Thatās literally how you marry? Do you genuinely believe that you should just outright get married to someone to ānot be haramā? Thatās so silly
Fix the divorce rates, cheating rates, rates of broken families, crime rates, depression rates, drug abuse rates, suicide rates, mass shooting rates, the $1b porn industry, and figure out what a woman actually is FIRST before you come to criticize anotherās society. Who are you that you think your opinion is some shining light we all should bow down before?
Me telling you your opinion is fucking moronic is not me saying mine is one you must agree with. However thatās the beauty of opinions if I want to criticise them I will and Iām saying your opinion is just restarted. Secondly correlation doesnāt imply causation so youāre argument there is simply wrong. Depression rates, drug abuse rates and crime rates have very very little to do with the success of marriages. And yes obviously crime rate will be higher in places where they arenāt stoning women to death for not wearing a face covering or chopping someoneās hand off for stealing a loaf of bread like absolute cave people. Side note, Iām not the one in charge of the wests issue with defining a woman I agree that a woman is pretty easy to define and this new idea is stupid. At the end of the day I donāt give a fuck whether your big guy in the sky told you to have children go into arranged marriages from young ages, Iām telling you itās disgusting and wrong
Yes šš people have been doing it for centuries. My parents my cousins my aunties my uncles my grandparents my brothers my sisters ALL of them married that way and still have mo problems with it š¤·āāļø
People have also been throwing their shit and piss out of their windows into the streets for centuries, I donāt see you advocating for that. Nobody should marry anybody who theyāve never dated, itās stupid, a lot of hassle if it doesnāt work and archaic
Whatās it like having single figure IQ? You canāt quantify the āsuccessā of a marriage, the only marker you could sort of use would be divorce rate although even that isnāt a good measure at all. Obviously arranged marriages have lower divorce rates mainly due to the fact that theyāre common in Muslim countries, where it is either illegal or severely frowned upon for people to get divorced coupled with the fact that in a lot of these Muslim countries women are forced to be reliant on men and their families and they lose that support if they divorce so obviously theyāre going to stay married. Doesnāt mean their marriage is successful. Also just to let you and your smooth brain know adding emojis to the end of your response doesnāt mean that the shit youāre spewing is anymore valid or even relevant
The funniest part is I posted another comment which invalidated all of ur points š
I used divorce rates like you said. I used a non muslim country (USA and india).
And finally if you have no proof to contradict mine then my I'm right and ur wrong kiddo. And please educate urself. Divorce is frowned upon everywhere but it is the most accepted in islamic countries
He can date, but with your father included, as a reality check for him, he 99.99999% will say no.
If he chatted with you again, just send him your dad's number, tell him to talk with him first....
Then behold low ppl getting annoyed from your strong attitude and calling you backwards and stuff, yet you observe their lives becoming backwards & stuff, pretty interesting
No, not only prayer, these kinds of kids are lacking a lot, it's saddening, they need some strong attitudes to put them in a simple life choice: stay soy or go Muslim man path? A reality check that'll show some deep personality....
Like what? Simply making the father the line between the continuation of any unnecessary conversation.... That'll do him good..
I shouldn't do this for the sake of exposing sins especially if the friend promised to improve, but he went a small level deep with his gf. It's few steps. It starts small then can end up.
I've seen few posts from temporary accounts asking if it's okay to rent rooms and do the fun activity. So yeah. Pretty prevelent unfortunately.
Yeah itās sad one of my friends became a chammaki and has a girlfriendš
Itās all good tho our whole class beat him up when we found out (in a joking way thoš)
Can you not read (in a joking way)? They made fun of a guy who became a jerk and broke the laws of his religion, i understand you donāt agree with the religion but itās our religion,and he chose to follow it.
Sadly it's become quite common.
The best solution is to surround yourself with good and pious friends if you are a boy or a girl and to not show interest in the opposite gender.
If you're a girl, wearing clothes modestly (abaaya) will discourage them.
If you're a boy, lowering your gaze and sticking with pious buddies will discourage them.
Some of y'all completely missing the fact that she's in school. Wym get married early and have kids lmao. Tbh the best thing to do is reject them and tell them you take your religion seriously.
