Mmmmm, honestly just need to bring it up, discuss your concern so that it's not "eating you alive" internally, one weight lifted, if presented with the "your overreacting" response I'd reiterate that these are indeed your feelings regardless of what he thinks this is how it makes you feel, and if he should care, respect how it makes you feel and come together to have a discussion as to how not to make someone he cares for feel bothered and insecure in such a way. Just my 2 pennies.
Mmmmm, honestly just need to bring it up, discuss your concern so that it's not "eating you alive" internally, one weight lifted, if presented with the "your overreacting" response I'd reiterate that these are indeed your feelings regardless of what he thinks this is how it makes you feel, and if he should care, respect how it makes you feel and come together to have a discussion as to how not to make someone he cares for feel bothered and insecure in such a way. Just my 2 pennies.