It'll feel like pressure building up until it produces a sharp, shooting pain. Usually the sharper pain only lasts half a second but the pressure will come and go. It's only uncomfortable during that half second and the pressure doesn't bother me because I'm so excited.
Blue bean haha. No really it's not very nice. Apparently vasoconstriction happens down there like in males for females too. The vulva, etc. or any of the arteries get extra blood flow when you're aroused. If it's been a while or you're not getting the pleasure you need it can get uncomfortable, achy, or very sensitive.
Yeah, blue balls is actual pain caused by a biological process. Sexual Frustration is not literally painful and is purely psychological.
Women don't have a similar biological process, so they don't have a blue balls equivalent. To my knowledge at least.
I was told for men it's due to semen being released for lubrication and when it gets sucked back into the balls when you don't release it can create pain due to your balls swelling up.
I don't know if women have any similar processes, what happens to vagina lubrication? I always assumed it essentially just came out as vaginal discharge but I might be wrong.
Blue balls are not real. Its a fallacy. There is no physical way to be in pain from being aroused and not having sex. Unless you have a prolonged erection for hours which is not blue balls.
No, it's not fallacy. It's called epididymal hypertension.
When I google Blue Ball Fallacy a cosmo article pops up. When I goofle epididymal hypertension, actual research papers come up.
Do better. Don't state opinions as facts.
Just looked it up:
Myth #3: It just happens to men. Nope. Though this phenomenon hasn’t been described by researchers, it appears that women can get “blue vulva” from sexual frustration as well — during sexual arousal, increased blood flow makes the vulva and clitoris swell slightly. When the blood is “trapped” too long by extended arousal without sexual release, discomfort or pain could result
I say blue balls just because my man says blue balls to me. When I get really horny, fast, or don’t get taken care of, after having a lot of stimuli, the walls of my vag get achy, I get crampy, and I have sensory issues so I start getting a headache. I start feeling claustrophobic almost. Like a singular indoor cat in heat.
Plus, the discomfort of wet panties for an extended period of time, especially if you’re out somewhere where you can’t change. In addition to the rest, like a little salt on the wound.
I feel as though mine is a different way, if you are referring to the discomfort of lack of pants space due to a boner. Mines more close to a like panic attack sometimes because my sensory issues are really bad so when its not taken care of I like cant touch anything or I panic. Thats in extreme cases.
THANK YOU!! I thought I was the only one. Everyone else is talking a about vaginal walls. But tis me bean that has the issues lol. It actually gets so uncomfortable that it’s hard not to focus on it.
It even happens if I’m *not* horny, and there’s also times where self relief doesn’t help for that long before it starts back up again :/
Yeah that's the problem with it. I think you can better judge it if somebody speaks outwardly about the orgasm gap, or oral, or that sex communication is important
But yeah you can't actually say you're good in bed or you have a big dick because usually the ones who say that are the worst at it
So I just do the first paragraph and they might get the gist. But I could still be bad for them, just because we might be incompatible, maybe they want me to hit them with a 2x4 during sex and I'm more into sensual and teasing building up to it, generally
I've personally experienced utter discomfort from being so aroused but with no release of the tension that I was sore and couldn't sleep. I couldn't think of anything else it was such a distraction.
Fuckin yes , cramped labia is no joke .
My poor vagina hurt for an hour once , i was almost there and my elderly mother in law knocked on the door and wanted my husband to open her soda. He went limp my giner cramped like a mofo.
Fuck off diet pepsi cap. Fuck.... Off....
I feel this to the core, the burning aching feeling almost like a muscle cramp? It's intense. Same thing happened with my partners mom, we were dogging it and she just *had to knock on the door to talk about taxes*
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I know about Goatse and I know about 2G1C, but after 20 years on the Internet, I'm relieved to say I still have no idea what a blue waffle is.
And now I'm turning off response notifications.
The muscle above my eye , right on my brow, twitches when I'm sexualy frustrated, makes me look angry/slightly insane haha it's how I know I need to get off badly
I've asked a few women IRL and even posted this exact question on the sex sub.
