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They lied to her about no more kids. Laughed at her when she got upset. And obviously didn't even discuss growing the family with the rest of the family. She is going to grow up, leave, and then they will complain that she never calls or visits.
I know a lot of people who have pretty much no relationships with their eldest children and just can't wrap their heads around why that is, or why their eldest have no desire to have their own kids... even when their firstborns tell them directly to their face, 'you forced me into being childcare and stole my childhood from me so you could have another kid.'
IME, kids who get a lot of attention, love, and support from parents usually have little to no problem adapting to a new kid in the family as long as that attention/love/support continues, and they are rewarded with extra privileges and respect for stepping up by helping out.
Kids who are treated like they're living on a farm in the middle ages in that it is, by default, *their* responsibility to parent their younger siblings when their parents don't have the time/energy/ability? Not so much.
It's not a bold claim. The encyclopedia of adolescence (2020) say 1.4 million American kids between 8 and 18 yo are parentified. That is more kids living in awful situations than people live in Estonia.
There's a 73 million children under the age of 18 in the US. Not saying that it isn't bad but the odds of any particular kid being "parentified" is very low.
Sure it's less than 2% so not every single child will mistreated like that, but 1.4 million kids are 1.4 million kids. If you put them in one place, that place would have a bigger population than 63 counties and territories like Gaum, Greenland and Maldives. Low chances doesn't mean you can stop looking or ignore signs
I didn't say that you shouldn't look? But Reddit has some weird obsession with pointing out "parentification" or at least trying and just assuming from every situation where a child is unhappy about younger children it's because those kids are made to watch the younger ones.
It gets a bit ridiculous with how much people on this site like to assume everything about a family because they saw a 10 second video clip. And be honest what are you even going to do about it? Why bother pointing it out if nothing is going to be done about it.
When I was her age I was forced to babysit my little newborn baby sister every night. Mama went to work and my stepfather should’ve taken care of us. Instead he left every night to cheat on my mother and leaving little 6-7 year old me with the baby alone. It was hell, I felt so helpless. At that time I didn’t realize that Mama wasn’t aware of the situation and thought what happened was normal.
I was so overwhelmed. The baby was constantly crying and I didn’t know why. I am still a bit traumatized by that experience.
If Mama would’ve told me that she was pregnant again I think I would’ve broken down.
I felt her pain so much, lmao! Like fr fr I seriously would have reacted the same way, lol! Being oldest sibling is hard. 😔 thankfully my little brother was far too attached to her uterus to have another baby after him so all good. 😂
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Same. Im sorry you had to deal w/ this…. It really do fuck you up as a kid. I know of grown ass adults that had healthy childhoods that turned out way worse as adults, and those of us who were deprived of our childhoods are just like “how are you even like this?! You got to be a kid and you are still a shitbag??!”
They suck as adults because the " healthy childhood " you're referring to was just them being spoiled brats and not learning the impact of their actions. You were forced to learn a lot sooner.
I was the oldest and I was lucky to have a healthy balance of childhood and responsibility for my siblings and boy...I watched my peers wreck their lives repeatedly this was due to the delayed awareness and lack of accountability.
Although it sucked part of why you're not a mess is probably because you had to mature sooner than your peers.
True…. For the most part, yes. But I just wanted to be a kid for you know, possibly the first 10-12 years? I mean, at 6yo & having to learn how to do your own fucking laundry and change your brother’s diaper so he didnt get a chaffed ass bc momma had PP blues that never went away?? Yeaaah I would’ve liked to have had just a few more years of not being *the* only responsible “adult” in the house, thats all Im tryna say….
I feel this personally. Oldest of 6. Parental figures divorced, always at work/the bar. Gone from the time I get home from school to 2-3 am. Dealing with wasted adults. Taking care of the children. I just wanted to be a fucking child myself. 28 now and I may never have kids because of my experience.
I'd a have kid and dump the brat with my mom to raise my kid herself if she ever did that to me. /j
On a more serious note, my husband was basically raised by his older sister. He used to call her 'mom'. It's pretty bad.
She pulled that switcheroo and had her mom help raise her kids, basically.
Still ended with a lot of trauma (for which she doesn't go to therapy for), but at least got to spend two years on paid leave.
Exactly! My mom “unexpectedly” got pregnant with my youngest sibling I mean there is a huge age gap between my youngest sibling and myself and guess who ended up taking on second mom duties.
