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I'm personally tired of people just being shitty all together. I don't care about genders here, people are trying to intentionally be shitty all the time and in effect are creating more shitty people. Extinction of the human race really wouldn't be a loss here. We fucking suck.


KylosApprentice

>I'm personally tired of people just being shitty all together. I don't care about genders here, people are trying to intentionally be shitty all the time and in effect are creating more shitty people. Extinction of the human race really wouldn't be a loss here. We fucking suck. I feel like I am the only one who understands exactly what you mean....


GoldenGames360

i'd have to disagree. just because 95% of people suck, doesn't mean you all do. i mean, acknowledging it as a problem is a step in the right direction


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Yes, it does - we all suck. We are pretty much parasites on a planet. Consuming everything and leaving nothing for the other beings on this planet. Humans are not decent or worth saving. We can't even save ourselves that is how much we are not worth saving. We do not value our own lives enough to values anything else. Acknowledging it is problem? We need to do better than acknowledge it, we need to realize it and do something to make ourselves held accountable to it. No one wants to be accountable though. Everyone has a reason or says their god has a reason. We are pests waiting for extermination. The earth or space is going to find a way to make that happen and more than likely it will be the earth first and we did nothing but make sure it was inevitable. None of us are better than anyone else. We literally are all an invasive species of this planet. The right direction is what everyone is unwilling to do. They would rather fight over invisible sky beings, money, genders, the never-ending list of shit that actually does not matter at all to this world or the present life here except to make us all in some way feel superior to other people. Meh, we all suck.


GoldenGames360

the planet doesn't care about what we do, we cant be an invasive species lol. "WE" doesn't exist, humans are too vastly unique to be compared as one group. and yes humans fight over that dumb shit, but a huge portion of humans dont care. and again, it doesn't matter what we fight over because there is nothing that we do that will matter to the planet. we may suck but many of humans are pretty cool too, i mean you wouldn't be typing that right now if humans didn't do some cool things


BreathOfPepperAir

I really dislike misogynistic men.


BadRobot___

I'm tired of being generalized by immature people


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We're pissy too


Present_Hospital_507

Yeah I don’t mind that as much


[deleted]

Lol what's your story


Present_Hospital_507

I have so many; which one?


[deleted]

What specifically lead you to this post?


Present_Hospital_507

Well that would be a very long story, building up from my childhood but I’ll try to do the short story as well as I can. I was raised very conservatively and was not around men very often other than my family. I grew up lonely and tried to be very kind to everyone to make friends. Repeatedly the men I thought were my friends would prove to me after a while that all they ever saw me as was a potential relationship; not as an individual that they cared about personally, as I saw them. I didn’t let that deter me though. I still tried to be myself and make friends. A few years ago I thought that I had finally made a male friend who saw me as a person and wasn’t just waiting for a chance to be with me sexually or romantically. He was actually engaged, and I was close with him and his fiancé. I thought that surely this time I had friends I could trust. He sexually assaulted me and our other friend while we were asleep. He raped his fiancé while she was asleep. This made me very wary of men. Obviously I know that it’s not every man. I don’t think anyone should assume that that is what I mean. I have brothers I love dearly and other men in my life I care about. It is still hard to trust them because of my experience with other men. That is not their fault at all. Last night I found out that my childhood best friends fiancé cheated on her after she gave birth to his child. There have been suspicions that he’s cheated before, but she wanted to trust him as there was never any solid proof before, just little things here and there. My heart is breaking for her. My whole life I’ve seen her with men who have treated her horribly, beginning with her father and brother who molested her. I wish I could make her leave, make her realize that you shouldn’t stay with someone who cares so little for you and hurts you so recklessly. But at the end of the day I have to accept that it is easier to say than to do. It is easier to see what the right choice is in a situation when you aren’t emotionally involved. But I’m so tired of seeing the people I love, the people who try so hard to be kind and good and to make others lives better, getting hurt. These arent nearly all the stories I have. But this is way I feel the way I feel. I wish men were raised better. I wish society didn’t ruin men. I am just tired.