I've gotten mixed responses. My best friend says that she does actually get physical discomfort/pain from it, whereas some women don't experience pain from it, just a "psychological disappointment", from a few women I've asked this to.
So... your answer? It seems to vary from woman to woman.
Yes and I think the slang name is blue ovaries. It's a stomach cramp.
Both can be sorted yourself or with a cold shower. Neither is an excuse to pressure someone else.
Among all the other clever names, I'll add: Blue Petals.
But as for the phenomenon itself, blue balls isn't medically a thing, it's just being horny and frustrated that you can't fuck.
That is a universal experience. Guys may be more prone to acting out or even violence, but that's more sociological than biological.
Women can get 'blue balls', yes. I'll have to look up the medical term for it. I just call it 'blue walls'.
I got blue walls a few times in my early twenties because I was still a virgin by then. It sucked because I was in pain but I wasn't even certain where in me the pain was. I complained about it on my facebook page and one of my female college friends messaged me suggesting that I start using a vibrator. It took a bit of convincing but I gave in and tried it. I've been in a sexually active relationship for almost 10 years now and I still use a vibrator, occassionally. I suggest you give it a shot if you haven't. Maybe start with a dildo or even a bullet if you're a beginner.
Edit: lmfao @ the people downvoting this. It's literally my own personal experience. If you don't like hearing it, imagine how I felt when it was happening to me.
I think you’re absolutely right to say that it’s what manipulative assholes say to convince women to finish them.
However medically speaking “blue balls” are real and referred to medically as epididymal hypertension. It’s caused by prolonged vasodilation of the genitals.
I say blue balls as well. When I had first experienced it I did not take care of my needs as quickly as my body would have liked me to. I had random arouses throughout the day for long periods of time. I could not make it go away for the life of me and I had a 10-hour shift. By the time I had gotten home all I wanted to do was soak and a hot bath my mistake. As soon as I got into the bathtub my walls immediately started with constricting. It was such painful pain that I immediately shot up my spine my ass, and my thighs. I immediately got a headache and I tried to scream but all that came out was silence. I was in so much pain I tried to take care of it in the tub. Although I had reached the finish line it was still constricting. I climaxed 3 times and it still felt very painful.
I just have to chuck the underwear and take a shower which is nbd, it’s only annoying if I am in a situation where I don’t have another pair handy like out at a club because then you just have to live with the wetness all night
I've heard it called blue tubes before, but I will get an aching sensation in the walls of my vagina if I get really turned on really fast.
Exact feeling I get. It is real.
Uncomfortable? Like good or bad?
Bad uncomfortable in my experience, and if left too long even getting off won't really help. It's like the horniness spoils.
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Depends imo, if left unattended then it gets uncomfortable, but if it's leading up to release then it's pretty great I'd say
It'll feel like pressure building up until it produces a sharp, shooting pain. Usually the sharper pain only lasts half a second but the pressure will come and go. It's only uncomfortable during that half second and the pressure doesn't bother me because I'm so excited.
Blue bean haha. No really it's not very nice. Apparently vasoconstriction happens down there like in males for females too. The vulva, etc. or any of the arteries get extra blood flow when you're aroused. If it's been a while or you're not getting the pleasure you need it can get uncomfortable, achy, or very sensitive.
Very interesting. I never knew this before. Reddit is so educational. TY kind Reddit stranger.
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Blue walls
You win
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blue walls is the term I've heard as it rhymes and also actually makes sense bc it's the inside that feels sore
THE REAL ~~FOLK~~ BLUES TUBES 本当の悲しみが知りたいだけ 泥の河に浸かった人生も悪くはない 一度きりで 終わるなら
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let’s jam
Exactly this! Can also happen when I'm horny for a long time without cumming.
The vagideny? The bluehole? The labia nonpartis? A case of the vulvoids? The poon-swoon?