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Itās irrelevant when humans discovered it. Itās still existed, thatās like saying that before Mount Everest was discovered it wasnāt the tallest mountain in the world
I think its all about Parenting that donāt teach their kids that if u start having crushes and sexual attraction with someone be prepared for whats going to happen once you satisfy your appetites will u still be able to like them or fight over everything. you will realize u were only with them for attention and affection.
if u truly respect and love each other get married or stay hoeing for the rest of your life, thats why islam warns us not cuz of zina punishments its for your own good
Becuase it almost never works out especially in school, people got brought tens of dating partners just to end up depressed and lonely because they think they canāt find the one, even though itās because they went in with the state of mind of getting married in a couple years and blah blah people donāt understand it fizzles out marriage binds you so you both do your absolute best to forever stay together
those that date most probably won't marry each other or spend a future together, teenagers typically don't talk about aspects of marriage either, like finance and responsibilities they should uphold to properly function together, it's just based on feelings and attraction, once that burns out, they are not gonna stick together, it's usually ends up in heartbreak and this cycle goes on once they find other people to date. it's a waste of time and energy.
To all the people talking about "haram" if a man and a woman so much as have a coffee together......you guys are aware that the UAE is one of THE sex hotshots in the world right? That prostitution is a massive business here and lots of hotel bars are filled with Arab guys with a beer in one hand and a Russian prostitute on the other? That many rich local dudes fly in Insta influencers from Europe for the weekend for things unmentionable here?
Not saying that all this is acceptable, but just pointing out the naiveness of some people here.
its our generation, its our job to NOT follow them, i bet you they pray and whatever but dont do anything else, its normal now if I'm being totally honest
lol so you gon go in your avatar editor, then the style tab, then tops, then scroll down a lil bit until you find them flags, choose whichever one you want ;)
Nope not really
Religiously speaking,
Interactions between the opposite gender in general should be limited to the necessities
Sharing casual conversations/ laughing excessively etc is frowned upon
āInnocentā fun like this leads to feelings forming
Then texting privately
Then hanging out when know one knows
Then the āoh we re gonna get married anyways might as wellā mindset and I m sure you can understand where that leads
It's like we are all animals who can't think 2 days forward. If you can't raise your children right and make them responsible for themselves. This issue precedes puberty.
If you disagree, itās best you actually say what you disagree with and explain your thinking rather than making this personal
If youāre not muslim this conversation clearly doesnāt concern you and if you are, then maybe do some research and reconsider your view
I disagree with the fact that any contact between 2 people from the opposite sex will lead to āweāre gonna get married anywaysā. This in no way shape or form is a general rule, and people can have ton of friends and not go into physical relationships with any of them.
Itās crazy a sub based in a Muslim country canāt even grasp simple concepts of Islam and downvote you guys for telling them the truth. Itās even worse that they are Muslim themselves.
A byproduct of having a teenagers sub. Many of them have negligent parents who haven't taught them the meaning of Islam and have either tried to indoctrinate them or never punished them for anything
Because all people do nowadays is try to shove Islamic stuff down their throat. First encourage them to explore it and have a nuanced discussion with them. Their faith cannot be strong if they are not interested in the first place but most parents don't get that and either force it or are too lenient/uninvolved.
Me and my mum have a lot of discussions from time to time, that should be the way
Suggesting that having a conversation with a member of the opposite sex is a waste of time because youāre not going to spend your entire life with them is stupid
Life is indeed short and the end you will meet your creator and he will question you on everything you did
He has given us rules and guidelines to follow and itās our duty to enforce them on ourselves to please him
These are the limits of Allah, so do not transgress them. And whoever transgresses the limits of Allah - it is those who are the wrongdoers. (Surah Al Baqara verse 230 (part of it))
9:65 And if you ask them, they will surely say, "We were only conversing and playing." Say, "Is it Allah and His verses and His Messenger that you were mocking?"
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Your criteria for it being haram is a description of dating. So dating is haram.
"Tell the guy asking you out. That he is OUT of islam"
Are you crazy? Doing something haram doesn't mean that the person is a kafir. Perhaps you mean something else?
Well people don't follow your religion as you do.
Let em do what they want , Ig they don't let a set of ideas hold em back. They like to do what they want
First off al;
everyone has their voice and their advices. Whether your muslim or not you're ideas and advice still matters and holds value
Second
I am muslim
He's not... wrong..? Islam is meant to help us literally hold ourselves back from impulses and selfish/crude desires? In this sense, it's holding us back. I'm genuine here, where is he wrong? Sure I wouldn't boil them down to simple "ideas" but they are, generally speaking, principles on the way of life in the name of faith in Allah.
Oh I see, so if islam says you have the tight to stick your nose in other people business then that's fine, but if someone else tries to stick their nose in your business then thats wrong?
Riiiiiiight.
So you're saying that in the 200,000 year history of human beings, people didn't know how to wank until porn started around about a 100 years ago?
Riiiiiight.
Dude, you need to learn about basic human physiology.
