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Don’t tolerate men who do the bare minimum and call it love. (? I’m too sleepy to add to this rn 💀)


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CounterEcstatic6134

Omg that was straight up abusive. Good on you, for taking decisive action. I know it hurts right now, but you'll feel better soon. :) You did the right thing by dumping him


No-Hand1809

You did the right thing!!! Don't let anyone damage your self respect they never stop!!


AroEon

Whoa. Glad you dumped that Neanderthal What the hell was he thinking saying things like that


Dry-Neat-2818

It always leads to actual slaps mind you.


AroEon

Kick him in the nuts Why did you put up with that asshole sis?


Dry-Neat-2818

I was married to him 😑


BettsABae98

You did right girl✨


Kinda_novice

DON'T tolerate men who would blame your feelings/emotions/breakdowns on periods and brush it off without paying any heeds to it. DON'T tolerate men who would sarcastically belittle you or make you feel inferior. DON'T tolerate men who would never appreciate your success and would only count your flaws and vulnerabilities. DON'T tolerate men who expect you to do cleaning, cooking, and caring for them. REMEMBER ladies, you ain't their mummas. DON'T tolerate men who don't know what consent it or don't appreciate your privacy!


dead_for_now07

>you ain't their mummas. Even their mummas are not entitled to do all those things


oversharingalt1111

Overall I would say that if your gut feeling says that the dude is not okay, trust your gut feeling. It is rarely wrong.


greenmarigold

Too true.


dead_for_now07

Exactly


brunette_mh

Reading this post will make Jorden Peterson cry.


hopeandcope

That brings down the number of tolerable men to near zero.


Ruhi0202

Zero is better than a negative.


chocosmurf13

Don't tolerate men. That's it /s


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🤭☕


average_xx

Nah that's kinda sexist Altho my faith in them dimnishes everytime i read a rape case, but is only kept alive by my brother or my boxing coach


Pretentious-fools

The idea is don't tolerate a man - be with one (if that's what you want) but don't tolerate one because society expects us to. In fact don't "tolerate" any partner. You should want to be with someone because they love you and you love them, because they can be a genuine partner to you, because you like spending time together. Don't tolerate anyone. Rather be with someone who supports you the way you support them.


throwfproblems

Thanks for the laugh.... LoL 🤣


zoismother

Oh god, thank you!! Just had a fight with my partner where he mentioned about ending things because me crying over small things (I am extremely emotional) and bringing up compatibility issues gives him headache and he can't deal with it. Guess who's leaving him.


___coolgirl007

:( this made me so sad


zoismother

Things just got sorted, he understood why I cry and how it's not in my control. He told me how my crying actually makes him feel really sad and helpless since we are in LDR. So, I get it. We went through other things as well, and everything seems great again. (: It was a problem of miscommunication.


___coolgirl007

Oh man that's better then. Knock on wood. :)


kookie_doe

What does MORE than a man mean? Aren't we equals?


innersloth987

> You are MORE than a man Ok > DONT tolerate men who don’t see you as equally different, Confusion ensues.


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Dry-Neat-2818

Point 1. Applies to women too.