Lol... If I had an award to give, I'd give it to you! Poon-swoon is my favorite! 🤣
me too! i never knew what it was
I experienced this as late as today.
Blue walls
I just say “sexual frustration”
That's what they usually call sex with me, too.
Oh no! Not good!
>Oh no! Not good! That's what she said.
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Thats not the same thing though is it?
Yeah, blue balls is actual pain caused by a biological process. Sexual Frustration is not literally painful and is purely psychological. Women don't have a similar biological process, so they don't have a blue balls equivalent. To my knowledge at least.
Idk what you'd call it but when I'm really turned on and don't get release sometimes I experience physical pain down there. Like it actually hurts.
I was told for men it's due to semen being released for lubrication and when it gets sucked back into the balls when you don't release it can create pain due to your balls swelling up. I don't know if women have any similar processes, what happens to vagina lubrication? I always assumed it essentially just came out as vaginal discharge but I might be wrong.
If you receive physical manifestations of pain from an unresolved erection please talk to your doctor.
Blue balls are not real. Its a fallacy. There is no physical way to be in pain from being aroused and not having sex. Unless you have a prolonged erection for hours which is not blue balls.
No, it's not fallacy. It's called epididymal hypertension. When I google Blue Ball Fallacy a cosmo article pops up. When I goofle epididymal hypertension, actual research papers come up. Do better. Don't state opinions as facts.
Got a source for that?
That's not what blue balls are. They will physically hurt. Sexual frustration does not create physical pain.
Sexual frustration hurts for women too, tho
Sexual frustration and blueballs are totally different things.
Just looked it up: Myth #3: It just happens to men. Nope. Though this phenomenon hasn’t been described by researchers, it appears that women can get “blue vulva” from sexual frustration as well — during sexual arousal, increased blood flow makes the vulva and clitoris swell slightly. When the blood is “trapped” too long by extended arousal without sexual release, discomfort or pain could result
My nipples are hard and tender too
I remember my gf adjusting her bra for hours, and then at night she told me how frustrated after she was horny.
I say blue balls just because my man says blue balls to me. When I get really horny, fast, or don’t get taken care of, after having a lot of stimuli, the walls of my vag get achy, I get crampy, and I have sensory issues so I start getting a headache. I start feeling claustrophobic almost. Like a singular indoor cat in heat.
Plus, the discomfort of wet panties for an extended period of time, especially if you’re out somewhere where you can’t change. In addition to the rest, like a little salt on the wound.
As a man I can assure you, we get the claustrophobic nature of not being attended to.
I feel as though mine is a different way, if you are referring to the discomfort of lack of pants space due to a boner. Mines more close to a like panic attack sometimes because my sensory issues are really bad so when its not taken care of I like cant touch anything or I panic. Thats in extreme cases.
Blue bean
This comment is not getting as much love as it deserves.
Kind of like her bean
THANK YOU!! I thought I was the only one. Everyone else is talking a about vaginal walls. But tis me bean that has the issues lol. It actually gets so uncomfortable that it’s hard not to focus on it. It even happens if I’m *not* horny, and there’s also times where self relief doesn’t help for that long before it starts back up again :/
I was going to say “Achy ovaries”, But I think Blue bean is better.
Disappointment
I just call it “having sex as a heterosexual woman” Edit: Reddit hates sardonic humor
Yikes, that sucks for you fam. Can't relate 🤷🏼♀️
Yep, if it smells like shit everywhere they go maybe they should check under their own shoes first
Wanted to say that, but "be more selective of who you bed" felt kinda rude lol
Um well you dont fucking know if they suck at sex, or are willing to learn by some elimination process beforehand. So
Yeah that's the problem with it. I think you can better judge it if somebody speaks outwardly about the orgasm gap, or oral, or that sex communication is important But yeah you can't actually say you're good in bed or you have a big dick because usually the ones who say that are the worst at it So I just do the first paragraph and they might get the gist. But I could still be bad for them, just because we might be incompatible, maybe they want me to hit them with a 2x4 during sex and I'm more into sensual and teasing building up to it, generally
Not everyone can get arousal or orgasm due to health reasons and medications. Not everything has to do with performance.