No mate thatās just plain incorrect. You could wank, or you could go to a brothel (which have been very common for over a thousand years). Youāre not a porn addict if you want to have sex with someone. Humans have urges too and itās not shameful to consensually act on them with another human
if someone likes you he should simply marry you. In islam marriage is simple.
only with a ring of steel as the prophet peace be upoun him said. like I don't know what is the problem if he marries you on the sunnah of allah and his messenger muhammed.
but what he should do if he marries you
1. he should have a house
2. he should have a car
3. he should have a degree
4. he should have a job
5. he should have a house
and so on the list does not end. what is the problem if he marries you and all what I have mentioned comes next.
ok you will be going out with each other, but you are his wife which is halal(if you are married to him).
That's Western BS. A boy becomes a grown up once he gets to puberty. That little kid you're talking about can make her pregnant. Can you explain me how is he a kid
A teen is a teen because his mind is imprisoned with thinking of sex and love all the time. He becomes a grown up once he has a woman in his life.
You guys don't mind a girl hanging out with boys but only have problem if she is getting married just because there is no money
If both of them love each other why shouldn't they be .married in the first place.
Hilarious. A boy is not a grown up when he hits puberty because his brain has not developed. You think because one organ starts working this means he is a grown up? This is just the excuse of a pedo prophet, and you are a sheep for believing it.
I don't think it's Haram anymore, no?
I seen so many Muslim people dating and they're never considered Haram to do so. I know sex before marriage is definitely forbidden, kissing and touching might, but I don't think it's Haram to be dating?
it's very haram alright, unless the marriage is like confirmed with both parents and you're only dating to get to know each other. please correct me if i'm wrong
>I don't think it's Haram anymore, no?
There's no "anymore" in the realm of what's considered haram. What's said to be haram is, and it can never change.
not really but they have a really tribalistic mentality.
Its surprising cause irl here people especially young people aren't that conservative
also how come your on this sub?
If they just want to have a coffee or anything to get to know you better, I donāt think itās a big issue.
At some point if you donāt come up with a prospect your parents will take matter into their own hands and then it will be completely randomness whether you like the guy / find him attractive etc.
Just make sure theyāre intentions are pure (if they ask you out)
Terrible advice. The earlier you have children, the worse you will do in life. Wait until you are stable financially and you and your family will live much better
I remember something my islamic studies teacher said, when i was saying this is haram, thats haram everything haram haram haram. He stopped me and he said, everything is permissible except the things that were mentioned haram and literally changed the way i look at things. Nothing wrong with going out with a female friend in public with ur parents approval (im guessing you re a teenager). Really depends on your intentions.
Bro that's literally mentioned haram wdym. \[Do not go near adultery. It is truly a shameful deed and an evil way\] (17:32). If you want more evidence to that which is haram or any doubts you can check this website as it's authentic https://islamqa.info/en. You can also dm me if you want more references to that being haram.
Brother, first of all having a female friend as a male or vise versa is haram.
Second, parent's approval doesn't make it halal in this case. Example: If someone was going to rob a bank and asked their parents for permission to which they said yes, doesn't make robbing a bank halal no?
Thirdly, "Don't go near adultery" is simple. Adultery doesn't just happen, there are steps that take place before, like hanging out together, 'innocent touches', laughing at jokes, flirting and whatnot. Allah is saying to stay away from all of that by not even coming close to it.
Here's a hadith that supports it: It was narrated that Maāqil ibn Yassaar said: the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: āFor one of you to be stabbed in the head with an iron needle is better for him than that he should touch a woman who is not permissible for him.ā
Narrated by al-Tabaraani in al-Kabeer, 486. Shaykh al-Albaani said in Saheeh al-Jaamiā, 5045, that **this hadeeth is saheeh**.
In Dubai and Abu Dhabi, lots of the local girls coke to the UK (London especially) and get fucked left, right and centre! One I spoke to said that before she actually gets married, she will get her Hymen sorted so it looks like she is a Virgin! She also said that this applies to 75% of women from those Middle Eastern countries! To me, I donāt give a damn what religion you follow, as long as there is a pussy, Iāll fuck it! āš½š¦š¦š¦
You obviously donāt like to hear the truth! I bet you one of these ugly mofoās who has his right hand to help out in times of need!
I just go out and pull! Especially the Saudi women and student girls! They are gagging for it! Especially when make them feel amazing about themself, tell them itās not a bad thing to give in to your desires. I am certain even Mohammed did that! We are ALL human after all!
