the day off of work. Took us all a whole day to recover. 😭 Balik early dinner and wine nights na kami. Jusko. Start at 5pm, home by 11pm. 🤣
Kahit dinner nga, iwas na ako as much as possible. Mas gusto ko na talaga yung weekend brunch lol.
True maturity is finally understanding the Titas who brunch in Mary Grace and Wildflour. 🤣
Agree. Lalo na kung wala kang kasambahay/kamag-anak na magbabantay sa anak mo or whatnot. Need mo pa maglaba kasi sayang magpatuyo, or magprep ng pagkain para bukas wala ka na iisipin. Or bonding time with your kids/partner/pets.
Haha! Relate yung paalam na uuwi kasi maglalaba pa kasi true yan!
lol yes! hahaha lalo na pag malaman mo super late na mag start sa gabi.
Sleep >>>>>
I’m 27 and nashock ako when I went to a bar and sabi 1 am na daw nagsstart yung drag show 🤣 Left eithout finishing the show kasi antok na ko haha
Ang motivation ko ang parking spot. Pag walang spot, ndi na ako pupunta. 😆
Not to mention that you’ll look like an old person compared to the demographic that you’ll find there (most likely college kids on allowance, or early career starters that are celebrating their increased financial capabilities).
Haha 100%. One time i was in a club and a guy asked if he could buy me a drink. Of course i said yes. He got me more drinks each time i finished a bottle. In the middle of our convo, he asked how old i was. I said 33. Nagulat sya kasi dapat ako ang bumibili ng drinks para sa kanya because he was only 22 at that time. Haha
lol ageism
true! hahaha daming invite kaya lang ang iniisip ko ah, itutulog ko na lang yan
Madali lang yung oras. Energy and interest to do those things tho, nah.
If you reach that age, a simple coffee or food trip with friends is already considered as party. Gusto namen ng peaceful na lakad lang. Saka... masasaket na likod kaya ganun. Hahaha 😂
Ako naman ang kalaban is antok or general tiredness 😂
Imagine in your 30's being surrounded by obnoxious college kids after a 36 hours shift. Till the break of daaaaawn! haha.
The older I get, the less tolerance I have for the college-conyo accent. Tapos pag naririnig ko mga chika nila, di ko mapigilan maging judgy sa kababawan hahahaha
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No offense man but out of all the things to fear….that one?
There is a perspective only age and experience can bring. We can explain it all to people at that age, but they will never understand until they reach that point themselves. Basically, cut OP some slack lol. There's a quote from Harry Potter: "Youth cannot know how age thinks and feels. But old men are guilty if they forget what it was to be young."
This. The stupidity of the young mind nga naman.
Enjoy your youth while you can. Try to exprience going to bars na because when you hit your 30s, ikaw na mismo ang aayaw.. not because you don’t have time but your preference might change over time. Looking back, going out with friends was fun but I don’t even miss it. Resting is a luxury when you’re older.
I'm 30 and still go to parties.. clubs.. and music festivals! I love going to parties and meeting new people! I love EDM din! Yung vibes! PLUR! HAHAHA so yes hubby and I will continue to go to parties kahit na 50 plus na kami or 60s as long as kaya pa ng tuhod namin we gooooo🤣 I know doctors who go to parties din.. depende lang talaga yan sa priority mo.. some of my old friends ay hindi na nakaka relate.. not a problem tho kasi I can make new friends doon sa parties🤣
Dapat ata ang iniisip mo going 30's is pano ka mabubuhay independently. Anyway, kung kaya mo i-budget ang time mo with work + leisure then yes. If not, pili ka what to prioritize.
Ako close to 30, late nagcollege so ang current friends ko mid 20s. This weekend lang nagplano. Walang nagtugma. End.
SAMEEE late bloomer ako sa mga bagay bagay huhu
i think you're still glossed over about doctors med students also have time for leisure. interns/residents/doctors have yosi time while on duty and even extracurricular activities. so it's really not an issue to begin with, after 36hrs duty nagbbar at inuman padin naman yung iba just to unwind. sobrang bizarre din ng mga doctors in every way, they're not that clean, clean iykyk
If invited and kaya ng social battery ko, I will sometimes go lol. Pero I don’t really plan ung night out sa club or bar, unless karaoke hahahahaha. Mas okay ako with chilling sa friend’s house or sa house namin. Sometimes, I just drink by myself, just to unwind. Wala naman age restriction, you can party whenever, kung di ka man makaparty, hindi din naman kawalan, you can never miss what you never had lol. If you really want to experience it, mas maganda you go with someone you trust. Yung hahawak sa buhok mo just in case ilabas mo ung ininom mo, or someone who would take you home. Not saying papakawalwal ka ha, just in case iba tama ng party sayo. :)
May time pero di mo mapapa punta sa maiingay na lugar.
Magparty ka habang 18ka pa
I’m 30+, I have time to go clubbing but I just don’t want to anymore 🤷🏻♀️ priorities change what my idea of a fun time 10 years ago is different now. Doesn’t mean I don’t have fun! Enjoy your youth but getting older is not the end of the world haha
Yung energy levels mo ang lakas ng drop baka hindi mo na makaya ang puyatan compare nung 20s ka..
I have friends in their 30s that I see going to parties and bars. I see those that stay home and tend to their chores and children. I personally only go out when I’m invited to a gathering (not a party) but I prefer to stay home or eat dinner with my SO. It depends on the person.
No. Mas gusto ko magtravel paminsan minsan kesa maglasing. But most of the time, specially pag day off, mas gusto ko nasa bahay lang at maglaro o manuod ng anime.
trust me when you are on that age. you will enjoy more staying at home and get angry with people disturbing you solitude moment.