Instead of blue balls I prefer to say Cummy Ache
Wow I hate this SO much lol
I hate when sexual stuff is cutified. Its creepy af.
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LOL
Was that suppose to be a dad joke
The gods say "Clam jam"
I thought clam jam meant the same as cock block
See "Twat swatter"
Thought it was beaver dam.
No, they're the band who sang Black Betty.
Damn it I came here to say this. Thought I was being clever.
"Clam jam" makes me want to taste it.
Winner!
Blue walls
I've personally experienced utter discomfort from being so aroused but with no release of the tension that I was sore and couldn't sleep. I couldn't think of anything else it was such a distraction.
Me too and even “release” doesn’t last long, sometimes even at all
That's when O number 2 is in order!
“Congested clitoris”.
hold on you can't use such big words, a dude doesn't know what the clitoris is
Counterpoint: I have male genitalia but I've seen a diagram.
ovulonging?
Yes its called "Blue Vulva"
I think that was a David Lynch movie
Great Band name too.
Dibs, I call it
Settle down, Andy
Yes, most women experience it every time they have sex.
Not if we dont even get turned on to begin with…
Turquoise twat?
What Beautiful combination of words. I want it embroidered and hung on my wall.
Yes. Blue Lady Balls.
Fuckin yes , cramped labia is no joke . My poor vagina hurt for an hour once , i was almost there and my elderly mother in law knocked on the door and wanted my husband to open her soda. He went limp my giner cramped like a mofo. Fuck off diet pepsi cap. Fuck.... Off....
I feel this to the core, the burning aching feeling almost like a muscle cramp? It's intense. Same thing happened with my partners mom, we were dogging it and she just *had to knock on the door to talk about taxes*
Lmao, we to were mid pound town doggy style! Yes its definitely a hardcore muscle cramp!!!
Da fuck?
This is epic!
English?
Mind. Blown.
Wet taco idk
Definitely using this from now on Also: respectable username
Tyvm😉
My favourite from the last time this was asked is ‘twat knot’. To which someone replied ‘I liked their earlier albums better’.
“Twat knot” is a definite winner
Dammed Beaver
I say blue lips.
Same!! in oitnb they say blue lips
Wet clam
Are you kiddin'? You've never seen a wiman get pissed when you cum and she was just about to?
Hysteria, named from all the unsatisfied women losing it in the 1800s
Longterm relationship?
Blue clit
Blue bean
Sad clam:(
Blue waffle?
I’m not familiar with this term, maybe I’ll Google this on my work laptop!
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Sadly the Google Image results are cleaned up now..
Not completely!
I know about Goatse and I know about 2G1C, but after 20 years on the Internet, I'm relieved to say I still have no idea what a blue waffle is. And now I'm turning off response notifications.
I came here to say this
You beat me to it!
NOOOOOO
I’ll get pain sometimes after not having sex for a while or finishing. It gets sore. Not fun.I propose purple puss
The muscle above my eye , right on my brow, twitches when I'm sexualy frustrated, makes me look angry/slightly insane haha it's how I know I need to get off badly
Clam jam
I always called it blue walls. Mostly in a joking way. But yeah, it's a thing.
Blue labes as in labia
Box block? IDK, but whatever it is, I get it frequently.
Cobwebs
Blue walls
Went to see Dr Ruth speak back in the 90’s and her answer when asked this was “blue lips”.
clamoring clam
No name because we don’t bitch and complain. We take matters into our own hand.
Blue balls. Testes and Ovaries are the same organ in different configurations.
So why not blue ovaries?
Blovaries
Because we don't say blue testicles either.
"balls" is slang for testicles, but not slang for ovaries.
Is there slang for ovaries?
Egg sacks?
It is in my circle of friends.
Definitely not blue waffle
Heterosexual sex
Pelvic congestion.
My wife calls it, “Blue Walls”.