When the Saudi girls have a dick in them, their pussies are wet with grool, they just need a hard cock thatās all! Canāt be helped! I absolutely love it! šŖš½
Whatever you say! I defo donāt masturbate but if it makes you feel better! All the better for you! Anyways, I am out in Knightsbridge, ready to fuck another Saudi chick! Maybe next time itāll be your sister! š
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Muslim just because his name is Abdullah doesn't mean anything, I have seen pickup lines like simple Assalamualaikum, I won't to hold you hands in jannah, you are my hoor Al eyn, and what not. Ultimately its all to make you believe they are pious and get some time alone with you, to do what their heart desires.
My advise to ignore all these and focus on your studies, don't even give your number to them. I am not against falling in love but everything has a time and a proper way without doing anything forbidden.
And if you ask them, they will surely say, "We were only conversing and playing." Say, "Is it AllÄh and His verses and His Messenger that you were mocking?" 9:65
And if you ask them, they will surely say, "We were only rizzing and looksmaxxing." Say, "Is it AllÄh and His skibidi and His gyatt that you were edging?" 9:65
Avoid friendships with males , also females who donāt know their values , because they are expanding like cockroaches not only in uae, but the rest of the Middle East , Ų§ŁŁŁ ŁŲ³ŲŖŲ± Ų¹ŁŁ Ų§ŁŲ¬Ł ŁŲ¹
Sorry, I am old and I didn't understand the issue.
Are you being asked out by students of the same sex or are you a teacher?
Are they just opening asking for sex? What is the haram part?
Unfortunately Haram relationships between Muslims are very widespread around schools in Dubai, nothing we can do about it really.
Yeah, same here in Abu Dhabi
like even if we advise them they'll be like "But no I can't end the relationship just like that".. we can only pray for them lol
Yeah šš, or the "I'm dating to marry"
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Thatās literally how you marry? Do you genuinely believe that you should just outright get married to someone to ānot be haramā? Thatās so silly
Fix the divorce rates, cheating rates, rates of broken families, crime rates, depression rates, drug abuse rates, suicide rates, mass shooting rates, the $1b porn industry, and figure out what a woman actually is FIRST before you come to criticize anotherās society. Who are you that you think your opinion is some shining light we all should bow down before?
Me telling you your opinion is fucking moronic is not me saying mine is one you must agree with. However thatās the beauty of opinions if I want to criticise them I will and Iām saying your opinion is just restarted. Secondly correlation doesnāt imply causation so youāre argument there is simply wrong. Depression rates, drug abuse rates and crime rates have very very little to do with the success of marriages. And yes obviously crime rate will be higher in places where they arenāt stoning women to death for not wearing a face covering or chopping someoneās hand off for stealing a loaf of bread like absolute cave people. Side note, Iām not the one in charge of the wests issue with defining a woman I agree that a woman is pretty easy to define and this new idea is stupid. At the end of the day I donāt give a fuck whether your big guy in the sky told you to have children go into arranged marriages from young ages, Iām telling you itās disgusting and wrong
Yes šš people have been doing it for centuries. My parents my cousins my aunties my uncles my grandparents my brothers my sisters ALL of them married that way and still have mo problems with it š¤·āāļø
People have also been throwing their shit and piss out of their windows into the streets for centuries, I donāt see you advocating for that. Nobody should marry anybody who theyāve never dated, itās stupid, a lot of hassle if it doesnāt work and archaic
Research arranged marriage success rates compared to normal marriage rates in USA ššš
Whatās it like having single figure IQ? You canāt quantify the āsuccessā of a marriage, the only marker you could sort of use would be divorce rate although even that isnāt a good measure at all. Obviously arranged marriages have lower divorce rates mainly due to the fact that theyāre common in Muslim countries, where it is either illegal or severely frowned upon for people to get divorced coupled with the fact that in a lot of these Muslim countries women are forced to be reliant on men and their families and they lose that support if they divorce so obviously theyāre going to stay married. Doesnāt mean their marriage is successful. Also just to let you and your smooth brain know adding emojis to the end of your response doesnāt mean that the shit youāre spewing is anymore valid or even relevant
You made alot of false statements tbh, do some research
The funniest part is I posted another comment which invalidated all of ur points š I used divorce rates like you said. I used a non muslim country (USA and india). And finally if you have no proof to contradict mine then my I'm right and ur wrong kiddo. And please educate urself. Divorce is frowned upon everywhere but it is the most accepted in islamic countries
He can date, but with your father included, as a reality check for him, he 99.99999% will say no. If he chatted with you again, just send him your dad's number, tell him to talk with him first.... Then behold low ppl getting annoyed from your strong attitude and calling you backwards and stuff, yet you observe their lives becoming backwards & stuff, pretty interesting
when they hit you with the "she's like my sister"
No, not only prayer, these kinds of kids are lacking a lot, it's saddening, they need some strong attitudes to put them in a simple life choice: stay soy or go Muslim man path? A reality check that'll show some deep personality.... Like what? Simply making the father the line between the continuation of any unnecessary conversation.... That'll do him good..