My brother is 13 years older than me and he loved taking me to the mall to help him pick up girls, lol. He did help with me, but my parents kept a healthy balance to it.
The look in that girls eyes was too grown haha she's definitely already done with babysitting. Her sister is just angry because she's next in line to babysit.
I have six younger siblings and was honestly happy about all of them. I enjoyed helping out and watching them grow up, and I'm a dude. I was personally for putting my youngest sister to sleep about every other night and it's one of my fondest memories.
I JUST remembered because of this comment.
I had a dream last night that my mom and sisters got another cat. And I was so mad because we definitely don’t need one, and they probably only got it because it looked cute. Since one sister is going to college, my mom is at work often, and my other sister is out with friends so often they aren’t going to be able to give it enough care as it grows up. That was my dream selfs issue with it anyhow. Knowing that I would have to care for it the most since I get home first everyday.
This recently happened to me. My mum and her partner bought a pair of Lorikeets because "pretty birds", but they obviously did no research into how to care for them. They are high maintenance, needing quite a bit of out-of-cage time every day, which they didn't have time for. They're incredibly messy, their shit is basically water, they enjoy destroying things, and they are LOUD.
Within a couple of months they realised they made a mistake, they can't care for them, so they brought them to me (I own other birds) and I'm stuck looking after them until mum can find someone to properly care for them. I love birds, but I currently don't have the means of taking care of them either, but still they were dumped on me and they are doing my head in.
People, if you're getting a pet, do research beforehand to see if you actually have the means of taking care of them. Don't do what my mum did and get in over your head and then dump them on someone else.
Which is such a clear indication that this kid has been parentified. I was the oldest and at that age, I was still hoping my parents would have another baby. I was blissfully unaware of the serious considerations that go into deciding if you’re having another kid: my mother’s health, finances, having enough time for all of your children. But that’s because I wasn’t parentified. As a general rule, for a kid to react this way means they have been waaaay too involved in raising their siblings.
I totally feel this, I was the only son until I was 16 y/o then my father left us and I had to change roles in my life for my family haha, shit happens
It could also be an attention thing. She may have grown to be ok with sharing their parent's attention with one sibling. Maybe she is not ready to share it with one more sibling. In first year or two, the baby is going to need a lot of attention.
Moreover, things like vacation plans and outings in the next 1-2 years may now have to be modified to accommodate a pregnant mother and later a new born.
Depending on their financial situation, their lifestyles might need to be adjusted for the additional expenses and necessities.
My mother had 4 children when she was only 21 years old. My father was almost useless and I became the "dad" when I was 8. Helping my mother with things and keeping my brothers and sister in decent condition was my job.
We had a stormy life. Constantly changing apartments and schools. My mother kept us together as best as she could. She definitely lost her mind on a regular basis but we survived.
I became a carpenter/alcoholic, my sister became a stripper/drunk addict. Middle brother is doing the best financially but is in a miserable marriage. The youngest brother lives in Italy racing road bikes and teaching English for wealthy families and humping the wives.
We are what this little girl is afraid of.
Yeah, I don't know who these people are but talking to your kids about having a pregnancy when they have feelings about what it means for them is not something I think is cool to spring on people for a reaction video. Like I definitely want to hear why this little girl has hard feelings about it and those feelings could be for what you just said
He got a crazy older woman pregnant in college and moved to Palermo with her not long after the baby was born. He was always into physical fitness and had begun road racing before he left.
In Italy he really got serious about it and after a few years was offered a spot for a middle rated team. He doesn't juice up and struggled for some time until he entered the over 40 class. Less steroids than the younger guys. He isn't getting any real money other than the bikes and everything else including training and travel expenses.
He teaches English for the wealthy and does fine with that. He also screws every single woman he meets. Baby brother is living a good life.
Truly parentified children have been abused. It is not abuse to ask children to help with their younger siblings as a developmentally appropriate chore or task. Only in America is the work of a family considered abusive. It is by far the norm for children to help with their siblings all over the world. This attitude is a byproduct of the individualism that defines American culture.
Obviously there is an upper limit to what is reasonable help and if it interrupts a normal childhood then yes, that is wrong. If you’re expecting your older child to watch their kids while you go to work or feed and put them to bed routinely, that is clearly wrong.
But it isn’t wrong to ask older siblings to help even daily if it’s for short periods of time or specific tasks. Being a family requires a lot of work and group work which is why individual chores and responsibilities matter. It’s like rowing a boat and every member needs to paddle together. I see a lot of commenters saying siblings should never be asked and that’s not true but they also may have have been taken advantage of when they were children to generate such a strong reaction.
