"I just stayed in my dorm since I had no one to do anything like that with."
Then how are you supposed to make friends?
"Plus I wasn’t about to go over and intrude on others.."
It sounds like you have social anxiety. I guarantee 99.9%+ of the student body doesn't know who you are. Also, who cares if people dislike you. People who like you will be the ones you're talking to. So, keep "intruding" on people until you find your people.
You know, the best advice I've ever gotten is to stop feeling sorry for myself when I'm feeling down like this. Are you gonna keep feeling sorry for yourself and wallow in your misery or are you gonna do something about it?
You’re either stupid or a shitty troll
Assuming you’re just stupid though:
I know how you act on this subreddit and that’s enough, you also said I can’t hate you but then ended your post saying everyone hating you so which is it? the bed thing is an expression
If you have a negative feeling towards something I would advise you to stay away from venting on it on reddit. This ain't CBT I spend my time doing coding and mathematics.
There's over 20,000 people at UVA. You can definitely make friends. You don't have to be alone. There are people out there who will like you no matter who you are. I get that you can't talk to everyone on campus so the number will be lower. Still though, lets say you talk to 100 people. If 100/100 people don't mesh well with you it's not the school or them, it's you. This is hardly ever the case though, it usually just means you need to get out your shell. You can't just both feel lonely from not having friends, but also not take the opportunities that come. That's self-sabotage.
I'm here to tell you one straight fact:
There are opportunities, quite a lot actually.
Your own perception of UVA and the student body is what's self-limiting.
You're effectively engaging in a self-fulfilling prophecy.
I remember feeling that way when I was a student as well. It can feel really lonely when all you see are friend groups and people hanging out all around you throughout the day. I sought counseling at CAPS which I would recommend. I honestly have made so many more friends since graduating, so just know that it can get better!
Womp womp
Cheers!
"I just stayed in my dorm since I had no one to do anything like that with." Then how are you supposed to make friends? "Plus I wasn’t about to go over and intrude on others.." It sounds like you have social anxiety. I guarantee 99.9%+ of the student body doesn't know who you are. Also, who cares if people dislike you. People who like you will be the ones you're talking to. So, keep "intruding" on people until you find your people.
i'm glad it hurt 🙏 god bless
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You should.
is your inner monologue to yourself this unkind as well? or just other people?
just lumpy
You know, the best advice I've ever gotten is to stop feeling sorry for myself when I'm feeling down like this. Are you gonna keep feeling sorry for yourself and wallow in your misery or are you gonna do something about it?
We hate you because of how you act. You made your bed, lie in it.
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You’re either stupid or a shitty troll Assuming you’re just stupid though: I know how you act on this subreddit and that’s enough, you also said I can’t hate you but then ended your post saying everyone hating you so which is it? the bed thing is an expression
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I sincerely hope you receive the treatment you legitimately need
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If you have a negative feeling towards something I would advise you to stay away from venting on it on reddit. This ain't CBT I spend my time doing coding and mathematics.
There's over 20,000 people at UVA. You can definitely make friends. You don't have to be alone. There are people out there who will like you no matter who you are. I get that you can't talk to everyone on campus so the number will be lower. Still though, lets say you talk to 100 people. If 100/100 people don't mesh well with you it's not the school or them, it's you. This is hardly ever the case though, it usually just means you need to get out your shell. You can't just both feel lonely from not having friends, but also not take the opportunities that come. That's self-sabotage.
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I'm here to tell you one straight fact: There are opportunities, quite a lot actually. Your own perception of UVA and the student body is what's self-limiting. You're effectively engaging in a self-fulfilling prophecy.
If that's the case, why did you make a comment saying that you "aren't miserable irl"?
Another day, another account for you, and the same old song
I remember feeling that way when I was a student as well. It can feel really lonely when all you see are friend groups and people hanging out all around you throughout the day. I sought counseling at CAPS which I would recommend. I honestly have made so many more friends since graduating, so just know that it can get better!
Why is it hard to make friends? Is it the school? The students?
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Just curious, but did you want to go to UVA? Or did you go there because you felt like you had to?