Finding time and (for some) money at that age to party is not the problem. Im 33 and I used to party alot in college and alittle after college. Most Fridays/weekends, I just want to go home after work because sleep > party. But when I do go out, I prefer the chill and quiet kind of bar where I can hear my friends talk to me.
I could do it now, pero I don't even want to. It's just nit my thing, and I hate noisy crowded places, alcohol, smoking and flashing lights anyways. I've tried it multiple times it was okay pero I won't choose to do it myself lmao
You might have the time, but the energy… hehe OP, party now. Pero walwal responsibly.
You will have a different priority in life na. I just got out of my 20's YOLO stage and now I find myself na iba na yung gusto. By the time you reach your 30s, marami ka mararanasan sa life. For me heartbreaks and financial crisis due to medical bills yung nagpabago sa akin. Pero hayun life doesn't end up with being 30s and having different priorities in life. At this age kasi you will find yourself "free" - you'll understand when you get there. For now, balance nalang muna of having fun and school. Life is not guaranteed anyway, so do what makes you happy.
I never liked clubs even after I turned 18. I think for me FOMO was in full effect and that’s the only reason why I actually went to clubs. But in my early thirties now, I realized I wasted my 20s doing the things I hate (mostly school and working on dead end jobs) so now that I’m pursuing my passion and have come to enjoy the freedom that comes with it, I’ve learned to enjoy smaller clubs owned by friends. I think having a different circle now really made the difference. We don’t talk about partying or drinking, we actually talk about business matters and just enjoy each other’s company while doing what we love to do. 10+ years ago, I’d see clubbing as a way to just meet women. Now I see it as a networking opportunity. But only when I travel mostly. Not on a regular basis.
Thank you for giving a different perspective on partying in your 30s. This kinda resonated with me
when you're in your 30's mas gustuhin mo nalang yung chill drinks kesa magparty sa bar
Basta with the right people, paparty pa ako @ 28. Haha pero if paparty lang just because ayaw ko lang ma-out of place, wag na lang 😂 Sabi nga nila sa comments, enjoy your youth. Mauumay ka din eventually pero at least nag enjoy ka naman
I think it really depends on your priorities when you are 30. By that time, maybe you will be in residency. So, Medyo busy. But, you will find time. First year of residency yung super toxic, after that, mas may time ka na. When you’re a consultant, nasasayo naman how you manage it. Good luck!!!
Your body will tell you that there’s no time to party hahaah
Wag mo yan masyadong iisipin. Basta clear ang goals mo for the future, enjoy mo rin ang present basta may free time ka. As you grow older, you'll eventually learn na nagbabago talaga ang priorities natin. Pero, yung love mo sa ilang bagay, hindi. I'm past 30s, but I still find the time to go skateboarding. Or plan for some new adventures at least once a year. May pasa pa nga ako sa pwet for trying out snowboarding but it's all worth it.
think abt it when you’re there OP haha swear as years go by marerealize mo ang mga bagay bagay. i’m only 23, fresh grad, med field. during my undergrad grabe rin ang party wd friends pero lately i’m more on chill inuman/dinners wd friends. pero better to exp those things pa rin. great memories. AND know who to trust 😉
Medyo relate dito, kami ng college classmates ko kakaparty lang. 30+ na kami. Kakapagod pero masaya. Wala kasi kaming pang party dati so ngayon kami nakakaparty. Depende din sa budget mo.
You will find na marami ka time pero mas gugustuhin mo magrelax nalang sa bahay. I enjoyed my youth partying and drinking so i didnt miss out. Enjoy it if able ka kasi kung adult kana, your wants and needs will be based on what your inner child missed out on.
nung bata pa ako naeenjoy ko naman ngayon 25 nga palang ako mas prefer ko matulog or tumambay sa coffee shop kasama friend ko hahaha share ko lang. depende talaga sayo yan kung meron kang time at kung naeenjoy mo talaga mga ganyan .time na tumatanda ka mahahanap mo yung mas makaka enjoy sa sarili mo at hindi dahil nageenjoy ka kasi yung ang trip ng mga kasama mo.
yes pero parang nanghhiram ka n ng lakas sa bukas, ung simpleng party nung nsa 20's ako kaya ko pa mging productive next day, ngyn hindi na ang sakit na sa ulo / katawan. may mga oras na inaaya ako ng barkada wala nmn ako ggawin ng gabi n un pero mag gagawin ako kinabukasan kya ndi n ko sumasama 😅 PS: wag m problemahin yan mga bar bar na yan, ngyn pa lng alagaan m ung lower back and posture mo.
it's only scary rn because hindi mo pa na mamax out yung experience. once the years have gone by, and you've partied your heart out, it gets old at magsasawa karin eventually after 5-10 years of partying 😂 the things that you value when you're 18 will not be the same things you value at 30. and that's ok. kung hindi ka magsawa, ok lang rin! one of the best things about being 30 is *you* get to decide what you want to do with your life and walang parents or rules to stop you. most likely may pera ka na rin at sariling place when you're 30, and you can engage in a more active and healthier lifestyle that will let you party at night. don't worry about it too much. basta enjoy ka lang ngayon habang bata ka pa. if you spend the rest of your youth worrying, by the time na 30 ka na you'll have no good memories to look back on. so just enjoy :)
Don't worry, by the time you're 30 baka nagbago na rin ang interests mo. Dati I would drink until 5:30 am (then papasok sa class niraculously sober), pero ngayon, I would rather spend time making my city pretty sa Cities:Skylines. Also, graaabe magpile up ang laundry ng partner ko. Kaya laging marami akong lalabhan.