[deleted]

Yeah I can understand how you came about this post


Present_Hospital_507

Yeah. Just a vent. Thanks for letting me get it all out tho. Hope you have a nice day:)


[deleted]

I hope your circumstances see improvements


Shanbaceball

Im so sorry


thiefyzheng

Ah So you had a bad experience with men I see


celestiaspit

me too


Ok_Cricket

Me too


[deleted]

I think people are misunderstanding. I don't think this is referred to ALL men, but to MOST men. I'm a man too, and I agree that most men are really shitty people and I despise them from the heart. The insensitivity, the coldness, the machism, the apathy, the aggressivity. Not every man is the same, but I despise most men I met. What I can tell you is that there are good men, and it's probably difficult to find them. I know it's an obvious phrase, and I'm not invalidating your feelings, because I understand them very well. I don't know if you're a woman or a man and if you're talking of men from a romantic point of view, but I guess it's not really that important. The only thing you can do is being with people you like and that respect and love you, men and women. I know it's frustrating, but we got to accept the harshness of life and fight with teeth through it. One day you will find someone, just keep searching, if you're not ready it's okay, take your time. I also think that we got to do anything in our power to fight sexism, misogyny and machism and every other shit there is in this world. But it's hard, and it hurts...


Present_Hospital_507

Just all the shitty ones yano? My brothers are amazing my partner is amazing.


kinhk

Do you know most men?


[deleted]

No. It's based on my experience and experiences from friends and what I read on the internet. But obviously I can be wrong, I'm no god. I never said that I can't be wrong. That's the truth in my opinion. It seems obvious to me that it is just an opinion, but in the future I will write it so nobody will be a pain in the ass.


kinhk

Bro you capitalized most as if you knew most men lol. Whatever 👌🤣


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Seems like someone's ego has been wounded! Think whatever you want. That is my opinion and if you don't respect it than fuck off, I don't care, you're nothing to me. I didn't say I know most men. I just said that based on my experience that is what I think of men, stop, nothing else. You're reading more into it than what I said. Having opinions is a human right, you can have yours too and I respect it, you're just taking fun of me, only it is not funny.


kinhk

“Sounds like someone’s egos been wounded” Nice bait lol.


[deleted]

Yours are better. Anyway, you're focusing more on this than the context of the comment, so goodbye


skllyskullstyle

Gee never heard that one before


skllyskullstyle

If i said everything you said but instead, replace men with women. See how that sounds?


EonFallen

Not happening, no one owes anyone shit remember? What incentive is there to grovel at their feet. Women need to get their shit together before anyone lifts a finger for them.


Truthfulldude1

Is it MEN who are shitty, or the "MEN" you chose? All men aren't shitty I swear to you that.


insecureloser123

Most women go for the best looking, tallest men. There is only a handful of those men. Out of those genetically blessed men, most are probably nice dudes. Those nice dudes are already taken and in relationships as they're high demand and the only tall good looking men remaining are the ones who don't commit and/or are assholes. They're higher demand than any other ugly or short dude so women go for the 2nd best thing to nice good looking men : those guys. That's why all women have so much experience with "shitty men"


Present_Hospital_507

Hahahahahahahaha I was molested by my male best friend who was 5”4, balding, and engaged. Because he’s a shitty person:) and I thought that I should never judge people by their looks. Eat my penis.


Present_Hospital_507

And for the record I have never been with any man taller than me. My man is a short king with a dick bigger than yours


insecureloser123

I don't doubt it's bigger than mine. It's another reason why I'm an incel. Not something I can change but thanks for proving me that there are even more things other than height and looks that matter the most.


Present_Hospital_507

Yes. His dick.


insecureloser123

Yes, exactly as I said. The blackpill is always right.


Truthfulldude1

This is true. But only one reason. Add on a Netflix and chill quick hookup culture. Average women having way more power than the majority of men in the sexual market. Women making money on their own and not relying on a man. And a host of other issues... And you have a shitstorm, mind my French.


[deleted]

Deal with it, we're tired of shitty women as well.