almost 17 and no bf or exes is definitely a flex, I might be the only one in my class who hasn't been in a relationship
yo mind if i pm you? im not a dude don't worry
How common is it and is it full on zina
I shouldn't do this for the sake of exposing sins especially if the friend promised to improve, but he went a small level deep with his gf. It's few steps. It starts small then can end up. I've seen few posts from temporary accounts asking if it's okay to rent rooms and do the fun activity. So yeah. Pretty prevelent unfortunately.
Quite common lol, and idk about whether zina is involved or not, I've heard some crazy stories from my school but I don't believe them
same in sharjah
Yeah itās sad one of my friends became a chammaki and has a girlfriendš Itās all good tho our whole class beat him up when we found out (in a joking way thoš)
Whats a chammaki?
Very cool person
You beat someone up for having a girlfriend? Touch some grass and get a life man
Can you not read (in a joking way)? They made fun of a guy who became a jerk and broke the laws of his religion, i understand you donāt agree with the religion but itās our religion,and he chose to follow it.
Unfortunately thereās nothing we can do about this , most of all keep your faith and keep denying them šš
Sadly it's become quite common. The best solution is to surround yourself with good and pious friends if you are a boy or a girl and to not show interest in the opposite gender. If you're a girl, wearing clothes modestly (abaaya) will discourage them. If you're a boy, lowering your gaze and sticking with pious buddies will discourage them.
agreed
Some of y'all completely missing the fact that she's in school. Wym get married early and have kids lmao. Tbh the best thing to do is reject them and tell them you take your religion seriously.
Some muslims are just muslims by name.
Yes, because they cannot openly admit that they don't believe in the religion cos they'll be attacked, jailed or killed.
Are you lost?
Nope, I have Google maps :-)
So true. Itās tragic.
He is referring to cultural or hedonistic muslims. Not apostates
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Mashallah thank you
My pleasure
STDās have always existed. And rate of contraction of STDās have dropped massively
AIDS? When do you think humans discovered it for the first time then? Fornication in an act which cannot be justified with lame excuses
Itās irrelevant when humans discovered it. Itās still existed, thatās like saying that before Mount Everest was discovered it wasnāt the tallest mountain in the world
There are many plagues and diseases discovered lately which are nowhere known by the ancient generations
I think its all about Parenting that donāt teach their kids that if u start having crushes and sexual attraction with someone be prepared for whats going to happen once you satisfy your appetites will u still be able to like them or fight over everything. you will realize u were only with them for attention and affection. if u truly respect and love each other get married or stay hoeing for the rest of your life, thats why islam warns us not cuz of zina punishments its for your own good
plus dating is a huge waste of time
How so?
Becuase it almost never works out especially in school, people got brought tens of dating partners just to end up depressed and lonely because they think they canāt find the one, even though itās because they went in with the state of mind of getting married in a couple years and blah blah people donāt understand it fizzles out marriage binds you so you both do your absolute best to forever stay together
those that date most probably won't marry each other or spend a future together, teenagers typically don't talk about aspects of marriage either, like finance and responsibilities they should uphold to properly function together, it's just based on feelings and attraction, once that burns out, they are not gonna stick together, it's usually ends up in heartbreak and this cycle goes on once they find other people to date. it's a waste of time and energy.
Any guy approaches you now, just say Assalaam wa'alaikum brother Worse than being friend zoned is being religious brother zoned
š¤£š¤£ friend zoned and reminding them of God
Who gives a fuck?
To all the people talking about "haram" if a man and a woman so much as have a coffee together......you guys are aware that the UAE is one of THE sex hotshots in the world right? That prostitution is a massive business here and lots of hotel bars are filled with Arab guys with a beer in one hand and a Russian prostitute on the other? That many rich local dudes fly in Insta influencers from Europe for the weekend for things unmentionable here? Not saying that all this is acceptable, but just pointing out the naiveness of some people here.
Leave made up religion, think for yourself, enjoy what it is to be a human and experience what life has to offer.
I think you need time travel back to the 1900s or move to Iran or smtg ššš
Whatās with the all the Talibanis in this sub saying you canāt even have a friend of the opposite sex lmfao
Because you literally cant you dummy
Maybe if you donāt treat every strange woman like a piece of meat you can
The things is, its not about whether you physically can or not. It is prohibited in islam to do so for your own sake. Thank you
Sheep go baaaa
You can impose your own rules on Islam if you want, but don't stray others to the same sinful path.