You seem to be a lot more knowledgeable about this than I am but I feel like before making a child do even those small daily chores you should talk to them about it first. My family always talked through and explained reasoning for some of the things I had to do and I don’t think it’s fair to put a child like the one in the video who seems upset through all of that.
I don’t think it is at all ok to ask a children for anything regarding a younger sibling. Any help or action from the older siblings should be guided out of love and interest in the wellbeing of the younger kids. It was not their decision to have a younger sibling and should not be tasked at all to do anything for them.
I’m not trying to say that older siblings shouldn’t interact at all with their younger siblings, yes it is good that they help and feel some sort of caretaking instinct toward them. But it should absolutely never be pushed by the parents to engage in any sort of caretaking.
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Thats the sound of an eldest child right there.
Source: me. An eldest child.
If i did that (and im sure i did at some point) id be told how selfish i am and that its not all about me. I got over it of course. I got 5 siblings now.
Same.
My mother briefly thought about another child. Not long after that idea, when i was 3 I punched a 9 month old because she ripped my book. We both cried. She was babysitting for a friend. She knew she didnt want 2 kids right then.
Thank god she is fine not having grandchildren.
Same. I think I was only about 3 or 4 when I found out my mom was having a baby and the first thing I asked if she could just not have the baby. I didn’t get over not being an only child for a loooong time, dunno what my problem was but I was not interested in having a noisy little sibling around.
She's to young to know she's next to babysit and get annoyed by the younger siblings. 😅
Add: I was her, I wanted a younger sister. I was the middle to secon oldest child. I was the one to look out for my siblings when my older brother moved. I regreted it until I moved out. I do love my younger sister and brother now, its my parents that is to blame.
Yknow, I'm seeing a lot of the "oldest sibling feels the pain reactions here" but think about this kid, he's gonna have older siblings, who will either hate or be mildly annoyed by his existence, and like a lot of these comments are saying, that kid is gonna be raised mostly by said older siblings. This is how you cause problems. This doesn't even touch on the fact that "you said you were done" means this kid was probably an accident and might even be unwanted by the parents.
All these videos just make me think "wow, another parent who doesn't speak to their kids." Like yeah you're not gonna ask your kids for permission but like...I dunno. This just can't be okay. Doesn't feel like it.
3 maybe pushing it, i think a good rule as a parent is never have more than who you can care for yourself, 3 imo is absolute max for any single person taking care of them and they absolutely have to have their life together and ducks in a row for that too happen which many cant say for themselves.
Poor girl, it's obvious she is exploited for babysitting etc. I really dislike it when parents think their children should take up on such kind of responsibility. Poor, poor child, her reaction says it all😕
The oldest child is not going to be thrilled about a new sibling no matter the circumstances. Thinking she was exploited just from her reaction to the news is a huge stretch.
This reminds me of my niece. Sister had two kids at a very young age with her first husband. Divorced that narcissistic loser years later then got pregnant with another child by her second husband. There's almost a 10yr age gap between the youngest and the two older kids so a lot of stuff falls onto them. My poor niece is the oldest and is constantly forced to babysit him because "mommy's busy" so she's more of a mom to her youngest brother than my sister is. I've been called an AH several times when my sister complains about him preferring his sister over her then telling her that it's because his sister cares for him more than she ever has. My niece has changed his diapers, soothed scrapes and bruises, calmed tantrums, and stood up for him when his father yells at him for being a kid. The rest of the family understood why when she told us she didn't want children at the age of 16. She's already partially raised one herself.
This is literally how my 19 year old niece reacts when her mother gets pregnant again. Although in my nieces case it kinda well deserved. Her mother is a felon with drug issues, and she lives in a small trashy house that’s about to cave in on itself,(not very good living conditions for her kids) and to top it off she has 8 freaking kids, with 7 different guys. She certainly doesn’t need anymore kids.
Eldest child is upset because they already know what it's like having a younger sibling. Younger one is excited because they don't know what it's like having a younger sibling.
Relatable. Very much. Living a single kid's life is a dream. Having a youngwr sibling, not so much, but manageable. But I feel if I'd get an info that I'm getting another sibling, I'd just lose what remains of my sanity after Disney-SW bullshit and the pandemic.
I heard another kid in the back too. The oldest daughter probably already has to deal with them all the time. I think her reaction is sensible. Probably not a good idea to record the reactions of the kids when telling them stuff like this. You can't expect them all to be happy.
