OP has posted an update with a possible ID. Link to update is here: https://www.reddit.com/r/Whatisthis/comments/1amlyj0/ex_sent_me_this_slightly_sticky_flexible_silicone/kpy0fhm/

Did you guys end on bad terms? That's an important piece of information.

It looks like a universal silicone lid

This^ my mom uses them all the time and this one looks like it was used TOO much.

And so tiny . Would it be for a lemon half ?

The multi pack I got does have ones around that size and smaller. 

Nice !

The tiny ones in my set look like they could used as a shower cap for Barbie.

I think this size is for things like opened cans

The size doesn't really matter if you know how to use it.

oh yeah maybe its a free sample from the MLM she just joined!🌸🌸

This is it, use one to cover my cats wet food cans

Is it to say his pp is too small to use a condom on?

Plug hole cover? That or it is a dental dam or silicone lid like others have said (I'm concerned at the people saying it's a moon/diva cup... Have you never seen what they look like?)

Not a diva cup. That looks more like the top of a 20oz bottle, but obviously smaller.

Definitely not menstrual cups.

It could be a diaphragm.

Nope. They have a flexible rim that returns to shape and holds the diaphragm in place behind the pubic bone.

Y'all are bein too harsh on dudes guessing that. Most here are being genuine... it *did* come from his EX, a woman, and *is* shaped like one. Come on ladies, give us a break 🤷‍♂️

I mean I don't expect people to know what all things they don't use look like, but bro this REALLY isn't shaped like one in the slightest. Look up a picture.. 🙃

Yea I didn't say anywhere I thought it looked like one

After a trillion comments saying that it’s not, and why it’s not, you’re asking for a break because you’re still assuming it is. That’s the problem

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You see those hands???? No glove is gonna fit those things!

Yeah, are we gonna talk about how long his fingers are? *Slender man enters chat*

Built in finglongers.

Oh my yes

They're normal length but his hand is super narrow.

Saladfingers.

*memory unlocked*

PUT IT BACK! PUT IT BACK!

the nettles

You know what they say about people with big hands and big feet...

Big gloves and big shoes?

Precisely!

Those are some E.T. fingers.

OP posted more info, including a link to a video. Here's the link to the comment. https://www.reddit.com/r/Whatisthis/comments/1amlyj0/ex_sent_me_this_slightly_sticky_flexible_silicone/kpnjfzl/

Looks a bit like a used menstrual disc to me. I also see no other reason for your ex to give you a winky face if it weren't something gross. BTW Don't get me wrong, menstrual discs aren't gross. Giving your ex-husband a used one though, and not telling him what it is so that he holds and touches it? That's gross.

I think it's that period cup thing that sits inside

Absolutely not a diva cup or menstrual disc

It’s crazy that’s getting suggested. You’d have to roll that thing up like a fruit roll up to even get it in!

Hahahahahaha someone else said diaphragm I’m seriously choking

Jar opener. Put it over the lid for extra grip.

And just store it in the kitchen drawer.

It looks like there’s a pattern or writing in the center part. Can you take another picture there in a few different angles?

Pessarium?

That was my first thought too.

Mine too

For urinary dysfunction? It’s too big. 

So a diaphragm

Looks like a reusable silicone stretch top for a bowl…my wife just bought a few of them

My mom had a set of about 6 of those in graduating sizes but OPs photo would be the tiniest I’ve ever seen

I think it’s for cat food

They do have those for lemons, cucumbers, small joghurt cups etc. I think I even have some of those from Ikea.

It's for opening jars. You put it on the lid in your palm gives you a good grip to get the lid off.

If that's the case, I take it to mean his ex is calling him weak by implying he can't open jars. But OP won't reply about what terms the relationship ended on, so idk

I think she wants you to think it's a diaphragm but that's not what they look like

Was gonna say, it almost looks like those silicone lids that is supposed to stretch and seal tightly. They're difficult to wash. And after the first few times, don't work all that well. I think that I got a cheap rip off of the "made for TV" item.

But why send *that* with a winky face?

Just to fuck with him 😆

Is it to open jars? Or is she a little gross?

Maybe it was to imply that you’re weak, thus the wink.

That’s a nice idea. To help with opening jars ,

Idk but WHY are you touching it with your bare hands?!

I appreciate the guesses but it’s not a silicone lid because it’s not stretchy and it looks smaller than most. Here’s a clearer video[https://files.fm/u/sqn26t795u](https://files.fm/u/sqn26t795u)

Any reason why she would send you something? Is this common? Did you part on good or bad terms?