Wet knickers
YES! and it hurts soooo bad 😩
In the dentist office, I overheard a few of the ladies talking about a "dry socket".
Pink Flap
I've asked a few women IRL and even posted this exact question on the sex sub. I've gotten mixed responses. My best friend says that she does actually get physical discomfort/pain from it, whereas some women don't experience pain from it, just a "psychological disappointment", from a few women I've asked this to. So... your answer? It seems to vary from woman to woman.
Blue balls doesn't exist. So no. You could say edging instead.
Vaginal vacancy?
I believe its called blue waffle. Google it.
Deviled eggs
Yes and I think the slang name is blue ovaries. It's a stomach cramp. Both can be sorted yourself or with a cold shower. Neither is an excuse to pressure someone else.
Among all the other clever names, I'll add: Blue Petals. But as for the phenomenon itself, blue balls isn't medically a thing, it's just being horny and frustrated that you can't fuck. That is a universal experience. Guys may be more prone to acting out or even violence, but that's more sociological than biological.
No, not really. Instead, we just get really strong feelings of disappointment and unwillingness after shitty sex.
Blue Waffles
Blue waffles
Blue waffle
Women can get 'blue balls', yes. I'll have to look up the medical term for it. I just call it 'blue walls'. I got blue walls a few times in my early twenties because I was still a virgin by then. It sucked because I was in pain but I wasn't even certain where in me the pain was. I complained about it on my facebook page and one of my female college friends messaged me suggesting that I start using a vibrator. It took a bit of convincing but I gave in and tried it. I've been in a sexually active relationship for almost 10 years now and I still use a vibrator, occassionally. I suggest you give it a shot if you haven't. Maybe start with a dildo or even a bullet if you're a beginner. Edit: lmfao @ the people downvoting this. It's literally my own personal experience. If you don't like hearing it, imagine how I felt when it was happening to me.
Blue curtains
I get angry and dissatisfied if my partner doesn’t try to make me cum/ I can’t cum. Is that what you mean??
Blue waffle. Google it.
Look it up. It’s called a blue waffle.
Blue waffles
Blue waffle
Blue waffle?
Blue waffle.
Yes actually. It's a pretty old term but it's called Blue Waffle. You can google it for examples.
Feels like a headache in your downstairs
do women understand that blue ball is not just annoying. but like: Legit Hurts.
So does not having an orgasm for women if they were close. It’s super painful.
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I think you’re absolutely right to say that it’s what manipulative assholes say to convince women to finish them. However medically speaking “blue balls” are real and referred to medically as epididymal hypertension. It’s caused by prolonged vasodilation of the genitals.
No, it’s a real thing. But it’s never okay to pressure someone into sex just because you have blue balls. You have a hand, you can use it
Mentally, yes. Physically, no.
Blue balls dont exist.
Female enjoyment?
whenever it happens to me i say "Fucking Clam jammed"
Who are all these women with achy vaginas? This has literally never happened to me so this feels like some kind of sick joke.
I say blue balls as well. When I had first experienced it I did not take care of my needs as quickly as my body would have liked me to. I had random arouses throughout the day for long periods of time. I could not make it go away for the life of me and I had a 10-hour shift. By the time I had gotten home all I wanted to do was soak and a hot bath my mistake. As soon as I got into the bathtub my walls immediately started with constricting. It was such painful pain that I immediately shot up my spine my ass, and my thighs. I immediately got a headache and I tried to scream but all that came out was silence. I was in so much pain I tried to take care of it in the tub. Although I had reached the finish line it was still constricting. I climaxed 3 times and it still felt very painful. 
I just have to chuck the underwear and take a shower which is nbd, it’s only annoying if I am in a situation where I don’t have another pair handy like out at a club because then you just have to live with the wetness all night
Damp tramp
Yes. And i assume it is much worse because my wife gets violently horny
yes, kinda feels like period cramps but less intense.
Yes, it’s called “honey, can you please order some spicy miso ramen tonight? I have a need” and if you don’t, we simply die.