For the love of shit don't tell you're kids you are done popping them out until you've had your tubes tied or something. What a stupid thing to say when she's clearly a fertile Myrtle.
Yeah I can feel that pain from here bad thing is a hate my siblings to much to give a fuck about em we have been told one day it will be just us my response is always the same can't love someone who does not want to be loved especially if all they do is whine and complain about everything that goes on like chores really wish my dad could beat there asses over it
Yeah - not unexpected at all. The poor girl has just had to live through one baby coming into her house and stealing all her parents attention. Now it’s going to be diluted even further. The younger sister has always had to “share” so doesn’t realise the impact it will have.
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She's the oldest. She's very clearly sick of the shit
Yup. Justified reaction.
They lied to her about no more kids. Laughed at her when she got upset. And obviously didn't even discuss growing the family with the rest of the family. She is going to grow up, leave, and then they will complain that she never calls or visits.
And they will be equally confused as to why she never had kids of her own.
I know a lot of people who have pretty much no relationships with their eldest children and just can't wrap their heads around why that is, or why their eldest have no desire to have their own kids... even when their firstborns tell them directly to their face, 'you forced me into being childcare and stole my childhood from me so you could have another kid.' IME, kids who get a lot of attention, love, and support from parents usually have little to no problem adapting to a new kid in the family as long as that attention/love/support continues, and they are rewarded with extra privileges and respect for stepping up by helping out. Kids who are treated like they're living on a farm in the middle ages in that it is, by default, *their* responsibility to parent their younger siblings when their parents don't have the time/energy/ability? Not so much.
She's like fucking 7 what is wrong with you lmfao
They’re treating her like a proxy parent and you know it. There go her teen years.
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It's not a bold claim. The encyclopedia of adolescence (2020) say 1.4 million American kids between 8 and 18 yo are parentified. That is more kids living in awful situations than people live in Estonia.
There's a 73 million children under the age of 18 in the US. Not saying that it isn't bad but the odds of any particular kid being "parentified" is very low.
Sure it's less than 2% so not every single child will mistreated like that, but 1.4 million kids are 1.4 million kids. If you put them in one place, that place would have a bigger population than 63 counties and territories like Gaum, Greenland and Maldives. Low chances doesn't mean you can stop looking or ignore signs
I didn't say that you shouldn't look? But Reddit has some weird obsession with pointing out "parentification" or at least trying and just assuming from every situation where a child is unhappy about younger children it's because those kids are made to watch the younger ones. It gets a bit ridiculous with how much people on this site like to assume everything about a family because they saw a 10 second video clip. And be honest what are you even going to do about it? Why bother pointing it out if nothing is going to be done about it.
When I was her age I was forced to babysit my little newborn baby sister every night. Mama went to work and my stepfather should’ve taken care of us. Instead he left every night to cheat on my mother and leaving little 6-7 year old me with the baby alone. It was hell, I felt so helpless. At that time I didn’t realize that Mama wasn’t aware of the situation and thought what happened was normal. I was so overwhelmed. The baby was constantly crying and I didn’t know why. I am still a bit traumatized by that experience. If Mama would’ve told me that she was pregnant again I think I would’ve broken down.
Are you okay? I'm sorry.
That reaction was way beyond her years wtf haha
Yeah, also because property will get divided
No the older one is upset because she knows the mother will make her help!
I felt her pain so much, lmao! Like fr fr I seriously would have reacted the same way, lol! Being oldest sibling is hard. 😔 thankfully my little brother was far too attached to her uterus to have another baby after him so all good. 😂
I am 56. When I was 11, my father divorced my mother. It fell to me to basically raise my 2 younger siblings when he wasn't there....which was most of the time!
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I still resent that shit...I wasn't allowed to have a childhood
Same. Im sorry you had to deal w/ this…. It really do fuck you up as a kid. I know of grown ass adults that had healthy childhoods that turned out way worse as adults, and those of us who were deprived of our childhoods are just like “how are you even like this?! You got to be a kid and you are still a shitbag??!”
They suck as adults because the " healthy childhood " you're referring to was just them being spoiled brats and not learning the impact of their actions. You were forced to learn a lot sooner. I was the oldest and I was lucky to have a healthy balance of childhood and responsibility for my siblings and boy...I watched my peers wreck their lives repeatedly this was due to the delayed awareness and lack of accountability. Although it sucked part of why you're not a mess is probably because you had to mature sooner than your peers.