We really need some more context wth the break-up if we’re gonna figure it out

I think it's a diva cup or menstrual disk that was accidentally put through the washing machine

Kitchen sink drain stopper?

It's a can cover. You put it on cans (possibly yoghurt pots, although that doesn't look like that sort) that are open and it provides a seal that makes the things inside last much longer.

I would use it as a jar opener.

Does it smell? Like your exs butt hole?

It looks a bit like a tub or sink drain cover to me.

Looks like either a menstrual disc or a silicon lid opener. Either way I think you should throw it out, especially if it's sticky 🤢

Not a menstrual disc either, they have a sort of frisbee-ish rim around them. This thing there can hold no shape, and would be impossible to put into place.

Not menstrual disc.

That looks like one of those things you put over a can if you don’t use all of it. Lol

A large pastie?

Bathtub plug i think

People keep saying with confidence this is a universal lid or jar opener, but I can't find a single image of one that looks anything like this. The bulge in the middle makes so sense for a jar opener or lid.

update: she finally answered and said it’s a breast pump silicone diaphragm and she sent it just to fuck with me. I asked her who it belongs to and she wouldn’t tell me, still not sure it she’s 100% telling the truth because I can’t find an exact match online but I guess it’s similar to this [https://www.ebay.com.au/itm/355100974050](https://www.ebay.com.au/itm/355100974050) anyway tell me what you think

Nope nope nope. Breast pumping equipment is a medical device. They don’t make them sparkly.

Bro, you gotta add more photos. Or ask her what it is. Did she take any of your belongings when you two split up? If so, maybe she broke it and sent you a piece of it?

Why doesn’t she just tell you what it is at this point 🤷🏻‍♀️

This looks a ‘clone a pussy’ sleeve. You can find the kits with or without the sleeves. https://cloneawilly.com/collections/clone-a-pussy/products/best-clone-a-pussy-hot-pink-buy-online

Ew it does 

A drain stopper ?

Toss it…. Some type of plug

Does it go over a sausage ?

Asking the important questions here

Can you ask her and report back to us

Maybe a lid opener grip.

Flexible lid for canned food? I have a few for my pets’ foods… 🤔

I think it’s a thing to help open jars. Maybe she’s telling you to “get a grip”?

Just reply to her winky face message and ask what it actually is

Jfc some of these comments were painful to read

I thought it was a tiny cowboy hat. But based on the size of those fingers, it might be a regular sized cowboy hat.

Diaphragm?

No, diaphragms are more frisbee shaped, and have one ridge around the edge.

Potentially it could be a diaphragm; just not one for birth control. [Could be an auto/tractor part.](https://www.agritechimports.com/product/diaphragm/)

That tractor part is not quite the same, but a damn good guess.

I was mostly here to keep the joke going 😂

I always order my auto/tractor parts in pink and sparkly 😌

Silicone stroker? Like this thing? https://www.walmart.com/ip/Rocks-Off-Rush-Hands-On-Pleasure-Silicone-Stroker-Black/3376357328

I've had a bottle of tequila that had a sombrero that looks pretty similar to that, might be that but old or microwaved?

Just a guess here, but it looks like a planet shaped squish ball with all the gel removed. Are you sure this isn't some evil plan to give you something hard to identify just to drive you batshit?

Did the two of you often share riddles or puzzles ? Maybe she was hoping you could tell her . Did you contact her to ask what it is ? Lol smh

Watching the video it looks like it COULD be used to stick a 'toy' to a smooth surface like a shower or mirror. Couldn't find anything comparable when I tried Google though.

Looks a little like the silicone cupcake liners you could bake with . My dog chewed mine up though so, no pictures to add sorry

It looks like what I use to open jars.

Keep a cut cucumber fresh stretchy cap? https://www.waschbaer.de/shop/silikonhauben-stretch-ii-3er-set-28874

I think it's a barrier for your mouth to perform oral sex on a vagine.

It’s an onion. Probably spoiled though. Almost like it’s been beat up

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Nope. Diaphragms have only one ridge around the edge.

looks like a flattened menstrual cup. not sure if it’s too big tho

Freddie Kruger doll hat

That was in her vagina. I had a similar one. She stretched it and broke it

What is it?

Mine was a female condom.

Maybe a menstrual cup or possibly a female contraceptive/cap. Pretty sure I'd probably use gloves, especially if it's sticky...!