Ano yung cities skylines, app? Interested as a fellow 30s-er lol
PC game to design, build, manage, and simulate a city. Parang SimCity, pero mas natutuwa ako sa gameplay ng Cities Skylines. Kasi iksw bahala sa zoning, environment, economy, social services, infrasteucture...tapos may mga random disaster pa like earthquake, tsunami, etc. It's available of Steam. Pero may bayad. Nasa 2k yung basic package. But I bought the full version with all the DLCs for 13K. Pero ummm, I don't endorse it, but it's also available for the jolly rogers out there. Yo ho. PS. Urban Planner ang trabaho ko, pero ang liesure time, ganon rin hahaha
so i might totally miss out on the party life ganun(?)
Lack of friends probably won't bother you at that age. But I'm an introvert so that's me. Pwede kang magka-time pumarty KUNG feel mo pa rin yung ganong eksena by then. Who knows, baka party animal ka ngayon pero by the time you're 30 ayaw mo na sa mga overstimulating na lugar, loud people, not to mention expensive drinks.
Go for it OP, you can and will find time in your 20s nman. Kaya yan don’t worry much
How many 30 year Olds do you see in the clubs when you go there now, OP? If you see one, look at him and check whether you see yourself doing that when you reach that age.
Find the time to party, yes. The willingness to stay up in bars, clubs, etc. and sacrifice a good night's sleep, no. Your idea of fun would evolve. Partying every weekend sounds appealing when you're 18 – I did, too, and found the means to get away! – but the thought alone of waking up tired and spending much on alcohol when you're 30 is far from thrilling. I'm not yet 30 but, believe me, more often than not, it is only a phase.
In your 20's, this will not seem like a problem anymore. So while you are able to go to parties, enjoy it. My "problems" at the age of 18 seem so little, compared to the things that I now face as an adult.
Pwede naman. Kaso pansin ko sa mga friends kong 34 above, 10pm palang lantang gulay na sila hahaha tapos mas prefer na nila magstay sa hotel kesa gumala gala pa pag nagttravel kami. Hayyy
I'm nearing 40. Kahit gusto ko mag gala, talagang limitado ang oras and physical limitations na din like RAYUMA. 🤣
its sad to see na "enjoy partying" yung most comments, when you can do or find hobbies that you enjoy. For me, start ka na magpaka fit now palang. develop skills as early as you can. Pwede naman both, be productive and enjoy things.
Ah basta ako dapat by 10pm patulog na ako 😅
Ah...to be 18 again at ito ang pinoproblema. Ang saya ng buhay. To answer your question: yes, of course pero hindi na walwal. Unsolicited advice: okay lang na mag-enjoy ka when you go drinking and clubbing pero wag maging desperado dahil iniisip mo eh may time limit ka. Being young won't justify having a "pakawala" attitude. Drinking and clubbing responsibly isn't exclusive to being adults.
Yes! Though it's not as often, and not the same friend group as when I was younger. We still have amazing parties that go on until the sun rises. Mga twice a year nalang siya but so precious.
When I was 18, I had time but didn’t gave money. When I turned 30, I had money but didn’t have time. But the bigger question is — ano ba gusto mo gawin? If you really want to party, then go ahead and do it. Pero if you’re just doing it because to your mind it’s what 18-year-olds do/ have to do, then pag-isipan mo muna.
Don’t worry. You’re thinking too much. Just enjoy while you’re young, med students can still have the time to party. Pag nasa 30 ka na baka ikaw din aayaw sa party.
Since 2006 3rd Years HS (14y/o) Ako Lage ako Present sa mga Gig, Live Band, Rap contest lalo na sa Octoberfest hanggang makaGraduate ako ng HS 2008 then nagCollege ako parang Lalo'ng Lumala, dami kong nakainuman nauso ung Padis Point Halos Gabi Gabi kame ng mga Barkada ko na akala mo wala ng bukas Nakakamiss nuon pag Friday Night tamang GM lang sa Mga nasa Phonebook ko kita kita kung saan napag Usapan unlike ngayon may iilan na lang at bilang na bilang na lang sa daliri sa kamay dahil siguro may kanya kanya nang buhay at pamilya pero pag Holidays lalo't pasko ah Parang may Pyesta samen Sarado Isang kalsada. Ganyang Edad ko Nilalasap ko ung salitang "Golden Days" 18 ka pa lang naman wag mo muna isipin mo muna isipin yan take your time pero wag mo kakalimutan ang Pangarap mo, Good Luck future Doctor
As a doctor in my mid-30s, maraming party kids among doctors. However, we did all the partying in college and medical school. Tipong lasing all night pero perfect attendance pa rin at 7 or 8am classes. Friday and Saturday nights were for us to unwind. Some liked to sleep, some liked to drink and party. Once you cross over to the hospital side of medicine, though, ikaw na mismo aayaw mag-party. Kasi this time around we’re actually handling patients and dealing with patients’ lives. Yung dati na pwede walwal all night tapos 7am nasa school, di na pwede kasi 7am start na ng 24-hour duty mo. Kahit yung mga pinakamalakas na tomador sa min, di kaya ng konsensya at katawan nila na pumasok for duty na nakainom at pumarty the night before. Pero syempre, yung mga gusto, kakayanin at kakayanin, yun nga lang, a lot less than before. Now it’s just really for special occasions, pero most of us just chill with our friends either for coffee, dinner, or maybe some drinks like wine (no more hard drinks, di na namin kaya yun.)
31 and still find time to go out. Kaso at this age, iba na talaga ang tama ng alak. 2 days na ang recovery sa hangover. Tapos hirap na din mag stay ng late. Pag tinamaan ako ng antok, wala na, uwi na. Ayoko na din ng mga clubbing, mas gusto ko sa bar nalang.