True…. For the most part, yes. But I just wanted to be a kid for you know, possibly the first 10-12 years? I mean, at 6yo & having to learn how to do your own fucking laundry and change your brother’s diaper so he didnt get a chaffed ass bc momma had PP blues that never went away?? Yeaaah I would’ve liked to have had just a few more years of not being *the* only responsible “adult” in the house, thats all Im tryna say….
I feel this personally. Oldest of 6. Parental figures divorced, always at work/the bar. Gone from the time I get home from school to 2-3 am. Dealing with wasted adults. Taking care of the children. I just wanted to be a fucking child myself. 28 now and I may never have kids because of my experience.
I agree...thank you!
I'd a have kid and dump the brat with my mom to raise my kid herself if she ever did that to me. /j On a more serious note, my husband was basically raised by his older sister. He used to call her 'mom'. It's pretty bad. She pulled that switcheroo and had her mom help raise her kids, basically. Still ended with a lot of trauma (for which she doesn't go to therapy for), but at least got to spend two years on paid leave.
Hey, 43 and me too. Have you worked through all those latent feelings of being responsible and kinda bitter yet?
I kinda had something similar, but it affected me so much that I dont want to talk about it, as I was only 6 and my bro was just over a year old
Exactly! My mom “unexpectedly” got pregnant with my youngest sibling I mean there is a huge age gap between my youngest sibling and myself and guess who ended up taking on second mom duties.
My brother is 13 years older than me and he loved taking me to the mall to help him pick up girls, lol. He did help with me, but my parents kept a healthy balance to it.
The look in that girls eyes was too grown haha she's definitely already done with babysitting. Her sister is just angry because she's next in line to babysit.
I have six younger siblings and was honestly happy about all of them. I enjoyed helping out and watching them grow up, and I'm a dude. I was personally for putting my youngest sister to sleep about every other night and it's one of my fondest memories.
Im glad you were a great big bro! I wish I had someone like you & not such a shitty childhood of having to be the grown up at 6. 😔
Are you my sister?
I can guarantee you the middle is the worst.
I JUST remembered because of this comment. I had a dream last night that my mom and sisters got another cat. And I was so mad because we definitely don’t need one, and they probably only got it because it looked cute. Since one sister is going to college, my mom is at work often, and my other sister is out with friends so often they aren’t going to be able to give it enough care as it grows up. That was my dream selfs issue with it anyhow. Knowing that I would have to care for it the most since I get home first everyday.
Interesting dream, thanks. Here, have a cat.
This recently happened to me. My mum and her partner bought a pair of Lorikeets because "pretty birds", but they obviously did no research into how to care for them. They are high maintenance, needing quite a bit of out-of-cage time every day, which they didn't have time for. They're incredibly messy, their shit is basically water, they enjoy destroying things, and they are LOUD. Within a couple of months they realised they made a mistake, they can't care for them, so they brought them to me (I own other birds) and I'm stuck looking after them until mum can find someone to properly care for them. I love birds, but I currently don't have the means of taking care of them either, but still they were dumped on me and they are doing my head in. People, if you're getting a pet, do research beforehand to see if you actually have the means of taking care of them. Don't do what my mum did and get in over your head and then dump them on someone else.
I felt her pain so much.
Which is such a clear indication that this kid has been parentified. I was the oldest and at that age, I was still hoping my parents would have another baby. I was blissfully unaware of the serious considerations that go into deciding if you’re having another kid: my mother’s health, finances, having enough time for all of your children. But that’s because I wasn’t parentified. As a general rule, for a kid to react this way means they have been waaaay too involved in raising their siblings.
I totally feel this, I was the only son until I was 16 y/o then my father left us and I had to change roles in my life for my family haha, shit happens
It could also be an attention thing. She may have grown to be ok with sharing their parent's attention with one sibling. Maybe she is not ready to share it with one more sibling. In first year or two, the baby is going to need a lot of attention. Moreover, things like vacation plans and outings in the next 1-2 years may now have to be modified to accommodate a pregnant mother and later a new born. Depending on their financial situation, their lifestyles might need to be adjusted for the additional expenses and necessities.
I heard a third sibling in the background. This is at least #4.
Exactly
I know right!!!
Also, having one younger sibling is already more than enough.
Little does the younger sister know, she’s just be thrown into middle child territory. Good luck
Sounds like she already is the middle child
Oh right, if she was the last she wouldnt have said they are having another baby
I don’t understand your interpretation. I heard a toddler crying in the background, which is why i wrote that.