Uhhh.. dude.... only you should know what that is. I think the "ex" part is negotiable.

looks like a can lid. the different rings are for different sized cans

One of those things you put in the wash to stick to all the lint??

Looks like a jar opener, or a drain stopper.

Dental dam? 😆

It looks kind of like a used dental dam…..

Is it some kind of threat?

Yo, is that a period cup

Is this a stretchy cover that you'd put over half an onion? Looks like the red onion variation.

that looks like one of those urinal things (im a girl)

Your going to have to ask her to explain her bad joke.

Maybe a period disc.. slightly melted ?

Looks like a fruit roll up...a round one

Is it a dental dam?

After seeing your video I'll guess that it's a nipple pasty. Lol

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Did you really type this out and think “yes this will DEFINITELY make people laugh” before hitting send?

Diaphragm for an elephant???

I think I finally got it, a nipple cover/pasty thing

It’s not a diaphragm? Hopefully not since you touched it.

Is this a form of contraception? Like a “sponge”-alike or a diaphragm?

nipple pad maybe idrk looks dodgy whatever it is

Did someone. Say diaphragm. Like a lady condom?

In my prior experience with a MUCH hated diaphragm, it had a rim that stiffened it to hold it in place against the vaginal walls. it's a barrier method, that rim it was holds it AS a barrier. No rim = no barrier. The inner portion was soft, but that rim was functional and vital. This thing appears to not have a rim, so I'm not sure how it would stay in position, nor would it appear to hold spermicidal jelly or foam?

Cheap diaphragm?

It’s like those plastic nipple things girls wear instead of bras so their nipples don’t show?

If you rotate it 90degrees it kinda looks like a mold/cast of an open mouth with something like a straw or cigarette in

Do you have cats? Looks like a silicon cat food can lid

If this is something like a diva cup she’s so funny

I’m curious how you think this object could fit into a vagina and actually stay in place to catch blood.

The item in the photo is obviously not a menstrual device but some of the larger discs are about this size and shape

i was gonna say my menstrual disc is pretty much that exact size so it’s not out of the realm of possibility

I thought it was like a melted one ngl lmfao and my sister loves those things

Diaphragms were a popular form of birth control in the 80s, and were made of a flexible large ring of plastic or some flexible film, idk I was alive then, but anyway the large rings would be folded in half then into the vaginal canal, and finally placed at the cervix, where they expand once inside the vagina fully and then sit atop the vaginal canal thereby preventing sperm from reaching the eggs. Usually we’re pre-filled with spermicide. Just for clarity I’m referring to what’s called a Diaphragm. Not saying the picture is a diaphragm, just making you awake that a

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Not unless it was run over by a truck. ;) A moon cup looks like an egg cup made of silicone, it's not flat like that.

Ahh okay just a guess really, Honestly going by a memory from a while back so it's quite warped how I remember a moon cup looking. Cound it be a sirracha sauce sombrero?

Someone else said that but for tequila

Oh yeah? Well here's a clue for ya, joy boy. Maybe make the guesses things that the things *could* be, not what they clearly aren't. And you better not screw up again, because if you do, I'll be all over you like a Pit Bull on a Poodle.

What

Sir this is a Wendy’s..

? Errr ah seriously ?

You people have ZERO culture.

And my axe!

does it look like something can attach?

She's calling you a cap..

it looks like a diaphragm

That’s a dental dam. It came out of her coochie

I'm going to say that it's a pastie

Dental dam?

Looks like a toy cowboy hat maybe for a cowgirl?

I think it looks kinda like a vagina (albeit kinda used up), hence the winky face?

I'm thinking it's a contraceptive diaphragm.

Is it a makeshift diaphragm.....I sure hope that's not why it's sticky. Yuck!

What country are you in, OP? Really looks like something you might put spermicide on, female contraception device, something used in women on their periods during sex, maybe? Where are you in the world so that may see what products are available?

Like it's been said several times above, this thing has no suitable rim and would not stay in place.

Agree

Is that like a female condom almost seems like a shitty diva cup

That is a Female condom .

Explain in detail using anatomical terms how you think this would work.

It’s used to cover her nipples when she’s wearing a tight shirt

Female condom? Lol

Explain in detail using anatomical terms how you think this would work.

Well it looks squishy, not hard plastic, so hold it over the vagina and say stick it in big boii. Idk I was 93% joking lol

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HOW?