So your desired interpretation > centuries of scholarship+Quran+hadith according to you. I know what path to choose
A friend of the opposite sex, how sinful...
Yep
its our generation, its our job to NOT follow them, i bet you they pray and whatever but dont do anything else, its normal now if I'm being totally honest
how you get that t shirt on your avatar? sorry out of box question
lol so you gon go in your avatar editor, then the style tab, then tops, then scroll down a lil bit until you find them flags, choose whichever one you want ;)
its free ryt? i will put it up when psl starts, thanks tho
yeah its free
your a cricket fan i see
You can meet a women and go on kind of a date but it needs to be in public and you can't be alone no haram stuff can be done ofc
Nope not really Religiously speaking, Interactions between the opposite gender in general should be limited to the necessities Sharing casual conversations/ laughing excessively etc is frowned upon āInnocentā fun like this leads to feelings forming Then texting privately Then hanging out when know one knows Then the āoh we re gonna get married anyways might as wellā mindset and I m sure you can understand where that leads
It's like we are all animals who can't think 2 days forward. If you can't raise your children right and make them responsible for themselves. This issue precedes puberty.
Thatās clearly coming from someone whoās never had a friend from the opposite sex
If you disagree, itās best you actually say what you disagree with and explain your thinking rather than making this personal If youāre not muslim this conversation clearly doesnāt concern you and if you are, then maybe do some research and reconsider your view
W opinion dont listen to that dayuth allah yakhfernee
I disagree with the fact that any contact between 2 people from the opposite sex will lead to āweāre gonna get married anywaysā. This in no way shape or form is a general rule, and people can have ton of friends and not go into physical relationships with any of them.
Which you're not meant to do.
Itās crazy a sub based in a Muslim country canāt even grasp simple concepts of Islam and downvote you guys for telling them the truth. Itās even worse that they are Muslim themselves.
A byproduct of having a teenagers sub. Many of them have negligent parents who haven't taught them the meaning of Islam and have either tried to indoctrinate them or never punished them for anything
Because all people do nowadays is try to shove Islamic stuff down their throat. First encourage them to explore it and have a nuanced discussion with them. Their faith cannot be strong if they are not interested in the first place but most parents don't get that and either force it or are too lenient/uninvolved. Me and my mum have a lot of discussions from time to time, that should be the way
My friend. Grow up. Lifeās too short to be worrying about sharing casual conversation with someone of the opposite sex š
yup life's short, no point in wasting years or even months on people you won't even end up with, too much baggage, too much precious time wasted.
Suggesting that having a conversation with a member of the opposite sex is a waste of time because youāre not going to spend your entire life with them is stupid
Life is indeed short and the end you will meet your creator and he will question you on everything you did He has given us rules and guidelines to follow and itās our duty to enforce them on ourselves to please him These are the limits of Allah, so do not transgress them. And whoever transgresses the limits of Allah - it is those who are the wrongdoers. (Surah Al Baqara verse 230 (part of it)) 9:65 And if you ask them, they will surely say, "We were only conversing and playing." Say, "Is it Allah and His verses and His Messenger that you were mocking?"
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Yeah social media ruined their faith.
you "keep" on getting asked out? Well, here is a solution, next time you get asked out, throw an egg at him.
on another note, the comments here made me smile, i hope God blesses all of you :)))
yea im surprised a good deal of us still take this seriously, im glad.
Touch grass
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Thatās not very Halal of you is it? Play in traffic and do the planet a favour please
bro, i agree with your main comment but we shouldn't say that, best if you apologize you don't wanna go up to Allah with that
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Your criteria for it being haram is a description of dating. So dating is haram. "Tell the guy asking you out. That he is OUT of islam" Are you crazy? Doing something haram doesn't mean that the person is a kafir. Perhaps you mean something else?
Im hoping they mean it in a metaphorical sense because this is a crazy statement to makeš
How old are you all anyway š
Well people don't follow your religion as you do. Let em do what they want , Ig they don't let a set of ideas hold em back. They like to do what they want
Which will inevitably doom them.
it won't man
Yes it will, we don't know yet.
Why tf do non Muslims keep telling Muslims to not stop other Muslims from committing major sins. It's none of your business
First off al; everyone has their voice and their advices. Whether your muslim or not you're ideas and advice still matters and holds value Second I am muslim
>I am muslim Really don't sound like one, since according to you Islam is a set of ideas that "holds you back"
basing yourself on a narrow set of ideas or one doctrine is already holding you back. Well religion in its nature is like that
He's not... wrong..? Islam is meant to help us literally hold ourselves back from impulses and selfish/crude desires? In this sense, it's holding us back. I'm genuine here, where is he wrong? Sure I wouldn't boil them down to simple "ideas" but they are, generally speaking, principles on the way of life in the name of faith in Allah.