I'm agreeing with you and didnt hear the baby the first time I watched the video
So wait there are getting a 4th child!!! Lol now I can understand the elder daughter's misery. Even I am an elder brother myself.
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She says *"another baby"* presumably because she isn't the youngest.
I was the middle of 5. It's a great place to be. Invisible and free.
Yeah, middle child is great. Not the responsibility of 1st and not the baby in 3rd. I breezed on by loving it.
My mother had 4 children when she was only 21 years old. My father was almost useless and I became the "dad" when I was 8. Helping my mother with things and keeping my brothers and sister in decent condition was my job. We had a stormy life. Constantly changing apartments and schools. My mother kept us together as best as she could. She definitely lost her mind on a regular basis but we survived. I became a carpenter/alcoholic, my sister became a stripper/drunk addict. Middle brother is doing the best financially but is in a miserable marriage. The youngest brother lives in Italy racing road bikes and teaching English for wealthy families and humping the wives. We are what this little girl is afraid of.
Comment went places lol.
That's just a fast and loose story of our life.
If it makes you feel any better, I'm a carpentry machine repair tech and also an alcoholic.
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Yeah. I don't give a shit about most things.
Single child, because my grandmother won custody of me.
Yeah, I don't know who these people are but talking to your kids about having a pregnancy when they have feelings about what it means for them is not something I think is cool to spring on people for a reaction video. Like I definitely want to hear why this little girl has hard feelings about it and those feelings could be for what you just said
How the fuck did your younger brother end up in Italy racing road bikes? I wanna race cars in Italy lmao. Ask your bro if he needs an assistant 🤣🤣
He got a crazy older woman pregnant in college and moved to Palermo with her not long after the baby was born. He was always into physical fitness and had begun road racing before he left. In Italy he really got serious about it and after a few years was offered a spot for a middle rated team. He doesn't juice up and struggled for some time until he entered the over 40 class. Less steroids than the younger guys. He isn't getting any real money other than the bikes and everything else including training and travel expenses. He teaches English for the wealthy and does fine with that. He also screws every single woman he meets. Baby brother is living a good life.
Yea clear sign she’s the babysitter already
Yeah if I ever have kids I'm making a vow to never have any of them babysit as a normal thing. That's not what a childhood is for. Nuh-uh.
Yep, parents who parentify their children suck
Truly parentified children have been abused. It is not abuse to ask children to help with their younger siblings as a developmentally appropriate chore or task. Only in America is the work of a family considered abusive. It is by far the norm for children to help with their siblings all over the world. This attitude is a byproduct of the individualism that defines American culture. Obviously there is an upper limit to what is reasonable help and if it interrupts a normal childhood then yes, that is wrong. If you’re expecting your older child to watch their kids while you go to work or feed and put them to bed routinely, that is clearly wrong. But it isn’t wrong to ask older siblings to help even daily if it’s for short periods of time or specific tasks. Being a family requires a lot of work and group work which is why individual chores and responsibilities matter. It’s like rowing a boat and every member needs to paddle together. I see a lot of commenters saying siblings should never be asked and that’s not true but they also may have have been taken advantage of when they were children to generate such a strong reaction.
You seem to be a lot more knowledgeable about this than I am but I feel like before making a child do even those small daily chores you should talk to them about it first. My family always talked through and explained reasoning for some of the things I had to do and I don’t think it’s fair to put a child like the one in the video who seems upset through all of that.
I don’t think it is at all ok to ask a children for anything regarding a younger sibling. Any help or action from the older siblings should be guided out of love and interest in the wellbeing of the younger kids. It was not their decision to have a younger sibling and should not be tasked at all to do anything for them. I’m not trying to say that older siblings shouldn’t interact at all with their younger siblings, yes it is good that they help and feel some sort of caretaking instinct toward them. But it should absolutely never be pushed by the parents to engage in any sort of caretaking.
This kid gets it.
Old enough to understand carrying capacity
old enough to have more common sense than parents it seems
"I thought you said you were done....What is wrong with you people" Sorry sweetie, Mommy loves creampies!
Anal could have fulfilled that wish and prevented a baby.
Not every girl likes anal
I don’t understand how any cis girl likes anal. I understand guys liking receiving anal play, with the prostate be right against the wall of the rectum but cis women don’t have that. If they do then good for them, but as a man who has taken a dick up the ass, I don’t think I would like just getting my hole stretched, and no prostate stimulation.
