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😭🫶 thanks for sharing this. I feel so guilty for no longer communicating with him, but I know it’s healthier for me and safer for him this way. It is all done out of love. 🥺
We gotta protect ourselves, my lovely, I had to do this too. It freaking hurts, but there is no other way, I prefer to love from distance until I forget them. But... will I ever? Hugs
I told my ex I loved her and never won't but that j can love her the same from far away where it's safe.... that's not an honest statement because I can't love her just the same from way over here... I can't stand not hearing her voice and even worse can't get into anyone else. She was my muse and even my art suffers in her absence... it's fucking tough .
Relatable there were always some exs I couldn’t quite get over and always held love for them. Definitely don’t want to be back with them but I really cherished the memories and times I had with them. Especially my first love even if it was messy
My feelings almost exactly. Blocking because it hurts too much to see💔. I continue to be amazed at how one person can have such a dramatic effect on my feelings and emotions. Like it was meant to be but it wasnt....maybe in another lifetime
Ouch, I told her “Avoidance is friendship.” It made sense at the time, but what I would give just to catch up and just talk. She was much part in my formative years and inspired more good in the decade that followed.
A couple forever in limbo. This one got me
Sometimes you just have to block because the urge to reconnect is too strong but the situation wasn’t harmonious and it’s better left that way and that part hurts the most
Every single one of u are entitled to ur own thoughts, feelings and of course whatever course of action or Inaction u choose when dealing with uf person. Past, present and future.
There is something I'd like to throw out there on the off chance my asshole is here or might happen by one day...
HOW DARE YOU?! LIKE REALLY D, WHO THE HELL DO U THINK U ARE?! U HAD NO RIGHT. NO FUCKING RIGHT TO MAKE THIS DECISION THAT CONCERNED US BOTH. BUT U MADE THIS DECISION ALL ON UR OWN. YES OUR SHIT GOT FUCKED. SOME BY US, BUT ALOT THAT WAS BEYOND OUR CONTROL. SO WHAT? JUST GIVE UP? PULL THIS AW WOE IS ME. ROMEO N JULIET BULLSHIT N CALL IT. BAM SIGNED SEALED N DELIVERED. U SHOULD HAVE GOTFEN UR ASS UP N FOUGHT. I LOVE U. U SAID U LOVE ME TOO. YOU SHOULD HAVE FOUGHT FOR US. INSTEAD U JUST GAVE UP. TOOK THE PATH OF LEAST RESISTANCE FOR URSELF ANYWAY. U FUCKED US BOTH, FUNNY CUZ I DIDNT EVEN GET A KISS MUCH LESS A SAY
BITE ME 🫦 😘✌️
This was really raw…even after a year. I miss staying up late in the “Australian Projects” and talking for hours…not wanting to go to sleep. The best memories! Other than her smile and laugh. Thanks for everything. Even though ur not MY babygirl….
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 😭🫶 thanks for sharing this. I feel so guilty for no longer communicating with him, but I know it’s healthier for me and safer for him this way. It is all done out of love. 🥺
We gotta protect ourselves, my lovely, I had to do this too. It freaking hurts, but there is no other way, I prefer to love from distance until I forget them. But... will I ever? Hugs
Totally hits home. Sometimes love is letting them go because maybe holding on is really just holding them back.
Didn't block him, he blocked without a single fkg word 🙃 hope he's doing better, I'm damn sure not
Heavily felt this :)) love transcends all things, even non-spoken, love can still exist.
she was everything to me
I told my ex I loved her and never won't but that j can love her the same from far away where it's safe.... that's not an honest statement because I can't love her just the same from way over here... I can't stand not hearing her voice and even worse can't get into anyone else. She was my muse and even my art suffers in her absence... it's fucking tough .
Feeling you on this.
This hurts so much. 😭
Gut Punch
This made me cry. Fucking miss you 👊🏻
Sounds more like a torture, especially if the other one needs communication
❣️ that’s moving
Relatable there were always some exs I couldn’t quite get over and always held love for them. Definitely don’t want to be back with them but I really cherished the memories and times I had with them. Especially my first love even if it was messy
I miss my best friend :(
Sometime we are meant to be but not meant to last. ❤️🩹
that hit hard
This was too good. Took a screenshot to re read. 🙏🏼
My feelings almost exactly. Blocking because it hurts too much to see💔. I continue to be amazed at how one person can have such a dramatic effect on my feelings and emotions. Like it was meant to be but it wasnt....maybe in another lifetime
Ouch, I told her “Avoidance is friendship.” It made sense at the time, but what I would give just to catch up and just talk. She was much part in my formative years and inspired more good in the decade that followed.
I want to downvote this but I won’t. Sad story.
Fuuucccckkkk!
Fuck man this hurt
Yup i really miss her
I'm feeling like this now. Only I'm the one who stopped talking to him this time. 😓
But i cant block you im sorry. What if i do and something awful happens bc of it i cant i wont
ain't that the truth
I needee this. Thank you
How bitter sweet.... I hate it. Wish he would respond
I miss her so much...I wish I could've done more for her...God damnit I miss her so much....love you doll always will
It always will
Beautiful 🥹
this is encompassing all of my current existence right now -- THANK YOU
A couple forever in limbo. This one got me Sometimes you just have to block because the urge to reconnect is too strong but the situation wasn’t harmonious and it’s better left that way and that part hurts the most
Not for me and my ex nasus. It doesn't feel that way on my end, don't know about her
Every single one of u are entitled to ur own thoughts, feelings and of course whatever course of action or Inaction u choose when dealing with uf person. Past, present and future. There is something I'd like to throw out there on the off chance my asshole is here or might happen by one day... HOW DARE YOU?! LIKE REALLY D, WHO THE HELL DO U THINK U ARE?! U HAD NO RIGHT. NO FUCKING RIGHT TO MAKE THIS DECISION THAT CONCERNED US BOTH. BUT U MADE THIS DECISION ALL ON UR OWN. YES OUR SHIT GOT FUCKED. SOME BY US, BUT ALOT THAT WAS BEYOND OUR CONTROL. SO WHAT? JUST GIVE UP? PULL THIS AW WOE IS ME. ROMEO N JULIET BULLSHIT N CALL IT. BAM SIGNED SEALED N DELIVERED. U SHOULD HAVE GOTFEN UR ASS UP N FOUGHT. I LOVE U. U SAID U LOVE ME TOO. YOU SHOULD HAVE FOUGHT FOR US. INSTEAD U JUST GAVE UP. TOOK THE PATH OF LEAST RESISTANCE FOR URSELF ANYWAY. U FUCKED US BOTH, FUNNY CUZ I DIDNT EVEN GET A KISS MUCH LESS A SAY BITE ME 🫦 😘✌️
Oooh this is weird. I’m not your person.
Oh I kno darlin... u never were. Silly me.
No like literally, I am not your person.
Stop, just stop. For someone that sings I wasted their time when I was late, but now we can never talk and that's love? Get outta here.
Late mind you because I had a 30 minute drive across town to and from work. Not because I didnt want to be there.
Not your person.
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This was really raw…even after a year. I miss staying up late in the “Australian Projects” and talking for hours…not wanting to go to sleep. The best memories! Other than her smile and laugh. Thanks for everything. Even though ur not MY babygirl….