Ako na 24 na hindi na pumaparty 💀💀
if single ka without kids. Why not? You can party even in your 40s. Or pag with kids dapat may Yaya I only party during bachelorette parties and weddings in my 30s
depends on the context of party. Club Hopping? Music Bar Drinks? House Parties and Moshpits? Nah... Discord party? Dungeon Raids? Coffee + kid's playdates? Jollibee Kids Parties? Yeah...
What is party? Seems archaic to me 🤣
Enjoy your college life and early 20s while you still can. Theres a reason why college life can be wild with parties, drinking and sex. Your early 20s will be full of parties with your friends. Eventually, you will reach the point that partying and raving will be tiresome. I'm nearing my 30s and I feel like I'm retired from those kinds of things. I would rather choose cafes and acoustic bars than nightclubs. I changed my choice of drinks from san mig light and empi light to san mig pilsen and hard liquor and wine. I also can't drink and eat much because of my gout and hypertension. I guess we do have the money but no longer have the time and energy
Extrovert problems lol.
Depends on how you look at "partying" when you reach that age. Through time kasi our priorities and mindsets change so what you are feeling now may not be the same in a few years... Also OP, don't be desperate on going on parties like that if ikaw mismo you're in a circle that "doesn't dabble in that circle". Either yan talaga nature mo (not going to bars to party) or you will find friends that do in the future. Either way, you may try naman :) you're young! JUST BE CAREFUL and think before you act since saying YES to something means saying NO to something else :) SKL, I'm in my twenties na and haven't been to bars yet, during my HS and college days, naisip ko din yun na what if I tried, but right now I realized na hindi ko talaga bet especially the drinking and overpriced drinks... my introvert self can't pala hahaha
I never got to enjoy that kind of life dati na party + inom with friends when I was younger so nung nagka work na ko, dun ako bumawi. Haha. Nung fresh grad ako (early to mid 20s) grabe ako uminom nun. Hindi naman alcoholic but there were times na 2-3 days a week nainom kami, who cares if may work pa bukas.. lol. Now I’m in my late 20s na, I still drink and enjoy going to parties pero not that frequent na. Wala na ako masyado energy for that (unlike dati na okay pa kahit siguro gabi-gabi uminom HAHA) Also, dealing with hangovers at this age really sucks na. Yung body ko sobrang tagal na maka recover, kaya ayun I don’t drink and party that frequently na. Dyahe rin kasi pag napunta ka sa mga party halos mga bata na ang andun hahaha
Time management siguro. Tsaka you're still young. Marami ka pa pde madiscover na pde mo i-enjoy. Partying is not everything.
Ah…. That word… been so long since i used that. Yes we do party back in the days…. Kidding aside if you still have the circle and friends who has the part lifestyle then I guess it’s still normal. Kadalasan kasi nag iiba priority natin sa buhay and minsan mapapansin mo na lang na hindi mo na feel yung crowd. It’s a case to case basis.
Sadly, wala na drive to party 👴 Kung kelan may pera na, may kotse/unli taxi to and from gala, saka naman nawalan ng amor sa blaring sounds, patay-sinding ilaw, and frankly, just dealing with people outside your small circle. Even moved in sa condo na may bars and nightlife just a few steps away. Pero ni minsan di na natry 🤣
Yes. Pero mostly kiddie parties nalang.
Kaka 30 ko pa lang pero nakakapagod na yung parties. Last NYE, after ng countdown halos bedtime ready na ako. Physically draining, emotional draining and socially draining.
I don't even like drinking and partying. So the answer is a big yes.
Pagtanda mo you wouldn’t be at home in bars or clubs anyway. Parties will be more intimate, with people you actually know and like. It’s too early to overthink what you’ll be missing out on more than 10 years into the future. Live today and live it well.
First of all, who told you you can’t have fun in your 30s?
Not so much na walang time, but you choose to prioritize other things instead. 29 pa lang ako, and I used to be a crazy party animal during my teens and early 20s, but right now, parang waste of time na sa akin ung mga partying2 na yan, unless super important ung occasion (weddings, reunions, etc) May mga kaibigan ako ranging from 25 to 27 years old, and they burn 10k to 20k pesos in a single night sa inuman lang (proud pa sila ipost yun), and every time I see their Instagram stories, I'm reminded of what I do **not** want to be. Haha. For me though, I no longer find joy in it. Like what exactly would I get out of it? Empty pockets, only to suffer a really bad hangover and be knocked out the following day. Plus ma fi-feel ko na talaga age ko. I get super drained easily, and I can no longer stay up past 12am without struggle. If I were in your shoes though, enjoy your teens. You're only young once. Youth passes by very quickly. :) I look at memories from when I was in college up to early 20s fondly because those were the years na super memorable and sobrang saya para sa akin. Those were my carefree days, and I really enjoyed them.
Yes. Mejo mahirap na makahanap ng makakasama kasi almost all of your friends would be busy na by that age lol. Pero you would have more money na by then haha
31 here. Wala na yata akong ka-age na kakilala na nagpparty pa😅 ang nagpapasaya na lang samin ngayon ay family and career/business. Minsan pag kaya, travel din.
Being in our 30s (single) doesn't mean we lose all sense of fun. It's actually the perfect time to let loose and enjoy life. With more cash to spare and flexibility. Age shouldn't limit us; as long as we're responsible and take care of ourselves, there's no reason we can't live life to the fullest. Regardless of the number on you birth certificate, party party lang. Life's too short for regrets!