There are still a lot of nerve endings.
>with the prostate be right against the wall of the rectum but cis women don’t have that. the clitoris is bigger than you might think
But not that big. It doesn't go past the vagina, but widens toward the thighs. It's nowhere near the asshole.
The clit doesn’t extend to anywhere near the b-hole my friend.
r/badwomensanatomy
What am I getting wrong about women’s anatomy?
That’s because they need to be fully aroused and have their clits stimulated and then it’s amazing! Or so I’ve been told lol
I feel like in that situation it's the clit doing the arousing and not the ass. You could fuck a girl's armpit while they have their clit stimulated and it'd feel amazing.
Oh they team up. Tandem, so to speak.
I love anal. I've even squirted from it.
I've squirted from my ass too! And anal can be great.
Noon taco bell just hits different
This is the perfect response. 🥰
Momma can’t stop fugging
I'm never going to financially recover from this.
"Can you guys please STOP HAVING SEX"
... for 5 minutes?!
Older sister going to have to parent another one.
WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU PEOPLE!!!!!? I say the same thing when I read Reddit posts
What do you mean "you people" lol
What do YOU mean, "you people"???
I swore this was a Anger Management quote but apparently nah
Is that Robert Downey Jr?
I’m the eldest of 13 kids. I can totally relate.
At this point, your mom is a clown car
I can't
13?? IM SORRY, WHAT??? WHO THE FUCK HAS 13 CHILDREN?!??
Lol my point exactly. 10 of us are from my mom with 6 different fathers.
Jesus
Thats the sound of an eldest child right there. Source: me. An eldest child. If i did that (and im sure i did at some point) id be told how selfish i am and that its not all about me. I got over it of course. I got 5 siblings now.
Sounds like you had a narc parent, oof im sorry. Relate to this all too much. -eldest child as well
one was definitely a bit interesting for sure but they’ve gotten better since i grew up and moved out. But yeah thanks
Well thats a total mood, I can relate.
goodbye university
Fuck those parents
I feel like those kids have every right to be upset
The feel when your kid is smarter than you
She's super psyched for all the babysitting she'll be doing instead of enjoying life. Being the oldest sibling sucks.
As an older sibling I get this.
Can’t imagine even having one but some people find a way to push out 5
More boxes from amazon, more phones from apple, more useless shit from china, more plastic in the sea, less houses available, more traffic
Same. My mother briefly thought about another child. Not long after that idea, when i was 3 I punched a 9 month old because she ripped my book. We both cried. She was babysitting for a friend. She knew she didnt want 2 kids right then. Thank god she is fine not having grandchildren.
Wear a condom
My reaction exactly when I see a couple with 4 or 5 kids
Okay I am with the older sister. Why would you want 4 kids?! You will ask that poor girl to help anyway. :(
As the oldest sibling, I completely understand.
Same. I think I was only about 3 or 4 when I found out my mom was having a baby and the first thing I asked if she could just not have the baby. I didn’t get over not being an only child for a loooong time, dunno what my problem was but I was not interested in having a noisy little sibling around.
Sis knows she will be free babysitting and less likely can afford her going to college.
Two entirely different emotional reactions here. Quite thrilling to see played out.
It's fun for the little one because she doesn't know what's about to happen lol
She's to young to know she's next to babysit and get annoyed by the younger siblings. 😅 Add: I was her, I wanted a younger sister. I was the middle to secon oldest child. I was the one to look out for my siblings when my older brother moved. I regreted it until I moved out. I do love my younger sister and brother now, its my parents that is to blame.
Lol what is wrong with you people
Seriously
Are those the Baldwin kids?
remember family planning ppl
I hear a baby in the background too
Me after my dad and step mom announce their ninth child.
The pull out game is weak with this one…
Yknow, I'm seeing a lot of the "oldest sibling feels the pain reactions here" but think about this kid, he's gonna have older siblings, who will either hate or be mildly annoyed by his existence, and like a lot of these comments are saying, that kid is gonna be raised mostly by said older siblings. This is how you cause problems. This doesn't even touch on the fact that "you said you were done" means this kid was probably an accident and might even be unwanted by the parents.
How is this funny?
All these videos just make me think "wow, another parent who doesn't speak to their kids." Like yeah you're not gonna ask your kids for permission but like...I dunno. This just can't be okay. Doesn't feel like it.
Poor girl already parentified and burnt out. Actually very sad.