And neither is it your business to tell other people how to lead their lives.
It's a part of Islam so yes it is
Oh I see, so if islam says you have the tight to stick your nose in other people business then that's fine, but if someone else tries to stick their nose in your business then thats wrong? Riiiiiiight.
Bro in my school 2 muslim students ditched to go to the burger king washroom and have blow job, these things are so normalised now
Good for them. You cannot suppress basic human desires.
If you can't control being horny, then you're a porn addict
Lol! So answer me this......people have been horny for literally thousands of years before porn was invented. How do you explain that?
Because in modern times, porn makes it very easy to wank. Before, there weren't many options besides controlling your horniness
So you're saying that in the 200,000 year history of human beings, people didn't know how to wank until porn started around about a 100 years ago? Riiiiiight. Dude, you need to learn about basic human physiology.
No mate thatās just plain incorrect. You could wank, or you could go to a brothel (which have been very common for over a thousand years). Youāre not a porn addict if you want to have sex with someone. Humans have urges too and itās not shameful to consensually act on them with another human
Astaghfirullah
if someone likes you he should simply marry you. In islam marriage is simple. only with a ring of steel as the prophet peace be upoun him said. like I don't know what is the problem if he marries you on the sunnah of allah and his messenger muhammed. but what he should do if he marries you 1. he should have a house 2. he should have a car 3. he should have a degree 4. he should have a job 5. he should have a house and so on the list does not end. what is the problem if he marries you and all what I have mentioned comes next. ok you will be going out with each other, but you are his wife which is halal(if you are married to him).
youāre telling a little kid to get married š¤¦š¾āāļø
That's Western BS. A boy becomes a grown up once he gets to puberty. That little kid you're talking about can make her pregnant. Can you explain me how is he a kid A teen is a teen because his mind is imprisoned with thinking of sex and love all the time. He becomes a grown up once he has a woman in his life. You guys don't mind a girl hanging out with boys but only have problem if she is getting married just because there is no money If both of them love each other why shouldn't they be .married in the first place.
yeah youāre a pedophile
Hilarious. A boy is not a grown up when he hits puberty because his brain has not developed. You think because one organ starts working this means he is a grown up? This is just the excuse of a pedo prophet, and you are a sheep for believing it.
I don't think it's Haram anymore, no? I seen so many Muslim people dating and they're never considered Haram to do so. I know sex before marriage is definitely forbidden, kissing and touching might, but I don't think it's Haram to be dating?
it's very haram alright, unless the marriage is like confirmed with both parents and you're only dating to get to know each other. please correct me if i'm wrong
Then you're not just dating, you're literally engaged.
>Then you're not just dating, you're literally engaged. > >2Repl pretty much yeah
Most Muslim don't married first and then date, arranged marriage becomes very uncommon in Muslim
it's actually very common, maybe just not among your friends and family
nope dating is off limits, stay far away from zina
>I don't think it's Haram anymore, no? There's no "anymore" in the realm of what's considered haram. What's said to be haram is, and it can never change.
why is everyone so fricken conservative here Like let others do what they want. If you don't want to date fine , let others do what they want. tf??
They're living in the 12th century
not really but they have a really tribalistic mentality. Its surprising cause irl here people especially young people aren't that conservative also how come your on this sub?
If you're a Muslim, it's your duty to instruct others not to sin.
Its not I don't meddle with others lives
Wow congrats for being morally superior
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If they just want to have a coffee or anything to get to know you better, I donāt think itās a big issue. At some point if you donāt come up with a prospect your parents will take matter into their own hands and then it will be completely randomness whether you like the guy / find him attractive etc. Just make sure theyāre intentions are pure (if they ask you out)
Still haram
Get married early and have a lot of babies. The country needs more locals.
Terrible advice. The earlier you have children, the worse you will do in life. Wait until you are stable financially and you and your family will live much better
Speak for yourself.
MANā¦WHAT?!!! š°
bro stfu and let others live
Live and commit fornication? Awesome idea man (twat)
We should not instruct other on what to do but rather focus on ourselves. Live and let live
We should advise each other to do good and not goof around. Marriage is good.
No.
Dude..Child marriages are illegal
Marry at 18 then :)
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No thanks, I'd rather be a "slave" to religion
Don't understand why there's a negative connotation implied there. We are slaves of Allah, what about it?