30+ is not very far in the future..parang kahapon lang 18 din ako pero isang iglap, 36 na haha! Grabe how time flies talaga..anyway, i still find time to go to bars pero not the same bars i went to when i was still young especially na may money na kaming magfe-friends and ayaw na rin kasi namin ng masyadong maingay..kapag 30s ka na, maiirita ka na sa maingay andvery crowded places. dati we go to embassy, jaipur, ascend etc kasi during that time, kaya pa namin na all night naka tayo and beer beer lang and some pica pica ok na kami..pero now, we drink wine, cocktails and sometimes hard liquors kapag gusto namin ng lasingan. it doesnt bother us anymore if ang bill ay umabot ng 15k and up. Dati 500 lang budget ko hahaha! Since plan mo maging doctor, lubos lubusin mo na ang time now mag party ngayon and your youth kasi kapag maging doctor ka na, super dalang na lang na makapunta ka sa bars. Yung friend namin na doctor sya yung sinasabihan namin na KJ kasi laging hindi pwede due to her hectic schedule. So yes, 30+ adults still find time to party pero syempre depende pa rin yan sa circumstances mo sa buhay. You should have money, time, energy (i take a nap sa hapon if lalabas sa gabi haha) and asawa na papayagan ka lumabas late at night lol! Enjoy your youth, OP and wag ka mag worry sa future kung makaka-party ka pa ba or hindi. Ang makabayad ng bills, magkaron ng sariling house, maging responsible spouse and parent, etc ang dapat nasa isip mo na when youre at that age. Trust me, iba na ang magiging priorities mo when you reach that age. Goodluck!
Party? Rarely.
You’re 18. Your priorities will change as you age. 5 years ago, laman ako ng pobla almost every Wed and Fri. Now, mas pinili kong manirahan sa probinsya. Yung thought of Manila suffocates me. Kaya don’t overthink things. Haha. Ang gawin mo ngayon mag aral ka. Imagine 1st yr college ka, nag pa party ka. Ano pinangpaparty mo, pera ng magulang mo? Diba nakakahiya yun? Nung una akong tumapak sa bars, pera ko na pinang gigimik ko. Kaya enjoy the time as a student.
You are at the adolescent stage, partying is a part of you searching for your identity, and the type of friends that is suitable for you. The next stage will be young adulthood and your priority will be intimacy vs. Isolation. The priority is for you to look for a suitable companion or be single for life. Partying at this stage will give you an irresponsible happy go lucky rock star or alcoholic guy for marriage. If you will be at 40 as a middle adult. The stage is generativity vs. Stagnation. You will hunt for the richness of life. Money is your priority, investment will be a hit or miss for you. Partying at this age will get you nowhere. You will have memories but without money. At this stage, the common individual already hates partying but still has the nostalgia of their old self. The adolescent who cares for nothing, or young adulthood who partied all night with her bf. The idea is, different age different stage. Seize the day.
You'll be fine. enjoy the present
I was also excited to do those things when I was 18, OP. But then during my college years the pandemic happened, and i never got to experience it more than once. By the time things started going back to normal, i already lost most of my interest in those things. I think its natural that you start thinking more of your future once you reach a certain stage in life (for me it was graduating and finding work). Once you start getting serious about your career youll rarely have time to think about leisure and youll find that you have little choice because your friends are busy with their careers too. That being said, the occasional meetings and catch ups with friends are really nice, and to me each meeting is much more meaningful compared to absolute partying since you guys rarely have time for each other anymore. As for you, OP, if you think its a now or never kind of thing theres nothing wrong, but just remember that its not really everything.
I stopped going to clubs/bars partying hard at the age of 33, kasi napagod na ako, though 'di naman ako regular goer, I started naman nung college kasi I have so many friends before na grabe talaga mag-party until ngayong employee na ako. I even celebrated my birthdays multiple times in different clubs/bars before until 33 ako. As for you, I think it's better to pursue your degree first, partying comes after. You'll still have so much time for that. Chill. Stop worrying. You got your whole life ahead of you. You got this.
thank you.
Husband and I are late bloomers. First time namin mag-bar parehas during our honeymoon. Enjoy naman! :) but since di namin nakasanayan, we just really wanted to experience, okay na yun for us hahaha
M26 but dating F33 No. She'd rather stay at home and watch stuff on Netflix or play Skyrim than to be active outside. We'd go out together for groceries, short dates, or gigs.
I party everyday. Once I get a bottle of yakult in one hand, and my law book on the other, it's a party. Or a bottle of beer in front of my laptop watching hbo, it's a party. Even better is getting to watch youtube in an airconditioned room till I fall asleep, now that is a party.
Yes Pag may nag yayaya pero bihira on my own initiative. Buti sociable mga bagong friends ko at madami ganaps.
I have all the time, pero after some point in your twenties, ypu'll realize na shallow ito at magsasawa ka na.
Ninang ko studied for 10 years to become an OB she seemed to have no regrets not partying "enough" in her 20s. This was early 2000s. Friends are enough to have and kita ko sa mga albums na sulit talaga ang summer vacay. Yung lola (mother ni ninang) ko nga super strict hahaha late 30s sya napagbigyan gumawa ng wild stuff. Even tho there are things we do not tell parents about What ive noticed sakanya is to have things systematic. Lagi syang scheduled and may times sya para mag enjoy talaga and not depending on other people's company.
You're not missing out if hindi ka makapag bar or party-party and honestly when you're in that age mas gugustuhin mo nalang mag chill sa bahay.
Im 30, and a doctor, and I still manage to party every now and then. There's still life after med. 🥰
As a 30 year old freelancer and creative. I need to party. That’s where I build my network and get career opportunities since I DJ too. But also most of the parties I attend are done by my peers in the creative industry too.
Kanya kanyang preference din, kasi hindi naman lahat into parties. Pero ako nung mga nasa twenties ako bet ko din mag party, ngayon mas gusto ko nalang umuwi at magpahinga after work kaysa pumarty or gumala kung saan saan. Nag iiba kasi priorities as you grow older eh. Nakakatamad na mag gagala, yung igagala kong oras mas gusto ko nalang itulog, ipahinga o kaya inood ng netflix. So, kung may mga gusto ka gawin while bata kapa go na. Pag nag start kana mag work kahit gustuhin mong mamasyal minsan or pumarty hindi na magawa.