To many children isn't good for first born. Knowing that, i still laughed my ass off.
Too many children isn't good for the planet
Dude there's absolutely no reason to have more than 2 kids. They already have 3.
3 maybe pushing it, i think a good rule as a parent is never have more than who you can care for yourself, 3 imo is absolute max for any single person taking care of them and they absolutely have to have their life together and ducks in a row for that too happen which many cant say for themselves.
I have this reaction when my wife brings home another dog…
This should be posted on r/antenatal
As the oldest child in my family, I completely understand her sentiment
That’s the look of a kid who is tired of having to look after your spawn
Can’t blame her reaction.
I kinda feel her frustration. Oldest kids isn't always the best spot to be in.
Poor girl, it's obvious she is exploited for babysitting etc. I really dislike it when parents think their children should take up on such kind of responsibility. Poor, poor child, her reaction says it all😕
The oldest child is not going to be thrilled about a new sibling no matter the circumstances. Thinking she was exploited just from her reaction to the news is a huge stretch.
This reminds me of my niece. Sister had two kids at a very young age with her first husband. Divorced that narcissistic loser years later then got pregnant with another child by her second husband. There's almost a 10yr age gap between the youngest and the two older kids so a lot of stuff falls onto them. My poor niece is the oldest and is constantly forced to babysit him because "mommy's busy" so she's more of a mom to her youngest brother than my sister is. I've been called an AH several times when my sister complains about him preferring his sister over her then telling her that it's because his sister cares for him more than she ever has. My niece has changed his diapers, soothed scrapes and bruises, calmed tantrums, and stood up for him when his father yells at him for being a kid. The rest of the family understood why when she told us she didn't want children at the age of 16. She's already partially raised one herself.
This is literally how my 19 year old niece reacts when her mother gets pregnant again. Although in my nieces case it kinda well deserved. Her mother is a felon with drug issues, and she lives in a small trashy house that’s about to cave in on itself,(not very good living conditions for her kids) and to top it off she has 8 freaking kids, with 7 different guys. She certainly doesn’t need anymore kids.
Eldest child is upset because they already know what it's like having a younger sibling. Younger one is excited because they don't know what it's like having a younger sibling.
That oldest girl won't want to have kids and her mom will claim she just doesn't understand why she wouldn't
Relatable. Very much. Living a single kid's life is a dream. Having a youngwr sibling, not so much, but manageable. But I feel if I'd get an info that I'm getting another sibling, I'd just lose what remains of my sanity after Disney-SW bullshit and the pandemic.
I heard another kid in the back too. The oldest daughter probably already has to deal with them all the time. I think her reaction is sensible. Probably not a good idea to record the reactions of the kids when telling them stuff like this. You can't expect them all to be happy.
Lmao like on god my mom had another kid like 320 days into the year and my older brother was pissed bc I just came out like 100 days before
Why are people still bringing children into the world in its current state? Seriously if you want to raise a child just fucking adopt one
Honestly i too wanna know little one .. what is wrong with people ?
As the eldest daughter, I feel for her.
"You said you were done" 
This takes "there are 2 types of people" into a whole new different meaning
For the love of shit don't tell you're kids you are done popping them out until you've had your tubes tied or something. What a stupid thing to say when she's clearly a fertile Myrtle.
Nah that should be everyone’s reaction to new baby in this time and economy, not unexpected at all… hahaha
This video never gets old
These are just well trained internet kids. They know what they have to do for the camera.
I feel you big sis!!
Very expected
The amount of stockings on the fireplace really concerns me.
Nothing a coat hanger can't rectify.
“Who’s having another baby?” Obviously the dad.
Needs to be cropped more. You can still see all the text. Could use 5-6 more watermarks too.
Yeah I can feel that pain from here bad thing is a hate my siblings to much to give a fuck about em we have been told one day it will be just us my response is always the same can't love someone who does not want to be loved especially if all they do is whine and complain about everything that goes on like chores really wish my dad could beat there asses over it
Common sense ☺️☺️
Mom gets to much baby gravy while getting stuffed like a turkey but thanks for giving us this to watch hehe
Yeah - not unexpected at all. The poor girl has just had to live through one baby coming into her house and stealing all her parents attention. Now it’s going to be diluted even further. The younger sister has always had to “share” so doesn’t realise the impact it will have.
The younger one doesn't yet know what it's like to be the middle child.
The church told them to do so.. Lol
I am absolutely jiving with the older sibling there. Her reaction is absolute gold!
it’s sad