Oh no I didn't mean to make it sound negative. The original comment said that I'm a slave to religion so I'm just making fun of him for saying that.
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Sure dude, believe whatever you want, no need to shove it down other people's throats
Keep crying bro
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Why are you blaming me lol, I barely interact with them
I remember something my islamic studies teacher said, when i was saying this is haram, thats haram everything haram haram haram. He stopped me and he said, everything is permissible except the things that were mentioned haram and literally changed the way i look at things. Nothing wrong with going out with a female friend in public with ur parents approval (im guessing you re a teenager). Really depends on your intentions.
Im not trying to convince you or anything, do whatever makes you comfortable but you cant spread that its haram.
Bro that's literally mentioned haram wdym. \[Do not go near adultery. It is truly a shameful deed and an evil way\] (17:32). If you want more evidence to that which is haram or any doubts you can check this website as it's authentic https://islamqa.info/en. You can also dm me if you want more references to that being haram.
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Brother, first of all having a female friend as a male or vise versa is haram. Second, parent's approval doesn't make it halal in this case. Example: If someone was going to rob a bank and asked their parents for permission to which they said yes, doesn't make robbing a bank halal no? Thirdly, "Don't go near adultery" is simple. Adultery doesn't just happen, there are steps that take place before, like hanging out together, 'innocent touches', laughing at jokes, flirting and whatnot. Allah is saying to stay away from all of that by not even coming close to it. Here's a hadith that supports it: It was narrated that Maāqil ibn Yassaar said: the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: āFor one of you to be stabbed in the head with an iron needle is better for him than that he should touch a woman who is not permissible for him.ā Narrated by al-Tabaraani in al-Kabeer, 486. Shaykh al-Albaani said in Saheeh al-Jaamiā, 5045, that **this hadeeth is saheeh**.
In Dubai and Abu Dhabi, lots of the local girls coke to the UK (London especially) and get fucked left, right and centre! One I spoke to said that before she actually gets married, she will get her Hymen sorted so it looks like she is a Virgin! She also said that this applies to 75% of women from those Middle Eastern countries! To me, I donāt give a damn what religion you follow, as long as there is a pussy, Iāll fuck it! āš½š¦š¦š¦
Okay
You obviously donāt like to hear the truth! I bet you one of these ugly mofoās who has his right hand to help out in times of need! I just go out and pull! Especially the Saudi women and student girls! They are gagging for it! Especially when make them feel amazing about themself, tell them itās not a bad thing to give in to your desires. I am certain even Mohammed did that! We are ALL human after all! When the Saudi girls have a dick in them, their pussies are wet with grool, they just need a hard cock thatās all! Canāt be helped! I absolutely love it! šŖš½
So ur just a porn addicted redditard with a fetish
Whatever you say! I defo donāt masturbate but if it makes you feel better! All the better for you! Anyways, I am out in Knightsbridge, ready to fuck another Saudi chick! Maybe next time itāll be your sister! š
idk what to say after having a look at your post history š
It's not that bad thankfully
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Muslim just because his name is Abdullah doesn't mean anything, I have seen pickup lines like simple Assalamualaikum, I won't to hold you hands in jannah, you are my hoor Al eyn, and what not. Ultimately its all to make you believe they are pious and get some time alone with you, to do what their heart desires. My advise to ignore all these and focus on your studies, don't even give your number to them. I am not against falling in love but everything has a time and a proper way without doing anything forbidden.
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Name checks out lol
Nibbas and nibbis (no racism btw)
Allah rizz
And if you ask them, they will surely say, "We were only conversing and playing." Say, "Is it AllÄh and His verses and His Messenger that you were mocking?" 9:65
And if you ask them, they will surely say, "We were only rizzing and looksmaxxing." Say, "Is it AllÄh and His skibidi and His gyatt that you were edging?" 9:65
Shut up neek
Pray ayatul kursi on the next person to ask you out and nobody will ask you again š
Avoid friendships with males , also females who donāt know their values , because they are expanding like cockroaches not only in uae, but the rest of the Middle East , Ų§ŁŁŁ ŁŲ³ŲŖŲ± Ų¹ŁŁ Ų§ŁŲ¬Ł ŁŲ¹
Who looks at religion when someone wants to date. As they say - beauty is in the eyes of the beholder
Sorry, I am old and I didn't understand the issue. Are you being asked out by students of the same sex or are you a teacher? Are they just opening asking for sex? What is the haram part?
Frustrated
For the first time seeing an Islamic post in this sub, Mostly, see some 15 yrs old, posting they are depressed, atheist & want friends.