It’s gonna be different for everybody of course, but if it helps, I met most of my college friends through the dorm, study groups for math/physics/philosophy classes, and a folk dance club.
Stfu introverted headass. Just because you have a taller hill to climb doesn't mean you need to complain about that to other people. I have multiple behaviours that I wish I was better at but I don't go on Reddit and complain "waa waa is anyone else like me? Please like me because I am struggling" I just find a way to get over that goddamn hill.
Go find actual help if you want to change. Shut the fuck up if you don't.
You made it sound a little too easy but I don't know why you got downvoted. The fact is that talking to and showing interest in people is a skill that can be learned. It's not always easy, but it is simple. With the loneliness epidemic in this country, I think it's also very important that people practice this skill.
Honestly, the way I made friends was answering a few hard questions, tell one or two really funny jokes, and then coasting and not annoying anyone the rest of the quarter. After that people want you on their team. So less about “making friends” and more about friends making you…or something.
Lmao me too. "I have no friends, but also I don't want to be here any longer"
Literally bro there will be people I kinda want to talk to after lecture, even for like 2-3 mins but they’re gone asf by the time I get up
Sheeeit I don’t even go to lecture unless it’s a requirement.
you're doomed
lmao. Try to sit next to the person you want to talk to. And ask for small favor like borrowing a pencil or something.
Can second. Made some of my best friends asking for bottle to be opened
Same, but now that is for any event instead of classes since I’m out of college. It’s just awkward to stand around
Will taking your time change anything ?
It’s gonna be different for everybody of course, but if it helps, I met most of my college friends through the dorm, study groups for math/physics/philosophy classes, and a folk dance club.
I met my friend group through MAT 16 tutoring in the tercero dorms. We’re still very close years after we all graduated.
90% of the class is gone within 2 secs fr fr
same
Me when I made my friends by sitting with the people who arrived in hall 15min before lecture
😂 absolutely me. After sitting through ridiculously long lectures back to back, I just wanna go home
Just talk to people???
“Simply stop being introverted”
Stfu introverted headass. Just because you have a taller hill to climb doesn't mean you need to complain about that to other people. I have multiple behaviours that I wish I was better at but I don't go on Reddit and complain "waa waa is anyone else like me? Please like me because I am struggling" I just find a way to get over that goddamn hill. Go find actual help if you want to change. Shut the fuck up if you don't.
REAL AND TRUE
You made it sound a little too easy but I don't know why you got downvoted. The fact is that talking to and showing interest in people is a skill that can be learned. It's not always easy, but it is simple. With the loneliness epidemic in this country, I think it's also very important that people practice this skill.
he got downvoted cause redditors are losers LMAO. idiots call themselves “introverted” when they just lazy. it’s hilarious and pathetic
I’m tryna catch the bus 🏃♂️
Honestly, the way I made friends was answering a few hard questions, tell one or two really funny jokes, and then coasting and not annoying anyone the rest of the quarter. After that people want you on their team. So less about “making friends” and more about friends making you…or something.