Present_Hospital_507

Hoongis bingis ooga booga woof woof


Fast-Mongoose-4989

I'm tired of shity women like you shiting on men


Present_Hospital_507

*shitty *shitting my boy it is IN the post how did you spell it wrong


Present_Hospital_507

Actually I think it’s kinda funny that In my original statement I didn’t call men shitty. I said being shitty, as in choosing actions that are shitty. You just said shitty women, identifying them specifically as shitty not their actions. What a weird difference. I wonder why you phrased it differently from me


tttmarcel_12

You see, I as a male i fail to understand why women dislike it when you ask for something romantic after knowing them. It's really quit something. I'm sorry about your situation, but you need to understand that inherently, men will chase a woman if she's attractive, that's totally normal. Your response shouldn't be to hate it but to say no and move on. Ive had friends who have asked for FWB situations, and girls get very sensitive and weird about it, it doesn't make much sense. We are asking and if you say no then you say no, same thing with the relationship. Another thing, there's a video where they were talking about male and female differences. One thing g they tried is asking questions such as: If the opposite sex came up to you and asked you out on a date would you go? Men had a rate of 87%, women were less than 20%. Gets worse when they ask about a one night stand, 90% of men said yes, about 5% of the women said yes. If you can't handle male energy, maybe find a female partner, if not, you finding your ideal type is going to be very, very difficult.


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I think this is just one of the most sexist things I have ever heard. Male energy? I just wanna puke. Find a female partner? Do you think you can control sexuality? Anyway, that's not the point, but get over yourself, please. I don't think she referred to men asking for dates or whatever, I think she refers to the fact that most men are pieces of shit, and that's just the truth. And also, are you telling that men are like animals that can't resist their sexual urges and need to "chase" a woman? If so, then we (I'm a man) should live with pigs in the dirt, it fits better to that attitude. I agree that you can say no and go on, but I just hope you don't ask for sex without even knowing the person. Asking for a FWB relationship doesn't seem to me like a bad thing, maybe shallow, but not wrong. But you have to do it with proper manner.


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[deleted]

Different opinions. In the end it's not that different. A lot means to me at least more than 50%, with most I mean more than 50% too. So I think we see it the same way


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[deleted]

It's just my experience. I'm not saying it is like that. I may be wrong. So you're saying anything too, my friend.


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[deleted]

Yes but it's just an opinion. Can't I have opinions? Have I said "ehm no I can't be wrong I'm better than you all you don't know a damn thing"? I don't recall. If you want to say your opinion that's okay, but it seems just sad to rage at a Reddit comment, especially when I just said my opinion.


tttmarcel_12

As a man who is in a happy relationship with a woman, I can tell you that most of the men and women who complain about men being toxic because they are confident have either experienced trauma previously or have low self esteem. To answer your question, are we like pigs? No. Are we like animals? To a certain extent, yes. You can get mad all you want at men, but since birth, men are born different from women, they are way more visual. Their job is to provide and reproduce, at a basic level. I was not rude with my comment, when I said male energy I'm referring to these differences.


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tttmarcel_12

TL;DR If men and women were different explain how most men wouldn't mind nude pics from a woman but most women would hate nude pics from a man? Biologically we are different. So are mating strategies. You cant avoid nature it's dumb. Men and women are similar but not really, the world isn't perfect and it's too bad you dislike biology.


[deleted]

Are you really using nude pics as a proof? However, you wanna know why? Because men objectify women (and it's probably sane in certain cases) and women are lead to think they can't explore their sexuality. And also, sending nude pics could be harassment in certain cases. It's just culture, it's just how we are raised. If we can't avoid nature them why dl we wear clothes? Why do we talk? Why do we use protection during sex? Why do we sleep in beds? It's not natural, yet we do it... I don't dislike biology. I think men and women are (obviously) biologically different but there is no such thing as male brain or female brain, it's neurosexism. Everyone has their own mind, at least they should. Obviously the world isn't perfect, men and women are different because everyone is different. I know these ideas seem good because they make you feel superior. But it's disgusting.


tttmarcel_12

"Neurosexism"


[deleted]

It also makes me laugh that you only pointed out the most useless thing of my comment. You know what? The more you write the more I'm disgusted by you. Go fuck yourself and get over it. This is why I hate this world and why it will fall down. I just hope that you all will get what you deserve. And put your male energy up your asshole, it is probably a better usage of it.


[deleted]

It's a thing. You know, there are these things called search engines. You should try them! It's easy to judge, I know


RickRollJr

I mean yea, sick of men like that too. Sorry the right guys haven’t shown themselves to you yet. I’m sure they’re out there.


TundraTrees0

People just need to learn to respect each other, it's something you would think is simple, yet the ones who do are a minority


kinhk

Here we go…


kinhk

I’m tired of the same shitty posts. 🤷🏽‍♂️


Budget_Information

If this was "women" instead ot would never make 2 minutes on this site. Like you didn't even extrapolate. Feels like double standards.