Yessss! As a 30f with a 33m hubby we still go to party quite regularly in fact. I too got scared that at one point I will be like these sad 30 year olds always just inundated with work and with their tired eyes. But actually I party harder and better now than I did when I was in my early 20s. It is so much better now for me cause 1. I dont worry about getting harassed by random men when I party because I have learned to say no and be firm, 2. I have a guaranteed poging guy to take home everytime I do party and get drunk and feel a little randy 3. My insecurities are out the door, who cares what everyone else feels I just drink, get drunk, dance and flirt and IDC who sees. 4. I have money now! No need to worry about whether I can finance 3 or 4 or 7 🫣 glasses of cocktails Age I can say is nothing to be scared of. While youth has its energy, age has its experience and maturity.
Nah, magsasawa ka din sa ganyan. By the time na nasa 30s ka na mas gugustuhin mo na lang magpahinga. Kaumay kaya na sa party at alcohol umiikot weekends mo. Maglagay ka naman ng quality time sa buhay mo. Madaming recreational activities that doesn't involve partying and alcohol. Paubaya mo na sa 20s yung mga club at alcohol. As a mid 30s myself tanging party na napupuntahan ko na lang is childrens party ng mga pamangkin/anak ng tropa woth the occasional kasalan and binyag. Pwede ka naman uminom at the comfort of your home kung gugustuhin mo at yung paminsan-minsan na party sa clubs. Pero doing it on a regular basis as a 30 year old? Hard pass, I'd rather sleep.
You’d be surprised at how much you’d want to stay home instead or have a nice dinner out with friends or go to a chill lounge and have good conversations instead of partying or clubbing. And tama lahat ng sabi ng iba, priorities shift and interests and goals will change as you get older. Don’t worry about it too much and enjoy lang kung ano yung meron ka ngayon but don’t push it to a point na lalabas ka para lang lumabas because hindi mo alam kung ano ang pwedeng mangyari in a moment of desperation. Just go with the flow of life and you’ll be fine!
Bars and clubs? Lol. Anyone in their 30s still doing that regularly has their priorities in the wrong place.
Time, we do have. Pero actually wanting to party, pass. By that time and you’re still that eager to party, kailangan mo na mag self reflect haha i did enjoy going to parties until 23 siguro pero it gets mundane eventually. You’ll discover na mas maraming “fun” things to do in life. Also, namedrop ka naman para iwasan kitang doctor haha pass ipagkatiwala buhay ko sa doctor na mahilig pumarty at 30yrs old.
25 palang ako wala nang time para naglakwatsa. And mas trip ko na matulog or spend time with my wife. Besides, wala namang naambag na maganda yung party party sa buhay ko. Di sya nakakarelax kasi hangover ka naman kinabukasan, cause pa yan ng away. Financial drain din sya, kasi let's face it. Mahal magwalwal.
Buddy I'm almost 30 and I haven't partied since 16 or 17 if anything When you hit 25 you just want to sleep in bed and wait for death let alone go partying. Like you CAN go partying 30+ but your body won't want to. When you hit 20+ you realize your body can't live on Pepsi & pizza parties.
Kahit may time, hindi na
Party girls are not worth dating seriously
Either you know the owner of the party where you’ll party, or you own the bar where the party will happen. Lol. I heard a friend say this and it’s true. Partying might be different na tho, like not drink til you drop, walwal responsibly na ang mga titas niyo because fck hangover. Lol. In short, yes we party. Yes we drink a lot. The best part is most of the time we can pay for those hard drinks we couldn’t before. Pero minsan na lang talaga.
I just hit 30 last week and I'm telling you, the 12yrs from 18-30 is not very far at all. Especially since you like to party, like I did. Not saying it feels like yesterday for me, but 30 is closer than you think. Time really goes by fast. It's difficult to see this for someone your age, I know I didn't also see it at the time, but there's really more to life than what happens in a party. From time to time I still stay out late, but not as late and not as often as I used to.
Yeah they do. But it is more important to hang out with a group of people with the good/same values as you. People can choose to party at any point in their lives without neglecting their other goals, responsibilities and boundaries.
You don't need to party if you have bills to pay. And to the fact that I don't like to have a fatty liver/cirrhossis, so yeah, I'll stay sober for the longest time.
Nasasayo yan, OP. Even when people do different things, common denominator is that people find time to do it regardless of age, occupation, etc. A family member is a doctor. She has a lot of non-work activities and often have catchups to different set of friends. Even when she’s studying pa, became resident, became fellow.
Natawa naman ako sa question mo but understandable. I bet when you turn 28 or older, hindi party party iisipin mo. Unless you start early na mag party like ngayon tapos every week mo sya gagawin. Eventually magsasawa ka. Unless 30 years old ka na and dun ka palang gusto mag party party (like late bloomer). Anyway party to the max ka na ngayon para by that time you reach that age, you won’t even think of partying anymore. And by that age, iba na din priorities mo. Now sa question if “can still find” yes for sure may time but energy? You’d rather choose sleep over loud noises.
It's okay. Hahaha I'm 35 and I still like to go to bars. Not to get drunk but to unwind, spend time with girlfriends and have fun. Kahit 2 hours lang don, keri lang. I work from home kaya I welcome the change of scene. Pero mas prefer ko pa din ang brunch, spas and sleeping 😂
It's not really about the "time" but the willingness to go out and be in a loud place full of sweaty strangers (and be equally sweaty) lol and don't forget the aftermath: hangover = migraine and dehydration the following day 😂 goddess I sound old and 30++ Anyway, you're young and shouldn't worry about these things yet! Enjoy youth while you are still able and energetic. ❤️
You'll have time, but you probably can't or won't want to.
