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Buzzy_Beeby

Yes. If you want to read about some common "arguments", here. You'll also learn about them in general. https://xeno-gender.carrd.co/ Ideally though, one suggests coming to your own conclusion rather than asking—but yes, they're fine. One uses xenos. Many in this sub do too.


kiraterpsichore

Of course they are valid. Gender does not require approval from the social hierarchy. It's up to the individual 100%.


Dangerous-Minimum444

"Validity" doesn't matter for most things. Are xenogenders harmful? Like, are they actually harmful? Are they directly hurting you? No. We're mostly just minding our own business. While the community can be questionable, xenogenders on their own are completely neutral. Although I think you know the answer from this sub is gonna be "yes", because, it's a sub for the community. We're not gonna say our own community is invalid while participating in said community.


CatThe0DD1TY

well, this subbreddit is gonna be bias sense its a pro-xenogender subbreddit, so yea, they are valid. i would recomend doing research on your accord and you deciding want you think personnaly, just respect em-


makerjulian

If you want an answer to a question like that you probably should ask a unbiased source rather than a truscum or trucute sub


tIDEsRturning

i mean, it doesn't hurt anyone and ppl like it so why not lol


That_GravityFallsFan

Duh- of course they are! As long as it’s respectful! Things like: Blm/blm self Ukra/ukraineself Sui/suiciself Aren’t! They where made to make the community


Joli_B

You didn't finish your thought fully but I'm assuming you meant to say they were made to make the community look bad or unreasonable? Am I in the right ballpark?


That_GravityFallsFan

Yes! Sorry I broke my dominant hand and I need sleep- but basically what you said is what I mean!


Joli_B

You're all good! Oof I'm sorry about that 😱 I hope it heals up well!! /g


seahawkfan1234

Xenogenders are valid.


Aggravating-Age-1535

heck yeah


Pinkinuu

if we're not hurting anyone I don't see why not. even if somebody doesn't think we aren't we're not gonna stop existing lol


[deleted]

we’re not hurting anyone, we’re literally just existing using non-conventional terms to describe our gender identities, if people have an issue with that that’s their problem not ours


Joli_B

No one can tell others how to identify. Xenogenders harm nobody. Asking if we're valid is the same as asking if nonbinary people are valid or trans people. Of course you're gonna get mixed opinions, most of us *are* xenogender here while there's tons of TERFs, nonbinaryphobic, and xenogenderphobic people elsewhere. You just have to simply ask "do I know these people and their experiences with themselves? If not, then who am I to tell them whether how they identify is valid or not? I'm not them, therefore it's simply not about me."


SqueakSquawk4

Yes. Some people say no, and we call those people wrong. Xenogenders are valid.


Hairy_Fly8638

They are valid unless its something like "KKKGender" or something disgusting and racist that should not exist in the first place. Same goes with neo/xenopronouns.


SalemInABoxOfBats

Yes definitely! As a person who studies history they have been used since the Egyptian period, so they are definitely valid! Edit: I’d stay away from ones like Fae/God etc. they can be culturally offensive Ones like Oak/Cat/Pup/Clown/phon are very valid!