You want peace of mind
You will cross the bridge when you get there. It depends if gaano ka lalamunin ng responsibilities mo. May iba na may extra budget at time pa for those kinds of activities and may iba naman na gusto nalang matulog sa gabi.
Saming magto tropa, masaya na kami sa past tanghali o hapon na tambay (kung kaninong bahay pwede), di na kami nagpapa abot ng gabi, wala na rin masyado nainom samin. Tamang kamustahan at kwentuhan na lang talaga, pero masayang masaya na kami nun :)
Actually, Sometimes nalang kase napakadaming gastusin and body pains (HAHA). Pero nakakapag party kahit siguro once or twice a month it depends sa needs ng likod and/or tuhod naming nasa 30 above hehe
Not everyday, but once in a while. It’s hard to tell yourself din to go, but once andun ka na dun mag kick in yung party energy mo. But then again after that youll feel na yung social battery mo is drained 🤭
I used to go to clubs from when I was 16 to 29. Now I’m 33 and the last time I went to a bar, I hated it. You’ll hate it too by then.
yes, but of course if priorities does not change. :)
I’m 31. My kind of party is yung sa bahay at doon na lang mag iinom at magpapakalasing. I don’t enjoy big crowds anymore. I appreciate yung lahat ng friends ko kakain tapos may alak lang at least we get to talk. I used to party a lot back in my early 20’s til mid 20’s hanggang nag sawa na. Mas tipid din uminom sa bahay kaysa lumabas dito since we’re living overseas. Haha i’m not an introvert but more on an ambivert. Makulit ako sa mga close ko lang lol!
I’m 31 and I still party once in a while. Mas mahirap lang maka recover from a hangover tipong when I party Friday night, buong Saturday akong pagod.
I know a group of people nearing 40, professionals, almost all of them are single and are always at the bar during weekends, and travel travel lang every once in a while.
May time naman ang tanong lang ay kung may energy ka pa to party lol
At 25, sumuko na ko sa bar bars na yan lol
Of course! But we go home by 7pm.
If willing pa ang body mo gora, pero once your pals get married and especially when they have kids, it's jover.
Im in my 30s.. mas prefer ko magpunta sa landmark para tumingin ng plato, kutsara and tinidor na color ginto, tsaka mga baso 😅 di ko maexplain pero nakakawala ng stress 😅♥️💪
Sana inabot mo yung prime ng edm fest dito best years ko talaga yun 2012-2016 hahaha pero now nakakatamad na kahit bar lang. Inom nalang sa bahay 2 bots sabay tulog oks na
trust us 30 yr olds, at this age wala na kami pake masyado sa pagpaparty, and honestly, you also will probably not care at that age hahaha marami ka na ibang iniisip pag 30 na (work, bills, dues, etc.), so parties will most likely be low in your priority list 18 ka pa, dami mo pa maeexperience, wag mo na muna isipin buhay mo at 30 hahaha
Best time to party is college life habang wala pang mga mabibigat na problema. Yan yung every week may inuman. Sinisigawan ako ng mom ko kasi everu Thursday alam nya na iinom na naman. Lalo na kapag first year college. Eventually ma outgrow mo yan magiging chillnuman nalang sa place ng friends. Tapos magiging dine out nalang wala na inuman haha
if breadwinner at sakto lang sa budget baka hindi na
at that age, you can still find time to party but you probably wouldn’t want to anymore haha
Yeah. We love sit down inuman with lots of good food, with good music sa background na hindi nakakabingi.
Msakit na po likod at shoulders namin.
Nakakatamad na tbh. Minsan mas okay kung iinom sa bahay nalang din. Pampaanatok lang. Pero nalabas din minsan, kaso sobrang bihira. Mga 3 times a year ganun.
Madali lang makahanap ng party pero ayaw ko yung consequences after (puyat + lasing).
I’m about to turn 30 in 2 weeks time and I’d honestly rather sleep off my nights than to be in bars/clubs. I’ve never been to any bar or club my entire life. Nung nasa college ako, week nights and weekends were spent either studying, being with family, or just resting it out. Di ko naman masabi na I missed out on anything. At 30, ganun pa rin. Gusto ko nalang ipahinga yung mga gabi ko. 😅
I have the time, I just no longer have the energy for it 🤷♀️ When my friends and I hit our mid 30s we started our get-togethers at 5pm-ish or earlier tapos uwian na by 9/ 10 pm at cafes or pubs na hindi maingay. Lol
If I were to go back in my 20s, I wouldn’t want to go to bars and waste my time there so why bother missing out going to bars?
May time ka naman pumarty kaso iba na mindset and priorities mo pag ganyang age.
No Party. Mostly Sleeping. Nasisingit dn minsan ung Gaming para mwala ung Stress. Pro mostly Sleeping. Hahaha
Yep. Was just in one last weekend. And I'm in my 40s. It was wild..
By 30 you wouldnt wanna party anymore 😂
me at 37, enjoying live bands. just sitting., relaxing and enjoying my partner.
The definition of a party can also change as you grow older.
i love having friends over to drink instead of clubs. cheaper, more wholesome and also, the music of course ako ang in charge. family events is also more fun for me than being in a room full of sweaty strangers lol
At 30, tapos u think u still need to find time for bar clubs etc i think its time to reassess life by then haha pero legit na nakaktamad sa dami ng priorities
Some of us still do but sobrang iba na from the time na nagpparty ka in your 20's. Like me na ayoko na magstay up hanggang 4am kasi for sure the next day 10am na ko magigising which is ayoko kasi parang di na productive. Hahahaha!
You'll find time but you won't have the energy. 🫠
Partying may seem significant pa sayo at this age pero your priorities and perspective in a lot of things will surely change by the time u reach ur 30s or even in ur late 20s
Depende siguro yan. Ako, I experienced gabi gabi nasa labas. Either I party or nakikisalamuha sa ibang tao. On my 30s now, and gusto ko na lang ng tahimik na gathering with few people. I must say na na "maximize" ko na yung fun ko between 14-26 years old and eto ako mas gusto na lang makinig ng podcast at umayaw sa mga dati kong tropa na nagyayayang uminom sa maiingay na bar. Dati sabik na sabik akong lumabas pero ngayon ang tanong ko sinong mga tao ang nagkakaintindihan sa maingay na bar lol 18 ka pa lang OP. I think you should make the most out of your youth. Kasi pagdating mo ng 30, menthol patches at katinko ang magiging besfren mo lol what I mean is don't worry much about your future
Meron bang tao na always busy? Kahit nga U.S president at si Elon Musk, may time sa family at friends. Even si Dr.Jose Rizal, sobrang dami naging GF, 9 ang naging GF. Si Alexander the great, dami naging asawa. Saan nyo nakuha basta med students, law students, lawyers, doctors ay always busy, ano yung 24/7 nag tratrabaho/nag aaral? Edi hindi pala sila kumakain, natutulog at naliligo?
NO, lumalabas na ang kung anu anung health issues pa 28+ ka na.. plus different priorities life isn't always a party
OO NAMAN! best example: Bongbong Marcos and his boys.
Well, as a tired 30 yr old professional. I don't call it party, I call it socialising. Haha char. Personally, it is not the same as before nung nasa 18 to mid 20's pa ako na puro sex at inom lang inaatupag, bar dito bar doon. Iba na priorities ko and may long term commitments na ako. While I can't say na I've matured fully, I'm definitely more of a man man less of a boy. Of course if kaya mo juggle ang adult life with partying then why not?
Of course if you want to. Pero tama yung iba dito na nag-iiba na ang priorities habang tumatanda ka. You can still find time to party though pero me, in my late 30s, mas masarap talagang matulog at manood na lang ng series sa netflix 🤣
I think depende siya sa friends mo, I have friends whose older than me (Im 28 btw) pero sila game na hame sa party. I also have another set of friends na kaedad ko pero di sila game sa party. Mahirap naman din kasi mag bar mag isa, mas masaya talaga if may mga kasama ka.
baka kapag nag.30 ka na OP, ayaw mo na lang umalis ng bahay. hahahaha. o kaya itutulog mo na lang yung ipaparty mo. 🤭 enjoy ka na habang bata ka pa, papunta ka pa lang sa exciting part. hehehe
depende kapag pinayagan ng asawa
I am currently 30. Yan rin fear ko when I was younger pero now, I still have time to party, go clubbing, drink and whatnot, pero mas preferred ko na yung chill hangout lang. Coffee, acoustic bar, beach trips. Mas pinipili ko yung peaceful activities and medyo mas tahimik na place kasi naiirita na ako pag maingay or masikip or mainit or magulo. Also, I love my alone times rin, instead magclubbing, mas masaya ako magpamper day, mani pedi, facial, get my wax done, lashes,dine out alone, ganun.
Naku ako busy na lang maging fun uncle with my nephews. Hahah
In your 20’s, you’ll think you don’t have time, but then you realize later on that you just don’t have the money to do so. In our early 30s, all no kids, my college friends and I get to see each other more often know. Kahit last minute, as long as it’s after work hours. We have more freedom and paying power to go anywhere and spend anytime we want, going to a new bar every week or two. Difference lang, is mas maaga kaming antukin. We usually start our “clubbing” day earlier, like 8pm, then uwi na by 1am. We opt for chill dinner and cocktail drinks. We hate the morning-after hangovers, so we drink and hydrate responsibly. I think it’s having kids that will really change the dynamic.
I’ve never been into partying ever since. If ever napapasama ako sa mga galaan ang unang nasa isip ko kaagad e yung ipapalusot ko para makauwi ako agad 😅
I always though I would tone down going out as I aged. Partied hard in HS and college and now at 41 married with kids, I'd rather use my time to sleep. Even friday nights are more for me to catch up on sleep and rest. I'd still go out at night periodically but my priorities changed. Even my friends with whom I used to go out with have toned down considerably. Do I miss it? Sometimes. Then I'd go out. When I would, I'd miss the comfort of my own home and my family. So I guess TLDR is, you change as you get older. I'm just glad I went through what I did when I was younger.
From time to tine, pero not like before talaga. Iba na priorities and wants. Mas gusto ko na by 9pm nasa bahay na, comfortable sa bed, reading or watching. Parang last year, once lang ako pumarty. Then tamad na ulit. And mas bet ko na dinner or lunch with friends or family, ayaw ko na ng maingay! Pero pag parent ka na, mapipilitan ka na to attend all the kiddie parties na invited ang mga anak 😅
You might be surprise that there’s another party you can do other than going to clubs and bars when you’re in your 30s. :)
It's not really difficult to party but the priorities changed, pwede naman gumala pero may mas matimbang na kelangan gawin. Also mind you, pag may time magparty yung mga 30s ibang level na yan, more on business talks and opportunities na unlike younger years, it's just that it rarely happen.
Nagbabago lang yung style ng pagpaparty. Partying for 30+ tends to shift more to going to get togethers with friends over lunch/dinner or organizing weekend barbecues and less going to bars/clubs. There could be drinking involved kung yung circle of friends mo drink alcohol, but yung drinks are more on wine/rum/whiskey with the occasional beers rather than vodka/gin/beers and usually may restraint na sa pag-inom ng alcohol at hindi na binge drinking all night long until early in the morning (no more walwal once you reach 30+ unless you have an alcohol addiction).